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illicit:
The truth is you will hardly meet an adult who is celibate

The man of ur fantasy

So don't be disappointed cos he is not what he preaches

That's his hustle

We all compromise

You lie!
I still watched another of his recent video last night and he was still addressing the teens on illicit sex and it implications of which are HIV and hepatitis and this even made my head go Gaga because these are the kind of things I speak about and kick against so there's this connection between us and our outlook on life.

Let His will be done.

Jewessgratitud3:
I need very mature advice here.

I'm a picky person when it comes to making relationship choices. For me the attractiion has to come from my end otherwise I'll find it difficult to accept the individual.


There's this guy, very mature and. I'm sure will be older than me or we'll be of same age I love watching his contents on Facebook and what attracted me to him was one of his sit down videos where he talked about premarital sex and the dangers of engaging in it as a Christian. I was wowed that a dark handsome man like him could speak against such practices and his audience that day were youth and teenagers.

I began to observe him and noticed he addresses the youth more and is always teaching them moral and academic lessons. I somehow felt connected to him and one day summoned the courage to ask him if he's married. He didn't reply.

I recently came across his video again and asked him for the last time on his comment section if he's married and I said this was the last time I was going to ask him this question. He now replied that he is not married.

I don't know, would it be wise if I take a shot at him or try being his friend. He's a Born again brother and my spec.

Please sincere advice.

Well, I am a man and one thing I am sure of is that he would be fidgeting to reply you even tho he might be open.

Now this is why..

1) Due to nature of his job, he would want to be very careful not to negate his teachings by himself

2) Ur very first question is not an ideal one, u shouldn't have gone that way, u should have gone from trying to know him more like an acquitance than asking outrightly if he's married. When u ask a single man if he's married and u become friends, in his head he would know u re his friend for one single purpose...MARRIAGE, and he might not to want that friendship cus of one thing or the other because he knows that the moment he accept that friendship he's tied already.
3) the third reaso

Jewessgratitud3:
You lie!
I still watched another of his recent video last night and he was still addressing the teens on illicit sex and it implications of which are HIV and hepatitis and this even made my head go Gaga because these are the kind of things I speak about and kick against so there's this connection between us and our outlook on life.

Let His will be done.

"US" here Ia a wrong Choice of word.. you're only connected to him. Him, not to you as you two have never met ..

But but but, hold on , wait first, we should have a connection too

Jewessgratitud3:
**For where I keep that my 6 by 6 somebody wan chop pako this night**

Why don't I deserve him? I've kept myself pure for so long and I'm wiser and better in handling relationship matters by the grace of God. So? Only a blind man will throw away a golden opportunity like me.

Keeping yourself pure for so long does not make you a virgin.

Besides, is that all you got for him?

TheWinterBird:
You've already tried to talk to him twice and have indirectly shooted your shot when you asked him if he's married. If he wanted to communicate with you further then, he would have. If you try talking to him again, you'll be giving desperation vibes. Men are supposed to do the chasing and a man who likes you will do just that; you ain't gotta do his work for him.

Men are not suppose to do any chasing ..

Whoever builds an affection first should do that...

Jewessgratitud3:
Why should I settle for a single guy who is not celibate? I'm not that desperate biko. If I discover he doesn't live by what he preaches I'm cutting out. After all that was what got me attracted to him in the first place.

Wo let's see how the experiment goes.

what if in his early days he doesn't use to be celibate but only newly started being ...

Would you still go with him??

illicit:
The truth is you will hardly meet an adult who is celibate

The man of ur fantasy

So don't be disappointed cos he is not what he preaches

That's his hustle

We all compromise

Except if he's dealing with impotency..

Victoria, if this is the case, would you still go on??

Silentgroper:
what if in his early days he doesn't use to be celibate but only newly started being ...

Would you still go with him??

Yes.

Silentgroper:
"US" here Ia a wrong Choice of word.. you're only connected to him. Him, not to you as you two have never met ..

But but but, hold on , wait first, we should have a connection too

Lol.. you and who? Ta!

2Radii:
Well, I am a man and one thing I am sure of is that he would be fidgeting to reply you even tho he might be open.

Now this is why..

1) Due to nature of his job, he would want to be very careful not to negate his teachings by himself

2) Ur very first question is not an ideal one, u shouldn't have gone that way, u should have gone from trying to know him more like an acquitance than asking outrightly if he's married. When u ask a single man if he's married and u become friends, in his head he would know u re his friend for one single purpose...MARRIAGE, and he might not to want that friendship cus of one thing or the other because he knows that the moment he accept that friendship he's tied already.
3) the third reaso

I had to ask because I don't want to be dottting on a married man and in the end find out ive been wasting my time plus it's a sin and against my faith to dot on married men. Reason I asked, to be on a safer side.

I'm not outrightly asking him out. I'm not going to use carnal approach. At least now that I know his status I'll know how and where to channel my request and and supplications.

Don't worry I'm not in a haste. Let God lead from here.

Silentgroper:
Men are not suppose to do any chasing ..

Whoever builds an affection first should do that...

That one still be small pikin. Leave her. Relationship is between two people and should be agreed upon by both parties to make it thrive otherwise one party will suffer by being the only one putting in all the effort.

Experience will teach her. The important thing is to get a sensible and responsible man and let the both of you give it your all.

Jewessgratitud3:
Yes.

And what if he is not rich but just comfortable?

No do not it make you so cheap....show am green light or try to be his friend and get close if he doesn't reciprocate waka de go

Booksy:
And what if he is not rich but just comfortable?

It depends. If he's hardworking and has a stable source of income whereby we won't lack the basic necessities of life, why not?. God can still bless him.

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Life is a risk. It's either a yes or a No.
It won't take anything from you.

I might know who you are talking about. I'll warn him about you because he deserves better.

Jewessgratitud3:
I need very mature advice here.

I'm a picky person when it comes to making relationship choices. For me the attractiion has to come from my end otherwise I'll find it difficult to accept the individual.


There's this guy, very mature and. I'm sure will be older than me or we'll be of same age I love watching his contents on Facebook and what attracted me to him was one of his sit down videos where he talked about premarital sex and the dangers of engaging in it as a Christian. I was wowed that a dark handsome man like him could speak against such practices and his audience that day were youth and teenagers.

I began to observe him and noticed he addresses the youth more and is always teaching them moral and academic lessons. I somehow felt connected to him and one day summoned the courage to ask him if he's married. He didn't reply.

I recently came across his video again and asked him for the last time on his comment section if he's married and I said this was the last time I was going to ask him this question. He now replied that he is not married.

I don't know, would it be wise if I take a shot at him or try being his friend. He's a Born again brother and my spec.

Please sincere advice.

Jewessgratitud3:
I need very mature advice here.

I'm a picky person when it comes to making relationship choices. For me the attractiion has to come from my end otherwise I'll find it difficult to accept the individual.


There's this guy, very mature and. I'm sure will be older than me or we'll be of same age I love watching his contents on Facebook and what attracted me to him was one of his sit down videos where he talked about premarital sex and the dangers of engaging in it as a Christian. I was wowed that a dark handsome man like him could speak against such practices and his audience that day were youth and teenagers.

I began to observe him and noticed he addresses the youth more and is always teaching them moral and academic lessons. I somehow felt connected to him and one day summoned the courage to ask him if he's married. He didn't reply.

I recently came across his video again and asked him for the last time on his comment section if he's married and I said this was the last time I was going to ask him this question. He now replied that he is not married.

I don't know, would it be wise if I take a shot at him or try being his friend. He's a Born again brother and my spec.

Please sincere advice.

You no like the one wey you dey see korokoro na internet romance you wan do. Kontinu. LWKMD.

Jewessgratitud3:
I had to ask because I don't want to be dottting on a married man and in the end find out ive been wasting my time plus it's a sin and against my faith to dot on married men. Reason I asked, to be on a safer side.

I'm not outrightly asking him out. I'm not going to use carnal approach. At least now that I know his status I'll know how and where to channel my request and and supplications.

Don't worry I'm not in a haste. Let God lead from here.

Well, let the fingers be crossed

But I pray and I want it to work out...I will be happy for u beyond imagining

Jewessgratitud3:
I need very mature advice here.

I'm a picky person when it comes to making relationship choices. For me the attractiion has to come from my end otherwise I'll find it difficult to accept the individual.


There's this guy, very mature and. I'm sure will be older than me or we'll be of same age I love watching his contents on Facebook and what attracted me to him was one of his sit down videos where he talked about premarital sex and the dangers of engaging in it as a Christian. I was wowed that a dark handsome man like him could speak against such practices and his audience that day were youth and teenagers.

I began to observe him and noticed he addresses the youth more and is always teaching them moral and academic lessons. I somehow felt connected to him and one day summoned the courage to ask him if he's married. He didn't reply.

I recently came across his video again and asked him for the last time on his comment section if he's married and I said this was the last time I was going to ask him this question. He now replied that he is not married.

I don't know, would it be wise if I take a shot at him or try being his friend. He's a Born again brother and my spec.

Please sincere advice.

Huh?? U like priiick when it come to relationship choise?? (Read yor lastvpost)
....brother are u ok sir!!((no oofencsece)

EreluRoz:
That's enough greenlight already but you may go further. Funny enough most guys don't quickly grab a greenlight.

If you are not very smart as a guy you'll not understand some kind of greenlight. My own greenlight is very funny, you'll never have a clue except you are way too smart.

Greenlight for billing?

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Go ahead express your desires. But don't cheapen yourself on doing it. You can ask him out and still maintain your high esteem. I've coulselled ladies like this before and the way you go about it will determine how it turns out for you. As you do it... MAINTAIN YOUR RELIGIOUS STANDARD.

Good luck dear. 🙏

But why must you be the one to go for him?
Someone that you asked if he's married and he waited to be reminded before he answered , anyways people are different
Wish you luck though.

Jewessgratitud3:
I need very mature advice here.

I'm a picky person when it comes to making relationship choices. For me the attractiion has to come from my end otherwise I'll find it difficult to accept the individual.


There's this guy, very mature and. I'm sure will be older than me or we'll be of same age I love watching his contents on Facebook and what attracted me to him was one of his sit down videos where he talked about premarital sex and the dangers of engaging in it as a Christian. I was wowed that a dark handsome man like him could speak against such practices and his audience that day were youth and teenagers.

I began to observe him and noticed he addresses the youth more and is always teaching them moral and academic lessons. I somehow felt connected to him and one day summoned the courage to ask him if he's married. He didn't reply.

I recently came across his video again and asked him for the last time on his comment section if he's married and I said this was the last time I was going to ask him this question. He now replied that he is not married.

I don't know, would it be wise if I take a shot at him or try being his friend. He's a Born again brother and my spec.

Please sincere advice.

He's my brother. I can connect him to you with a very small token. He's looking for a girl like you for marriage.

Neptunium:
The writing's on the wall. He is not interested. Enter relationship with him, find yourself chasing him in the relationship. You have not wisen up at your age. Keep collecting body count after body count

I just tire. Just imagine the mindset of a 46 year old single middle aged woman. At that age? This one is not an evening newspaper anymore, she is way past that stage. This one is yesterday's newspaper. Tufiakwa. Pathetic.

Women are very intriguing and delusional in thoughts at the same time. You have plethora of humans around you that are within your reach but it's that one person who is been chased by thousands of people and outside of your reach is who they will always fantasize about. Congratulations in ur nacking and pressing experience

You sound like you need a man you can order around.. there is this Guts and or commandeering nature in you.

You want to be the one to ask a man out and still be the one to determine when he accepts.

So of all things about him it's his marital status that interests you first.

Take your feminist biased ugly egocentric old self to church for deliverance first.

Mind you I see menopause asking you out soon

Jewessgratitud3:
I need very mature advice here.

I'm a picky person when it comes to making relationship choices. For me the attractiion has to come from my end otherwise I'll find it difficult to accept the individual.


There's this guy, very mature and. I'm sure will be older than me or we'll be of same age I love watching his contents on Facebook and what attracted me to him was one of his sit down videos where he talked about premarital sex and the dangers of engaging in it as a Christian. I was wowed that a dark handsome man like him could speak against such practices and his audience that day were youth and teenagers.

I began to observe him and noticed he addresses the youth more and is always teaching them moral and academic lessons. I somehow felt connected to him and one day summoned the courage to ask him if he's married. He didn't reply.

I recently came across his video again and asked him for the last time on his comment section if he's married and I said this was the last time I was going to ask him this question. He now replied that he is not married.

I don't know, would it be wise if I take a shot at him or try being his friend. He's a Born again brother and my spec.

Please sincere advice.

We need to see your pictures before we give you correct advice…

LordReed:
You no like the one wey you dey see korokoro na internet romance you wan do. Kontinu. LWKMD.

Which one I dey see korokoro? I don't go out. No social life so where I dey see am.?

I like a quiet and peaceful life..I'm an introvert.

What’s the colour of fraud?

Once people display righteousness on social media be very very wary.

I’m not saying this guy is a fraud but 90% of the time, people carrying church on their heads are dangerous with money and relationships.

Jewessgratitud3:
I need very mature advice here.

I'm a picky person when it comes to making relationship choices. For me the attractiion has to come from my end otherwise I'll find it difficult to accept the individual.


There's this guy, very mature and. I'm sure will be older than me or we'll be of same age I love watching his contents on Facebook and what attracted me to him was one of his sit down videos where he talked about premarital sex and the dangers of engaging in it as a Christian. I was wowed that a dark handsome man like him could speak against such practices and his audience that day were youth and teenagers.

I began to observe him and noticed he addresses the youth more and is always teaching them moral and academic lessons. I somehow felt connected to him and one day summoned the courage to ask him if he's married. He didn't reply.

I recently came across his video again and asked him for the last time on his comment section if he's married and I said this was the last time I was going to ask him this question. He now replied that he is not married.

I don't know, would it be wise if I take a shot at him or try being his friend. He's a Born again brother and my spec.

Please sincere advice.

You asked if he was married...huh?

Well let's see how dis will end...

Wait oo! How would you feel, someone you never had a conversation with on social media... Suddenly pop up online to ask if you are married and this would be the last time asking..

If that man gives you a green light..

Then he is not what you claim he preaches to the young ones..

You as a lady sounds as if you know too much..

And you won't let the poor man breath..

You don't need a relationship sister.. you need a CAREGIVER