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shortgun:
Tragically we lost a close friend to the cold hands of death who passed away in a ghastly motor accident.

He was in his late thirties to early forties,unmarried, no child, and a Christian from the North west.

In solidarity, we his friends, proposed to hold a formal wake keep for him at his Abuja residence and promptly began the preparation process. This included securing the services of a DJ and arranging refreshments for the gathering.

Certain members of his family objected to the idea of the wake keep, contending that it was inappropriate for us to engage in partying and funfair following the untimely passing of their loved one. They insisted we limit the gathering to just a public address system and a choir to sing, nothing more.

Some of our friends are threatening to hands-off and withdraw their involvement from everything about the funeral including not attending the burial and allow the family members do whatever that pleases them.
Others are of the opinion that we should ignore the family members and go ahead with our plans since we are going to be paying respect to our late friend and not members of his family.

What do you guys think?

Hire a Christian life band instead.

You friends are idiots barbarians fools.

All of u dey mad. A young man in his prime died and all u could think of is to rent a DJ and play loud music to celebrate his demise. I suspect u guys are cultists cos no reasonable persons wud do funeral of a young man in such disrespectful manner. Gbogbo yin ti ya werey

Una craze gan ni o. What is there to party nitori Olorun?🙄 Dey suppose flog you guys wey claim to be the deceased's friends.

I'm in support of the family,
Hope say una no use am

See bro ignore the family
Mak everybody respect each other
You can do that in days intervals
Not all family are family

shortgun:
Tragically we lost a close friend to the cold hands of death who passed away in a ghastly motor accident.

He was in his late thirties to early forties,unmarried, no child, and a Christian from the North west.

In solidarity, we his friends, proposed to hold a formal wake keep for him at his Abuja residence and promptly began the preparation process. This included securing the services of a DJ and arranging refreshments for the gathering.

Certain members of his family objected to the idea of the wake keep, contending that it was inappropriate for us to engage in partying and funfair following the untimely passing of their loved one. They insisted we limit the gathering to just a public address system and a choir to sing, nothing more.

Some of our friends are threatening to hands-off and withdraw their involvement from everything about the funeral including not attending the burial and allow the family members do whatever that pleases them.
Others are of the opinion that we should ignore the family members and go ahead with our plans since we are going to be paying respect to our late friend and not members of his family.

What do you guys think?

Since when are friends in charge of someone's funeral arrangements? Even in the lawless and woke land of the West, they still respect the facts that burial rites are family affair.

You and your friends should respect yourselves and mind your business.

OP na wa for you and your friends o. Your friend died in his late 30s and the only way you guys want to honour him is to party? What is the purpose of that party? Is it to celebrate his death or what? Na una kill the guy? You and your friends are not serious. You guy were even thinking of boycotting his burial. Shame on you all. Friends indeed.
Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew.



Mynd44 abeg come make I ask you one question.

shortgun:
What village do you all crawl out from for fuks sake. DJ's are not always used during celebrations, or for playing loud music
who will do the lighting? Who will provide generator?
Who will bring microphones and speakers for the gathering.
Better shut it you don't have any sensible contribution to this thread

The more senseless defense you make for your thoughtless plan, the more exposure you make of your insensitive mind.

shortgun:
Tragically we lost a close friend to the cold hands of death who passed away in a ghastly motor accident.

He was in his late thirties to early forties,unmarried, no child, and a Christian from the North west.

In solidarity, we his friends, proposed to hold a formal wake keep for him at his Abuja residence and promptly began the preparation process. This included securing the services of a DJ and arranging refreshments for the gathering.

Certain members of his family objected to the idea of the wake keep, contending that it was inappropriate for us to engage in partying and funfair following the untimely passing of their loved one. They insisted we limit the gathering to just a public address system and a choir to sing, nothing more.

Some of our friends are threatening to hands-off and withdraw their involvement from everything about the funeral including not attending the burial and allow the family members do whatever that pleases them.
Others are of the opinion that we should ignore the family members and go ahead with our plans since we are going to be paying respect to our late friend and not members of his family.

What do you guys think?

I don't understand why u guys want to do party. Just bury the dude, pay ur respects and contribute whatever u can for his children and wife.

blamingthedevil:
You friends are idiots barbarians fools.

You Dey crase

Everything Na memories
Celebrate ur frd hw u like

Listen to the family. You guys should contribute whatever you want to use for Wake keep and give to the family.

The committee of Friends should hire Erisco's lawyer and sue the family for a violation of their fundamental human right to stupidity.

shortgun:
Tragically we lost a close friend to the cold hands of death who passed away in a ghastly motor accident.

He was in his late thirties to early forties,unmarried, no child, and a Christian from the North west.

In solidarity, we his friends, proposed to hold a formal wake keep for him at his Abuja residence and promptly began the preparation process. This included securing the services of a DJ and arranging refreshments for the gathering.

Certain members of his family objected to the idea of the wake keep, contending that it was inappropriate for us to engage in partying and funfair following the untimely passing of their loved one. They insisted we limit the gathering to just a public address system and a choir to sing, nothing more.

Some of our friends are threatening to hands-off and withdraw their involvement from everything about the funeral including not attending the burial and allow the family members do whatever that pleases them.
Others are of the opinion that we should ignore the family members and go ahead with our plans since we are going to be paying respect to our late friend and not members of his family.

What do you guys think?

What's so hard in what the family wants? Someone at that age dies and the family wants a small burial ceremony and u are talking about DJ? Let the friends back off and let the family mourn their loss in peace; after all las las na the family get the loss and pain pass

shortgun:
What village do you all crawl out from for fuks sake. DJ's are not always used during celebrations, or for playing loud music
who will do the lighting? Who will provide generator?
Who will bring microphones and speakers for the gathering.
Better shut it you don't have any sensible contribution to this thread

oga shut up dem dey tell you, you still dey talk you won beat am, carry your advice go another place

Namaster:
Your group of friends sound inconsiderate and DUMB!

A family lost a relatively young man and you hired a DJ to turn his funeral arrangements into a fuckfest.

Be solemn.

They may be cultists oyes!!

shortgun:
So in your small mind Djs only perform at parties.smh

it should be a wake, leave dj out out it

Have you people considered their tradition? It's important that you listen to their demands, it's their grief which they will to live murn & remember for years

"Don't cry more than the bereaved, it's their decision & call

May his soul rest on...

As Yoruba likes party reach they dont do party when they lose young ones.

shortgun:
What village do you all crawl out from for fuks sake. DJ's are not always used during celebrations, or for playing loud music
who will do the lighting? Who will provide generator?
Who will bring microphones and speakers for the gathering.
Better shut it you don't have any sensible contribution to this thread

Go ahead with it na u fool
A young man died in his prime and you want to make merry all the name of wake keep.
You motherfucking drunk with empty skull

Respect the wishes of the family and still attend.

Why do you guys wanna party? Where is the wisdom in that?

shortgun:
Tragically we lost a close friend to the cold hands of death who passed away in a ghastly motor accident.

He was in his late thirties to early forties,unmarried, no child, and a Christian from the North west.

In solidarity, we his friends, proposed to hold a formal wake keep for him at his Abuja residence and promptly began the preparation process. This included securing the services of a DJ and arranging refreshments for the gathering.

Certain members of his family objected to the idea of the wake keep, contending that it was inappropriate for us to engage in partying and funfair following the untimely passing of their loved one. They insisted we limit the gathering to just a public address system and a choir to sing, nothing more.

Some of our friends are threatening to hands-off and withdraw their involvement from everything about the funeral including not attending the burial and allow the family members do whatever that pleases them.
Others are of the opinion that we should ignore the family members and go ahead with our plans since we are going to be paying respect to our late friend and not members of his family.

What do you guys think?

Dumb set of friends. Allow the family to mourn their son. Hiring a DJ and buying drinks for the burial of a man in his thirties is shameful.

shortgun:
So in your small mind Djs only perform at parties.smh

Wetin Dj wan con perform 4 burial now and sad enough less than 40yrs. Wat @ u celebrating if l may ask useless frends. U guys shud be jailed for killing ur frend

You guys have to respect the family's decision

If them curse u now u go reply person with insult...
These ur so called committee of friends no fit reason with their heads say the rubbish funfare is uncalled for. to wat ends .....wat form of show off solidarity is that ?.....people are crying over their loss .....u want to hire Dj ....for wat?....now the dumbest of ur friends are now of the opinions to go ahead with the plans even though the family members have given their modest recommendations..,.........pls desist from such social activty iced in disguise of condolences

This one don sees cold hands of death, is the feet of death cold too?

AmGreat1234:
We track everything trackable

Abeg help us track where bokoharam and kidnappers camp dey.

Lance008:
You Dey crase

Everything Na memories
Celebrate ur frd hw u like

Friends indeed..
With friends like them,who needs enemies?

This is the time to really show him that you love and respect him by not throwing this party. What are you celebrating? A life well spent? Very insensitive of you guys.

OP is one of those pushing to go ahead with the whole thing and threatening to boycott his funeral...you lot are dumb and not worth having as friends. Yaro Banza!

Dumbest post of 2024. Who moved this sh¡t front page?

You can do what you likes, you can kill cow and fowl too... Just do anyhow... Anybody who wants to do anyhow, should collect anyhow...