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Re: Once You Hear People Say, "His Wife Is Controlling Him" That Home Is Peaceful by Offpoint1: 2:30pm On Mar 13 |
Dude na confirm simp by even telling you... 5 Likes |
Re: Once You Hear People Say, "His Wife Is Controlling Him" That Home Is Peaceful by Greystone: 2:32pm On Mar 13 |
Acidosis: "Peace comes at a Price" Truer words were never spoken 👏🏽 3 Likes |
Re: Once You Hear People Say, "His Wife Is Controlling Him" That Home Is Peaceful by decomposer(m): 2:34pm On Mar 13 |
This is also same reason why Nigeria is not peaceful because they not giving woman a chance with them at the top. |
Re: Once You Hear People Say, "His Wife Is Controlling Him" That Home Is Peaceful by Hafeexla(m): 2:35pm On Mar 13 |
With the way OP posted and was responding, you will realized she truly control the home. As long as I love independent woman but not to simp level. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Once You Hear People Say, "His Wife Is Controlling Him" That Home Is Peaceful by Tetraozonaitera: 2:36pm On Mar 13 |
RevenuesBoost: Look Deep inside of you and be sincere to yourself. There are many decisions you guys made that you were the one that initiated them. Just be sincere. And there are many suggestions of your husband that you did not subscribe to and he didn't fight you for it. You see, I am married and all my friends and brothers are married as well so, I know what I am saying. 99.9℅ of women always want all their suggestions implemented and the same percentage don't always agree with their husband's suggestions. When you see a woman conplain bitterly about how unloving the husband is. The husband is the type who stands his ground on decisions. It was wrong for the guy to poke his nose in your family affairs though, but truly, MOST PEACEFUL HOMES ARE THE ONES THE HUSBAND ALLOWS THE WIFE TO HAVE HER WAYS MOST OF THE TIME. Just to avoid problems. TRUTH IS VERY BITTER 5 Likes |
Re: Once You Hear People Say, "His Wife Is Controlling Him" That Home Is Peaceful by omoyagba: 2:36pm On Mar 13 |
No man should allow his wife control him to a point people see you as weak or your wife as controlling. A man ought to be the leader of the home and that ought not to be in doubt. Firstly, if he dies before the wife, the family will show her shege. Therefore if you refuse a request from your family, leave no one in doubt that you are the one refusing them. Secondly if your wife destroys all your other relationships and you are left alone with her, she will show you shege knowing you have no other person to turn to. 8 Likes |
Re: Once You Hear People Say, "His Wife Is Controlling Him" That Home Is Peaceful by Angelfrost(m): 2:37pm On Mar 13 |
pocohantas: My sister, not vexing jare... I see that a lot these days among internet users, and I just can't get used to the censoring of everything. This generation is irritating and unnecessarily hyper-sensitive about everything! That was how one typed 'God' and 'Jesus' as 'g-d' and 'J*s*s'. Another one typed h8 (Hate). Like wtf??! |
Re: Once You Hear People Say, "His Wife Is Controlling Him" That Home Is Peaceful by Lovit(m): 2:41pm On Mar 13 |
Not true! Peace comes when couples learn to ignore most of their partners errors and misbehaviors, either one or both of them, It goes either way. You can't control a man who is not willing, what people see as control is a man who has decided that he will just ignore the mis-behaviors of his wife just for peace to reign. Once in a while he may shout and take actions but he is matured enough to know that people don't change in marriages, you only manage them. However make sure before you enter marriage that you can manage those red flags of your spouse, if you can't please get a more compatible person. 1 Like |
Re: Once You Hear People Say, "His Wife Is Controlling Him" That Home Is Peaceful by oluxy(m): 2:42pm On Mar 13 |
RevenuesBoost: Hahahahahah! You are right. People always says, my sister controls her husband that she has given him vegetables. From distance, I always laff. This man house is peaceful, he's jovial, easy to let go, he's simple. He no send problem...... Playful with his wife even in public..... People come dey say, she don give am vegetables 2 Likes |
Re: Once You Hear People Say, "His Wife Is Controlling Him" That Home Is Peaceful by delishpot: 2:42pm On Mar 13 |
Myth. Not in all cases 2 Likes |
Re: Once You Hear People Say, "His Wife Is Controlling Him" That Home Is Peaceful by ObidenceNeckpre: 2:42pm On Mar 13 |
You are wrong bros, its not a cast in stone, we do have graveyard peace in home. 1 Like |
Re: Once You Hear People Say, "His Wife Is Controlling Him" That Home Is Peaceful by EreluRoz: 2:43pm On Mar 13 |
Acidosis:No relationship/marriage can work without being foolish and stupid for each other. The moment you bring mathematics into your relationship/marriage then get ready for the worst. 1 Like |
Re: Once You Hear People Say, "His Wife Is Controlling Him" That Home Is Peaceful by Raylight2(m): 2:43pm On Mar 13 |
RevenuesBoost: From this post, you are controlling your husband and he has accepted that and that makes your home peaceful and you actually enjoy it. That pick-up guy must have seen something awkward that made him make that statement. In my own point of view, I think you should jointly reach a conclusion. Not force decisions and conclusions down your man's throat. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Once You Hear People Say, "His Wife Is Controlling Him" That Home Is Peaceful by socialmediaman: 2:44pm On Mar 13 |
RevenuesBoost: A home can be peaceful but not stable especially if a man is not in charge. What that man heard from that boy, he’ll keep hearing it from other people because our society is modeled for men to be in charge. He may not take it serious or even care immediately but it lives in his memory When issues start coming up, such as when he feels disrespected by his wife or children or relatives or whatever issues marriages come with, he’ll start rethinking his choices At that point he may start voicing it out, or start acting in ways that will seem strange to the wife, that’s him waking up. It happens to a lot of man, at different ages of their lives, some during their midlife crisis, some earlier. 6 Likes |
Re: Once You Hear People Say, "His Wife Is Controlling Him" That Home Is Peaceful by Arabk25: 2:46pm On Mar 13 |
Pecoleee345:Well said |
Re: Once You Hear People Say, "His Wife Is Controlling Him" That Home Is Peaceful by ubimagos: 2:47pm On Mar 13 |
Another maga is born! 3 Likes |
Re: Once You Hear People Say, "His Wife Is Controlling Him" That Home Is Peaceful by Ubdavis(m): 2:47pm On Mar 13 |
Considering the protean nature of man. Nothing is absolute, speak for urself. |
Re: Once You Hear People Say, "His Wife Is Controlling Him" That Home Is Peaceful by Arabk25: 2:49pm On Mar 13 |
Tetraozonaitera:God bless you 2 Likes |
Re: Once You Hear People Say, "His Wife Is Controlling Him" That Home Is Peaceful by EEIA: 2:49pm On Mar 13 |
RevenuesBoost:We thank God for your family. do you have any advice for Nairaland girls? so that Jennyclay, Ereluroz, Pocohantas and lots of others can learn from a wife who is happy and content with her family. |
Re: Once You Hear People Say, "His Wife Is Controlling Him" That Home Is Peaceful by obaidan: 2:52pm On Mar 13 |
dgitrader: Food for thought. Majority of the young girls that complain about about their husband's/boyfriend's mum and sister troubling them will still trouble the wives of their own son and brothers. |
Re: Once You Hear People Say, "His Wife Is Controlling Him" That Home Is Peaceful by BarrElChapo(m): 2:52pm On Mar 13 |
"Nwoke gbankiti nya na nwanyi ebili" |
Re: Once You Hear People Say, "His Wife Is Controlling Him" That Home Is Peaceful by FirstCounsel(m): 2:56pm On Mar 13 |
;Di oluxy:What type of vegetables |
Re: Once You Hear People Say, "His Wife Is Controlling Him" That Home Is Peaceful by bitbillionaire: 2:56pm On Mar 13 |
CONTROL: I hate that word with passion! A woman who need to control me for there to be peace at home is a WITCH! I don't need that type of woman either as a friend or wife. 1 Like |
Re: Once You Hear People Say, "His Wife Is Controlling Him" That Home Is Peaceful by ObalendeCMS: 2:56pm On Mar 13 |
This thread disgust me; a thread for weak & simple men. Damn! I'm pissed these generation of men & husbands has been reduced to this. :x 3 Likes |
Re: Once You Hear People Say, "His Wife Is Controlling Him" That Home Is Peaceful by Hezmatosky: 3:00pm On Mar 13 |
And na women cry pass. I just tire for this kind specie of human being |
Re: Once You Hear People Say, "His Wife Is Controlling Him" That Home Is Peaceful by Arabk25: 3:00pm On Mar 13 |
oluxy:We're all saying the same thing sist for a home to be peaceful one needs to play a fool role for the other. Believe me when that man start standing on his decisions as a man it will no longer be peaceful anymore it won't be business as usual 3 Likes |
Re: Once You Hear People Say, "His Wife Is Controlling Him" That Home Is Peaceful by Dijita: 3:02pm On Mar 13 |
jaksmillioniar:In a peaceful home, they both control each other. FYI, Peace in a home doesn't mean there is no fight, we just don't personalized the fight. |
Re: Once You Hear People Say, "His Wife Is Controlling Him" That Home Is Peaceful by TheBillyonaire: 3:04pm On Mar 13 |
Truth is bitter. 1 Like |
Re: Once You Hear People Say, "His Wife Is Controlling Him" That Home Is Peaceful by Dijita: 3:04pm On Mar 13 |
ObalendeCMS:Reduced to what? Reduce to a home where harmony reign? |
Re: Once You Hear People Say, "His Wife Is Controlling Him" That Home Is Peaceful by Segzy19: 3:05pm On Mar 13 |
Not always the case..... |
Re: Once You Hear People Say, "His Wife Is Controlling Him" That Home Is Peaceful by Akalia(m): 3:08pm On Mar 13 |
RevenuesBoost:madam na this kind thing dey sweet una wey be married women wella-when una men dey listen to una as per little boy. The only downside is that some women tend to abuse the privilege of having a listening husband. 1 Like |
Re: Once You Hear People Say, "His Wife Is Controlling Him" That Home Is Peaceful by Dougad: 3:08pm On Mar 13 |
Hmmm Congrats to you and your husband for finding a system that benefits you. But at the end of the day, it's important to note that what works for one won't work for the other. |
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