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Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by Patojargz: 12:02pm On Mar 08
If your bf no get plans of you coming to stay with him then forget it... Otilo

Em go dey shine congo wetin no good cos daughters of Jezebel plenty out there wey no need em funds sef just for d fun based on how em levels dey...
Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by CrystalMax: 12:03pm On Mar 08
BeautifulSolace:
I've been dating my boyfriend since 2021, and he's a good person whom I trust because he doesn't hide anything from me. Last year, he traveled to Lagos, creating a long-distance relationship. Despite not having evidence of cheating and maintaining strong communication, I often worry that all men can't stay without sex.

Should I be worried?"
I am a guy and I was in a long distance relationship with a lady for about 2years and I never cheated. I was true to her even when I doubted hers. Loyal guys exists.

Sis, if you are sure that he is loyal to you, kill the doubts! Loyal guys exist, yes we do!
I hope you'd stay loyal too while you guys work on getting married.
Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by SirLakes: 12:04pm On Mar 08
You nko?

Will you cheat?
Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by seanery: 12:05pm On Mar 08
1Month and counting..., i have not near my wife 1month till today.
So, yes some men dey wey no dey freaked with sex.

Just leave him be to focus on what he went there for acheiving.

Dont divert his attention.
Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by AMI3(m): 12:06pm On Mar 08
Jewessgratitud3:

Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by princefunm: 12:09pm On Mar 08
BeautifulSolace:
I've been dating my boyfriend since 2021, and he's a good person whom I trust because he doesn't hide anything from me. Last year, he traveled to Lagos, creating a long-distance relationship. Despite not having evidence of cheating and maintaining strong communication, I often worry that all men can't stay without sex.

Should I be worried?"

The real question is, since your boyfriend moved last year, have you found a sex plug? Have you had sex with someone, not your boyfriend?

That is the only reason why you would be asking this question. If e do you like that, enter bus go meet am na.

Ladies who ask this type of question are merely seeking validation for what they have done or are about to do.
Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by manduwem(m): 12:09pm On Mar 08
If you don't have a very thick liver, don't engage in long distance relationship.
The way your BP can be rising any how will be like magic
(My personal opinion tho)
Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by Zealoy(m): 12:10pm On Mar 08
santaclaws:


I really don't blame her... Perhaps she's speaking of her own boyfriend. Maybe the guy is a sex addict.

A lot of men who are working and focusing on their lives don't even have time for relationships and sex, especially in a city like Lagos where everything is about money and time...
U are very correct sir, i use to love having sex infact i use to have multiple sexual partners but honestly since i moved to Lagos with hustling and stuff, wen i hardly think about sex or even find the urge anymore
Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by Dickcap: 12:10pm On Mar 08
It will later end in tears.
Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by Kingrshd3: 12:13pm On Mar 08
BeautifulSolace:
I've been dating my boyfriend since 2021, and he's a good person whom I trust because he doesn't hide anything from me. Last year, he traveled to Lagos, creating a long-distance relationship. Despite not having evidence of cheating and maintaining strong communication, I often worry that all men can't stay without sex.

Should I be worried?"

He will cheat but that doesn't stop you from marrying him as long as he is ur spec because it actually rains everywhere or if u claim is not just know that is because d secret has not been revealed or disclosed
Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by Negroid001(m): 12:15pm On Mar 08
BeautifulSolace:


Don't know, maybe because of some videos and stuffs I read online.

Tbh with you. Long distance relationship has never worked for me. I know what I'm capable of. I've done so much mischief that I can't trust anyone again. That's for me.

At the same time, i have several friends that can never cheat on their woman. It's a choice, we're not the same.

Do you know your man well?
If there's any bit of doubt, you should end it, if your instincts warns he's cheating, then he is.

Your sanity and self worth should come first
Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by seguno2: 12:18pm On Mar 08
BeautifulSolace:
I've been dating my boyfriend since 2021, and he's a good person whom I trust because he doesn't hide anything from me. Last year, he traveled to Lagos, creating a long-distance relationship. Despite not having evidence of cheating and maintaining strong communication, I often worry that all men can't stay without sex.

Should I be worried?"

How frequently were you having sex before he left for Lagos

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Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by ambale(m): 12:18pm On Mar 08
Man and woman dey sleep for same house and things still dey happen for that house

If you trust your guy even if he far pass dar won, just hold on to him
Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by ufotunang: 12:19pm On Mar 08
BeautifulSolace:
I've been dating my boyfriend since 2021, and he's a good person whom I trust because he doesn't hide anything from me. Last year, he traveled to Lagos, creating a long-distance relationship. Despite not having evidence of cheating and maintaining strong communication, I often worry that all men can't stay without sex.

Should I be worried?"
...body no be firewood...it's hard nowadays for boys and girls to discipline themselves and control their sexual urge with a lot of temptations out there....many girls dressing half naked, seducing guys
Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by dkidd: 12:20pm On Mar 08
Bomberman:
Long distance relationship is Avenue for 2 people to fool themselves..i am currently facing same issues..i live in Benin and my girlfriend just moved to delta..i told her i can't do long distance relationship...i told her i must definitely cheat on her,and she might or will cheat on me too..na blood dey run through our veins..relationship when 2 people dey same house, e nodey clear finish finish talkless of different states own..to me,its a no no
U wicked o Benin to Delta when be backyard to front yard na u dey call long? Less than 2 hours drive.

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Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by inforesource: 12:20pm On Mar 08
BeautifulSolace:
I've been dating my boyfriend since 2021, and he's a good person whom I trust because he doesn't hide anything from me. Last year, he traveled to Lagos, creating a long-distance relationship. Despite not having evidence of cheating and maintaining strong communication, I often worry that all men can't stay without sex.

Should I be worried?"
If it is a boyfriend/girlfriend level= 50/50

Married couples struggles with this not to talk of friends. Don't put all your hope on it. If it turns out well, fine, if not fine.
Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by Lexusgs430: 12:21pm On Mar 08
BeautifulSolace:
I've been dating my boyfriend since 2021, and he's a good person whom I trust because he doesn't hide anything from me. Last year, he traveled to Lagos, creating a long-distance relationship. Despite not having evidence of cheating and maintaining strong communication, I often worry that all men can't stay without sex.

Should I be worried?"


Travelled to Lagos, from where ......... Why can't you visit him ......

This your long distance relationship, might not be that long .........

If suleiman could cheat, cheating is simply second nature........😁😜
Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by ufotunang: 12:21pm On Mar 08
Even in a close tight relationship lovers still cheat on themselves...let alone long distance relationship ?
Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by Anashe: 12:24pm On Mar 08
BeautifulSolace:
I've been dating my boyfriend since 2021, and he's a good person whom I trust because he doesn't hide anything from me. Last year, he traveled to Lagos, creating a long-distance relationship. Despite not having evidence of cheating and maintaining strong communication, I often worry that all men can't stay without sex.

Should I be worried?"

Colossal mistake. Stop bringing things like this to Nairaland. I'll tell you this for free though, don't bank on him staying faithful. It's completely normal to have doubts. I've read the demeaning comments and questions you're being asked. It's not about you, it's about them (men). For your sanity, ignore them?
Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by Salubata(m): 12:24pm On Mar 08
I've seen your post using abusive word twice today..
Very unusual of you.
What happened
simplepee:
Don’t mind that empty gallon. My darling there is something special about you.
Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by ufotunang: 12:28pm On Mar 08
BeautifulSolace:
I've been dating my boyfriend since 2021, and he's a good person whom I trust because he doesn't hide anything from me. Last year, he traveled to Lagos, creating a long-distance relationship. Despite not having evidence of cheating and maintaining strong communication, I often worry that all men can't stay without sex.

Should I be worried?"
...they are some couples married that are in long distance marriage that cheat on each other... then let alone boyfriend and girlfriend relationship
Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by killsmith(f): 12:28pm On Mar 08
You only have power over yourself. Over your own freewill. Hoping for your partners freewill to conform to your petty expectations is simply setting yourself up for breakfast.
Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by ExtraIncomes: 12:29pm On Mar 08
BeautifulSolace:
I've been dating my boyfriend since 2021, and he's a good person whom I trust because he doesn't hide anything from me. Last year, he traveled to Lagos, creating a long-distance relationship. Despite not having evidence of cheating and maintaining strong communication, I often worry that all men can't stay without sex.

Should I be worried?"


Your Worry is False.
Many Men Can Stay Without Having Sex With Other Women. It All Depends On Your Soul Connection With His.

And Your Worrisome Mind Has The Supernatural Power To Make Your Worries Happen.


So, Start A Mind Therapy To Changing Your Worries.


There Are More Productive Things About Self Improvement To Fill Your Minds With.

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Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by salem1996: 12:30pm On Mar 08
BeautifulSolace:
I've been dating my boyfriend since 2021, and he's a good person whom I trust because he doesn't hide anything from me. Last year, he traveled to Lagos, creating a long-distance relationship. Despite not having evidence of cheating and maintaining strong communication, I often worry that all men can't stay without sex.

Should I be worried?"

Have you been engaging in sexual activities while he was with you before leaving?
Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by Ucheclaw(m): 12:31pm On Mar 08
BeautifulSolace:
I've been dating my boyfriend since 2021, and he's a good person whom I trust because he doesn't hide anything from me. Last year, he traveled to Lagos, creating a long-distance relationship. Despite not having evidence of cheating and maintaining strong communication, I often worry that all men can't stay without sex.

Should I be worried?"

Lol, I'm doing a long distance, I'm not cheating! Never have, never will! It's all about commitment and what I've decided to do. Until he has given you a reason not to, trust and support him! Most importantly, don't put such thoughts in his head
Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by netmillionaires(m): 12:32pm On Mar 08
All men can't stay without sex. Mada, the last time I had sex was in July 2017. How about that.



BeautifulSolace:
I've been dating my boyfriend since 2021, and he's a good person whom I trust because he doesn't hide anything from me. Last year, he traveled to Lagos, creating a long-distance relationship. Despite not having evidence of cheating and maintaining strong communication, I often worry that all men can't stay without sex.

Should I be worried?"
Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by BeautifulSolace(f): 12:39pm On Mar 08
Ucheclaw:


Lol, I'm doing a long distance, I'm not cheating! Never have, never will! It's all about commitment and what I've decided to do. Until he has given you a reason not to, trust and support him! Most importantly, don't put such thoughts in his head

I will work on it.

Thanks
Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by demoBaba: 12:40pm On Mar 08
BeautifulSolace:
I've been dating my boyfriend since 2021, and he's a good person whom I trust because he doesn't hide anything from me. Last year, he traveled to Lagos, creating a long-distance relationship. Despite not having evidence of cheating and maintaining strong communication, I often worry that all men can't stay without sex.

Should I be worried?"

But if this your guy stay in Canada it's not long distance relationship. Lagos is long relationship dey play.
Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by MrNipplesLover(m): 12:41pm On Mar 08
A man fit dey fvck different pussies outside the relationship and ur relationship will still remain strong as normal...

A man cheating does not mean he doesn't love his woman no more...

Someone like me, u will never know that I'm a bad guy with my looks, u go trust me more than ur pastor if u see me and befriend me, whereas, I'm a chronic pussies fvcker...

So, if he does not change his ways as when u guys we're close, u're good...

Forget whether he's fvcking another girl outside, we guys, if we fvcking another girl apart from our main chick, we're just doing it for pleasure sake, make we release some steams...

It changes nothing...
Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by Rumundele(m): 12:44pm On Mar 08
yewit37486:


Shey na router or broadband you dey talk about so? cheesy
E pass o my brother
Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by November24(f): 12:46pm On Mar 08
BeautifulSolace:
I've been dating my boyfriend since 2021, and he's a good person whom I trust because he doesn't hide anything from me. Last year, he traveled to Lagos, creating a long-distance relationship. Despite not having evidence of cheating and maintaining strong communication, I often worry that all men can't stay without sex.

Should I be worried?"

Premarital sex is a sin
Rubbish post
Re: Long Distance Relationship; Should I Be Worried? by Trustedpronet: 12:54pm On Mar 08
Both distance and close relationship if there is no money the vibes will not catch fire.

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