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Word Of Advice For Young Boys Aged 19-28 by Biggie225(m): 9:46am On Mar 07
1.Hustle hard and be productive in life.

2.Always put yourself first.

3.Be health conscious because the body you abuse today might hunt you in future.

4.Avoid women/relationships and never invest in them.

5. Practice self control and cultivate self discipline.

6. Don't even worry about what others think of you ,you are what you think you are. Other people's opinion about you doesn't matter.

7. Stay low key ,avoid show off . It can destroy you.

8. Keep your source of income Secret.

9. Be grateful ,never compare yourself with others. Life na turn by turn .

10. Focus ,determination, courage and gaining knowledge brings success.

11. Surround yourself with friends that loves and uplifts you.

12. Put God first in everything you do.

13. Never succumb to societal pressure, because most many people lacks purpose in life.

13. Stay away from from people who doesn't value you and get close to one's that hold you at high esteem.

14.Abstain from sex or you can Use condoms ,HIV and STDs can destroy your life.

15. Know the friends you keep. Avoid keeping Criminals as friends .

16. Never value what you see on social media ,all na packaging .

17 . Avoid fake life ,distractions and dramas because it drains you.

18 . Have at least 2 source of income.

19. Be real and always keep your emotions in check.

Try to be patient, take life easy . There is light at the end of the tunnel.

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Re: Word Of Advice For Young Boys Aged 19-28 by T0BY(m): 9:57am On Mar 07
Even with all these information, some guys will still learn lesson the hard way.. that's how some people are wired. Experience will do the needful.

Good writeup though.

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Re: Word Of Advice For Young Boys Aged 19-28 by Biggie225(m): 10:37am On Mar 07
T0BY:
Even with all these information, some guys will still learn lesson the hard way.. that's how some people are wired. Experience will do the needful.

Good writeup though.

Am almost 30 ,and I which I had realised this earlier in life ,I would have gone very far in life.

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Re: Word Of Advice For Young Boys Aged 19-28 by DrFunmisticGlow: 10:41am On Mar 07
Biggie225:
1.Hustle hard and be productive in life.
2.Always put yourself first.
3.Be health conscious because the body you abuse today might hunt you in future.
4.Avoid women/relationships and never invest in them.
5. Practice self control and cultivate self discipline.
6. Don't even worry about what others think of you ,you are what you think you are. Other people's opinion about you doesn't matter.
7. Stay low key ,avoid show off . It can destroy you.
8. Keep your source of income Secret.
9. Be grateful ,never compare yourself with others. Life na turn by turn .
10. Focus ,determination, courage and gaining knowledge brings success.
11. Surround yourself with friends that loves and uplifts you.
12. Put God first in everything you do.
13. Never succumb to societal pressure, because most many people lacks purpose in life.
13. Stay away from from people who doesn't value you and get close to one's that hold you at high esteem.
14.Abstain from sex or you can Use condoms ,HIV and STDs can destroy your life.
15. Know the friends you keep. Avoid keeping Criminals as friends .

16. Never value what you see on social media ,all na packaging .
17 . Avoid fake life ,distractions and dramas because it drains you.
18 . Have at least 2 source of income.
19. Be real and always keep your emotions in check.
Try to be patient ,take life easy . There is light at the end of the tunnel.

You forgot to add. Get a vasectomy if you know you are going to be a dine and dash father.

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Re: Word Of Advice For Young Boys Aged 19-28 by tochez24(m): 10:47am On Mar 07
Biggie225:


Am almost 30 ,and I which I had realised this earlier in life ,I would have gone very far in life.

It's never too late bro, you can start from somewhere!!!! Reset your priorities and hustle... Most people made money in their thirties my brother, some even in their forties. Ask around if you doubt me.

The main thing is that you reach your destination in life.... How long it took you doesn't really matter, once life dey hope dey plenty🙂

I'm 31 years old and I'm still grinding.... Giving up is a big SIN💀

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Re: Word Of Advice For Young Boys Aged 19-28 by Biggie225(m): 10:51am On Mar 07
tochez24:


It's never too late bro, you can start from somewhere!!!! Reset your priorities and hustle... Most people made money in their thirties my brother, some even in their forties. Ask around if you doubt me.

The main thing is that you reach your destination in life.... How long it took you doesn't really matter, once life dey hope dey plenty🙂

I'm 31 years old and I'm still grinding.... Giving up is a big SIN💀

Am on my hustle, Still grinding hard .
May God bless you and all guys out there .

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Re: Word Of Advice For Young Boys Aged 19-28 by tochez24(m): 11:00am On Mar 07
Biggie225:


Am on my hustle, Still grinding hard .
May God bless you and all guys out there .

Amen👏🏽

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Re: Word Of Advice For Young Boys Aged 19-28 by Dyfynezz12(m): 11:10am On Mar 07
Biggie225:


Am almost 30 ,and I which I had realised this earlier in life ,I would have gone very far in life.
It's not about u realising it,it's abt u not been able to put it action
Most ppl between 19-25 know all those things are essential for growth but doing it is the problem.
Just like young guys doing drugs or masturbation they know it ain't good but can't stop.

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Re: Word Of Advice For Young Boys Aged 19-28 by NPFLADMIN(m): 11:32am On Mar 07
Coincidentaly I'm 19.
Thanks for the advice.

But you see that source of income and that health consciousness, e no easy.

Since 2023, I've been looking something to do online but no result.

Amazon KDP, upwork, crypto, youtube, e.t.c

All to no avail.

Every single person I meet will tell me to bring capital.
Me wey no get nada.

Worse still, I'm to scared/shy to ask from others that even I hate it.

Na only NL you fit see me posting account number cause I don't know anyone in real life here.

I should have just learnt barbing late last year while waiting for admission but mumu me go waste chance.

And I always stress myself with treaking and thinking of the future, family issues and so on that I'm always tired at the end of the day.

currently preparing for Jamb

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Re: Word Of Advice For Young Boys Aged 19-28 by Biggie225(m): 11:43am On Mar 07
Dyfynezz12:

It's not about u realising it,it's abt u not been able to put it action
Most ppl between 19-25 know all those things are essential for growth but doing it is the problem.
Just like young guys doing drugs or masturbation they know it ain't good but can't stop.
At a point they lose focus due to societal/peer pressures . Self control and discipline which I listed above determines how far a man can go in life.
I realised that 2 years ago and it still pains me till today for not realizing it earlier in life.

A man without discipline and self control is like a ship floating on an ocean without a sailor/captain, With time it drowns.

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Re: Word Of Advice For Young Boys Aged 19-28 by Biggie225(m): 11:53am On Mar 07
NPFLADMIN:
Coincidentaly I'm 19.
Thanks for the advice.

But you see that source of income and that health consciousness, e no easy.

Since 2023, I've been looking something to do online but no result.

Amazon KDP, upwork, crypto, youtube, e.t.c

All to no avail.

Every single person I meet will tell me to bring capital.
Me wey no get nada.

Worse still, I'm to scared/shy to ask from others that even I hate it.

Na only NL you fit see me posting account number cause I don't know anyone in real life here.

I should have just learnt barbing late last year while waiting for admission but mumu me go waste chance.

And I always stress myself with treaking and thinking of the future, family issues and so on that I'm always tired at the end of the day.

currently preparing for Jamb

Abeg, anyone wey fit help me with something.

The starting point in a man's life is always difficult . All you need is to Focus on your goals, don't despair. No matter how hard it seems ,always be determined to succeed and never lose focus. Hustle very hard ,avoid distractions.
At the end you will definitely make it in life.

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Re: Word Of Advice For Young Boys Aged 19-28 by Olachase(m): 12:23pm On Mar 07
Biggie225:


Am almost 30 ,and I which I had realised this earlier in life ,I would have gone very far in life.
even if you realised this earlier you might not still go far, not a curse bro

The gods that set time are not stupid cool cool

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Re: Word Of Advice For Young Boys Aged 19-28 by UpTown001(m): 12:35pm On Mar 07
I'm 29 and I wish I never met women especially that favor girl, I was never favoured

, I wish I never got into gambling... It is well though.

I just got into Crypto trading , free minning of Crypto assets and investments. And it has been beautiful.
DM me if u want to be part.

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Re: Word Of Advice For Young Boys Aged 19-28 by tydi(m): 1:26pm On Mar 07
UpTown001:
I'm 29 and I wish I never met women especially that favor girl, I was never favoured

, I wish I never got into gambling... It is well though.

I just got into Crypto trading , free minning of Crypto assets and investments. And it has been beautiful.
DM me if u want to be part.

Hello Good afternoon
How do I contact you on WhatsApp?

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Re: Word Of Advice For Young Boys Aged 19-28 by jaszplus12(m): 1:47pm On Mar 07
Biggie225:


Am almost 30 ,and I which I had realised this earlier in life ,I would have gone very far in life.
One more lesson,
It's NEVER too late my brother...every dog has his day!!

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Re: Word Of Advice For Young Boys Aged 19-28 by jaszplus12(m): 1:48pm On Mar 07
Biggie225:


Am almost 30 ,and I which I had realised this earlier in life ,I would have gone very far in life.
Set your goals NOW that you've realized!

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Re: Word Of Advice For Young Boys Aged 19-28 by Biggie225(m): 2:22pm On Mar 07
jaszplus12:

Set your goals NOW that you've realized!

Sure ,am working on something bigger now.

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Re: Word Of Advice For Young Boys Aged 19-28 by jaszplus12(m): 2:42pm On Mar 07
Biggie225:


Sure ,am working on something bigger now.
More wind in your sails sir
Re: Word Of Advice For Young Boys Aged 19-28 by Ballzproblem2: 2:46pm On Mar 07
learn forex, crypto or stocks

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Re: Word Of Advice For Young Boys Aged 19-28 by Balablue64: 3:31pm On Mar 07
NPFLADMIN:
Coincidentaly I'm 19.
Thanks for the advice.

But you see that source of income and that health consciousness, e no easy.

Since 2023, I've been looking something to do online but no result.

Amazon KDP, upwork, crypto, youtube, e.t.c

All to no avail.

Every single person I meet will tell me to bring capital.
Me wey no get nada.

Worse still, I'm to scared/shy to ask from others that even I hate it.

Na only NL you fit see me posting account number cause I don't know anyone in real life here.

I should have just learnt barbing late last year while waiting for admission but mumu me go waste chance.

And I always stress myself with treaking and thinking of the future, family issues and so on that I'm always tired at the end of the day.

currently preparing for Jamb

Abeg, anyone wey fit help me with something.

The spirit of begging/scamming is in your blood.

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Re: Word Of Advice For Young Boys Aged 19-28 by NPFLADMIN(m): 3:45pm On Mar 07
Balablue64:

The spirit of begging/scamming is in your blood.
You think everyone here is a grown up?
Or should I snap my Jamb reg form to prove to you?

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Re: Word Of Advice For Young Boys Aged 19-28 by annayawchee: 3:50pm On Mar 07
Life doesn't have a specific manual.

The race is not to the swift, nor the battle to the strong, neither yet bread to the wise, nor yet riches to men of understanding, nor yet favour to men of skill; but time and chance happeneth to them all.

Eccl 9:11

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Re: Word Of Advice For Young Boys Aged 19-28 by NPFLADMIN(m): 7:18pm On Mar 07
UpTown001:
I'm 29 and I wish I never met women especially that favor girl, I was never favoured

, I wish I never got into gambling... It is well though.

I just got into Crypto trading , free minning of Crypto assets and investments. And it has been beautiful.
DM me if u want to be part.

how to contact you?
Re: Word Of Advice For Young Boys Aged 19-28 by Tharmon: 7:50pm On Mar 07
NPFLADMIN:


how to contact you?

Bro I'm 19 too. And the last thing I would do now is fall for scam.. things hard.. but I'm currently learning forex.. it the best decision we can ever make in our life.

Learn the basics from babypips. Com then go and YouTube and search inner circle trader ICT

Start studying

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Re: Word Of Advice For Young Boys Aged 19-28 by Tharmon: 7:51pm On Mar 07
Thanks for the advice... Really going to help me
Re: Word Of Advice For Young Boys Aged 19-28 by Tharmon: 7:56pm On Mar 07
[quote author=Biggie225 post=128818943]1.Hustle hard and be productive in life.
2.Always put yourself first.
3.Be health conscious because the body you abuse today might hunt you in future.
4.Avoid women/relationships and never invest in them.
5. Practice self control and cultivate self discipline.
6. Don't even worry about what others think of you ,you are what you think you are. Other people's opinion about you doesn't matter.
7. Stay low key ,avoid show off . It can destroy you.
8. Keep your source of income Secret.
9. Be grateful ,never compare yourself with others. Life na turn by turn .
10. Focus ,determination, courage and gaining knowledge brings success.
11. Surround yourself with friends that loves and uplifts you.
12. Put God first in everything you do.
13. Never succumb to societal pressure, because most many people lacks purpose in life.
13. Stay away from from people who doesn't value you and get close to one's that hold you at high esteem.
14.Abstain from sex or you can Use condoms ,HIV and STDs can destroy your life.
15. Know the friends you keep. Avoid keeping Criminals as friends .

16. Never value what you see on social media ,all na packaging .
17 . Avoid fake life ,distractions and dramas because it drains you.
18 . Have at least 2 source of income.
19. Be real and always keep your emotions in check.
Try to be patient ,take life easy . There is light at the end of the tunnel.

That number 9 is my biggest problem. Anytime I see my classmates or age mates then who now wear expensive dress looking all good and I'm looking like old me no change.. I get depressed

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Re: Word Of Advice For Young Boys Aged 19-28 by NPFLADMIN(m): 7:59pm On Mar 07
Tharmon:


Bro I'm 19 too. And the last thing I would do now is fall for scam.. things hard.. but I'm currently learning forex.. it the best decision we can ever make in our life.

Learn the basics from babypips. Com then go and YouTube and search inner circle trader ICT

Start studying

What exactly are you going to be doing in Forex?
Can you please give me a small detail?
Also does it require capital?
Re: Word Of Advice For Young Boys Aged 19-28 by NPFLADMIN(m): 8:23pm On Mar 07
Tharmon:




Watch this particular video on YouTube so you can know what forex is bro

Yes it requires capital.. but you don't need that now.. there are many funding companies out there for forex just learn first

Okay,
I'll check it out.
Are you still learning?
Re: Word Of Advice For Young Boys Aged 19-28 by Cassandraloius: 8:37pm On Mar 07
Assuming you're referring to those born and raised in abroad I for understand. Better pressure full this insane country we find ourselves.

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Re: Word Of Advice For Young Boys Aged 19-28 by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:09pm On Mar 07
you mean YOUNG ADULTS right? a 19yr old is certainly NOT a child any longer.

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Re: Word Of Advice For Young Boys Aged 19-28 by Edenogie: 11:53pm On Mar 07
Biggie225:


Am almost 30 ,and I which I had realised this earlier in life ,I would have gone very far in life.
are you married, do you have kids? If not, then count your self lucky.
When am 50 years old am still on my grind, he get why bross.

Most important as you invest, attend a spiritual church for prayers and protection, against spiritual attack.

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