There's a lady cleaner in my office, who recently lost his eldest brother. They live in the same city, where she has no meaningful job, no accomodations, but his big brother is a multi millionaire. Who can fix her up in a jiffy, but according to the story, he wouldn't because they're step siblings and past record from her mom towards his mom, wouldn't let him help any of his step siblings.
My questions are:
Why is there too much hatred among step siblings?
Isn't your father the root cause of your hurt?
Why do you easily forgive your father, but can't do the same to his children?
Why do we inherit enemies from our parents and don't want to let go?
Why do men still choose to have children from different women knowing that their children might not love each other and might even give him much trauma in old age due to bitterness and hatred for each other?
Is it same in other part of the world?
What is your general opinion on a polygamous family?

Ok

Blame their mothers.

Women have ways of destroying a happy home.

God and Adam were paddy until Eve came.

Darlingme:
You have a point, but don't you think is the man's fault? Bringing two women together in that way?

How's it the fault of an African man to have two wives?

Zonefree:

How's it the fault of an African man to have two wives?

Then, Why so much hatred among step siblings?

The question u shud be asking is, why do most women hate other pple`s children thereby causing frictions in the future?

SyrusdeHansome:
The question u shud be asking is, why do most women hate other pple`s children thereby causing frictions in the future?

Knowing that the women aren't happy sharing one man, thereby making troubles, why is it so difficult for the children to love each other as siblings? And why do men keep creating more of these problems?

Why is so much hatred in you? Hate is red and you have red in you/with you... Fred is red, Alfred is red... Hence, they are full of hatred/full with hatred... I don't wants to talk about hammed&mohammed...

Darlingme:
Knowing that the women aren't happy sharing one man, thereby making troubles, why is it so difficult for the children to love each other as siblings? And why do men keep creating more of these problems?

Sarah was the one that gave Abraham his second wife and was also the one that caused Abraham to pursue his son and the second wife out of the house, so the problem is not always frm the men but frm the women.

Hmnn...Half siblings who share the same father hardly love themselves, but those who share the same mothers are closer.

The hatred is usually as the result of the hate relationship their mothers have. So, in solidarity to their mothers, the trend continues.

There is always a silent or loud war raging in polygamous families as everything is competition to them. Even as adults, they compete amongst themselves and see each other as enemies.

Nevertheless, I know half siblings who share the same fathers, but are still very close. I think it sometimes boils down to individuality and how they were raised.

COMRADES are speechless

Melagros:
COMRADES are speechless

But why?

You ask an interesting question.

Hatred is usually caused by mothers, and to some extent, fathers. Polygamy? The truth is, man is polygamous by nature; it's society that's trying to change the narrative. That's why you see baby mamas all over. If a man is capable, why accept his mistresses/baby mamas outside but restrict him from marrying them? Why shame the mothers outside? It should be encouraged, honestly. The benefits outweigh the shortcomings. It gives children legitimacy, secures the women in case of death, and more, which I won't delve into further.

The capacity of the man when it comes to managing two or more women is where the majority of the problems come from. On the women's side, the major problem is their inherent sense to protect their own, and this leads to jealousy and competition.

We first need to accept our shortcomings, then work out a way that protects All..

What would you now say for the ones that are siblings yet the boys wanted to rape their only sister as they hate themselves to death with the approval of theit parent? oya talk

Polygamy family wahala

Step siblings from same mother don’t hate each other , it’s always step siblings from same father but different mothers. This shows how women are capable of sewing the seeds of jealousy and hatred

The problem is the mothers. The unhealthy competition among the mothers is transferred to the children.
Children are gullible and believe their mothers who must have fed them with different untrue stories..

Such rivalry/enmity is rarely seen amongst half siblings from same mother

Polygamy only favors the man you go knack tire but na your children go suffer ahm. Especially this day’s wey women dey visit babalawo up and down. E done be for your first wife children them go use jazz kill all of them i fit bet my balls on this

Their mother, simple.

Family values and the Society in General.

It is the enemity between their mother's ......it affects badly....if you see children in such family hardly married two wives.

Their Mothers, Simple.

Even hatred amongst cousins are usually caused by the Mothers, rarely comes from the Fathers.

If they share same Mother, they likely get along but if it's same Father then it's chaos.

It's a norm, step siblings generally dislike each other. It takes the grace of God to find a family where all step siblings are cool with each other. Polygamy is terrible.

Darlingme:
Knowing that the women aren't happy sharing one man, thereby making troubles, why is it so difficult for the children to love each other as siblings? And why do men keep creating more of these problems?

Interesting female perspective.

In the USA, public data shows that over 50% of all Black Women have 2 or more children. And over 70% of those mothers conceived the children with at least 2 different men.

Of course my data might not be exact but it approximates many sources

https://www.nbcnews.com/health/health-news/1-5-us-moms-have-kids-multiple-dads-study-says-flna1c9462927

I would like to take your comment, add it to my own and expand. But it's a sensitive topic. So I will merely say this - the sex market is driven by the same incentives as any other market.

Have a good day.

Good Luck to Nigerians.

Same reason we hate ourselves and cant live as 1 in this country

The fundamental problem starts with the mothers

Polygamy is selfishness on behalf on the man and selflessness on behalf of the women who need to cooperate.

However, it often becomes worst-witchcraft!

Hardly any polygamous families without rivalry, competition and witchcraft.

The evil mothers are the cause