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Re: Ladies Have You Observe Guys No Longer Beg Us For Relationship These Days by Nobody: 4:19pm On Apr 09, 2024
rtdCivilservant:
The truth is many factors are responsible for this.
1. The economy has made many men to channel their energy into what brings food to their table first.
2. The way many girls behave especially on social media has made guys to see them as they are not really worth dieing for, imagine killing ursef for what another guy may have with a plate of indomie.
3. Social media. The song all over, that all women are useless and same, is having negative consequences on the society, men are unconsciously losing interest in women.
4. SEX IS CHEAP. To many men, why will they stress themselves when on the street now most girls are walking about naked. They believe that even u forming classy, one guy somewhere is fuccking the hell out of u without stress, so why should he stress himself.
5. Men are unconsciously scared of women this days, they say 98% of women go into relationship as a form a poverty alleviation.
6. Lastly, a man would never stress to have u, when he didn't see anything special about u. If he perceive any man can as well have u, trust me he won't see any reason to chase u.
You picked my brains man. No need for me to add.
Re: Ladies Have You Observe Guys No Longer Beg Us For Relationship These Days by spiSeyi: 4:20pm On Apr 09, 2024
Nah lie, guys still beg babes that stand out in intelligence and intellectual capabilities, godliness and wealth. The only thing that makes men not to beg is if they later discovered that the particular babe is rude, forming woke and she's no different from an average Nigerian entitled broke ladies out there grin . Men no longer choose by beauty but by the capacity of a lady to contribute meaningfuly to their lives undecided
Re: Ladies Have You Observe Guys No Longer Beg Us For Relationship These Days by myrates: 4:20pm On Apr 09, 2024
orohbiro:
I remember guys use to beg me to have my number way back then, but these days not only me even other girls complain of same issue.

The moment they ask You out you begin to stress then they will just go.

Even when you post PIC with a friend some will be begging you to even give them your friend's number like wTF.

Guys you need to slow down. We are females, we must do our shakara small our girlish thing you need to be patient with us pls.
For this kind economy, una go complain tire....you snooze, we move unto the next babe sharply, no time.
Re: Ladies Have You Observe Guys No Longer Beg Us For Relationship These Days by kenchop: 4:22pm On Apr 09, 2024
NO TIME
Re: Ladies Have You Observe Guys No Longer Beg Us For Relationship These Days by drimzsmoke(m): 4:22pm On Apr 09, 2024
Pussyisgud:
It's called law of diminishing returns, law of gravity, what goes up must come down.
U need to understand that those days boys used to toast u and ask for your number are gone. You have become enp so they have moved on to more younger and fresher ones, ones that their pucci can grab on their dick when forking not the ones with badly used world wide web in between their legs.
Mtchewwwwww
Most girls now know how to contract(tighten) their vagina when having sex with you and I hate that shit with my LIFE. I won't say more than that!!!
Re: Ladies Have You Observe Guys No Longer Beg Us For Relationship These Days by treatise: 4:22pm On Apr 09, 2024
CountinBlessins:
Are you employed?
It may be age-induced.
Re: Ladies Have You Observe Guys No Longer Beg Us For Relationship These Days by BluntCrazeMan:
orohbiro:
I remember guys use to beg me to have my number way back then, but these days not only me even other girls complain of same issue.

The moment they ask You out you begin to stress then they will just go.

Even when you post PIC with a friend some will be begging you to even give them your friend's number like wTF.

Guys you need to slow down. We are females, we must do our shakara small our girlish thing you need to be patient with us pls.
Economy have changed.
So we changed too.
Re: Ladies Have You Observe Guys No Longer Beg Us For Relationship These Days by mediclife1987(m): 4:23pm On Apr 09, 2024
Pootle:
i be like you one time like that...i miss benson na health do me ojoro, but i still dey cancel bottles grin
What health issue did you have?
Re: Ladies Have You Observe Guys No Longer Beg Us For Relationship These Days by Pootle: 4:26pm On Apr 09, 2024
mediclife1987:
What health issue did you have?
lungs disease, will advice u to cut down smoking
Re: Ladies Have You Observe Guys No Longer Beg Us For Relationship These Days by tollyboy5(m): 4:26pm On Apr 09, 2024
Oyindamolah:
Most men especially the Nigeria man above 20 years have failed in more than one part or neglected some things in life ,
guys I will keep repeating money can't buy love ,the earlier you knows this the better for you guys /men /males /kings.

I see a lot of guys doing all sort of things to make money mostly illegal name it yahoo , fraudulent activities all to impress a lady, forgetting what they call self development ,I was shock to see a fraudster who handles laptop day in day out ,but can't even draft a cv .
kings ,u can use money to impress a lady but not for long till her eyes becomes clear that the other guys coming around her are way better than you,and are more of high value than you .

guys develop your self ,its very important
Oyinda, you said it all.
Nigeria ladies do act like leech why the guys act like f@@ls who want to please women.
It's not their fault but the culture they grew up with that is not valid in our present day society.
Two thread on relationship matter hit front page today. I no go click anyone again grin there are more important issues to read about compared to woman mata.
Re: Ladies Have You Observe Guys No Longer Beg Us For Relationship These Days by kay29000(m): 4:27pm On Apr 09, 2024
rtdCivilservant:
The truth is many factors are responsible for this.
1. The economy has made many men to channel their energy into what brings food to their table first.
2. The way many girls behave especially on social media has made guys to see them as they are not really worth dieing for, imagine killing ursef for what another guy may have with a plate of indomie.
3. Social media. The song all over, that all women are useless and same, is having negative consequences on the society, men are unconsciously losing interest in women.
4. SEX IS CHEAP. To many men, why will they stress themselves when on the street now most girls are walking about naked. They believe that even u forming classy, one guy somewhere is fuccking the hell out of u without stress, so why should he stress himself.
5. Men are unconsciously scared of women this days, they say 98% of women go into relationship as a form a poverty alleviation.
6. Lastly, a man would never stress to have u, when he didn't see anything special about u. If he perceive any man can as well have u, trust me he won't see any reason to chase u.
Omo! That your last point is GOLDEN!
Re: Ladies Have You Observe Guys No Longer Beg Us For Relationship These Days by mediclife1987(m): 4:28pm On Apr 09, 2024
Pootle:
lungs disease, will advice u to cut down smoking
Who tell you say I dey smoke?
And lung disease plenty na, e fit just be chest and lungs...
Re: Ladies Have You Observe Guys No Longer Beg Us For Relationship These Days by qtguru(m): 4:28pm On Apr 09, 2024
So men don't chase women, they chase money and when the money comes, it usually comes with an attitude that doesn't involve commitment.
Re: Ladies Have You Observe Guys No Longer Beg Us For Relationship These Days by SaLongs1(m): 4:28pm On Apr 09, 2024
CountinBlessins:
Are you employed?
grin Na warrior you be!!
Re: Ladies Have You Observe Guys No Longer Beg Us For Relationship These Days by Lomprico2: 4:29pm On Apr 09, 2024
Klington:
cool

Once you tell any Nigerian girl you are interested in her these days...

Her data will Finish.
Her phone will become bad.
Her hair will be old.
Her mum will become sick.
Her rent will expire.
Her undies will be old.
Her soap & cream will finish

Tinubu has reset most simps brains now.
Her birthday will appear
Re: Ladies Have You Observe Guys No Longer Beg Us For Relationship These Days by meedoLock(m): 4:29pm On Apr 09, 2024
So, a lady i asked out at my work place started acting up, telling me she was not interested in man's wàhálà now' I didn't give up that easily anyway, I persisted for a while cos I thought it was one of ladies trait playing hard to catch. Not until she started asking for financial help.

This singular act made me cautioned myself a bit. I abstained from messaging her steadily. She saw this and started posting a glaring message pointing at me. When I confronted her while she started acting up, she said and I quote[b] "so, you want to just give up easily like that"?[/b] Waō. Really? I'm I your play things. grin grin

You don't want to commit but you want me to commit. Some ladies can be a player sha
Re: Ladies Have You Observe Guys No Longer Beg Us For Relationship These Days by Banbanna(m): 4:29pm On Apr 09, 2024
This your mention no too dey ironical so? You say they're very useless, yet you dey see dem use and dump anyhow. They might be useless to you but not to that superlative extent of useless, coz na same dem you sef dey use oil ur engine on a regular
Savedday2:
If not some men that think with their third leg, you girls would have been kneeling down, begging every morning for us to manage your kpekus with enough Abeg!

Me, I no get time oh! Na to dey use and dump you girls na him be my own. Very useless gender!
Re: Ladies Have You Observe Guys No Longer Beg Us For Relationship These Days by Wuless82(m): 4:30pm On Apr 09, 2024
orohbiro:
I remember guys use to beg me to have my number way back then, but these days not only me even other girls complain of same issue.

The moment they ask You out you begin to stress then they will just go.

Even when you post PIC with a friend some will be begging you to even give them your friend's number like wTF.

Guys you need to slow down. We are females, we must do our shakara small our girlish thing you need to be patient with us pls.
Hookup girls don spoil una market grin grin grin
Re: Ladies Have You Observe Guys No Longer Beg Us For Relationship These Days by Skiborobo(f): 4:30pm On Apr 09, 2024
Over here, they still do o. But you don't need to be told a fvck boy when you see one.

Majority here are just fvck boys
Re: Ladies Have You Observe Guys No Longer Beg Us For Relationship These Days by TOPCRUISE(m): 4:30pm On Apr 09, 2024
Because they fear you will not be an asset but a liability.
Re: Ladies Have You Observe Guys No Longer Beg Us For Relationship These Days by kay29000(m):
CandidAdmin:
We're tired of wondering whether she like us or not while also chopping our money.
Lol! I have one female friend that does this...very annoying. I always tell her she is no different from runs girls. She leads guys on making them believe they will eventually get something, meanwhile chopping the guys money.
Re: Ladies Have You Observe Guys No Longer Beg Us For Relationship These Days by Alusiizizi(m): 4:31pm On Apr 09, 2024
orohbiro:
I remember guys use to beg me to have my number way back then, but these days not only me even other girls complain of same issue.

The moment they ask You out you begin to stress then they will just go.

Even when you post PIC with a friend some will be begging you to even give them your friend's number like wTF.

Guys you need to slow down. We are females, we must do our shakara small our girlish thing you need to be patient with us pls.
Funny. I've never toasted a girl in my life, instead I find that it is the other way around, women toast me, and lots of them too. I currently have 6 different girlfriends in addition to a couple of "friends-with-benefits".
Re: Ladies Have You Observe Guys No Longer Beg Us For Relationship These Days by tnerro1(m): 4:31pm On Apr 09, 2024
Beautiful babes full hookup, why will I be begging a girl to come and eat ur money, transact ur biz sharp sharp and move on. No time
Re: Ladies Have You Observe Guys No Longer Beg Us For Relationship These Days by Klington: 4:37pm On Apr 09, 2024
Lomprico2:
Her birthday will appear
grin grin grin
Re: Ladies Have You Observe Guys No Longer Beg Us For Relationship These Days by NGArmyTerrorist: 4:38pm On Apr 09, 2024
Confession and Nigerian girls! Make cold and depression no go kpai una this season because guys, many of them no send again. If they want to discharge their tanker, they can get it at cheaper rate and go their way.
Re: Ladies Have You Observe Guys No Longer Beg Us For Relationship These Days by diamond68: 4:39pm On Apr 09, 2024
Forget everything written up to this post. These are the real reasons

1- media oversaturation of women. Everywhere you look a girl is naked on social media. Is like you are saturated with seeing bodies so the excitement is not there anymore like in the previous generation with no internet, just seeing pant alone will blow your mind. Now you have seen it all so the desire to chase what you see naked everyday on porn sites and only fans is not there anymore

2- social media has also shown women to be loud mouth shallow creatures only worried about wig and BBL. It’s like the social media reduced the value and perception of women. It’s no longer a thrill to chase a loud mouth wig wearing BBL obsessed creature. The mystique is gone

3- the world is now overly commercial and so most men don’t even have time again to be chasing women. People are too busy chasing material things

4- finally economy is not smiling. Na who chop dey chase women

5- you can get more beautiful women beyond your wildest dreams, women who wouldn’t even look at you on campus, you can get them through transaction now so why chase a lesser woman ? Olosho business done cast relationships
Re: Ladies Have You Observe Guys No Longer Beg Us For Relationship These Days by ObalendeCMS: 4:40pm On Apr 09, 2024
Naija girls don cast!
If you are not a virgin or a rich girl, abeg no look my side. Look left!
Re: Ladies Have You Observe Guys No Longer Beg Us For Relationship These Days by kunle75(m): 4:40pm On Apr 09, 2024
orohbiro:
I remember guys use to beg me to have my number way back then, but these days not only me even other girls complain of same issue.

The moment they ask You out you begin to stress then they will just go.

Even when you post PIC with a friend some will be begging you to even give them your friend's number like wTF.

Guys you need to slow down. We are females, we must do our shakara small our girlish thing you need to be patient with us pls.
You're stressing already,guys aren't ready to be stressed anymore.
Re: Ladies Have You Observe Guys No Longer Beg Us For Relationship These Days by Basicend: 4:42pm On Apr 09, 2024
ObalendeCMS:
Naija girls don cast!

If you are not a virgin or a rich girl, abeg no look my side. Look left!
smiley Oh Lord have mercy.
Re: Ladies Have You Observe Guys No Longer Beg Us For Relationship These Days by Elidrisy20: 4:44pm On Apr 09, 2024
That was during president jona regime, may God bless him, before that devil called buhari come make life like hell to us, and now this grandpa tulumbu come turn everybody to saint, so no body want wahala
Re: Ladies Have You Observe Guys No Longer Beg Us For Relationship These Days by hardon1(m): 4:45pm On Apr 09, 2024
orohbiro:
I remember guys use to beg me to have my number way back then, but these days not only me even other girls complain of same issue.

The moment they ask You out you begin to stress then they will just go.

Even when you post PIC with a friend some will be begging you to even give them your friend's number like wTF.

Guys you need to slow down. We are females, we must do our shakara small our girlish thing you need to be patient with us pls.
You are getting old and running out of shape and market😁😁😁😁
Re: Ladies Have You Observe Guys No Longer Beg Us For Relationship These Days by Edipet(m): 4:48pm On Apr 09, 2024
Skiborobo:
Over here, they still do o. But you don't need to be told a fvck boy when you see one.

Majority here are just fvck boys
before nko? They don't want to commit to anyone. Just to fuçk is what they want
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