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Re: Why Do Women Marry Who They Don’t Love ? by EreluRoz: 10:18am On Jan 15
Tallesty1:
Do I need their love? No, I am okay with respect
😂 you all crave to be loved but act tough. We sabi una
Re: Why Do Women Marry Who They Don’t Love ? by Hardunmhi: 10:27am On Jan 15
Tallesty1:
Your woman doesn't love you, bro, because she can't. Women can't love a man for who he is. If she is with you, it is either because of what she is getting from you or hopes to get from you, but it is not their fault; they are created that way for a reason. Every female needs a better male to increase the survival chance of their offspring. That's all.

A woman's loyalty is to her feelings, not your love or sacrifices. That's why when they are done with you, not your love, your sacrifices, or 65 Jehovah Witnesses can convince them to stay. They will rationalize everything you have done for them. You love me, but he loves me more. You sent me to school, but it is because you want an educated wife, blah blah blah.

Also, women do not understand equilibrium. Ordinarily, when you slap a man, you expect a slap or a punch in return, right? Hurt a woman, and she will kill your pet, ruin your life, burn your house, and go to your village to kill two Anglican priests and one Catholic altar boy.

Women love themselves and their kids, so the only time you, as a man, get to enjoy a woman's love is from your mom and your daughter.

In a man's head are his business, his siblings, etc., and in his heart are his wife and kids. But in a woman's head is her husband, while the heart is the place for her finances, siblings, children...

You are expendable, chief.

Know this, and you will never suffer a heartbreak from a woman in your life.

You try my boss but you have to toast more women so you can know more about them... Woman will ruin everyone and everything just to care for you if she loves you, all these once you Dey talk nah your own experience sha. I pray you get a woman to love you apart from your mom and daughter, she will love you without expecting nothing from you bro , nah you go run cos you go Dey reason say it’s too good to be true

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Re: Why Do Women Marry Who They Don’t Love ? by Zxcvbnmghtr: 10:28am On Jan 15
grin grin grin grin Men always confuse! We thought they only love from a woman is from your mothers. grin grin cheesy grin grin

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Re: Why Do Women Marry Who They Don’t Love ? by Tallesty1(m): 10:35am On Jan 15
Hardunmhi:


You try my boss but you have to toast more women so you can know more about them... Woman will ruin everyone and everything just to care for you if she loves you, all these once you Dey talk nah your own experience sha. I pray you get a woman to love you apart from your mom and daughter, she will love you without expecting nothing from you bro , nah you go run cos you go Dey reason say it’s too good to be true
I will pass

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Re: Why Do Women Marry Who They Don’t Love ? by Tallesty1(m): 10:36am On Jan 15
havilla:
you know nothing about women
There is great freedom in not knowing.

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Re: Why Do Women Marry Who They Don’t Love ? by Tallesty1(m): 10:37am On Jan 15
EreluRoz:
😂 you all crave to be loved but act tough. We sabi una
Like I said, respect me and we are good. You can't know me more than me.
Re: Why Do Women Marry Who They Don’t Love ? by EreluRoz: 10:51am On Jan 15
Tallesty1:
Like I said, respect me and we are good. You can't know me more than me.
I was expecting this type of reply. Act tough online while small lekpa girl is controlling you offline. Kikikikiki

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Re: Why Do Women Marry Who They Don’t Love ? by Sirhush(m): 10:55am On Jan 15
Now our days Nigeria woman can love you because of what dey will get fr you. Or still dey believe dey have a better future with you and that is why when dey enter the marriage nd things are not working the way dey expect dey ready to be a single mother. Check around dey full everywhere cool

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Re: Why Do Women Marry Who They Don’t Love ? by Dexy4yah(m): 11:02am On Jan 15
90 percent of women...don't marry who they love...they marry who is ready

The person they love might not be ready for marriage so they opt for the man that is ready
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Re: Why Do Women Marry Who They Don’t Love ? by Tallesty1(m): 1:04pm On Jan 15
EreluRoz:
I was expecting this type of reply. Act tough online while small lekpa girl is controlling you offline. Kikikikiki
Love is not needed for that.






Is this you?
Re: Why Do Women Marry Who They Don’t Love ? by EreluRoz: 2:14pm On Jan 15
Tallesty1:
Love is not needed for that.






Is this you?
Since it's not needed then allow women to cash out from you 😂


Who?
Re: Why Do Women Marry Who They Don’t Love ? by Tallesty1(m): 2:16pm On Jan 15
EreluRoz:
Since it's not needed then allow women to cash out from you 😂


Who ?
Never mind. You would know if you were her.
Re: Why Do Women Marry Who They Don’t Love ? by EreluRoz: 2:18pm On Jan 15
Tallesty1:
Never mind. You would know if you were her.
😆
Re: Why Do Women Marry Who They Don’t Love ? by fehintiola324: 4:20pm On Jan 15
What do women love?What do women love?...
Re: Why Do Women Marry Who They Don’t Love ? by MrCork: 4:23pm On Jan 15
Hardunmhi:
I don’t understand why women marry who they don’t love, so many of them.
I married a girl out of my foolishness lol , I was thinking money could save her, I snatched her from her boyfriend, after we had a kid the relationship got sour and we divorced, I don’t need advise or opinion on it OPs.
A girl who left me when we were younger to go marry a soldier who I know clearly that she didn’t love has been phucking me again for some months now lol, tho she has divorced, now she thought I would love her like before lol, she wan use love and gift kill me
A girl who loved me dearly but I refused to break her virginity when we were in school so I left her, now she is married to another man and last month she gave birth to her second kid, she has been telling me since when she got married that she does not really love the guy and till now she loves talking to me and most times she accuses me of going too far from her, I no Dey near person wife abeg lol

Why exactly women they do like this Ehn , marry who you love nah lol


did they marry u sir?(no oofencse) angry
Re: Why Do Women Marry Who They Don’t Love ? by muller101(m): 4:46pm On Jan 15
A woman marry who is ready. Especially when they get to the gate of menopause.
Re: Why Do Women Marry Who They Don’t Love ? by Omowoolata: 4:57pm On Jan 15
It's not a wise decision to love woman. The help I will render to a woman I would rather give it to my fellow man. Women are just for fucking
No put your mind bro sad
Re: Why Do Women Marry Who They Don’t Love ? by saxahe33: 8:38pm On Jan 15
muller101:
A woman marry who is ready. Especially when they get to the gate of menopause.
true sha
Re: Why Do Women Marry Who They Don’t Love ? by Evolutionism: 9:22pm On Jan 15
Like the mumu i love no even look my side since last year despite how i was heavily ill.

Me sef no send. Make i just dey my dey.

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Re: Why Do Women Marry Who They Don’t Love ? by PoliteActivist: 11:54pm On Jan 15
ExudeLoveToAll:


This is why divorce rates initiated by women is 3 times that initiated by men.

If that's the wise decision, women won't be quiting a wise decision they initiated, don't you think so?
*Politeness*
You mean Western women.
Because when it no longer favours them, women leave! Or when they find they've outgrown the marriage. We don't hang around like mumu like men, hoping for a miracle!
Re: Why Do Women Marry Who They Don’t Love ? by G00dharddick: 8:01am On Jan 16
Kipaji:
Because life doesn't always play out the way we truly want, and that love is not the only parameter to consider when marrying.


Same goes for men.

Which one is same goes for men?

Dude men end up marrying who they love. Oga the life of a man and that of a woman isn't the same. The woman end up marrying who she doesn't love because time isn't on her side anymore, meanwhile the man is so relaxed and taking his time because the older a man gets the more hotter and valuable he becomes. So WTF is same for men?

Dude, men marry who they love and have always wanted but Women Marry any man who's available (they don't have time on their sides) they Marry the man without loving him.
Re: Why Do Women Marry Who They Don’t Love ? by G00dharddick: 8:04am On Jan 16
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coputa:
IN LIFE YOU DON'T MARRY WHO YOU LOVE RATHER YOU LOVE WHO YOU MARRY
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What kind of trash is this?

How can you love who you marry without first loving the person? Una go just dey comment senselessly on this forum
Re: Why Do Women Marry Who They Don’t Love ? by coputa(m): 9:07am On Jan 16
G00dharddick:
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What kind of trash is this?

How can you love who you marry without first loving the person? Una go just dey comment senselessly on this forum

There's difference between like and love, you can like someone/something immediately but love is built gradually.
Re: Why Do Women Marry Who They Don’t Love ? by G00dharddick: 9:31am On Jan 16
coputa:
There's difference between like and love, you can like someone/something immediately but love is built gradually.

Never make the mistake of getting married without loving the person. No try am otherwise your name will be sorry.

Don't make the mistake of getting married with the hope and intentions of loving the person. You'll only get fed up and frustrated.

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Re: Why Do Women Marry Who They Don’t Love ? by EmperorCaesar(m): 5:27pm On Jan 16
PoliteActivist:

*Politeness*
You mean Western women.
Because when it no longer favours them, women leave! Or when they find they've outgrown the marriage. We don't hang around like mumu like men, hoping for a miracle!



I have never fancied your idea on anything but going by all you've said in this group, u seem to be a realist

I would watch out more for your opinion on sensitive matters...I might learn one or two at the end

All you've been saying since is a true definition of survival instinct in its animalistic form...We must always be ready to prey on the gullible to stay ahead...After all, its not u people's fault that men arent that smart when it comes to issues like this
Re: Why Do Women Marry Who They Don’t Love ? by PoliteActivist: 6:51pm On Jan 16
EmperorCaesar:




I have never fancied your idea on anything but going by all you've said in this group, u seem to be a realist

I would watch out more for your opinion on sensitive matters...I might learn one or two at the end

All you've been saying since is a true definition of survival instinct in its animalistic form...We must always be ready to prey on the gullible to stay ahead...After all, its not u people's fault that men arent that smart when it comes to issues like this

*Politeness*
NATURE made women realists. Our time is limited - we don't have the luxury of waiting forever for someone we "love". Also, ideally, we don’t have the option of having different children with different men.
A man, on the other hand, wouldn't mind impregnating as many women as possible, and can do so practically all his life!

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Re: Why Do Women Marry Who They Don’t Love ? by PoliteActivist: 7:02pm On Jan 16
G00dharddick:


Never make the mistake of getting married without loving the person. No try am otherwise your name will be sorry.

Don't make the mistake of getting married with the hope and intentions of loving the person. You'll only get fed up and frustrated.

*Politeness*
This is the typical "love" thinking wise women avoid.
Marriage is about cohabitation and raising children - a good provider you like and can live with.
"Love" quickly fades, and can even turn to hate!

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Re: Why Do Women Marry Who They Don’t Love ? by Qatar2022: 7:23pm On Jan 16
Hardunmhi:
I don’t understand why women marry who they don’t love, so many of them.
I married a girl out of my foolishness lol , I was thinking money could save her, I snatched her from her boyfriend, after we had a kid the relationship got sour and we divorced, I don’t need advise or opinion on it OPs.
A girl who left me when we were younger to go marry a soldier who I know clearly that she didn’t love has been phucking me again for some months now lol, tho she has divorced, now she thought I would love her like before lol, she wan use love and gift kill me
A girl who loved me dearly but I refused to break her virginity when we were in school so I left her, now she is married to another man and last month she gave birth to her second kid, she has been telling me since when she got married that she does not really love the guy and till now she loves talking to me and most times she accuses me of going too far from her, I no Dey near person wife abeg lol

Why exactly women they do like this Ehn , marry who you love nah lol
Use your brain oga that gender can manipulate for Africa
Re: Why Do Women Marry Who They Don’t Love ? by Proserpina: 7:49pm On Jan 16
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Re: Why Do Women Marry Who They Don’t Love ? by Proserpina: 7:51pm On Jan 16
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Re: Why Do Women Marry Who They Don’t Love ? by Hardunmhi: 8:33pm On Jan 16
Qatar2022:

Use your brain oga that gender can manipulate for Africa

Manipulate what exactly ?
Re: Why Do Women Marry Who They Don’t Love ? by Hardunmhi: 8:34pm On Jan 16
PoliteActivist:


*Politeness*
This is the typical "love" thinking wise women avoid.
Marriage is about cohabitation and raising children - a good provider you like and can live with.
They know "love" quickly fades, and can even turn to hate!

Oga you just Dey talk Dey talk nonsense abeg

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