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Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by Chingyyy878: 9:07am On Apr 03 |
Sonnobax15: True |
Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by COOL10(m): 9:09am On Apr 03 |
Mtcheww, marriage advocate. Until you marry and give birth to the ones that'll make your life miserable and end up killing you. You never see anything. 13 Likes |
Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by Vijuchoco(f): 9:12am On Apr 03 |
Sonnobax15:Lol.. No be lie sha 1 Like |
Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by Treasure17(m): 10:12am On Apr 03 |
I don't feel any pressure and besides relationship is draining not to talk of marriage. Let me be enjoying my peace of mind please. 27 Likes 1 Share |
Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by GreaterFuture(m): 10:22am On Apr 03 |
Chingyyy878:Everything in Life is selfish I guess... Every single thing ln life... |
Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by VinnyBaba: 10:44am On Apr 03 |
barrydee: Too much Sense in this Part!👍 All the Money that could have Saved and Invested is put inside Family Responsibility. You won't be able to own any Business or property throughout your 30's because you have Wife and kids at home. When you get to your 40's, you are too Already weak to Hustle and you start waiting for ur 17yr old daughter to Marry RichMan. 😒😌 As a Guy from a Poor Family, If you Marry in your 20's, It's like signing LIFETIME CONTRACT WITH POVERTY.😟 44 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by YoungBlackRico(m): 10:57am On Apr 03 |
Kids too many for nairaland these days 4 Likes |
Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by Gift96: 11:01am On Apr 03 |
The economic realities will humble you 9 Likes |
Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by toujurs: 11:11am On Apr 03 |
barrydee:You are smart, you just reminded of when i was about to marry a prostitute unknowingly. She was a decent lady. Luckily for me i got to meet a guy, on a social platform who knew her. Immediately i knew who she really was, i ended the relationship. Most women out there lived a wreckless sexual life. And i can't settle for a LovePeddler, after putting in this hardwork 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by MrCork: 11:23am On Apr 03 |
Chingyyy878: |
Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by MrCork: 11:24am On Apr 03 |
Chingyyy878: You dont hav speeeeerm?(no oofencsece) |
Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by AfahaAbia(m): 11:29am On Apr 03 |
There is nothing to panic about. Always put yourself first. 10 Likes |
Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by ravensckar(m): 11:57am On Apr 03 |
VinnyBaba:You're very wrong but you just didn't realize it. The first rule of life is that; life doesn't come with a PAST QUESTION, MANUAL or INSTRUCTION BOOKLET. Na trial & error everybody dey do. My dad had my older brother at 19, he wasn't from a rich family either. He suffered and laboured through his youthful age to raise us all. Today nko? He's in his late FIFTIES and most of us have become relatively successful in his lifetime. He's still active, looks young and healthy. When he came to visit me early this year, most people didn't believe he's my dad. My step-mum (his younger wife) is still servicing him. He still has other younger children who run and jump around the house. He has grandchildren who always come to spend the holidays with him (my children are there as I type). His older children (myself & siblings) always ensure he never lacks anything. Most importantly, he's living his DREAM. He's always happy and grateful for marrying early. My point- both early and late marriages have their advantages and disadvantages. Anyone that works for you, practice it. Life is a foreign language afterall, everyone mispronounces it. 35 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by Gerrard59(m): 1:06pm On Apr 03 |
2shure: Sorry, but apart from the bold, none of those skills qualify you to be issued a work visa as a Nigerian while in Nigeria. Your best route is a study visa. But 10 million cannot run it unlike few years ago. 2 Likes |
Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by Gerrard59(m): 1:21pm On Apr 03 |
Had to put this here: Men who married in their forties and early fifties: Poju Oyemade Oscar Onyema Olumide Akpata Tayo Oviosu Victor Asemota Olumide Aderinokun (married Stephanie Coker five years after his first wife died of cancer) Dr Ola Brown's Husband (popular TwitterNG personality) The issue isn't really early or late, but not having plenty of children more than one can adequately cater for. Nigerians have this mentality of producing more children just because small change enters their hands. Just because one's finances have increased after two children does not mean the person should aim for another child or children. Raising children is terribly expensive and largely a thankless job. Also, men should opt for vasectomy if need be as female contraceptives can fail atimes. When I mention this aspect, many get upset. 15 Likes |
Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by Roboto11: 1:23pm On Apr 03 |
VinnyBaba: When dem wan come marry? |
Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by papyjaypaul: 2:04pm On Apr 03 |
Elegantspiker: Family is the bedrock of EVERY SOCIETY. I want to be educated, tell me what advanced countries are discussing. Immigration 2 Likes
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Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by Amuroba: 2:32pm On Apr 03 |
Chingyyy878:Only reason to worry is being all of the above and still poor. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by faceland: 2:56pm On Apr 03 |
One thing is fact. A man in his 50 that doesn't have kids would feel something is missing (even though it is hype). |
Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by faceland: 3:00pm On Apr 03 |
Samfloxin: I know people that married while poor but there are something in life they would NEVER experience (if they must be responsible provider). Put in a few more decades of this denial and their soul is broken. 1 Like |
Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by Zackattack: 3:04pm On Apr 03 |
Elegantspiker:It is a very stupid question. People are thinking of financial security in old age, this one is talking about raising children in old age. 5 Likes |
Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by faceland: 3:06pm On Apr 03 |
Templee333: When I read the Old testament law, had a feeling that marriage is slavery. I give you my virgin daughter to give your son with WHITE CLOTHES. He bleeps her on the spot, she bleeds on the white clothes, I collect the white clothes as evidence that I sold a virgin to you. IF YOUR STUPID SON DOESN'T WANT HER AGAIN, I WILL NOT AGREE BECAUSE HER MARKET VALUE HAS REDUCE AND I CAN'T RE-SELL HER FOR VIRGIN PRICE. They didn't want female child because she can not go to farm/hunting or help them in wars. Just another mouth to feed. Disclaimer: Those are not my views, just my observation of primitive people over 5000 years ago, 5k years not minutes. 6 Likes |
Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by Zackattack: 3:09pm On Apr 03 |
Chingyyy878:Imagine being broke at 45 with 3 kids 30 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by TUANKU(m): 3:13pm On Apr 03 |
Chingyyy878:Panic? Na her go panic after i give her belle 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by VinnyBaba: 3:14pm On Apr 03 |
ravensckar: That's where you are VERY WRONG. 😕😕 Comparing the 1970's or 1980's to this Era.😏 You can't even compare 2014 to this 2024. If any Unprepared Guy in his 20's Rush into Marriage in this times, His life will be so Fuccked!😒 29 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by Dzzzz: 3:15pm On Apr 03 |
OP sef them fit dey lash him wife wey him no know..If you ask am how long it took before him wed.E fit no pass 1yr. |
Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by Dzzzz: 3:17pm On Apr 03 |
Zackattack:..And the persons children start to think why their papa no do armed robbery to make things better 😂😂 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by Dzzzz: 3:19pm On Apr 03 |
The only thing wey go make me panic is the fear of dying poor... 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by BItt: 3:19pm On Apr 03 |
faceland: You can express that in a more acceptable and pleasant way and call it marriage. The union between 2,3 or more people. When you marry a lady, you also marry her family. If she doesn't have a reasonable trade she's into in this economy o, una go suffer o. 3 Likes |
Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by Dzzzz: 3:25pm On Apr 03 |
OP make you get money ooo.Make your in-laws no hide food say you dey come house oo... 8 Likes |
Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by Dzzzz: 3:26pm On Apr 03 |
BItt:Original Suffer promax and guess who will suffer more? |
Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by faceland: 3:28pm On Apr 03 |
BItt: As I said, I was referring to my perception of Moses Law on marriage. Of cause, it has evolved since then. |
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