Westerhoffe:
I have write up on this topic.

I want to see it.

Michael547:

Does Pastor Chris agree that a born again Christian can marry more than one wife?

you will have to ask him to know. Sorry, I can't helo you there!

Babaibeji2020:

Beautiful.....
Whatever rocks your boat.

Glad it sits well with you!

Negroid001:
Pastor Chris was not born again when he sent his own wife away.

Oooh, i see...

Shallow comments everywhere...

Pastor chris did not divorce his wife, his wife divorced him.

These are two different things.

otherway:


Shallow comments everywhere...

Pastor chris did not divorce his wife, his wife divorced him.

These are two different things.

How is it a different thing?
No be him choose the wife himself with useless revelation say na God pick am.

Why did she divorce him? What did he do?
What sane woman would divorce a man of God for no reasonable reason?

MiddleDimension:
When asked by someone im.South Africa if he should send any of his wives away, because he is now born again, Oyakhilome said no, he should not do that.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6SAL-4G_cwY&t=3s

Oyaks that his marriage did not work doesn't exactly have justifications to talk much about marriage. BTW, he asked that the person(s) should ask their pastor.

Clearly, no serious christain will have more than one wife or one husband. The clear and perfect will of God is male and female, not male and male, or female and female, or male and females, or males and female, or males and females. Any of these categories that become born again ought to do proper restitution.
Also, clearly, they cannot or should not be workers in church.
Asides the many problems that follow polygamy that your pastor trifled with as merely explaining to many people, what we can agree on is that it has nothing to do with eternal destination. In other words, you're not going to hell for polygamy. But that doesn't justify it or say you should not make amends if in the wrong. Even OT kings and priests were not supposed to practice polygamy, not to mention NT where every believer is supposed to be a king and priest in a sense, asides being deacons and bishops.
i guess your pastor would have taught the Samaritan woman not to leave her 6th husband, but explain to people that it was done before she believed. Like i said earlier, just leave these marriage things to Bible and godly preachers without failed marriages. He can focus on other things.

MiddleDimension:
When asked by someone im.South Africa if he should send any of his wives away, because he is now born again, Oyakhilome said no, he should not do that.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6SAL-4G_cwY&t=3s

Finally we are hearing the truth from Bold pastors.

I wrote extensively on this polygamy issue but i dont know why the mods did not beam the thread.

Most of my threads are usually very very thought provoking and shouldn't be left unnoticed.

https://www.nairaland.com/4303658/dont-deceived-polygamy-not-sin

Maybe lalasticlala and mynd44 should beam it as a build up to this particular thread.

MiddleDimension:


you will have to ask him to know. Sorry, I can't helo you there!

You are not sincere with yourself If you don't care to know if pastor Chris agrees on a Christian marrying more than one wife.
Because the answer to that question would expose your logic on whether his teaching is right for a born again to be with two wives.

Offpoint1:

A second wife is still "1 woman, she's not 2 persons"

You guys will quote the verses that suit your western indoctrination... Explain to me what you understand by neither shall he "greatly multiply to himself SILVER AND GOLD"

Genesis 2:24
[24]Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.

A man shall cleave to his wife.....NOT WIVES.
Hope you get it.


Don't multiply silver and Gold simply means to be contented with whatsoever you have.

Ance4Liverpool:
Oyahkilome should keep quiet, where is his own wife?

Why are you agitated? I am not a fan of Nigerian Pastors and the way they take advantage of their herd. But what Oyahkilome said here is correct.

DavidEsq:

On what do u base your opinion?

I am responding basically because I saw ''Esq'' in your monicker. This means debating with you should be better than debatting with these people we are so unfortunate to have on this forum.

I want you to go to the very start of this discussion and look through all my posts, you will know what I based my conclusions on. Going back to begin to recount it here, will take so much time which is unnecessary for me now.

If you have any problem with what you see there, please let me know. and I will respond as honestly as possible in line with the highest knoweldge available to me on the topic.

If, after going through it, you have a better position with superior facts and arguements, arguements that are supposed to be given to you by an all-wise holy spirit if you are a christian, then I would like you to present it and show that they are superior to the ones given herein as I am truth- oriented, and more than willing to learn the truth of the matter! Of what use is falsehood to me? If I were not truth oriented when I went fact-finding about this issue, how then did I find out all these things which the mainstream, including pastors and their fans we have on here, find so difficult to debunk? Is it difficult for the Holy Ghost to debunk lies? How can I, a agent of darkness spreading like, like they all call me, be winning against them who think they are presenting light?

PointZerom:

Genesis 2:24
[24]Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.

A man shall cleave to his wife.....NOT WIVES.
Hope you get it.

Don't multiply silver and Gold simply means to be contented with whatsoever you have.

I hope you will have the same energy when they show u some verses of the Bible, and you wont come here to say laws of Moses is different from law of Jesus

Matthew 10 vs 34-36
1Samuel 18 vs 20-27
Number 31 vs 17
Deuteronòmy 21 vs 18-21

The earlier you guys realize there is God, there is religion and they are different. Religion is just an means to serve God, and there are multiple means to serve God. Each religion designed by human beings, who are/were not God, and as much bound to make mistakes. The Bible is the book that guides Christianity and it was written by human beings who can make mistakes too.

My Point: every portion of the Bible is an opinion of human being on how we should live and all of that. So you using the Bible to demonize polygamy is not valid

ufotunang:
....ok but is the bible against a Christian to marry more than one wife...I am just asking

Simole answer? No!

Infact, he blesses it!

MiddleDimension:


That'a not the issue at hand. The issue is that it is not only wrong, but ungodly to put aside any of your wives because you claim you are now born again.

The bible never said that, christians ahould aeriously ask themselves where they got that idea from that a man should out aside one of his wives if he become born again.

Is it not a sin to do what God has not tod you to do? why christians accept to teach that falsehood is what is beyond me.

If you disagree with Oyakhilome, then put forward your arguement and show that they are superior to his. That is fair enough, right?

ZIONIST ARE NOT BORN LATER OR BORN AGAIN AS YOU SAID, ONLY AFRICAN BLACK FOOLS THINK OF BORN AGAIN 🦍

Negroid001:


It is well sha. I've seen perfect marriages crash. People that i look up to oo

it's life bro .. one what works in one marriage it's exactly the same thing that will end another marriage... I have seen supposedly crazy couples last long in marriage while you see supposedly sane couples divorce...

MiddleDimension:


There is no evidence he cheated on Anita. Also, he was not accused of infidelity.

But isn't it ironic that christians, a people who believe divorce is anathema, should now advocate that a man divorces any of his wives because he became 'born again'? #Think

why are you defending Chris?
Or is this Chris in disguise?

I believe you are a Christian, please support your argument with Bible verses

MiddleDimension:


That'a not the issue at hand. The issue is that it is not only wrong, but ungodly to put aside any of your wives because you claim you are now born again.

The bible never said that, christians ahould aeriously ask themselves where they got that idea from that a man should out aside one of his wives if he become born again.

Is it not a sin to do what God has not tod you to do? why christians accept to teach that falsehood is what is beyond me.

If you disagree with Oyakhilome, then put forward your arguement and show that they are superior to his. That is fair enough, right?

betonnaira:
but d bible also said dont marry from an unholy community, just like what solomon started doing

Is the issue at hand that of which community you are to marry or mot to marry from?

Stay of the topic!

SmellingAnus:
it's life bro .. one what works in one marriage it's exactly the same thing that will end another marriage... I have seen supposedly crazy couples last long in marriage while you see supposedly sane couples divorce...

Swears bro

kingxsamz:


Okay, but where is his wife though?

I can't answer that as I have never met the wife nor do I have her contact

betonnaira:
but d bible also said dont marry from an unholy community, just like what solomon started doing

porn.star dey follow comment for Christianity matter

Truvelisback:
David did, Jacob did, Esau did and others. Yes, the Bible talked about one wife but in a situation a man marries more than one, he isn't permitted to divorce.

If the bible says one wife and you disobey and marry more, how do you correct the error?

MiddleDimension:


Simole answer? No!

Infact, he blesses it!

you mean God accepts polygamy?
As a christian I can marry more than one wife?

Michael547:

You are not sincere with yourself If you don't care to know if pastor Chris agrees on a Christian marrying more than one wife.
Because the answer to that question would expose your logic on whether his teaching is right for a born again to be with two wives.

How can I know if Oyakhilome things Christians can or cannot have more than when he has not come out to air his opinion on that! I don't know becausr I am not him! and he has not come out to say anything about that!

Just like you, the only means I have to know what Oyakhilome thinks on specific issues is if he comes ourlt and says something about those issues, like he has come out to have his say on the issue of whether or not a man should out aside any of his wives if he becomes a christian.

I do not have a back door access to him; so, if he does not cone out to say what he thinks about a thing, then there is no way I can know.

And if you want to know what he thinks about whether or not polygamy is christian, then you have to schedule an interview with him and ask him!

Delightsome2023:
you mean God accepts polygamy?
As a christian I can marry more than one wife?

Absolutely!

MiddleDimension:


he CAN BE A PREACHER AND ALSO A BISHOP!

1 Timothy 3:2
A bishop then must be blameless, the husband of one wife, vigilant, sober, of good behaviour, given to hospitality, apt to teach;

MiddleDimension:


There is no evidence he cheated on Anita. Also, he was not accused of infidelity.

But isn't it ironic that christians, a people who believe divorce is anathema, should now advocate that a man divorces any of his wives because he became 'born again'? #Think

Can pastor Chris swear with his life that since he divorced, he never nak any woman.

Who is pastor Chris fvking? Or is he impotent?
That guy is definitely shagging different girls in secret. And na them dey do abortion pass

Image123:


Oyaks that his marriage did not work doesn't exactly have justifications to talk much about marriage. BTW, he asked that the person(s) should ask their pastor.

Clearly, no serious christain will have more than one wife or one husband. The clear and perfect will of God is male and female, not male and male, or female and female, or male and females, or males and female, or males and females. Any of these categories that become born again ought to do proper restitution.
Also, clearly, they cannot or should not be workers in church.
Asides the many problems that follow polygamy that your pastor trifled with as merely explaining to many people, what we can agree on is that it has nothing to do with eternal destination. In other words, you're not going to hell for polygamy. But that doesn't justify it or say you should not make amends if in the wrong. Even OT kings and priests were not supposed to practice polygamy, not to mention NT where every believer is supposed to be a king and priest in a sense, asides being deacons and bishops.
i guess your pastor would have taught the Samaritan woman not to leave her 6th husband, but explain to people that it was done before she believed. Like i said earlier, just leave these marriage things to Bible and godly preachers without failed marriages. He can focus on other things.

As long as you have passed through a road before, you have every good reason to give advise based on your experience on that road.

You guys should stop thinking in a shallow manner.

And please go read my write up on this issue and be enlightened.

https://www.nairaland.com/4303658/opinion-dont-deceived-polygamy-not#64403042

Omoawoke:


Can pastor Chris swear with his life that since he divorced, he never nak any woman.

Who is pastor Chris fvking? Or is he impotent?
That guy is definitely shagging different girls in secret. And na them dey do abortion pass

Leave that to GOD to judge.

If you married them legally by tradition.
If they already have children for you .
If they are pregnant for you.
If they want to stay with you.

MiddleDimension:


Glad it sits well with you!

Sit well with me...don't get?
You might as well be a worshipper of Putin, makes no difference on the inflation index in Nigeria,thank you!

MiddleDimension:
When asked by someone im.South Africa if he should send any of his wives away, because he is now born again, Oyakhilome said no, he should not do that.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6SAL-4G_cwY&t=3s

But where is his own wife?