2shure:
I'm 34 years and I only have a car,rented apartment and 2 pos business which has suffered a blow.im planning on selling all my propert for 10m before thisbyear ends and travel out.

MrBrownJay1:
many dont even want children, let alone a wife to settle with.

tunjijones:
He go soon clear for ur eye. Dem no dey tell person.

VinnyBaba:


If they are Pursuing Money and Trying to build Wealth, they should be very Happy!

OP, if you know what some Young Parents are Facing in Nigeria currently,
You won't even advise anyone (Guys) to Marry in their 30's!.

ravensckar:
You're very wrong but you just didn't realize it. The first rule of life is that; life doesn't come with a PAST QUESTION, MANUAL or INSTRUCTION BOOKLET. Na trial & error everybody dey do.

My dad had my older brother at 19, he wasn't from a rich family either. He suffered and laboured through his youthful age to raise us all. Today nko? He's in his late FIFTIES and most of us have become relatively successful in his lifetime. He's still active, looks young and healthy. When he came to visit me early this year, most people didn't believe he's my dad.

My step-mum (his younger wife) is still servicing him. He still has other younger children who run and jump around the house. He has grandchildren who always come to spend the holidays with him (my children are there as I type). His older children (myself & siblings) always ensure he never lacks anything. Most importantly, he's living his DREAM. He's always happy and grateful for marrying early.

My point- both early and late marriages have their advantages and disadvantages. Anyone that works for you, practice it. Life is a foreign language afterall, everyone mispronounces it.

MrBrownJay1:
many dont even want children, let alone a wife to settle with.

Niyi4321:

Wise one! If you try it in this economy it won't be a bad idea. You will be known as a man who follows his father's footsteps making sure the family tradition is intact.

Templee333:
you should rather say that the cost of buying a woman is very high. Marriage ended many years ago. What people are doing now is buying and selling of their daughters where men are unfortunately the buyers.

Sonnobax15:

Make nobody pressure nobody abeg......At least,those mad men and women roaming the streets today were once kids that were seen as special kids by their parents........

Chingyyy878:


Imagine having your first kid when you are almost 45

Smartjeezy01:
I had my first daughter at the age of 34 and my daughter is 10years old now.

Paramount01:



You mean ham? Don't marry ooo becaue you will spend your last card on them

PissInside:
What's the essence of marriage or having kids?

Oh, because everyone is doing it,you must too?

You see,I've come to realise that the only thing that matters in life is happiness.....As long as you're happy,you good to go.

So many of my friends that rushed into getting married are now looking so hagard and stressed up.....The burden is too much.

correctguy101:


People should just focus on experiencing life. It was never meant to be the same for everyone.

The day the collective consciousness regains one single mind, reality as we know it will seize to exist

skuribeebo:
I am 39, 2 kids
I have a car
I have a house to be completed this year.
I have 10 years professional banking experience and I'm still counting.

Do wetin you wan do on time. Do not wait for money.
I got married when I was a private school teacher in a local private school.

Alphiegabe:
Will be forty this year not married never dated I am not interested in any of those things kini big deal

barrydee:
This OP is not wise at all.
Africa needs to grow beyond this mindset. Having a wife and kids is not an achievement but a fulfillment which by the way, different people have their own definition of fulfillment.

If you are a man in your 30s living in a difficult country like Nigeria, i advise you chase the bread to better your life & your future. If you stumble on a good woman while at it, you can marry her but if you allow societal pressure to make you marry one of these damaged, unproductive, & useless slay queens who are liabilities as a wife, sorry na your name.

You can still get married in your late 30s or early 40s and live a fulfilled life & by the time you are in your 60s, your kids would be in their eaely 20s keeping you company, running erands for you and making you happy while you relax and groom them to takeover your business/empire aince you utilized your youthful era to make some good investments.

Unlike those niggas who got married in their 20s using all their energy as youths just to fend, suffer and provide for the family. By the time they hit 60, no major investments, their kids have all abandoned them to begin their own lives/families making them feel lonely and abandoned. Only few lucky ones get regular visits, care and gifts from their kids at this point.
That's if their wives don't turn their kids against them.

VinnyBaba:


Honestly, the Guy KILLED the Guy.

In Ijaw language, they call it 'Egberi Fade' i.e. the Talk don Finish.

Afolue:
I have feelings for the ladies more. I am 37 (male) not yet married and no kids yet. To me , na women get children. A man can have kids anytime in his lifetime just not to end his genealogy . What’s most important is investment for his wife and children to have a meaningful living after he passes on.

2shure:
I'm 34 years and I only have a car,rented apartment and 2 pos business which has suffered a blow.im planning on selling all my propert for 10m before thisbyear ends and travel out.

Paramount01:



But they said " wife do open ways" how true is the statement

Chingyyy878:


Imagine having your first kid when you are almost 45

michigang:
you are a lazy man. How will you give birth to two kids

Gerrard59:


Sorry to be a bearer of bad news, but 10 million would not go that far if your target country is a developed one. Also, to truly enjoy living in the abroad, you will need to get a good job, which is tied to having relevant skills the economy of that country desires. If you have those skills and pretty young, it is a good one.

P.S. If you can japa without selling your properties, better.

2shure:
I'm 34 years and I only have a car,rented apartment and 2 pos business which has suffered a blow.im planning on selling all my propert for 10m before thisbyear ends and travel out.

2shure:
I'm 34 years and I only have a car,rented apartment and 2 pos business which has suffered a blow.im planning on selling all my propert for 10m before thisbyear ends and travel out.