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Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Carnivorouslamb: 1:34pm On Apr 05
Jewessgratitud3:


You lie!
I still watched another of his recent video last night and he was still addressing the teens on illicit sex and it implications of which are HIV and hepatitis and this even made my head go Gaga because these are the kind of things I speak about and kick against so there's this connection between us and our outlook on life.

Let His will be done.

Its obvious you are quite delusional.. Someone gave u a candid perspective and u are saying lie.. U wan tell me say as him they so, him no they kpansh more than 1 woman, i laugh. Nobody is saying u shouldnt shoot your arrow oh, but U better separate hope from delusion first in other to act with the right perception

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Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Azazyel: 1:35pm On Apr 05
Jewessgratitud3:
I need very mature advice here.

I'm a picky person when it comes to making relationship choices. For me the attractiion has to come from my end otherwise I'll find it difficult to accept the individual.


There's this guy, very mature and. I'm sure will be older than me or we'll be of same age I love watching his contents on Facebook and what attracted me to him was one of his sit down videos where he talked about premarital sex and the dangers of engaging in it as a Christian. I was wowed that a dark handsome man like him could speak against such practices and his audience that day were youth and teenagers.

I began to observe him and noticed he addresses the youth more and is always teaching them moral and academic lessons. I somehow felt connected to him and one day summoned the courage to ask him if he's married. He didn't reply.

I recently came across his video again and asked him for the last time on his comment section if he's married and I said this was the last time I was going to ask him this question. He now replied that he is not married.

I don't know, would it be wise if I take a shot at him or try being his friend. He's a Born again brother and my spec.

Please sincere advice.



I thought you were married shocked
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Jewessgratitud3: 1:35pm On Apr 05
Cocolatti:
Shoot your Shot.
But be careful. You only know him on Facebook. Most people aren't what they seem on social media.

Sure safety is key. I have that in mind too.

Thank you
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Jewessgratitud3: 1:37pm On Apr 05
nigmarelli:


Greetings Ma. Hope you are doing great. Well there's no rule book anywhere in the world that states sacrosanct that for a relationship between a man and woman to occur it must be the man or males that initiates it first na here you ladies have it backwards. Also as long you are born again yourself genuinely as well and sincere in your heart should you try this(i can't emphasise this point enough for you to understand). The worst that will happen is he might say no. Iin life it's either yes or no. Being rejected doesn't which comes with no doesn't mean a damn thing in life regardless of how other people might see it. Goodluck.
in

Thank you for this. I'm very well too .
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by jaxxy(m): 1:37pm On Apr 05
Jewessgratitud3:


I feel I do. Please you people should let me express myself any way I want. Stop trying to shut me up.

Public opinion on matters like this sometimes go a long way before I make a fool of myself.

Please allow me

He is ur spec..Congrats

The million dollar question that will determine his response is are u his spec?

Just like u have a spec he also has a spec. So find out if u are his spec to spare urself any rejection trauma.

Post ur pix so we can know if ure his spec and rate ur chances. undecided

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Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Raylight2(m): 1:40pm On Apr 05
Jewessgratitud3:


I feel I do. Please you people should let me express myself any way I want. Stop trying to shut me up.

Public opinion on matters like this sometimes go a long way before I make a fool of myself.

Please allow me
Goan ask Moses Bliss' wife how she did it.
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by omolola12345(m): 1:44pm On Apr 05
Ensure you add enough value to yourself and you are skillful. Pray, fast about it and know what God is saying concerning it. Be patient and do not rush it. I wish you the best
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by ella45(m): 1:45pm On Apr 05
I will advice you go for deliverance first before looking for shot.your type might e suffering from the spirit of Amakome and iberism

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Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Emmanuel30a2: 1:50pm On Apr 05
Gives me money, I need money... Pay me for rapping or my rapping [quote author=Banbanna post=129281418]Shuo! Omo, you be some kind rapper or poet, turning every reply into rhymes
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Johnwrite(m): 1:52pm On Apr 05
Sure you can

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Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by meobizy(f): 1:54pm On Apr 05
Which moderator's alternate is this? It doesn't make sense how the account makes front page every other week.

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Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Emmanuel30a2: 1:54pm On Apr 05
ozoono:

Wait are u a drug adict? U on colorado, i mean colos when typing that long epistle, very confusing. Like wetin cincern analogy and dermatology to this pls i want to no? Pls mention
Let's drinks together... Buy me a drink and let's drink together... So, we would not shrink... Abi? Let it sink (into your brain?)... I need a pink drink, so that I would not shrink and sink... Give me a pink drink or money to buy a pink drink... If you don't know analogy and dermatology, how would knows biology and microbiology...? Or, you wants to go for theology...? Go to theology or go for theology...? Leave me and dermatology... I knows onthology and "anthropology", I won't gives them ideology, and they don't needs my apology...

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Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Jewessgratitud3: 1:54pm On Apr 05
lexy2014:


fictional writing

If I show you screen shots of our conversation,, you'll give me 100k. Deal?
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by LordReed(m): 1:56pm On Apr 05
Jewessgratitud3:


Which one I dey see korokoro? I don't go out. No social life so where I dey see am.?

I like a quiet and peaceful life..I'm an introvert.

All ya church bros nko? You no wan shoot shot for those ones bah?

My point is internet romance can be very deceiving. Video doesn't mean anything if you cannot get to know the real person.

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Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Iamzik: 2:02pm On Apr 05
Jewessgratitud3:


I'm a mature adult who knows what she wants. I don't need to go start doing all the girly pretence "catch my green light" game. Im the one who wants it and I'll go direct if it enters my head . Highest he go turn me down, he won't beat me now. Abi. grin

Chai na this kind babe I want 😍
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Jewessgratitud3: 2:02pm On Apr 05
Nijimog:
Aunty dey your lane, u don't need to go after a man(it shows desperation)

If u trust your God, leave your God to do his work for u,

Don't do God's work

What will be, will be

Be patient, your man will come

This is not a matter of desperation cos I'm not just going for anything. I like him. He's everything I want in a man. This case looks Iike a rare opportunity that's why I feel like giving it a go.

If it's desperation I'll pick from the ones disturbing me but this is what I like.

No be only una sabi go for wetin una like. Me too I want what I like.

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Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Jewessgratitud3: 2:05pm On Apr 05
Intergrated:
This one come worst pass obavoh.

Hahahahahaaa.. grin cheesy grin cheesy grin cheesy. See you. Before obavo, I was. grin you're new to nairaland lol
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Jewessgratitud3: 2:07pm On Apr 05
LagosG:

I'm 1000% sure he doesn't want you.

Ehn.. not a crime na. Life goes on.

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Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by lexy2014: 2:08pm On Apr 05
Jewessgratitud3:


If I show you screen shots of our conversation,, you'll give me 100k. Deal?

if its money you are looking for, say you are looking for money.

if you show me the screenshot of the so called conversation, what is the guarantee that you are one of the participants in the conversation?

is there any part of he conversation where you told the guy that you wanted to toast him?
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Jewessgratitud3: 2:15pm On Apr 05
Easyincome24:
Now you know his good sides, from the looks on Facebook. Try to meet him in person or know where he will be having the next talks.

Make another visit after that to know his other sides. We get attracted to people at their best but genuine love will be able to stick even when you know his bad or weak sides.

If you still feel attracted to him after the two sides of the coins are tossed, then open up on your perception but still allow him to propose.

He may already be eyeing someone else who he is dyeing hard for too.

True. I'll just let things take a natural course. I won't push it. Will also back it up with prayers.
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by lexy2014: 2:15pm On Apr 05
AngelicBeing:
Where's your prove that it's fictional shocked

I dont have any "prove" how much more keeping it somewhere. where is your own "prove"?
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by AngelicBeing: 2:18pm On Apr 05
lexy2014:


I dont have any "prove" how much more keeping it somewhere. where is your own "prove"?

Where is your prove that it is fictional shocked
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Smithwilliams826: 2:18pm On Apr 05
Jewessgratitud3:
I need very mature advice here.

I'm a picky person when it comes to making relationship choices. For me the attractiion has to come from my end otherwise I'll find it difficult to accept the individual.


There's this guy, very mature and. I'm sure will be older than me or we'll be of same age I love watching his contents on Facebook and what attracted me to him was one of his sit down videos where he talked about premarital sex and the dangers of engaging in it as a Christian. I was wowed that a dark handsome man like him could speak against such practices and his audience that day were youth and teenagers.

I began to observe him and noticed he addresses the youth more and is always teaching them moral and academic lessons. I somehow felt connected to him and one day summoned the courage to ask him if he's married. He didn't reply.

I recently came across his video again and asked him for the last time on his comment section if he's married and I said this was the last time I was going to ask him this question. He now replied that he is not married.

I don't know, would it be wise if I take a shot at him or try being his friend. He's a Born again brother and my spec.

Please sincere advice.
He can never marry you. Neither is he your spec. No be you wey wan commot womb?
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Miyachi: 2:24pm On Apr 05
Jewessgratitud3:


What if he doesn't say anything because I didn't put my pics on my profile though I introduced myself as a single bornagain sister. I just have the prompting to try because the guy is a very good guy from his videos Ive watched and the things he preaches to the youth. Such men are difficult to come by these days.

This relationship will not work, even if he says yes. grin
You've already put this guy on a pedestal. Not all that glitters is gold.
Relationships where one party idolizes the other will likely be rife with abuse.

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Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by lexy2014: 2:24pm On Apr 05
AngelicBeing:
Where is your prove that it is fictional shocked

I dont have any "prove" how much more keeping it somewhere. where is your own "prove"?

pls what is "prove"?
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Jewessgratitud3: 2:29pm On Apr 05
lexy2014:


if its money you are looking for, say you are looking for money.

if you show me the screenshot of the so called conversation, what is the guarantee that you are one of the participants in the conversation?

is there any part of he conversation where you told the guy that you wanted to toast him?




Abeg commot for road. You no fit, period!
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by deyplay: 2:42pm On Apr 05
Jewessgratitud3:


I feel I do. Please you people should let me express myself any way I want. Stop trying to shut me up.

Public opinion on matters like this sometimes go a long way before I make a fool of myself.

Please allow me
just find out from what he likes in a woman to determine if you are also his spec before shooting your shots to avoid rejection
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Intergrated: 2:46pm On Apr 05
Jewessgratitud3:


Hahahahahaaa.. grin cheesy grin cheesy grin cheesy. See you. Before obavo, I was. grin you're new to nairaland lol
congratulations
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by SmallmebigGod: 2:46pm On Apr 05
In my Nairaland experience I can tell OP is not real
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by enemyofprogress: 2:49pm On Apr 05
Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew





The truth is that, not all ladies love money, some actually love money while others love money, but majority of them love money.
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by lexy2014: 2:53pm On Apr 05
Jewessgratitud3:


Abeg commot for road. You no fit, period!

hence my claim that your write up is complete fiction. if you are looking for 100k, then give me a cogent reason why I should give 100k.

you can start by answering the following question:

if you show me the screenshot of the so called conversation, what is the guarantee that you are one of the participants in the conversation?

is there any part of he conversation where you told the guy that you wanted to toast him?

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