Smartb0y:

You don fvck up.

First and foremost,stop taking advice from that your friend,he seems blue pilled.

Sex first , relationship second
This is non negotiable.

If you do relationship before sex you will lose more trust me.

A woman should be the one vying for a relationship,a connection, security because basically that's what relationship is for . It benefits Women more.

No sensible guy should chase after a relationship.
Chasing after a relationship is a feminine drive..

A man that chases is a man that loses.
Men with value and options don't chase,they attract.

Give her less attention,if she comes running afraid she's in a state of losing you,only then will that show a little inclination that she's invested or ready to invest in you.

If you lock up and she lock up too, thank your stars, you just dodged a bullet.

Make sure you hit her as soon as possible to get her invested in you. A woman that you haven't fvcked won't be emotionally invested in you .
Understand this.

But don't be pussy focused just to get her.
Instead use less attention to get her to open up.

If at this point she doesn't open those legs,she was never into you.

Move on with the speed of lightning else you'll sign yourself up for games and manipulation.


2. Better don't get tired. As far as associating with women goes, they'll always play games so better be on guard else you get used. There's no good woman anywhere just woman.
How you associate with them is what brings their different flavors.

3. You were pussy focused. She knows you're hungry for sex. She'll use that against you.
Right now , she's got the upper hand

4. Stop rationalizing simping. Fvck her and find out

5. You acted needy and beta. No woman wants a needy guy. Ever. You've messed this one up really bad. How you start with a woman is how you'll end it.
She already sees you one way. Trying to form the hard guy now will seem almost laughable. She won't take you seriously. It's better to cut your losses and get a new one

6 &7. She doesn't give a fvck if you call her. You failed to attract her. Her pussy isn't tingling for you because you acted needy.
You didn't make her work for your attention.
In her eyes, you're already conquered. She did nothing to deserve a relationship.


I don try for you.
Bye

Thanks for your analysis. I'll update the house in 10 days.

These jobless people wey dey write very long epistles on top woman matter, plus the idiots wey dey read the epistles, are you people okay at all? If only you used that time and energy to be making your life and those of your family members better. Arrant nonsense.

Smartb0y:

You don fvck up.

First and foremost,stop taking advice from that your friend,he seems blue pilled.

Sex first , relationship second
This is non negotiable.

If you do relationship before sex you will lose more trust me.

A woman should be the one vying for a relationship,a connection, security because basically that's what relationship is for . It benefits Women more.

No sensible guy should chase after a relationship.
Chasing after a relationship is a feminine drive..

A man that chases is a man that loses.
Men with value and options don't chase,they attract.

Give her less attention,if she comes running afraid she's in a state of losing you,only then will that show a little inclination that she's invested or ready to invest in you.

If you lock up and she lock up too, thank your stars, you just dodged a bullet.

Make sure you hit her as soon as possible to get her invested in you. A woman that you haven't fvcked won't be emotionally invested in you .
Understand this.

But don't be pussy focused just to get her.
Instead use less attention to get her to open up.

If at this point she doesn't open those legs,she was never into you.

Move on with the speed of lightning else you'll sign yourself up for games and manipulation.


2. Better don't get tired. As far as associating with women goes, they'll always play games so better be on guard else you get used. There's no good woman anywhere just woman.
How you associate with them is what brings their different flavors.

3. You were pussy focused. She knows you're hungry for sex. She'll use that against you.
Right now , she's got the upper hand

4. Stop rationalizing simping. Fvck her and find out

5. You acted needy and beta. No woman wants a needy guy. Ever. You've messed this one up really bad. How you start with a woman is how you'll end it.
She already sees you one way. Trying to form the hard guy now will seem almost laughable. She won't take you seriously. It's better to cut your losses and get a new one

6 &7. She doesn't give a fvck if you call her. You failed to attract her. Her pussy isn't tingling for you because you acted needy.
You didn't make her work for your attention.
In her eyes, you're already conquered. She did nothing to deserve a relationship.


I don try for you.
Bye

Ubunja no dey lie. Sex first.

Oshokhai69:


Do you have a job?

yes

eclatante:
Good morning kings.

I'm met a new girl. We started talking, she didn't give me the stress typically of Nigerian girls. She responds to text and calls well and also calls to check me up.

Normally, I would have gone for the normal route and get sex and we'll all be cool. But my guy advised I don't do that, that I should make her my woman.

All my life, I've been single. I've never been in a real relationship, so I had took this decision to make things different with her.

She feels me, just like I feel her. But after I started the relationship idea, her response and vibes is that she doesn't wants to hurt me.

Because I'm going to fall so hard for her, and I'll get my heart broken. Personally, I'm this kind of guy that doesn't really give AF about getting my heart broken. The possibility of a woman breaking my heart is almost zero.

We've shared a kiss, I've caressed her, but no sex yet. All I wanted was a woman of my own.. because it isn't normal for a guy of 23, not to have tried a relationship for once.

Highlights: 1. it's almost impossible to get my heart broken.

2. I want her to be my girl (I'm tired of playing a hard guy bullcrap)

3. I wanna smash this babe. Haven't had sex in months. (It almost happened, but she stopped half way, telling me I'm rushing things.

4. After sex, the probability that I'll still have the urge to be in a relationship with her, is almost zero too.

5. I bleeped up bringing the relationship crap. (My friend adviced me to get a woman and stick with her) Which I actually wanted but things isn't going as planned.

6. I've decided not to call and text her for the next 3 days.

7. Please how do I fix this? It's 3 weeks since we started talking and no sex yet.

Ok, eclatante, Right now you are already operating from a weak mentality... In other words, you are already putting her sexual companionship on pedestal, and even worse you are also putting being in relationship with her on pedestal.

To change your game, we have to first change that poor mentality...

Let's begin...

Some years back, after coding all day indoors, I always go out every evening to chill at this guy's boutique closer to my crib. Most of what he sold was female stuff: wrist watch, glass, sun shade and female wears in general. And most of his customers were females. So I used that as an opportunity to socialize and hit on the beautiful girls that walk in there to shop.

This guy who owns the boutique wasn't always around, but he had this sales guy working for him.

Pay attention because this is where things get interesting....

I noticed something impressive watching the sales guy sell to the females that walked in . Since he has been doing this for a while now, he was so good at knowing what wears fits the customer better.

Using glasses and sun shades for example. He could quickly analyze a customer’s shape of face and present the correct glass that fits the female perfectly. I found it impressive because he was so accurate: he could immediately select the right eyeglass frames without taking the customer through the long boring process of testing and testing different eyeglass frame in order to get a perfect one.

That seem very impressive to me, but then I noticed something surprising and almost weird:

Most of the customers didn't seemed to be impressed with that. Many of these female customers would kinda lose interest and give silly excuse to leave the boutique...And he was losing good amount of sales as result of that.

At first, this sorta confused the shit out of me.

Soon this boutique owner requested I assist in attending to the customer anytime I came around... That was when I got a clue on what this sales guy was doing wrong...

When a customer came to buy stuff, since he could quickly analyze a customer’s shape of face and present the correct glass that fits the female perfectly, he seemed to rushed the whole process to make the sales. So the female assume he's only just concerned about making the sales and not so concerned about her general satisfaction with the product...

As a result, the level of trust on the part of customer decreased; they give him excuses to leave the boutique, saying they'll come back, but they never came back.


But I did something different...

Although, I didn't have any sales experience at that time, but I had seduction/dating experience. So I apply my seduction/dating experience in to the sales.

When a customer came to buy glass or sun shade for example, I often genuinely took my time to study her facial features to "figure out" or "find out" what types of shade and glass frames would fit her better and looked good on her. We would select different several sun shade and glass frames and try them on. I was genuinely concerned about helping them makes the best choice.

After the whole process , the vast majority of the time, I closed the deal. The female happily walk out of the of the boutique with her product. (I even lowkey hooked up with some of the ladies.)

My sales trilled the guy that owns the boutique, he started giving me little commission for every sales I made.

While I was building trust, making sales and even banging (some of) the females... The other sales guy was destroying trust, losing sales and losing relationship. The crazy thing was that he was still proud; he could not drop his ego and seek me for my ideas.

Ok, eclatante, for this same reason, you are about to lose both the pussy and the relationship with this girl. But unlike the sales guy, you are not proud: you're willing to seek for advice... I admire that.

You said,

"She feels me, just like I feel her. But after I started the relationship idea, her response and vibes is that she doesn't wants to hurt me... I bleeped up bringing the relationship crap. (My friend adviced me to get a woman and stick with her) Which I actually wanted but things isn't going as planned."


Guys think, being "pussy focused" is all about having the goal of just fucking her. But NO, I don't mean only that. If you're interacting with her with the aim of getting into relationship with her, you are still being pussy focused.

As long as you are concentrated on "trying to get the girl", you are being pussy focused.

Hold up!

Right now I believe you are confused... you might be thinking, "wait, I don't understand, is that not the purpose of interacting with her: to get her?"

Yes, you are right. That's the purpose, but that purpose is the very thing that's about to hinder you from actually fucking or dating this girl...

Because from what you narrated, that girl is obviously interested, but you are about to lose her because you are focusing on the wrong things.

Ok, so what's the way forward...

Let's go back to the boutique again:

I won't deceive myself: I'm there to close the fucking sale and get the commission.

But the buyers are not dumb, they are aware of that, and they are psychologically ready to frustrate that attempt. So these females enter the boutique with doubt and distrust about the whole sales process because they assume I'm only concern about making the sales. They tend to be careful not to make any wrong buying decision they'll regret.

In order to counter that metal barrier the customers are already having about the sale I often immediately gave them the impression that helping them make the best possible choice is more important than closing the sales.

So I often took my time to genuinely study their facial features to "figure out" or "find out" if a glass frame looks good on her. Sometimes when a customer select a particular wear or glass frame that doesn't fit well to me, I tell her not to waste her money on that one that it doesn't looks sexy on her.

After taking her through the whole selection and fitting process, "trust was built." She felt comfortable and just literally close the deal for me even without me even pushing for it.

Same with women...

For the few guys here who have actually met me in person, you know I'm NOT much of a handsome guy: I already got this rough look about me. And the woman most times enter the interaction with me with doubt and distrust in her mind, because she assumed I'm only concern about getting something(sex or relationship), so she's psychologically ready to frustrate my attempt.

In order to counter that, and start building trust, I also enter the interaction unimpressed by her attractiveness and personality, and having doubt if she's a good fit for me romantically or she's just a time waster.

The goal of my interaction is to find out whether the girl has the interest level, personality, vibe and qualities (or whatever else that I'm looking for).

So I make bold/cocky/audacious statements and moves that help me "challenge her", "figure out" or "find out" if she fit in my requirement.

I bang beautiful girls, the reason I can do that is because "I'm not immediately concerned" or "in a rush" to get sex or relationship from them, but rather, I'm more immediately focused on challenging them, "finding out" and "figuring out" things about the girls...

It takes a little time to embrace this mentality, but once you do, you'll be surprised by how easy it is to get pussy.

MarkHenry9:

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MarkHenry9:

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Mad man spotted.

Rizzputin:


I like this your story. Because it reminded me of what I said few days about being a hook up material

Showing desire but not desperation.

The mistakes you made were several. Not just one. But of course, you can still fúck her since you didn't chase her or act needy( I also hope you didn't react angrily too). If you eventually decide that putting your díck inside her is your next plan, then read on (Especially the ending)

Before we begin, I want to make two things abundantly clear: 1, she's a bad and naughty girl. She's definitely fùvking more than one guy. 2, She has no boyfriend. If she does, she's not serious about him at all.


Now, let's dive in... I'll quote part of your post (in italics) then reply to each on

● "There’s a girl I flirted with for sometime in on WhatsApp. It’s very funny cause with the way I flirted with her she seem to know if she comes to my place I’m gonna make a move.

This girl pestered me to come my place after posting her for 3 months I finally agreed to let her come."

I've noticed this new trend among guys. When guys begin game newly or have a few But not remarkable success, they try SO HARD not to look like a simp.

A common thing you guys do is to wait or delay. Some guys have even advocated not inviting a girl over until she asks. Lol.

Such nonsense. The past year I've had a bunch of girls I've slept with say "I've never done it this fast with anyone" "you're turning me into something I'm not" "I have never experienced this so fast" "I didn't know what entered into my head to do that with you"

At first, I thought it's the usual thing girls say. Now, I'm realising a lot of guys are moving wayyyy too slow. 3 months of posting her? This doesn't help your seduction in any way. You don't look more high value in her eyes by posting a visit

She'll just think maybe you don't like her or you're busy.

Also, it seems like you did heavy flirting. I like that. As I always, it's far better to err on the side of too much desire than very little desire (weakness)

However, I would have kept the flirting light rather than heavy. Then invite her over the first week and bang her.


● "After coming she was asking me some kinda Mumu questions and all. Maybe sizing me up and all."

Ah yes. Of course She'll throw those questions. You weren't expecting them abi.

Well you've gotten her curious. All those your heavy flirting and not inviting her over for 3 months spiked her curiosity in you. She wanted to get closer to you. But you mistook her curiosity for interest in fùcking you. That's why you probably presumed that since she's coming over, she knows what's going to happen about you making moves.

Well, she did. She wanted you to make those moves. And believe me, she was hoping you'd fúck her.

But here's what was going on internally with her: As you built up her curiosity for you in 3 months, it was also enough time for her to get confused. She was probably unsure of the whole thing. Yes, at the back of her mind she thought something could happen (she probably shaved before coming) but she wasn't sure about the whole thing

Confusion is anti-seductive. That's why you waiting that long is a terrible idea. Some girls won't get confused and just remain at curiosity. But most will get confused.

That's why you were hit with "mumu questions" Those were not mumu questions. They were shít test questions.

Because she's both curious and confused about you at the same time, she has to be sure sleeping with you is the right choice. So she has to test you.

And I can already tell from you calling it "mumu questions" and saying she "sized you up" you failed those tests. My guess iss that you felt irritated by the questions.

But they were all shít tests she was hoping you'd blaze through. Also, as a reminder when a girl tests you with questions rather than statements in that scenario, she's more than likely you to fúck you. She's showing her submissiveness and trying not to offend you so you don't back off



● "Anyway at some point l made a move on her for intimacy she rejected and I did again and she rejected. So we had a conversation and she was saying ehnnn, I know she has a boyfriend and all that. That she isn’t down for FWB and that this is her first time coming here so it’s too early."

After making your first big mistake which is failing her test, you could have steered the conversation in a way that will make you pass the tests.

Rather, you proceeded to dig your pit even further.

Your value has already dropped after you failed that test. So you making a move till turn her off and she'll reject you. Because you're making a move from a low value position

Rather you should have built your value up through specific hook up material conversations and topics.

After she rejects you twice... she now has to make the rejection make sense. Of course, with women when a girl makes a move on you or wants to fùck you OR wants to reject you, she will deploy womanese. Womanese is just a word for indirect/subtle display of interest or disinterest with coded meanings.

"I have a boyfriend" is the most common womanese when a girl rejects you so as not to damage your ego

You see, a woman's world feels generally unsafe to her. Angry guys in her dms. Thirsty men who might want to hurt or rapè her. That's why rejection from her is done in a way to massage your ego. You can call it manipulation but such is the game.

"I have a boyfriend" after rejecting your move has nothing to do with her bf or even whether she has or not. Trust me, she has a FWB she's currently fùcking or she is on the hunt for one (and she was hoping it would be you)

Now, she gave you an opening into her game... either because she's amateurish or she really liked you.

This is where she did it: "it's my first time coming and it's too early"

This is womanese.

This is the translation: "I wouldn't mind fùcking you on the first time but you're NOT making me feel comfortable"

This could either mean she doesn't feel safe with you or your value is too low. In your case... it's both.

Once you hear something relating to that next time, take a step back in a calm way... change the topic into something that will build your value and make her feel more comfortable and safe with you.

Girls will never reveal their game to you like that if they don't want to fùck you. Remember that.


● "That I should follow the proper channel first, she will go home and then think. So that she can know if she is coming to my place “she is going to her guys place and anything can happen” bla bla bla."

This should already tell you everything you know. At this point not only has she opened her game for you to see, she has casted it completely

She was probably thinking "since this werey doesn't want to get the point that I want to fúck him, Let me just cast my game maybe he'll understand"

She's telling you that you should ask her out to be her bf so she can fùck you. Right after telling you she has a bf. LMAO

This girl wanted your dìck. And she let you know with the famous womanese of : "anything can happen"

In one of my threads on my profile I talked about how girls don't like anything planned

"It just happened" and "anything can happen" are ways girls use to justify their actions. Trust me they wanted it to happen. But they have to make it look like "it just happened"

Why?

This is the translation of "anything can happen". She's saying: "Lajid, I want to fùck you but you asking me out will make me feel less like a slut. Because after all I'm fùcking my bf and not someone random so I won't feel like a slut"

So what's she's saying is that she wanted to fùck you right there BUT YOU have to do something that won't make her feel like a slùt.

Her suggestion was you asking her out. But there are many other conversations, topics and moves you could have done right there that would have done the job without asking her out. And she was hoping you did it


● "Even mentioned say her mama no like the guy cause he no get money and "

This is just her giving herself an excuse to cheat.

They always do that. The first one told me it's too early and it's her first time, I told her it doesn't matter first or tenth time, but she said no. Okay make me move outside you held me back inside and just stared at me. I no even talk anything I just lay her down and did the job. Second girl was telling me we have just known for 3 weeks I didn't even know I thought it was at least 2 months until I remembered it was just halfway into the 2 months program we went for and she came the second week but like the first girl I told her it doesn't matter so far we are sure we liked each other. She even talk about me showing off about conquering her when the program resume. I just waved it off because I understood she was trying to protect her reputation and I'm not interested in destroying it. The third girl hhmm that one problem was if I was going to be discrete about the thing afterwards. I actually pretended to be offended by that because it implied me being immature. And I was honest with her that even if I'm going to tell anybody it will be my brother and that's because if he asks since he already suspect us I can't lie to him. And she was cool with that. But the third girl wasn't about shit testing she's just sure about the love she has for me but not sure about mine for her that's why she could tell me that. Cos when I asked her out her first question was if I didn't have any girlfriend or never seen a prettier girl before she came around.

Oshokhai69:
These jobless people wey dey write very long epistles on top woman matter, plus the idiots wey dey read the epistles, are you people okay at all? If only you used that time and energy to be making your life and those of your family members better. Arrant nonsense.

K

https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2024/3/zimbabwean-man-commits-suicide-on-facebook-live-after-his-girlfriend-allegedly-cheated-on-him.html

see fresh fit guy ,learn redpill or perish.

Adasun:
why do you guys like to explain principles... it is stale to me. you did okay until you penultimate last comment. you don't need to explain such principle to her na.

something like- even me dey look for who go give me #50 recharge card. can you help me? i go pay you back when i win my multi million dollar contract.

I swear.
I turned ladies down without explaining any shit. No need to tell her that you don't send money to females. Other ways to say it abounds.

Pukkalolo:




Ok, eclatante, Right now you are already operating from a weak mentality... In other words, you are already putting her sexual companionship on pedestal, and even worse you are also putting being in relationship with her on pedestal.

To change your game, we have to first change that poor mentality...

Let's begin...

Some years back, after coding all day indoors, I always go out every evening to chill at this guy's boutique closer to my crib. Most of what he sold was female stuff: wrist watch, glass, sun shade and female wears in general. And most of his customers were females. So I used that as an opportunity to socialize and hit on the beautiful girls that walk in there to shop.

This guy who owns the boutique wasn't always around, but he had this sales guy working for him.

Pay attention because this is where things get interesting....

I noticed something impressive watching the sales guy sell to the females that walked in . Since he has been doing this for a while now, he was so good at knowing what wears fits the customer better.

Using glasses and sun shades for example. He could quickly analyze a customer’s shape of face and present the correct glass that fits the female perfectly. I found it impressive because he was so accurate: he could immediately select the right eyeglass frames without taking the customer through the long boring process of testing and testing different eyeglass frame in order to get a perfect one.

That seem very impressive to me, but then I noticed something surprising and almost weird:

Most of the customers didn't seemed to be impressed with that. Many of these female customers would kinda lose interest and give silly excuse to leave the boutique...And he was losing good amount of sales as result of that.

At first, this sorta confused the shit out of me.

Soon this boutique owner requested I assist in attending to the customer anytime I came around... That was when I got a clue on what this sales guy was doing wrong...

When a customer came to buy stuff, since he could quickly analyze a customer’s shape of face and present the correct glass that fits the female perfectly, he seemed to rushed the whole process to make the sales. So the female assume he's only just concerned about making the sales and not so concerned about her general satisfaction with the product...

As a result, the level of trust on the part of customer decreased; they give him excuses to leave the boutique, saying they'll come back, but they never came back.


But I did something different...

Although, I didn't have any sales experience at that time, but I had seduction/dating experience. So I apply my seduction/dating experience in to the sales.

When a customer came to buy glass or sun shade for example, I often genuinely took my time to study her facial features to "figure out" or "find out" what types of shade and glass frames would fit her better and looked good on her. We would select different several sun shade and glass frames and try them on. I was genuinely concerned about helping them makes the best choice.

After the whole process , the vast majority of the time, I closed the deal. The female happily walk out of the of the boutique with her product. (I even lowkey hooked up with some of the ladies.)

My sales trilled the guy that owns the boutique, he started giving me little commission for every sales I made.

While I was building trust, making sales and even banging (some of) the females... The other sales guy was destroying trust, losing sales and losing relationship. The crazy thing was that he was still proud; he could not drop his ego and seek me for my ideas.

Ok, eclatante, for this same reason, you are about to lose both the pussy and the relationship with this girl. But unlike the sales guy, you are not proud: you're willing to seek for advice... I admire that.

You said,

"She feels me, just like I feel her. But after I started the relationship idea, her response and vibes is that she doesn't wants to hurt me... I bleeped up bringing the relationship crap. (My friend adviced me to get a woman and stick with her) Which I actually wanted but things isn't going as planned."


Guys think, being "pussy focused" is all about having the goal of just fucking her. But NO, I don't mean only that. If you're interacting with her with the aim of getting into relationship with her, you are still being pussy focused.

As long as you are concentrated on "trying to get the girl", you are being pussy focused.

Hold up!

Right now I believe you are confused... you might be thinking, "wait, I don't understand, is that not the purpose of interacting with her: to get her?"

Yes, you are right. That's the purpose, but that purpose is the very thing that's about to hinder you from actually fucking or dating this girl...

Because from what you narrated, that girl is obviously interested, but you are about to lose her because you are focusing on the wrong things.

Ok, so what's the way forward...

Let's go back to the boutique again:

I won't deceive myself: I'm there to close the fucking sale and get the commission.

But the buyers are not dumb, they are aware of that, and they are psychologically ready to frustrate that attempt. So these females enter the boutique with doubt and distrust about the whole sales process because they assume I'm only concern about making the sales. They tend to be careful not to make any wrong buying decision they'll regret.

In order to counter that metal barrier the customers are already having about the sale I often immediately gave them the impression that helping them make the best possible choice is more important than closing the sales.

So I often took my time to genuinely study their facial features to "figure out" or "find out" if a glass frame looks good on her. Sometimes when a customer select a particular wear or glass frame that doesn't fit well to me, I tell her not to waste her money on that one that it doesn't looks sexy on her.

After taking her through the whole selection and fitting process, "trust was built." She felt comfortable and just literally close the deal for me even without me even pushing for it.

Same with women...

For the few guys here who have actually met me in person, you know I'm NOT much of a handsome guy: I already got this rough look about me. And the woman most times enter the interaction with me with doubt and distrust in her mind, because she assumed I'm only concern about getting something(sex or relationship), so she's psychologically ready to frustrate my attempt.

In order to counter that, and start building trust, I also enter the interaction unimpressed by her attractiveness and personality, and having doubt if she's a good fit for me romantically or she's just a time waster.

The goal of my interaction is to find out whether the girl has the interest level, personality, vibe and qualities (or whatever else that I'm looking for).

So I make bold/cocky/audacious statements and moves that help me "challenge her", "figure out" or "find out" if she fit in my requirement.

I bang beautiful girls, the reason I can do that is because "I'm not immediately concerned" or "in a rush" to get sex or relationship from them, but rather, I'm more immediately focused on challenging them, "finding out" and "figuring out" things about the girls...

It takes a little time to embrace this mentality, but once you do, you'll be surprised by how easy it is to get pussy.

can you pls mention some bold/cocky/audacious statements and moves that can help challenge a girl

LOL 😆

heartofcity12:
LOL 😆

The guy try sef

A simple "K" would have sufficed.

She wasn't worth the long talk.

Smartb0y:


The guy try sef

A simple "K" would have sufficed.

She wasn't worth the long talk.

Seriously, you just said my mind but she still collect wotowoto tho 😆 but ‘K’ or ignoring the message would have been better..

Smartb0y:


The guy try sef

A simple "K" would have sufficed.

She wasn't worth the long talk.

My nigga!!!

A 'K' in time always saves nine but I understand why he had to give her wotowoto though...some girls need it.

heartofcity12:
LOL 😆

The guy too talk. As simple "No" suffices for the question "Will you give me money?" or any form billing takes.

Besides, see as this guy just lucky. If the girl no Bleep up, he for see am as nawalt. Very classless and poorly behaved girl.

It's generally a bad idea to tell or imply to a girl that you'll always make her happy and never want to see her cry

In fact, anytime I see a story on nairaland or twitter that starts off with "I always wanted to make her happy" I know before I finish reading that it ended badly for the guy

To some of you, what I'm about to reveal might serve as a quick reminder. To others it might be something new or a new/deeper perspective to something you've already known.

Here's the general idea: Don't be scared to make your girl angry or cry in a relationship

Doesn't matter if she is just a fling or a serious GF or a FWB, if you are getting women frustrated, that's a great sign.

That simply means that her attraction for you is still high, because frustration is an indicator that she cares.

Before I continue, let me clarify. The kind of anger you want is:

● "I want more time with you please pay attention to me"

Or

● "Damn he isn't acting like I was expecting. Fùck"

What you don't want is to be a source of depression for her.

So if that frustation is popping out sparingly and in small doses, you are doing it right.

But if she is constantly nagging about it, either you are overdoing it or she's a drama diva (you should run far away. I'll write a thread on this category of girls)

These days, I have zero issues getting girls annoyed. In fact, once I hear a girl say "you're so annoying" or "I hate you so much"....

I know deep down we're going to fùck soon. Sometimes I present opportunities to deny them something so they act angry

One time I was vibing with a girl and she asked me to get something for her and I weasled out of it


She then hit me with "are you not my friend... I'll cry o" with cute puppy dog eyes. But such things would move my JSS 3 self NOT the hook up material man I am today. She was angry of course. But that didn't matter because later that night she was hungrily sucking my dìck

Simps and the average guy try desperately not to offend girls. It's tough concept for them to wrap their head around that you can get a girl angry or annoyed and still pound her

They fail to understand the concept of "any emotion is good emotion". And "no emotion is bad & anti seductive"

Now, some of you understand this. But maybe you're wondering why trying so hard to please a girl will make her dump you faster than a naija politician does to parties

If you're curious, let's find out why....

You see, a girl's life as she grows is filled with pain, drama and tears. From period pains, to heartbreaks to random tears and drama

All these "negative" emotions are engraved in her psyche.

That's why when things are moving too smoothly or things are seemingly too good or too happy... her first instinct is to cause some drama. Or tell the guy "you're too good for me" OR "you're to boring"

She wants to eject or feel a new thrill of emotions

Because all her life there's usually something bad, dramatic or negative happening.

So when a guy comes along trying to be perfect or promising to always make her happy.... he gets the opposite treatment of what he's expecting.

She sees him as weak. Like something isn't right. She won't even know why she causes the drama or loses respect of him but her subconscious mind keeps the score

Sooner or later... her attraction for him fades off slowly till a point of no return

Of course, this doesn't mean you should go about making girls angry.

But you're not perfect and you should accept that. Meaning, you'd do things she won't like but are great in the long for the both of you.

She'll be angry now but will respect you more in the long run

Martinez39s:
The guy too talk. As simple "No" suffices for the question "Will you give me money?" or any form billing takes.

Besides, see as this guy just lucky. If the girl no Bleep up, he for see am as nawalt. Very classless and poorly behaved girl.

So true💯.. He talked too much abeg

Ataching your self-worth to getting positive response from women is like building a
house on very shaky foundations: it only takes one girl to say "no" to have you doubting yourself entirely.

Who still remembers the sad story of how Glycolysis the owner of this thread was wickedly sent away and made to deactivate?

Who still remember those behind his deactivation? 🎤

I shall be back

Pukkalolo:
Ataching your self-worth to getting positive response from women is like building a
house on very shaky foundations: it only takes one girl to say "no" to have you doubting yourself entirely.

Speak louder boss!!!

The sad story of how ubunja, martinez39s, luminouz, karlifate, capslock and few others bullied the original owner of this thread GLYCOLYSIS into deactivation coming soon.

Stay tuned

EreluRoz:
The sad story of how ubunja, martinez39s, luminouz, karlifate, capslock and few others bullied the original owner of this thread GLYCOLYSIS into deactivation coming soon.

Stay tuned

You like trolling, don't you?

joseph1832:
You like trolling, don't you?

I'm a nairaland activist.

Justice for Glycolysis

EreluRoz:
I'm a nairaland activist.

Justice for Glycolysis

You're a nairaland troll. Period. Lol

joseph1832:
You're a nairaland troll. Period. Lol

I'm not a troll but a voice for the voiceless. The story of how they bullied the young man into deactivation is a very sad one. He left his thread for them and never came back. Very heartbreaking

EreluRoz:
I'm not a troll but a voice for the voiceless. The story of how they bullied the young man into deactivation is a very sad one. He left his thread for them and never came back. Very heartbreaking

You're confirming You're a troll, because I don't see how his bullying, which lead to his deactivation concerns you.

Beside, aren't you anti Redpill?

joseph1832:
You're confirming You're a troll, because I don't see how his bullying, which lead to his deactivation concerns you.

Beside, aren't you anti Redpill?

He was my friend and he narrated everything to me on how they conspired against him that made him deactivate and left the thread for them, I cried when he was telling me about it kos it was so heartbreaking to see men getting jealous over their fellow men because of his excellent writing prowess and they had no option than to conspire and chase him out of his own thread. I'm teary already, very heartbreaking.

I'm not anti redpill, I'm actually a redpiller.

EreluRoz:
He was my friend and he narrated everything to me on how they conspired against him that made him deactivate and left the thread for them, I cried when he was telling me about it kos it was so heartbreaking to see men getting jealous over their fellow men because of his excellent writing process and they had no option than to conspire and chase him out of his own thread. I'm teary already, very heartbreaking.

I'm not anti redpill, I'm actually a redpiller.

Yeah right.

So what exactly happened?