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Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by dododawa1: 5:08pm On Apr 03
Life is a


Choice
Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by Elsueno: 5:10pm On Apr 03
Don't let any idiot gaslight you....Marry whenever u feel like & are ready for the responsibility thta comes along with it... No let anybody pressure u jare

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Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by Elzazzi: 5:13pm On Apr 03
concho:


You go explain tire !!!

I was waiting for the part where you would say that he is now the current MD or owner of a multinational

Your father started suffering from 19 and still suffering bro


He will soon get a third wife to elongate the chain in your tale


You and your siblings who look same age as him are his evidence of success right ?

Or the kids from his second wife running around him ??

Are they his evidence ??

I pity who go take this advise .
I hope you married at 15 ? Since your dad’s approach is the best


I didn't even bother to reply him lol

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Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by Quebec91(m): 5:15pm On Apr 03
cheesy
Dundalk:
Honestly make i no lie.. I feel bad about it, depressed all the time,
The main problem is not even married and have a kid, the problem is making in it in life financially.. shocked

undecided

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Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by chuksbobby12: 5:16pm On Apr 03
PissInside:
What's the essence of marriage or having kids?

Oh, because everyone is doing it,you must too?

You see,I've come to realise that the only thing that matters in life is happiness.....As long as you're happy,you good to go.

So many of my friends that rushed into getting married are now looking so hagard and stressed up.....The burden is too much.

Happiness You say?? If you have kids, you earn enough to comfortably pay all the bills , even without luxury , you will realize that nothing makes a responsible man happy more than his children .

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Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by concho(m): 5:16pm On Apr 03
Elzazzi:


I didn't even bother to reply him lol
Because you absolutely have nothing to say

Your dad is unhappy, take it or leave it

I’m even sure your mum is not late

He will still chase this second wife away for a third wife .

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Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by Paramount01(m): 5:21pm On Apr 03
Rexymania:
Me wey get children, if you know wetin I dey face? I'm just grateful to Allah. If you're not mentally ready, don't venture into it. Life no be competition


But they said " wife do open ways" how true is the statement

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Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by ufotty2001: 5:21pm On Apr 03
Am 38yrs. I have 2 houses in different locations, with a plot somewhere else. I have built my business that gives me returns of atleast a million naira monthly. I have no wife, no child and am searching.

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Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by Elzazzi: 5:28pm On Apr 03
concho:

Because you absolutely have nothing to say

Your dad is unhappy, take it or leave it

I’m even sure your mum is not late

He will still chase this second wife away for a third wife .


Bro calm down na. I supported your response to the guy you replied.
That's why I said i didn't bother to reply him becos it doesn't makes sense. Look at the monikers again grin grin

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Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by Honestey: 5:31pm On Apr 03
For a guy no reason to panic but for a lady, it's across the red line already because it takes a very naive guy to marry a woman of 30 or above.

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Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by Omalicious1: 5:32pm On Apr 03
Chingyyy878:
People in their 30s with no kids and single, do you worry about being old parents ?

I sure say most of una dey panic but una go deny

Societal pressure everywhere...most of them targeted at eradicating any form of masculinity

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Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by yommen: 5:33pm On Apr 03
Rexymania:
Me wey get children, if you know wetin I dey face? I'm just grateful to Allah. If you're not mentally ready, don't venture into it. Life no be competition

Be grateful you started already. You have passed a number 9f stages already.
Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by kodab: 5:34pm On Apr 03
VinnyBaba:


It is Actually, The cost of Maintaining a Home.😒

Rent
Electricity bills.
GOTV
Gas
Diaper
School fees.
Etc.😟
Na my fear be this I swear, imagine house rent 400k per year, prepaid meter 20k per month, fuel 50k per month, DStv sub 10k per month,diaper 20k per month,school fees 50k per 3 month,food stuff 50k per month,saving again 50k per month ,omo una sure say i go do this wedding like this
Imagine spending 650k per month where I wan get that kind money from except na betting and fraud go dey give me money


Young Men should be very Financially Ready before going into Marriage,
because in Africa, All Responsibility is for the Man. sad

Woman own na to Born pickin and Nurture. smiley

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Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by Ade1177: 5:36pm On Apr 03
Problem is

I am over 30







But I have a body look of 19
Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by pretydiva(f): 5:36pm On Apr 03
Zero pressure✌️

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Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by abobote: 5:37pm On Apr 03
How many African men have kids at 30? There is nothing wrong with at 30 without kids.
But a lady at that age should be sleeping in a prayer house.

I started having kids at 32, and people still think I started early

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Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by pretydiva(f): 5:38pm On Apr 03
Ade1177:
Problem is

I am over 30







But I have a body look of 19
Team petite 🤝
Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by Princewill1(m): 5:39pm On Apr 03
If you were born in a poor family or in an average income family, life is already leading you by 1:0.

If your father is not present in your life as a growing young man, life is leading you by 2:0.

Then if you later marry without fixing yourself, life is leading you by 3:0.

At this point, It will be extremely difficult for you to equalize and later win in life.

My recommended age range for a man to marry is between 35-45yrs.


If you marry in your 20s, when you becomes wiser in your 30s and 40s, you will feel trapped.

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Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by abobote: 5:40pm On Apr 03
Paramount01:



But they said " wife do open ways" how true is the statement
How come all the married people are not rich.
Don't follow that advice, if anything, wives bring more problems

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Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by femi4: 5:40pm On Apr 03
Chingyyy878:
People in their 30s with no kids and single, do you worry about being old parents ?

I sure say most of una dey panic but una go deny
feeling stingy
Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by Uncle96(m): 5:40pm On Apr 03
My own personal opinion is that , marriage is seen as a world tradition. A tradition we were born into, found our parents and family members in , and it’s the same thing all around the globe among all races. Whites, blacks , Asians , Etc.

Marriage isn’t gonna favour everyone the same way , good for a few, a lifetime regret for most . And kids ? Fruit of marriage ? Some people will get their greatest joy from their kids while some will be killed or endangered by their kids. Life isn’t balance , let’s just hope for the best in all.

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Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by femi4: 5:40pm On Apr 03
Paramount01:



But they said " wife do open ways" how true is the statement
children not wife
Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by nurudeen181(m): 5:44pm On Apr 03
Samfloxin:
Many of them are feeling bad but the cost of marrying a woman now is very high
and the gain is nothing

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Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by kaywhy09(m): 5:44pm On Apr 03
Ok
Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by kaywhy09(m): 5:46pm On Apr 03
Ade1177:



But I have a body look of 19

Let me see
Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by Monaboo(m): 5:49pm On Apr 03
Ned Nwoko is in his 70's and is still having baby kids daily.

So rest.

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Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by obaidan: 5:52pm On Apr 03
Chingyyy878:


Imagine having your first kid when you are almost 45
So what is wrong with it. Let's focus of on how people raise their kids, not when they have/had those kids. It is really desirable to have your kid as early as 23 in fact. But the reality of life is different for every individual, there are people that got married at 22, 23, 24 and they are 40 now still expecting their first child. No template for life, do as e pay u

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Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by iammolise(m): 5:52pm On Apr 03
SINGLE at 30 in Nigeria is as a result of many factors:
For men; MONEY, finding miss right, parents stringent expectations.

For women; RICH HUSBAND Syndrome, finding Mr right, parents stringent expectations.

As for me... I was depressed Ass4ck when i was approaching 30 in 2021, but now i just want to do me and live in peace without headache abeg. Untill I can cough out 2mill for marriage Biko make I eat well first undecided

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Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by diamond68: 5:52pm On Apr 03
Am too stingy to have kids. I need at least 5 million dollars before I start having kids

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Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by Israel0001: 5:56pm On Apr 03
Fear as how, am not because I've my faith fix is God and very soon the right one will come, sha na all those girls were yahoo boys don use finish person no go watch well before talking to abi...

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Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by iammolise(m): 5:57pm On Apr 03
abobote:

How come all the married people are not rich.
Don't follow that advice, if anything, wives bring more problems
That advice is the most idiotic thing I've ever been told... And the anoin thing is it never goes away, people keep saying that shit.

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Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by toujurs: 6:01pm On Apr 03
Elzazzi:


Omo thank God you found out, because if you had mistakenly married her then you will see shege inside the marriage. I can't work hard all my youth only to end up marrying a sluut that's only pretending angry
tbh, and this is what has happened in most marriages today. That's why you hear about a lot of break up.

Some men think, because they now have money. It could buy a woman love and respect. Unknown to the man that, after 3 years of squandering his money. That money won't freak her anymore. Because she is now used to the lifestyle.

Nigerian men, tolerate too many nonsense, from Nigerian women.

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