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Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by Incrediblekutty(m): 9:42pm On Feb 13
abobote:

But his point was very clear










Clear but not valid. Must she sign an application before he takes her serious?? You don't need to form smarter or perfect in situations like this, that man is not in any way different from any of us that date and spend on our girlfriends, that he decided to react in such way doesn't make him less of a man. That's my problem with his/her take on the issue

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Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by chinex11(m): 9:43pm On Feb 13
GistMedia0:
A woman ditches her sponsor for a new love, but her ex storms the church during the televised wedding, shouting, "Oga pastor, I took her from the village, I trained her, it will not happen!" Ushers quickly intervene, halting the vows. Shocked viewers left wondering what's next.

This experience can be so painful.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6x5SRzcbKVY
last last for this life na only man fit dea for woman because she stood buy him you see women the moment they level up pass you omo them go leave you jakpa

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Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by Incrediblekutty(m): 9:46pm On Feb 13
malaria:

Lol but you knew what he wanted to say









Nothing reasonable, does he know if he takes care of his parents or not?? So because he sponsored his girlfriend to school and responsible for her expenses means he does not take care of his family. Isn't it a common and normal thing for guys to spend on their girlfriends?? And because he chose to go emotional about it does not justify the fact that the lady is an evil

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Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by nigeriansamurai(m): 9:46pm On Feb 13
Well...you no go force am to marry you na, next time you will learn to avoid taking unecessary and unwise responsibility. Even hen person train to chop for chrismas dey run talk more of a human being. Thats why wise men would insist you marry them first before you know you don get one belle, before they train you... 4yrs is more than enough for Amaka to become Amanda.

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Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by tollyboy5(m): 9:46pm On Feb 13
Geonigga:
A foolish man of the century training a girl in order to marry her is the most stupid thing to do. That is how my ex that years wanted me to train her after securing admission I quickly ended the rubbish.
grin grin grin grin grin
Omo ogbon!
Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by Ken4Christ: 9:48pm On Feb 13
GistMedia0:
A woman ditches her sponsor for a new love, but her ex storms the church during the televised wedding, shouting, "Oga pastor, I took her from the village, I trained her, it will not happen!" Ushers quickly intervene, halting the vows. Shocked viewers left wondering what's next.

This experience can be so painful.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6x5SRzcbKVY

Same story, same negative result in most cases. Stop making huge investment in someone you are yet to get married to unless you are just doing it without any string attached.

If you don't want to learn from the experiences of others, you will learn it the hard way.

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Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by Ategberoson(m): 9:53pm On Feb 13
Her new husband should watch his back, this babe can never be loyal in the marriage

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Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by Incrediblekutty(m): 9:55pm On Feb 13
Tonididdyx:


What would you've said or done differently?
Was there a written agreement to his stupidity?... Only then he has a case!







Whatever anyone does after a disappoinment from someone they have really trusted should not be condemned, we react to issues differently. Stupidity because he spends on lady he's dating?? If you give your girlfriend money, that means you are stupid too and if you don't that means you are not responsible. That there's no written agreement does not mean he cannot express his emotions, and he dies chose to go about that doesn't concern anybody. Keep your maturity to yourself, he can't have the lady, and what he has done to an extent has ruined the smart plan the lady thought she has. Ce fini

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Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by Origin(f): 9:55pm On Feb 13
Then why did you not marry her??

All this years

I have seen people that "trained" girls to school, they sleep with them; the girls wash their clothes; cook for them take care of their every every....

Which seems like quid pro quo already......


They even cheat on this girls all in the name of where will she go. But the only thing they will say is na me train am. Did u get any benefit in return oga
Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by ericmor: 9:57pm On Feb 13
Mumu man

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Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by brightovio007(m): 10:03pm On Feb 13
Make wetin happen for sheep house nor happen for goat house. Just pray
Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by Revolva(m): 10:04pm On Feb 13
E don enter bear bear bank ....never u do anytin good for nigerian girls who are fro. Poor backgrounds just give her belle and carry on so u wont loose totally

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Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by Thislifee: 10:07pm On Feb 13
slaawomirr:
Damnnn niggar
The man is a mumu man...worse than oga sabinus

Only archaic and primitive men still do that rubbish
Training a girl so that you will marry her later is stupidity

I got female siblings...if you are a niggar and you training any of my baby sisters with the intention of marrying them in the future
I must say you are on your own
Should I tell you all a secrete..women are emotionally stronger than men and very emotionally brutal...
you are right, women are emotionally brutal!

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Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by brightDdon(m): 10:09pm On Feb 13
JustPowerApps:
Seeing the word 'Sponsor' reminds me of neolife people grin



😂 😂 😂
Sponsor your trip abroad

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Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by chatinent: 10:11pm On Feb 13
He should be jailed for being stupid.
Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by yemmit90: 10:18pm On Feb 13
Eriokanmi:
Lol. Stop picking up a girl from the village and training her just because you want to marry her, una no go hear. Oju ti laaa grin.

If you must do this,make sure you pay her bride price and take her in with you. Do the legal thing and let her give you children. She can bag PhD under your roof if you're capable of training her up to that level.
Even some ladies on whom you've paid bride price still look back. I had a gf back in the days. She got married to an American citizen. This man came to do the needful and invited her. He empowered her parents financially.

While she's there, she always chatted me, saying she'd plan on coming home alone and spend some time with me, for the old time's sake. She always disturbed me. I always told her that old times have passed away, and I'm now a new creature. She should stay with her husband. If the man should know all these, he could either kill himself or kill her or do both. If a married lady could go this far, the one you are not yet married to, can do even worse. This is the type that always discourages men from training girls with the hope of marrying her cos there are still God-fearing ones amongst them. But very, very scarce.



Paying her dowry doesn't stop girls from abandoning you if she see a better offer. I personally witnessed one, they did their wedding in which my sister and almost everyone in our area then attended before going for NYSC. After just 3 months into her program, she sent one of her elder sisters to her husband to calculate everything he has spent on her as she had already found her dream husband to whom they had fix another big wedding in Porthacourt where she was serving. To make the matter worse, the girl doesn't even send her former husband or anyone as she usually come to her family house with this rich guy to do yanga for the former guy who stay in the same street with them.

It took the guy several years to come out of the shock and move on. So, if you are to train a woman, let her have all your children before you do so. Even at that, don't expect the same woman you send to school because if you see how some of them fovk around on campuses, you will wonder if they are actually married.

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Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by TheGift: 10:19pm On Feb 13
GistMedia0:
A woman ditches her sponsor for a new love, but her ex storms the church during the televised wedding, shouting, "Oga pastor, I took her from the village, I trained her, it will not happen!" Ushers quickly intervene, halting the vows. Shocked viewers left wondering what's next.

This experience can be so painful.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6x5SRzcbKVY

Was He training Her to train Her?
Was He training Her to marry Her? Or was He training Her because He was legally married to Her?

Now that due to Her training, She has trained Her sights on some one else, shouldn’t He be grateful or at least accepting of the results of His training?

If He truly loves Her, then He should let Her go.
Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by Ttipsy(f): 10:19pm On Feb 13
It will not happen
I support the man here
Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by Just4000: 10:20pm On Feb 13
Men are going through a lot. Many are passing through things like this on a daily bases and they simply bottle up or let go.

He can actually seek for and obtain redress in court, if he have evidence that he trained her with intention to marry and there was no evidence of domestic or other form of violence against him. There are cases like that both by the man and even the lady that got a favourable judgement. Like the popular case of Natasha Akpoti vs Emmanuel Uduagha and lot more. Even without written agreement he can still win the case and obtain compensation or lady risk going to jail.
dangermouse:



Its all shade of wrong you blaming the dude. Must there be a written agreement on a man picking a lady and sending her to o school as a future spouse?

The only mistake the man made is by not marrying her first and send her to school after she must have given him a baby and making sure she is always with pregnancy until she graduates from school.

I have witnessed several cases like this. I mean why not tell the guy right from onset you cannot marry him? Why Wai until you have graduated on the guys expense before telling him?

It's all shades of wrong and I believe all men are seeing all these a d learning their lessons big time...

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Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by CSTRR: 10:24pm On Feb 13
So men still train women they are not related to because of the promises of marriage. grin

A girl that you should have allowed to languish in the miry pit of illiteracy and poverty that she has inherited, instead you went to waste money on.

Mumu man.

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Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by Tonididdyx: 10:24pm On Feb 13
Incrediblekutty:








Whatever anyone does after a disappoinment from someone they have really trusted should not be condemned, we react to issues differently. Stupidity because he spends on lady he's dating?? If you give your girlfriend money, that means you are stupid too and if you don't that means you are not responsible. That there's no written agreement does not mean he cannot express his emotions, and he dies chose to go about that doesn't concern anybody. Keep your maturity to yourself, he can't have the lady, and what he has done to an extent has ruined the smart plan the lady thought she has. Ce fini
Unku were dey dating?
Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by kamtamark(m): 10:25pm On Feb 13
People are taking it lightly, that man can decide to kill the girl and kill himself.

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Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by Bayajjidda: 10:29pm On Feb 13
EreluRoz:
Very stupid man, I watched the video and I'm like is she under any obligation to marry him or was there any written agreement that was signed?

Men like this do not take care of their parents but will be out there doing stupid things, I don't pity such kind of men.

Instead of him to chop his breakfast peacefully and quietly he's making a scene out of it

Were you there? How did you know there was no agreement between them? Stop going around blabbing and saying what you don't know.

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Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by TheGift: 10:29pm On Feb 13
Just4000:
Men are going through a lot. Many are passing through things like this on a daily bases and they simply bottle up or let go.

He can actually seek for and obtain redress in court, if he have evidence that he trained her with intention to marry and there was no evidence of domestic or other form of violence against him. There are cases like that both by the man and even the lady that got a favourable judgement. Like the popular case of Natasha Akpoti vs Emmanuel Uduagha and lot more. Even without written agreement he can still win the case and obtain compensation or lady risk going to jail.

Men are only going through what they allow themselves go through. And that is mostly due to their ego and inability to thus let it go.

Be careful about promoting going to fight publicly in court of law though.

Letting go is more for your sake and your mental/emotional health ,?than about your pride and ego.

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Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by Fuckyoumod: 10:31pm On Feb 13
Incrediblekutty:








You obviously typed without reading before you submitted. Now, can you just go through what you wrote and tell us what sense it makes?? Thanks
the sense is that if you must train a girl, train your sisters and daughters or the less privileged with nothing attached.

Outside these set of ladies, the only person you must train is your wife if she is loyal.

Don't waste time and resources training girl friends. Lol

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Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by Elmander1983(m): 10:33pm On Feb 13
GNLD sends a better signal for those wey sabi... cheesy
JustPowerApps:
Seeing the word 'Sponsor' reminds me of neolife people grin

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Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by Pat081: 10:35pm On Feb 13
Foolish man to train dogs is better than supporting a girl who is not your family member in school for me to do that I will go to a motherless baby home to train them a woman gives you children means nothing to them

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Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by CockPit: 10:38pm On Feb 13
Incrediblekutty:













Clear but not valid. Must she sign an application before he takes her serious?? You don't need to form smarter or perfect in situations like this, that man is not in any way different from any of us that date and spend on our girlfriends, that he decided to react in such way doesn't make him less of a man. That's my problem with his/her take on the issue

He is less a man for being stupid and now acting childishly! Nobody put a gun on his head to pay those school fees.
Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by Omalicious1: 10:39pm On Feb 13
GistMedia0:
A woman ditches her sponsor for a new love, but her ex storms the church during the televised wedding, shouting, "Oga pastor, I took her from the village, I trained her, it will not happen!" Ushers quickly intervene, halting the vows. Shocked viewers left wondering what's next.

This experience can be so painful.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6x5SRzcbKVY


This is a bold simp...when he trained her, didn't he remember the word "Hypergamy" ...that's exactly what played out and its natural for the other gender to do so... so he shouldn't be crying foul, however, I appreciate his boldness...I just wish we could apply such boldness with our governors and senators

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Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by Pat081: 10:41pm On Feb 13
Fuckyoumod:
the sense is that if you must train a girl, train your sisters and daughters or the less privileged with nothing attached.

Outside these set of ladies, the only person you must train is your wife if she is loyal.

Don't waste time and resources, training girlfriends. Lol
you talk true bros, wife self is hard to train her sometime she may get to school and see someone who has a BSc or more than that holder

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Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by Peppysco: 10:43pm On Feb 13
EreluRoz:
Very stupid man, I watched the video and I'm like is she under any obligation to marry him or was there any written agreement that was signed?

Men like this do not take care of their parents but will be out there doing stupid things, I don't pity such kind of men.

Instead of him to chop his breakfast peacefully and quietly he's making a scene out of it

While not supporting the guy's action, but na this kind mentality wey you get dey make some mean guys treat women as trash.

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Re: Man Caught Lady He Trained In School For 7 Years In A Church With Another Man by nyabinghi(m): 10:54pm On Feb 13
Shalnick23:
The odds say lady wey you sponsor go later marry you no reach 1 odd grin
tye lowest odd na 1,the odd na like 35

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