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Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by BeautifulSolace(op): 8:07am On Mar 08, 2024

I've been dating my boyfriend since 2021, and he's a good person whom I trust because he doesn't hide anything from me. Last year, he traveled to Lagos, creating a long-distance relationship. Despite not having evidence of cheating and maintaining strong communication, I often worry that all men can't stay without sex.

Should I be worried?"

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Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by immortalcrown(m): 8:09am On Mar 08, 2024

BeautifulSolace:
I often worry that all men can't stay without sex.

Why? What makes you think a man cannot stay without sex?

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Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by Dexy4yah(m): 8:11am On Mar 08, 2024

Distance relationship!!

Truth be told.....He's definitely going to cheat...that's if he has not started it already.

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Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by Mackrel001: 8:19am On Mar 08, 2024

BeautifulSolace:
I've been dating my boyfriend since 2021, and he's a good person whom I trust because he doesn't hide anything from me. Last year, he traveled to Lagos, creating a long-distance relationship. Despite not having evidence of cheating and maintaining strong communication, I often worry that all men can't stay without sex.

Should I be worried?"

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Your dream dey tell you say him dey cheat, dey play

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Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by BeautifulSolace(op): 8:22am On Mar 08, 2024

immortalcrown:
Why? What makes you think a man cannot stay without sex?

Don't know, maybe because of some videos and stuffs I read online.

Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by BeautifulSolace(op): 8:24am On Mar 08, 2024

Dexy4yah:
Distance relationship!!

Truth be told.....He's definitely going to cheat...that's if he has not started it already.

So you are telling me there's no man that can't do without sex ?

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Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by immortalcrown(m): 8:26am On Mar 08, 2024

BeautifulSolace:
Don't know, maybe because of some videos and stuffs I read online.

Do you think all humans are the same?

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Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by santaclaws: 8:35am On Mar 08, 2024

immortalcrown:
Why? What makes you think a man cannot stay without sex?

I really don't blame her... Perhaps she's speaking of her own boyfriend. Maybe the guy is a sex addict.

A lot of men who are working and focusing on their lives don't even have time for relationships and sex, especially in a city like Lagos where everything is about money and time...

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Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by Dexy4yah(m): 8:40am On Mar 08, 2024

BeautifulSolace:
So you are telling me there's no man that can't do without sex ?

There are men that can do without sex...but they're just 2% out of 100%
If your guy is one of them then you are lucky.

For your own peace of mind...What you should do is to zero your mind about him cheating or not...since you are not in Lagos with him.

since your communication with him is still strong just forget that cheating stuff.

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Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by BareFacedLies(m): 8:51am On Mar 08, 2024

BeautifulSolace:
I've been dating my boyfriend since 2021, and he's a good person whom I trust because he doesn't hide anything from me. Last year, he traveled to Lagos, creating a long-distance relationship. Despite not having evidence of cheating and maintaining strong communication, I often worry that all men can't stay without sex.

Should I be worried?"

What's so special about your pússy that would keep him from tasting other ladies?

Your boyfriend's economic status has likely improved meaning that he now has more options.

It is only broke guys that stay glued to the same pússy for a long time grin

This does not mean that he no longer loves you though

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Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by BeautifulSolace(op): 8:54am On Mar 08, 2024

BareFacedLies:
What's so special about your pússy that would keep him from tasting other ladies?

Your boyfriend's economic status has likely improved meaning that he now has more options.

It is only broke guys that stay glued to the same pússy for a long time

This does not mean that he no longer loves you though

Lol.

I didn't say there's anything special about me. I just asked a question for clarification.

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Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by BeautifulSolace(op): 8:55am On Mar 08, 2024

Dexy4yah:
There are men that can do without sex...but they're just 2% out of 100%
If your guy is one of them then you are lucky.

For your own peace of mind...What you should do is to zero your mind about him cheating or not...since you are not in Lagos with him.

since your communication with him is still strong just forget that cheating stuff.

I've been trying to do this but its way difficult than I imagined.

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Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by Sonnobax15(m): 11:14am On Mar 08, 2024

Op,who told you men can't do without sexxx?

Don't let your imaginations ruin your beautiful relationship...... Unless you've been noticing some signs of him cheating...........

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Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by Johnwrite(m): 11:18am On Mar 08, 2024

They should be trust in any relationship

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Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by scoobyblogspot(m): 11:29am On Mar 08, 2024

yes

Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by simplepee(f): 11:29am On Mar 08, 2024

Yes you should but don’t be.

I have learnt that as long as you are not married to a man or planning towards that direction, don’t invest too much emotions, be open minded and you will live a happier life as a single lady.

Don’t weigh yourself down with overthinking, just allow things flow natural.

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Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by money121(m): 11:29am On Mar 08, 2024

Na scam

Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by omoadeleye(m): 11:29am On Mar 08, 2024

All women too can't stay without sex.

You are using your own mind to conclude on his

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Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by Pitssbull: 11:30am On Mar 08, 2024

No just be vigilant

Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by Praktikals1000: 11:30am On Mar 08, 2024

He should be worried.

Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by Olumaeme: 11:30am On Mar 08, 2024

Him having other girls should be the least of your worries because, even if you start in the same house, he'll still go out once in a while.

What you should be worried about is if he still cares and communicate with you very well.

Not that I'm encouraging cheating, but the fact has to be established.

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Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by free2ryhme: 11:30am On Mar 08, 2024

BeautifulSolace:
I've been dating my boyfriend since 2021, and he's a good person whom I trust because he doesn't hide anything from me. Last year, he traveled to Lagos, creating a long-distance relationship. Despite not having evidence of cheating and maintaining strong communication, I often worry that all men can't stay without sex.

Should I be worried?"

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Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by Tallesty1(m): 11:31am On Mar 08, 2024

BeautifulSolace:
I've been dating my boyfriend since 2021, and he's a good person whom I trust because he doesn't hide anything from me. Last year, he traveled to Lagos, creating a long-distance relationship. Despite not having evidence of cheating and maintaining strong communication, I often worry that all men can't stay without sex.

Should I be worried?"

What an ignorant thing to say

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Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by handsomeyinka(m): 11:31am On Mar 08, 2024

If you can trust yourself to stay without sex,then just keep the faith in him.

Sex isn't the main priority in a relationship,but if you feel that you missing him,try to talk things out with him probably a trip to lagos and spend some days with him.

Y'all know yourselves better than we do.

Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by simplepee(f): 11:31am On Mar 08, 2024

BeautifulSolace:
Lol.

I didn't say there's anything special about me. I just asked a question for clarification.

Don’t mind that empty gallon. My darling there is something special about you.

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Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by Sonnobax15(m): 11:31am On Mar 08, 2024

Dexy4yah:
Distance relationship!!

Truth be told.....He's definitely going to cheat...that's if he has not started it already.

who told you so? Not all men are dogs .

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Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by JustPowerApps(m): 11:32am On Mar 08, 2024

Are you contemplating cheating on him? cool

Tell us another man is already in your DM, half information births half advice

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Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by Nobody: 11:33am On Mar 08, 2024

BeautifulSolace:
Don't know, maybe because of some videos and stuffs I read online.

U better stop polluting ur mind. Me that loves sex very much if I tell u how many months I dey go now without sex some will say I'm lying. Even with all the hard erection every morning and strong urges I still dey comot mind. Stop looking for what's not there. Make u nor go take ur hand spoil ur happiness

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Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by winner37(m): 11:33am On Mar 08, 2024

BeautifulSolace:
I've been dating my boyfriend since 2021, and he's a good person whom I trust because he doesn't hide anything from me. Last year, he traveled to Lagos, creating a long-distance relationship. Despite not having evidence of cheating and maintaining strong communication, I often worry that all men can't stay without sex.

Should I be worried?"

Aunty hold your breathe ..
Have being in long distance relationship since 2017 till now, for me if a guy genuinely loves you no matter how he's cheating he will put you first..
I bet you,if that guys stay in Lagos for two years you will have another boyfriend even when that guy is not cheating..

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Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by Bomberman(m): 11:33am On Mar 08, 2024

Long distance relationship is Avenue for 2 people to fool themselves..i am currently facing same issues..i live in Benin and my girlfriend just moved to delta..i told her i can't do long distance relationship...i told her i must definitely cheat on her,and she might or will cheat on me too..na blood dey run through our veins..relationship when 2 people dey same house, e nodey clear finish finish talkless of different states own..to me,its a no no

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Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by DenreleDave(m): 11:34am On Mar 08, 2024

i have tried many..... na me dey waste money bcox i am too nice..

i give up on long distance ojare

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