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Re: Urgent! Should I Allow My Tenant Bury Her 1 Year Old Daughter In My Compound? by Ishilove: 1:42am On Feb 21
DSS1335:


I am in good term with all my tenants, though I have never overstepped my boundaries as a landlord. I went to a medical school and have an MPH degree specializing in therapeutic and that's where the knowledge of rational use of drugs comes from.
It was after the child died in the house, that I got to know based on what the mother narrated to those sympathizers that throng to my compound as the bad news spread within my area. On further clarification, that's when I got to know the drugs and dose administered
Who prescribed this killer dose to the child??
Re: Urgent! Should I Allow My Tenant Bury Her 1 Year Old Daughter In My Compound? by Whatisurproblem(m): 1:44am On Feb 21
DSS1335:
A very good young woman whom her husband abandoned last year lost her 1 year old child this morning. They jovial baby was very healthy on Sunday, by Monday morning, the baby was suffering from diarrhea and vomiting. According to the mum, she was prescribed pediatric antibiotic Amoxicillin along with antimalarial (Lonart susp), paracetamol syrup and Rophegan. I was alarmed on why she gave her child Rophegan 5ml, normally this antiemetic drug is not recommended for children under 2 years of age. Unfortunately this early morning the child was gasping for breath while crying loudly and died few hours later.

The issue now is that she is from far away east. She doesn't want to travel home. I have a very large space in my compound, and want to bury the child there. I consulted my kins, they objected it that I should never allow such to happen that it's against our tradition. That a child should be buried in his father's home or public cemetery. This tenant have already made up her mind to Park out few months after her rent expires due to the scandals of separating from her husband. Should I go ahead and allow her or alternatively raise funds for her to travel to the east to bury the child there. Though she isn't forthcoming with my alternative.

N/B
I am of Rivers state, Ikwerre to be precise, the lady from Umuahia

Update:
The mother of the lady came late in the afternoon from Abia state and pleaded I should allow them bury the baby in my compound. After considering some notable advice from here coupled with the warning from my kinsmen, I declined. The lady's mother contacted their branch pastor and they made arrangements to bury her in a place provided by their church. Later this evening the woman came back insulting my family that we are very wicked for not allowing their baby to be buried in my compound.
If not for the sympathy I had for the mother mourning her loss, I would have lost my cool.
This was the same woman responsible for the breakdown of her daughter's marriage. After marriage, she came to live with the new couple who parked into my apartment newly. Instigating her daughter against her husband. Using her daughter as a proxy to siphon off her husband's wealth, a Dubai-based businessman. Controlling the man forcefully, preventing him from socializing with others because of her insecurity complexes. The last straw that broke the marriage was when the lady and her mother teamed up to lock the husband indoors for 4 days and transferred all his money to the wife's account. That whenever he needs his own money, he should tell the wife. In short, the marriage broke down irreconcilably and the husband relocated to another state and never came back, he was neither interested in the child that was born 3 months after nor care to inquire about their wellbeing
Op it's bad you decline just little kindness to the poor baby, your iliteterate kinsmen know when,where, how you will die? What if you die in Abroad and no means to transport your body home. Vulture will eat your body be that
Re: Urgent! Should I Allow My Tenant Bury Her 1 Year Old Daughter In My Compound? by Draslo(m): 1:49am On Feb 21
Ishilove:

Who prescribed this killer dose to the child??
He already clarified that he wasn't the one. I'm not so sure. The OP knows what inside that woman's body feels like. He feels obligated to help someone he just basically described as a devil.
Re: Urgent! Should I Allow My Tenant Bury Her 1 Year Old Daughter In My Compound? by BigIyanga: 1:53am On Feb 21
Nope. They are troublemakers. Wash your hands and fee off their case like Pontius Pilate and run. They are baby tigers and will feast on you when the time comes.

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Re: Urgent! Should I Allow My Tenant Bury Her 1 Year Old Daughter In My Compound? by kkins25(m): 2:13am On Feb 21
It was a very strange request. Good of you to allow them to do that. Make me ma take this as a warning not to allow one old mama to come to my house and control my wealth and mind all because I'm mining into her daughter's womb. May I never be that weak.

May the innocent girl, who died due to the recklessness of her caretakers, rest in piece. Poor soul.
Re: Urgent! Should I Allow My Tenant Bury Her 1 Year Old Daughter In My Compound? by stonecoldcafe: 2:21am On Feb 21
DSS1335:
A very good young woman whom her husband abandoned last year lost her 1 year old child this morning. They jovial

Update:
The motherwellbeing

You made the right decision.
Re: Urgent! Should I Allow My Tenant Bury Her 1 Year Old Daughter In My Compound? by autodoctor: 2:26am On Feb 21
See winchcraft of the highest order
Re: Urgent! Should I Allow My Tenant Bury Her 1 Year Old Daughter In My Compound? by Ishilove: 2:28am On Feb 21
Draslo:

He already clarified that he wasn't the one. I'm not so sure. The OP knows what inside that woman's body feels like. He feels obligated to help someone he just basically described as a devil.
It is just unfortunate that an innocent child is involved. In a sane country, whoever prescribed the medicine will be arrested and made to give account of just exactly what he was thinking by prescribing those drugs to a 12 month old baby
Re: Urgent! Should I Allow My Tenant Bury Her 1 Year Old Daughter In My Compound? by VHILL: 2:29am On Feb 21
DON'T TRY IT. I REPEAT, DON'T TRY IT
DON'T TRY IT. I REPEAT, DON'T TRY IT
DON'T TRY IT. I REPEAT, DON'T TRY IT
DON'T TRY IT. I REPEAT, DON'T TRY IT
Re: Urgent! Should I Allow My Tenant Bury Her 1 Year Old Daughter In My Compound? by jackpot(f): 2:30am On Feb 21
post=128561209:
No,
Thats not done!

Na wa for some kind question for dis side o.....
why doesn't your name MANABBQGRILLS appear when quoted?
Re: Urgent! Should I Allow My Tenant Bury Her 1 Year Old Daughter In My Compound? by biggie73(m): 2:32am On Feb 21
No.
Re: Urgent! Should I Allow My Tenant Bury Her 1 Year Old Daughter In My Compound? by blingxx(m): 2:59am On Feb 21
illicit:
She can try cremation


Which kain yeye advice be this undecided try saying this in public, if them no slap you call me idiot
Re: Urgent! Should I Allow My Tenant Bury Her 1 Year Old Daughter In My Compound? by okoloto: 2:59am On Feb 21
May the soul of the little baby have peaceful rest. By the time the husband will come for that baby, you will have a lot of questions to answer. It is not appropriate for you to allow the burial in your compound. You are not a family member. They should consult with their family and arrange on how to give the baby the right burial. Even if the husband won't come, it is not the right thing to do. Help them another way you can but DONT allow the burial in your compound.
Re: Urgent! Should I Allow My Tenant Bury Her 1 Year Old Daughter In My Compound? by olibeans: 3:08am On Feb 21
You did the right thing.
They're very undeserving..
Quit them ASAP before they burn your building with their unruly behaviour.
Re: Urgent! Should I Allow My Tenant Bury Her 1 Year Old Daughter In My Compound? by jeff1607(m): 3:11am On Feb 21
This man hasn't opened up, there's no way he isn't romantically involved with the woman.

What is your business with what a tenant does, how can a child of no blood relationship be allowed to be buried on a land where your future kids will be buried unless the child is his, what kinda of weak men are mothers raising sef.
Re: Urgent! Should I Allow My Tenant Bury Her 1 Year Old Daughter In My Compound? by venti: 3:18am On Feb 21
What happened to the cemetery?
Re: Urgent! Should I Allow My Tenant Bury Her 1 Year Old Daughter In My Compound? by PROPEACE: 3:30am On Feb 21
DSS1335:
A very good young woman whom her husband abandoned last year lost her 1 year old child this morning. They jovial baby was very healthy on Sunday, by Monday morning, the baby was suffering from diarrhea and vomiting. According to the mum, she was prescribed pediatric antibiotic Amoxicillin along with antimalarial (Lonart susp), paracetamol syrup and Rophegan. I was alarmed on why she gave her child Rophegan 5ml, normally this antiemetic drug is not recommended for children under 2 years of age. Unfortunately this early morning the child was gasping for breath while crying loudly and died few hours later.

The issue now is that she is from far away east. She doesn't want to travel home. I have a very large space in my compound, and want to bury the child there. I consulted my kins, they objected it that I should never allow such to happen that it's against our tradition. That a child should be buried in his father's home or public cemetery. This tenant have already made up her mind to Park out few months after her rent expires due to the scandals of separating from her husband. Should I go ahead and allow her or alternatively raise funds for her to travel to the east to bury the child there. Though she isn't forthcoming with my alternative.

N/B
I am of Rivers state, Ikwerre to be precise, the lady from Umuahia

Update:
The mother of the lady came late in the afternoon from Abia state and pleaded I should allow them bury the baby in my compound. After considering some notable advice from here coupled with the warning from my kinsmen, I declined. The lady's mother contacted their branch pastor and they made arrangements to bury her in a place provided by their church. Later this evening the woman came back insulting my family that we are very wicked for not allowing their baby to be buried in my compound.
If not for the sympathy I had for the mother mourning her loss, I would have lost my cool.
This was the same woman responsible for the breakdown of her daughter's marriage. After marriage, she came to live with the new couple who parked into my apartment newly. Instigating her daughter against her husband. Using her daughter as a proxy to siphon off her husband's wealth, a Dubai-based businessman. Controlling the man forcefully, preventing him from socializing with others because of her insecurity complexes. The last straw that broke the marriage was when the lady and her mother teamed up to lock the husband indoors for 4 days and transferred all his money to the wife's account. That whenever he needs his own money, he should tell the wife. In short, the marriage broke down irreconcilably and the husband relocated to another state and never came back, he was neither interested in the child that was born 3 months after nor care to inquire about their wellbeing
If the bolded is true, the why did you refer to the woman as a very good woman in the opening paragraph?

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Re: Urgent! Should I Allow My Tenant Bury Her 1 Year Old Daughter In My Compound? by ericmor: 3:38am On Feb 21
Why would someone ask this kind of question. I think there is something going on between you and the mother. How people get their generation into unnecessary spiritual problem all in the name of woman. Well, if you like bury the kid in your compound when there are cemetery for her to bury her, then be ready to face the consequences. Na d innocent persons you will use your silly decision affect I pity
Re: Urgent! Should I Allow My Tenant Bury Her 1 Year Old Daughter In My Compound? by FireUpNow(m): 4:24am On Feb 21
OP the child is not yours so, raise money for her to take the dead child to her country home to bury. Don't think about the money you will give her but think about the trouble you will be saving yourself from.
Re: Urgent! Should I Allow My Tenant Bury Her 1 Year Old Daughter In My Compound? by Theunbothered: 5:04am On Feb 21
Wawelexy:
Raise funds for her please... Burying that child in your compound might have consequences that may not favour you...

Raise funds for a thief?
Re: Urgent! Should I Allow My Tenant Bury Her 1 Year Old Daughter In My Compound? by Father4all: 5:20am On Feb 21
Super story
Re: Urgent! Should I Allow My Tenant Bury Her 1 Year Old Daughter In My Compound? by Tzar(m): 5:23am On Feb 21
Since you are an underaged 'man' who does not understand African tradition and bad omen, PLEASE AGREE!
I am sure the woman is 'entering your eyes' to knack!
Yeye is smelling!
So cemetry don finish for PH abi? Your mumu get Ph.D!
Re: Urgent! Should I Allow My Tenant Bury Her 1 Year Old Daughter In My Compound? by itsene: 5:26am On Feb 21
No way!
Re: Urgent! Should I Allow My Tenant Bury Her 1 Year Old Daughter In My Compound? by Edusouls(m): 5:37am On Feb 21
Chully01:
Don't try it.
You will give birth to that child if you do
africa and superstition, you are talking nonsense
Re: Urgent! Should I Allow My Tenant Bury Her 1 Year Old Daughter In My Compound? by samcolee(m): 5:39am On Feb 21
Chully01:
Don't try it.
You will give birth to that child if you do
Please explain
Re: Urgent! Should I Allow My Tenant Bury Her 1 Year Old Daughter In My Compound? by Edusouls(m): 5:40am On Feb 21
Mcreloaded:
Customs I know allows burying in the Bush.
Tell her to go and burry the cchild in the bush.

If you must know, it is allowed and normal to burry any adult in the Bush if he or she does not have a child.

Don't be surprised later she or neighbours or even the husband will claim you and the lady murdered the child.

Burry the baby in the Bush and that's final.
It's what's obtainable in my place where I come from.
Haha na child you want transport go another state, OP I come dey reason your matter sha. Hope you are not having something to do with the woman or death of the child , this one you have anal the drugs as if you are a pharmacist
nonsense tradition and dark culture
Re: Urgent! Should I Allow My Tenant Bury Her 1 Year Old Daughter In My Compound? by Edusouls(m): 5:41am On Feb 21
Purvan:
Bury that child



Nothing will happen




You peeps watch way too much Nollywood
don’t mind Africans with their superstitious mentality and backwardness
Re: Urgent! Should I Allow My Tenant Bury Her 1 Year Old Daughter In My Compound? by IamHonourable1: 5:45am On Feb 21
Allow her bury the child in your compound since you don't have sence, you want to trust woman
Re: Urgent! Should I Allow My Tenant Bury Her 1 Year Old Daughter In My Compound? by free234free: 5:48am On Feb 21
The olosho should be arrested. E sure me say na gen z. Those hoes have killed more kids then adolp Hitler. If they are not aborting, they are dancing with pregnancy, if they are not doing that, they are allowing random men Bleep them when pregnancy. Useless generation .
E too sure me say you dey knack her. Swear say u never knack. Am
Re: Urgent! Should I Allow My Tenant Bury Her 1 Year Old Daughter In My Compound? by Emekayoung(m): 5:49am On Feb 21
illicit:
She can try cremation
Are you okay at all,can you cremate your child for any reason?
Re: Urgent! Should I Allow My Tenant Bury Her 1 Year Old Daughter In My Compound? by Mcreloaded(m): 5:50am On Feb 21
DSS1335:


I am in good term with all my tenants, though I have never overstepped my boundaries as a landlord. I went to a medical school and have an MPH degree specializing in therapeutic and that's where the knowledge of rational use of drugs comes from.
It was after the child died in the house, that I got to know based on what the mother narrated to those sympathizers that throng to my compound as the bad news spread within my area. On further clarification, that's when I got to know the drugs and dose administered

OK I can see you are a nice guy and want to do what's right.
What happened to her has happened to millions of people over the years and what you have to do is to ask elders what to do.
Usually when something like this happens, the child is wrapped in a cloth and buried in the Bush.
I am not trying to sound harsh but that's the way it's done.

Ask elders on what to do. It's a sad one but that's just the way it is.
Re: Urgent! Should I Allow My Tenant Bury Her 1 Year Old Daughter In My Compound? by gnykelly(m): 5:51am On Feb 21
Frigga13:
Please raise funds for her... she can do that in open cemetery

Don’t bury for your compound.. you sef .. you nor get reasoning?

Abi you Dey Nyash her?


OGA dey nyansh her

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