Sonnobax15:

Make nobody pressure nobody abeg......At least,those mad men and women roaming the streets today were once kids that were seen as special kids by their parents........

Sonnobax15:

Make nobody pressure nobody abeg......At least,those mad men and women roaming the streets today were once kids that were seen as special kids by their parents........

Chingyyy878:
do you worry about being old parents ?

I sure say most of una dey panic but una go deny

barrydee:
This OP is not wise at all.
Africa needs to grow beyond this mindset. Having a wife and kids is not an achievement but a fulfillment which by the way, different people have their own definition of fulfillment.

If you are a man in your 30s living in a difficult country like Nigeria, i advise you chase the bread to better your life & your future. If you stumble on a good woman while at it, you can marry her but if you allow societal pressure to make you marry one of these damaged, unproductive, & useless slay queens who are liabilities as a wife, sorry na your name.

You can still get married in your late 30s or early 40s and live a fulfilled life & by the time you are in your 60s, your kids would be in their eaely 20s keeping you company, running erands for you and making you happy while you relax and groom them to takeover your business/empire aince you utilized your youthful era to make some good investments.

Unlike those niggas who got married in their 20s using all their energy as youths just to fend, suffer and provide for the family. By the time they hit 60, no major investments, their kids have all abandoned them to begin their own lives/families making them feel lonely and abandoned. Only few lucky ones get regular visits, care and gifts from their kids at this point.

barrydee:
This OP is not wise at all.
Africa needs to grow beyond this mindset. Having a wife and kids is not an achievement but a fulfillment which by the way, different people have their own definition of fulfillment.

If you are a man in your 30s living in a difficult country like Nigeria, i advise you chase the bread to better your life & your future. If you stumble on a good woman while at it, you can marry her but if you allow societal pressure to make you marry one of these damaged, unproductive, & useless slay queens who are liabilities as a wife, sorry na your name.

You can still get married in your late 30s or early 40s and live a fulfilled life & by the time you are in your 60s, your kids would be in their eaely 20s keeping you company, running erands for you and making you happy while you relax and groom them to takeover your business/empire aince you utilized your youthful era to make some good investments.

Unlike those niggas who got married in their 20s using all their energy as youths just to fend, suffer and provide for the family. By the time they hit 60, no major investments, their kids have all abandoned them to begin their own lives/families making them feel lonely and abandoned. Only few lucky ones get regular visits, care and gifts from their kids at this point.

Chingyyy878:
People in their 30s with no kids and single, do you worry about being old parents ?

I sure say most of una dey panic but una go deny

Chingyyy878:
People in their 30s with no kids and single, do you worry about being old parents ?

I sure say most of una dey panic but una go deny

VinnyBaba:


Too much Sense in this Part!👍

All the Money that could have Saved and Invested is put inside Family Responsibility.

You won't be able to own any Business or property throughout your 30's because you have Wife and kids at home.

When you get to your 40's, you are too Already weak to Hustle and you start waiting for ur 17yr old daughter to Marry RichMan. 😒😌

As a Guy from a Poor Family, If you Marry in your 20's, It's like signing LIFETIME CONTRACT WITH POVERTY.😟

2shure:
I can paint,i can dissamblw a car engine,i can service a gen,AC,gas cooker,i can install dstv,i can paint walls, i can design a website....

VinnyBaba:


If they are Pursuing Money and Trying to build Wealth, they should be very Happy!

OP, if you know what some Young Parents are Facing in Nigeria currently,
You won't even advise anyone (Guys) to Marry in their 30's!.

Elegantspiker:
When I say we still have centuries to be civilised, these are the kind of thoughts I mean. Imaging someone from an advanced country asking this kind of question.

Chingyyy878:
People in their 30s with no kids and single, do you worry about being old parents ?

I sure say most of una dey panic but una go deny

Samfloxin:
Many of them are feeling bad but the cost of marrying a woman now is very high

Elegantspiker:
When I say we still have centuries to be civilised, these are the kind of thoughts I mean. Imaging someone from an advanced country asking this kind of question.

Templee333:
you should rather say that the cost of buying a woman is very high. Marriage ended many years ago. What people are doing now is buying and selling of their daughters where men are unfortunately the buyers.

Chingyyy878:

Imagine having your first kid when you are almost 45

Chingyyy878:
People in their 30s with no kids and single, do you worry about being old parents ?

I sure say most of una dey panic but una go deny

ravensckar:
You're very wrong but you just didn't realize it. The first rule of life is that; life doesn't come with a PAST QUESTION, MANUAL or INSTRUCTION BOOKLET. Na trial & error everybody dey do.

My dad had my older brother at 19, he wasn't from a rich family either. He suffered and laboured through his youthful age to raise us all. Today nko? He's in his late FIFTIES and most of us have become relatively successful in his lifetime. We're the ones taking care of him.He's still active, looks young and healthy. When he came to visit me early this year, most people didn't believe he's my dad.

My step-mum (his younger wife) is still servicing him. He still has other younger children who run and jump around the house. He has grandchildren who always come to spend the holidays with him (my children are there as I type). His older children (myself & siblings) always ensure he never lacks anything. Most importantly, he's living his DREAM. He's always happy and grateful for marrying early.

My point- both early and late marriages have their advantages and disadvantages. Anyone that works for you, practice it. Life is a foreign language afterall, everyone mispronounces it.

Zackattack:

Imagine being broke at 45 with 3 kids

faceland:


When I read the Old testament law, had a feeling that marriage is slavery. I give you my virgin daughter to give your son with WHITE CLOTHES. He bleeps her on the spot, she bleeds on the white clothes, I collect the white clothes as evidence that I sold a virgin to you.

IF YOUR STUPID SON DOESN'T WANT HER AGAIN, I WILL NOT AGREE BECAUSE HER MARKET VALUE HAS REDUCE AND I CAN'T RE-SELL HER FOR VIRGIN PRICE.

They didn't want female child because she can not go to farm/hunting or help them in wars. Just another mouth to feed.

Disclaimer: Those are not my views, just my observation of primitive people over 5000 years ago, 5k years not minutes.

BItt:



You can express that in a more acceptable and pleasant way and call it marriage. The union between 2,3 or more people.

When you marry a lady, you also marry her family. If she doesn't have a reasonable trade she's into in this economy o, una go suffer o.

BItt:



You can express that in a more acceptable and pleasant way and call it marriage. The union between 2,3 or more people.

When you marry a lady, you also marry her family. If she doesn't have a reasonable trade she's into in this economy o, una go suffer o.