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Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Jetland(m): 1:24pm On Apr 06 |
CharlotteFlair:Neither am I. I'm a kingdom man just the same way you're a kingdom woman. So, no sin committed by shooting your shot 😁 |
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by CharlotteFlair: 1:26pm On Apr 06 |
Jetland:Jetland, zukwanike. 🙂 1 Like |
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by CaptainJune: 5:16pm On Apr 06 |
I think Jewessgratitud3 should go ahead. It is better than a future wishing she had. Good luck. Those ladies saying shooting their shot at the man of their desire is not advisable I can only say fortune favours the brave. The most important thing in deciding to be in a relationship with a person is what God says about it. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Sirianese: 9:20pm On Apr 06 |
Jewessgratitud3: Lol😄 Na those kind people dey fûck pass 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by pansophist(m): 9:52pm On Apr 06 |
When you approach anything, be it a job offer, a potential date, or whatever, you must accept and proceed from the position that it is a NO, but you will try anyway. Also, know that rejection in many cases has nothing to do with you, and the person rejecting might even be the one at a loss. Furthermore, we regret the chance we do not take, compared to the rejection we receive. Rejection is like a confirmation, it clears your mind of what is in the fog, if there is something more to the smoke. If your ego is not a problem, I see no reason why you should not give him signs, not necessarily a direct approach, but he seems like a smart guy, so he will decode. And if he requits your shots, then it can only get better from there. If not, then life goes on. You will close that chapter from your life and won't torment yourself with thoughts of what could have been. 7 Likes |
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Xosh: 12:00am On Apr 07 |
michigang:Virgin catch fire.person that different gbola don scatter @46year carlosthejackal 1 Like |
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Xosh: 12:13am On Apr 07 |
Easy comrade,check your mail Baba Kajaard:Carlosthejackal you too ogbeni. |
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by pozehnani(f): 12:14am On Apr 07 |
Xosh: This dirty pig, can you go and rest ? Even if you tear yourself up till eternity, you can never look half like her. Yes she's in her early 40s and you not yet there but I beg to say you look wrinkled and Haggard for your age. Please get a life and let people breathe from your smelly smoked armpits. Hell knows what you would look like in your 40s. ošklivé káčátko. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Silentgroper(m): 8:42am On Apr 07 |
LordReed:shebi na internet romance carry this gospel artiste wey dey trend one time marry him Ghanaian babe.. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Silentgroper(m): 8:47am On Apr 07 |
IbeOkehie:E. O. D .. Same goes for the male .. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Silentgroper(m): 8:50am On Apr 07 |
toujurs:everyone has a spec .. Besides she still has time .. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Silentgroper(m): 8:53am On Apr 07 |
Jetland:I was going to say crap until ivread the latter part of your 1st points.. |
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Silentgroper(m): 8:55am On Apr 07 |
Jetland:you haven't been around the one .. when she finds you, she will... 1 Like |
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by toujurs: 9:07am On Apr 07 |
Silentgroper:Broke women shouldn't talk about spec. This is why men take advantage of them, and drop them. After all sex styles. Because the only thing they can offer in the relationship. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Silentgroper(m): 9:09am On Apr 07 |
toujurs:Is she broke .. jewess is a made woman oo .... The kinds that are good for sugar mummy.. |
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Silentgroper(m): 9:14am On Apr 07 |
jenniferedet00:you might to keep that opinion to yourself . Infact, you should.. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by toujurs: 9:19am On Apr 07 |
Silentgroper:A 46 year old, who still ask for urgent money from married Men who wants to be sleeping with her.. Omo rest the matter, that woman doesn't have sh*t. And i pity the women of this our generation, walaihi. Most of them would end up this way. |
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Silentgroper(m): 9:20am On Apr 07 |
toujurs:she's 43 btw. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Merry100: 11:54am On Apr 07 |
Jewessgratitud3:You did not mention any tangible thing that qualify him as a good guy. Even if the guy in question is actually a devout Christian and a virgin, as you have portrayed him to be, that alone does not make him a good guy. Virginity is not even a character trait. Anyway, there is no harm in trying. Shoot your shot, but if he eventually gives in, don't be too quick to make a decision. First, examine him properly; focus more on his personality rather than his spiritual life. In fact, trigger his reaction to understand his true personality. |
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by IbeOkehie: 1:04pm On Apr 07 |
Silentgroper: My comment definitely referred to BOTH men & women with extraordinary biological, social or finacial assets. It's right there in plain sight. Anyone seeking a sexual relationship with such well endowed persons should be very careful, most especially in lawless places like Nigeria. Here in the USA there's some legal protections. Women are more favored but INFORMED & WISE men have learned lessons from events around them and also history and are taking steps to instill some fairness in the system. For example, NOBODY, especially financially successful men, should ever get married in the USA without a carefully crafted, iron clad prenuptial agreement reviewed by MULTIPLE lawyers specialized in family law. Even dating may require some steps to legally protect yourself from unjust accusations. I like the way things are going in this matter. Very soon dating with premarital sex will be too risky, marriage will become the desired and default objective. Add prenuptial legalities and we're back to how it used to be in the 1890s. Back to the future I suppose. Another option is to avoid marriage altogether. To my surprise a significant number of young and successful Nigerian men are CHOOSING this option. I've been shocked, but it's true. Deliberately having children out of wedlock. Consequences of the times. A final point worth reiterating - premarital sex has zero upside for women. And the reasons are mainly biological reality, not religious. Oshokhai69: Very true, we need to know more about the OP. I hate these kinds of topics because it's difficult to tell the hard truth. Anonymity is that kind of a dog. Good Luck to Men & Women. |
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Dshocker(m): 1:41pm On Apr 07 |
Jewessgratitud3: Without being bias, rate your physical appearance by 10? |
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Gerrard59(m): 8:04am On Apr 08 |
IbeOkehie: I was thinking aloud a few days ago that the liberal system of the world is coming to an end, especially as the birth rates of the West - the promoter of this ideology - decline further. With the rise of Islam and the population growth in conservative countries, liberalism, especially sexual liberalism, would start changing. As the West's population declines, there would be a resurgence of sorts to protect what is left. To achieve this, Westerners would have to become conservative - becoming what they are very much against. In times of danger, humans are not liberal but conservative and tribal. I also imagine a world with many unmarried adult men and women. In my thought process, men would benefit from this system more than women. But it is left to be seen. Men benefitting since they are used to fending for themselves as nature would have it. Another option is to avoid marriage altogether. To my surprise a significant number of young and successful Nigerian men are CHOOSING this option. I've been shocked, but it's true. Deliberately having children out of wedlock. Consequences of the times. I find such a phenomenon fascinating, but not surprising. However, I wager that those men are not first-generation immigrants but second-generation. The concept of marriage is still strong in first-generation Nigerian immigrants. The influence of Nigerian culture and one's immediate family is very strong for both genders. To be fair to those men though, marriage largely benefits women more than men. I explained it here: https://www.nairaland.com/8049820/marriage-benefits-women-more-than/3#129296167 That said, I was stunned upon hearing a popular second-generation Nigerian-American lady who is 30, lamenting that she had only attended three weddings of her friends in her entire life as a resident in New York. This was further corroborated by another Nairalander who resides in the US on the large number of spinsters in the church he attends. I know that marriage rates have nose-dived in the US, just as they have across the developed world. But the US is a peculiar case due to its racial demographics. Some women of a race are disadvantaged when they move locations. Asian women in Atlanta and black women on the West Coast. A final point worth reiterating - premarital sex has zero upside for women. And the reasons are mainly biological reality, not religious. We share similar views, so I see. I am a strong advocate of sexual liberalism; after all, my parents own hotels. It would be hypocritical to be a prude. However, I do concede (which I have written elsewhere on NL) that premarital sex and, in worst cases, wanton sexual intercourse do more harm than good to females rather than males. Testosterone is a hormone, not a m.oron. To be a man is to fvck, while women are largely demisexual. Feminism has made it easier for men to get the milk without buying the cow or catering to the ranch. On the aspect of sexuality, feminism has done more good to men than women. For that reason, I love feminism. 6 Likes |
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by IbeOkehie: 12:02pm On Apr 08 |
Gerrard59: I generally concur. But you're a bad guy. Good Luck to Japan. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by ozoono(m): 8:57pm On Apr 08 |
Emmanuel30a2:God I av given off already |
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Emmanuel30a2: 5:21am On Apr 09 |
ozoono:Okay... |
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