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High risk business, high returns for her. Not all sex workers are this fortunate. My worry for her is how will this end?

What is her exit plan? Nothing last forever.

It can't just be sending her siblings to school. She can also set up a spa with the help of the Senator and see where that takes her.

3kay945:
How much did you pay her? Just asking.

35k back to school.

toujurs:
It's sad, that most men might end up marrying prostitutes. God knows i will beat the fucking hell out of her, if i find out.

But such would never happen to me, by God's grace. There was a group i came across on Instagram, i joined the group. Only to find out that most of the girls in the group chat were mausseuse, i teased one, that as i sent a private message.

The highest she can do was to block, so i hmsaud let me play games with one, and try and see. I sent her a message about how she looks beautiful and how her boyfriend can't dare cheat on her. And how if i could get a girl like her, i search for love, has ended.

So i asked her what she does, she said she does massage. This was how i invited her to my place o, can you believe we were just having sex for a whole week, back to back. Like 6 times in a day.

None of us even spoke about the massage she came to do, the girl was a student.

Ashawo work have casted.

Please, come and add me to the group!!!🙇🏿‍♂️🙇🏿‍♂️🙇🏿‍♂️🙇🏿‍♂️🙇🏿‍♂️🙇🏿‍♂️🙇🏿‍♂️🙇🏿‍♂️🙇🏿‍♂️

Aundhu Billahi Mina Shaitan Rajeem.

kkins25:
Make man hustle, so his daughters won't be dehumanize by Arab men. 😭😭😭..

Imagine doing hook up to sustain the whole family. The psychological pressure, having to endure BS for sake of family, at the same time knowing your family may not even appreciate your efforts or even look down on you if they become aware of your job.

Doing all that so other people can live better lives would be daunting.. No wonder they end up taking drugs and wasting away.. Not an easy job at all..
😭😭😭

She will then raise man, who'd pick up misogynist ideas from his sorounding, and belittle the sacrifices women like his mother make.. The easiest way to collect money from rich people is to sell sex. In other words wealth re-distrubution..

It is people like you that supports degeneracy in our society. Who send her to do all those nonsense. She's enjoying good Bleep and money at thesame time that's why she dabble into it. She isn't doing it for any family. One day your neighbor will decide to cut off your head and use it for ritual and say he's doing it for the family. I can decide to rape your little daughter mercilessly and say I'm doing it for our unborn kid. We're now living in a clown world

jaywon442:
It is people like you that supports degeneracy in our society. Who send her to do all those nonsense. She's enjoying good Bleep and money at thesame time that's why she dabble into it. She isn't doing it for any family. One day your neighbor will decide to cut off your head and use it for ritual and say he's doing it for the family. I can decide to rape your little daughter mercilessly and say I'm doing it for our unborn kid. We're now living in a clown world

na lie you dey talk jare...How many prostitutes do you know chose the profession because they had options? For society we work no even dey. the only harm inflicted in prostitution business in on the prostitute. Unlike rituals nd robbery! It's a more noble cause than both.

toujurs:
It's sad, that most men might end up marrying prostitutes. God knows i will beat the fucking hell out of her, if i find out.

But such would never happen to me, by God's grace. There was a group i came across on Instagram, i joined the group. Only to find out that most of the girls in the group chat were mausseuse, i teased one, that as i sent a private message.

The highest she can do was to block, so i hmsaud let me play games with one, and try and see. I sent her a message about how she looks beautiful and how her boyfriend can't dare cheat on her. And how if i could get a girl like her, i search for love, has ended.

So i asked her what she does, she said she does massage. This was how i invited her to my place o, can you believe we were just having sex for a whole week, back to back. Like 6 times in a day.

None of us even spoke about the massage she came to do, the girl was a student.

Ashawo work have casted.

See hypocrite

drimzsmoke:
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🙄🙄

I was with them for three days, and it was intense. That thing they did in “Fifty Shades of Grey” isn’t BDSM at all. These guys used real iron handcuffs and beat me ehn. I used a whole week to recover. I’ll never do it again.

kkins25:
Make man hustle, so his daughters won't be dehumanize by Arab men. 😭😭😭..

Imagine doing hook up to sustain the whole family. The psychological pressure, having to endure BS for sake of family, at the same time knowing your family may not even appreciate your efforts or even look down on you if they become aware of your job.

Doing all that so other people can live better lives would be daunting.. No wonder they end up taking drugs and wasting away.. Not an easy job at all..
😭😭😭

She will then raise man, who'd pick up misogynist ideas from his sorounding, and belittle the sacrifices women like his mother make.. [/b]The easiest way to collect money from rich people is to sell sex[b]. In other words wealth re-distrubution..

That is why i keep saying, it's lazy women thatprefer to
offer their body, why should you be looking for an easier means in the first place.

This is why, lazy people are poor. And will forever suffer till they, they get sense.

There is no easy route to make it in life, you must drag the bull by it's horn.

That was how, a lady, may her soul rest in peace. An akwaibom lady was given a lift, by an employer. How the hell, should your senses tell you such job is genuine.

Where on earth do employers give job seekers a ride, to the venue.

GenSpecifics:
My mum was also calling me frequently to complain about their needs and indirectly ask for money.


There is only one particular people that do this.


I had a girlfriend from that corner of the world whom I met in Abuja way back in 2007. She was supposed to be doing her IT but yet to get a job placement.

One day she broke down in tears after a phone call from her dad.

I asked her what was the problem and she told me that her dad said her mum was sick and they needed money to pay for her hospital bills. I inquired how much but she kept crying. I had to give her space to calm down and later asked her again that I could help.

She then turned to me and told me angrily that why should her father be asking her for money when he knows she is a student looking for her IT placement and that even if she had a job how much will they pay her as an OND IT student that her dad will be shouldering such responsibility and demands on her. I told her I could assist but she got even more angrier and told me that that's not the point . That does her father think she is doing prostitution in Abuja that he will be heaping his responsibility on her. She even said the father never have her a dime for her school fees after she left home for her OND program in Kogi.

When a woman is pouring her soul out / expressing her problems, she just wants you to listen, not telling her to calm down or bragging that you're the saviour of the universe.

Just listen.


You can suggest your solution later, but not at that point in time.

SmartyPants:
She earned 20m and immediately spent 10m buying things. I just shook my head.

She didnt think she could open her own spa even after mentioning how much money her old boss used to make.

This is actually a sad story.

Easy money is like a fish bone.
Easy to swallow, until it hooks you in the throat.

Hook up money is just like yahoo money.

The spender keep thinking it will continue.
Alas, reality sets in.

Gerrard59:
He wants to beat someone yet he camped a similar person in his house for a week. These are the Nigerian men I write about: sanctimonious, hypocritical, liars yet sex driven. His counterparts in the yukay are crying daily because of no sex in the midst of women wearing short skirts and shorts.

That Nigga is a "F.o.ol

mmsen:
So, even after the man gave you 9million you still fit open nyash for 100k.

A....o

Adaptation Bro .... The Brain & The Entire Nervous System (The Human Magnetic System) is Wired to Be Adapted to What You Dedicated-Committed it Towards ....

If She Stops, She will Fall Sick .... ... In fact She Can Even Die if not Properly Managed by a Psychologist(Please Not Daddy GOs Nor MOGs.. Those Ones Na Scammers) ....

AreaFada2:
Very sad story.

She wouldn't have done it if life had dealt her a better hand growing up.

She has basically sacrificed herself for her family and comfort in life.

She will have lots of regrets later in life.

May she find peace and succour.

Guys should see girls first of all as sisters and cousins before anything else.

...and ladies should continue to see guys as disposable utilities, not as brothers & male cousins

LMAO! 🤣🤣

LilMissFavvy:
I couldn't read all, but the truth is that any lady who would earn 1 mill, 2 mill, talkless of seeing 20mill, yet she's still refuses to quit hookup, is a lazy cur$ed b!tch. How can anyone see all that money yet does not start up a business? Even if she's too lazy t0 w0rk, she could have simply build houses that pays her rent annually, with that she would live a decent comfortable life.

So what is the moral of this story? that prostitution is not that bad for Christ sake that is not the original way of life. Many prostitutes end up dead. It is a trash work and that is why a lot of them are treated like trash.

Karlifate:
...and ladies should continue to see guys as disposable utilities, not as brothers & male cousins

LMAO! 🤣🤣

Men largely control resource base. If men see women as relatives first, sex won't be immediate interest. Maybe genuine friendship and more could follow.

But of course, some women just want money the easy way and nothing anybody can do about it. However, we have created a culture in which a woman surrenders her body (be it as so called dating, hook-up or whatever) to get benefits from a guy.

That is what has shaped the mentality of some ladies here on NL that broke-shame men. As if women have been forbidden to earn own money.

We can all do better than that. There is a need for a better re-orientation of both genders.

kkins25:
na lie you dey talk jare...How many prostitutes do you know chose the profession because they had options? For society we work no even dey. the only harm inflicted in prostitution business in on the prostitute. Unlike rituals nd robbery! It's a more noble cause than both.

Italy appears to have more prostitutes than Nigeria. Women in this Era are now having more options than men. All corporate entities and institutions are now advocating for women and women's emancipation.

The global panorama of gender roles is experiencing a profound metamorphosis. Women worldwide are increasingly gaining access to education, professional opportunities, and financial autonomy. This evolution presents women with a broader array of choices, yet simultaneously introduces complex challenges due to their inherent predisposition towards capriciousness.

The transpose of this paradigm is the general attitude that women often foster. As they strive to liberate the girl child without instilling virtuous principles, the likelihood of promiscuity increases. The manifestation we are witnessing today are the repercussions of modernization, the enigmatic ambiguity of specious female privilege, exacerbated by parental negligence.

jaywon442:
Italy appears to have more prostitutes than Nigeria. Women in this Era are now having more options than men. All corporate entities and institutions are now advocating for women and women's emancipation.

The global panorama of gender roles is experiencing a profound metamorphosis. Women worldwide are increasingly gaining access to education, professional opportunities, and financial autonomy. This evolution presents women with a broader array of choices, yet simultaneously introduces complex challenges due to their inherent predisposition towards capriciousness.

The transpose of this paradigm is the general attitude that women often foster. As they strive to liberate the girl child without instilling virtuous principles, the likelihood of promiscuity increases. The manifestation we are witnessing today are the repercussions of modernization, the enigmatic ambiguity of specious female privilege, exacerbated by parental negligence.

The prostitutes are coming from where?

Well

MyVILLAGEpeople:
Yes I know. I was only replying the dude that said girls from rich homes do hookup also

No mind am

RaptorX:
Nigeria is toto paradise, that is why most Nigerian men abroad come to visit Nigeria primarily to fvck. All other reasons for visiting are secondary.

hahaha. . Somebody should study the synergy between naija girls and abroad boys

Darkandhandsom:
Many girls in Abuja are prostitutes.
There's an app.. If you need any girl, you just chat her up and blow her in any hotel.
They charge from 50k.
Go to Gwarinpa you will see beautiful girls blowing men for 4k.
Even some of the girls that are gainfully employed, blow guys in the evening for a fee.
Only God can deliver his people.
What people do just to make money, you will cry.
Most girls blow without condom just add money to the agreed amount.
They don't even mind if you have a deadly disease.
God should save his people ooo

You scared me o

Kelechi009:
You're so hell bent on this issue and It's astonishing. Anywhere you see hook-up posts like this, you'd run and create thread

Hookup has never been a thing in Nigeria and the mainstream media such as we have now, what exactly happened in Nigeria that skyrocketed the hook-up culture?. Meanwhile 10 - 20 years ago, growing up I never witnessed hook-ups, even in University years ago It was never an issue until current times. What I knew back then was called Brothels.

We need to differentiate btw BROTHELS & Hookup, one is done by regular individuals occasionally (hookup) while the other is done by going into a LovePeddler house (brothels).

You need to research more on what changed between 2010 and 2024, you cannot just be throwing blames at men for the hook-up culture. Testosterone levels in men have not increased in 10 years, It has decreased therefore using testosterone as a reason for blaming men is not accurate.

until 2015 when I left unilorin,I never heard of hookup where you order girls from app

hkidola00:
until 2015 when I left unilorin,I never heard of hookup where you order girls from app

Same here, its the norm now

Its demand and supply business based on mutual agreement. Nothing bad with that.

Use what you have to get what you want. What I despise is being a burden/drag on the society.

Fake Story

Don't believe everything you read on social media

Gerrard59:
The 24-year-old sex worker in this #NairaLife left home at 18 in search of a better life. She’s achieved that goal. Now as her family’s breadwinner, her new focus is building an even better future for her siblings

Hi Gerald,

Have you seen Zikoko's latest post about a guy struggling to maintain his relationship due to financial issues? Your recent posts resonate with the realities of dating and relationships in Nigeria.

It's great that a credible platform like Zikoko shared it; otherwise, people might dismiss it as fiction. The guy featured is a real person, highlighting the everyday challenges faced by many.

This reflects the typical experience of a 23 year old in Nigeria, and it’s likely to continue until he reaches his late 20s and achieves some stability. Here, the pressure to meet a girlfriend's financial needs goes beyond mere hypergamy.

Hypergamy is a global thing, it’s every where but what is practiced in Nigeria is a curse of lack of knowledge.

Kelechi009:
Hi Gerald,

Have you seen Zikoko's latest post about a guy struggling to maintain his relationship due to financial issues? Your recent posts resonate with the realities of dating and relationships in Nigeria. It's great that a credible platform like Zikoko shared it; otherwise, people might dismiss it as fiction. The guy featured is a real person, highlighting the everyday challenges faced by many. This reflects the typical experience of a 23 year old in Nigeria, and it’s likely to continue until he reaches his late 20s and achieves some stability. Here, the pressure to meet a girlfriend's financial needs goes beyond mere hypergamy. Hypergamy is a global thing, it’s every where but what is practiced in Nigeria is a curse of lack of knowledge.

This one? https://www.zikoko.com/money/asaba-freelancer-hoping-his-girlfriend-wont-leave/

I saw it in school right from secondary to full blown in the university. It was then I removed my mind from anything concerning "Love". I don't believe it exists. Everything has to be transactional, especially when dealing with the opposite sex. What annoys me is the cognitive dissonance by so-called modern women on Twitter who parrot words such as "predator" when a much older man dates/marries a much younger lady. I find that very dishonest because these are the same ladies who told their male contemporaries in schools and even the workplace that "they are not mates", "your wife is in JSS3" (I was told this in my final year) etc. Most women don't rate their male colleagues on the same level as equals.

Hypergamy is everywhere and even worse in wealthier societies. Japan has a low birth rate and one of the reasons the men give for shying from marriage is low salaries and financial responsibilities. The Tokyo Municipal Council tries to solve it by creating an exclusive dating app and one of the requirements is for men to input their earnings. This is commonplace any way for Japanese men to do. Also, private dating apps here make men pay monthly charges (circa $50) but women are omitted. In Singapore, it is even brutal as the women, mostly Chinese, square men by how much they earn and where they work. It is why Western sex bros or even regular men cannot compete there unlike Thailand or Malaysia as the standards in Singapore are very high. Then imagine Switzerland and Norway. It is the dishonesty of most people to acknowledge that pisses me. People are too dishonest these days.

I sympathise with much younger men in Nigeria especially as people say the economy is tough (which I find hard to believe). At least, I can go in and buy sex (I sabi all the strategies involved). But it is very naive for any young man in today's world to believe in love especially as they compete head-on for limited economic opportunities with women who later go on to "use them" (Tiwa Savage's words, not mine).

Gerrard59:
This one? https://www.zikoko.com/money/asaba-freelancer-hoping-his-girlfriend-wont-leave/

I saw it in school right from secondary to full blown in the university. It was then I removed my mind from anything concerning "Love". I don't believe it exists. Everything has to be transactional, especially when dealing with the opposite sex. What annoys me is the cognitive dissonance by so-called modern women on Twitter who parrot words such as "predator" when a much older man dates/marries a much younger lady. I find that very dishonest because these are the same ladies who told their male contemporaries in schools and even the workplace that "they are not mates", "your wife is in JSS3" (I was told this in my final year) etc. Most women don't rate their male colleagues on the same level as equals.

Hypergamy is everywhere and even worse in wealthier societies. Japan has a low birth rate and one of the reasons the men give for shying from marriage is low salaries and financial responsibilities. The Tokyo Municipal Council tries to solve it by creating an exclusive dating app and one of the requirements is for men to input their earnings. This is commonplace any way for Japanese men to do. Also, private dating apps here make men pay monthly charges (circa $50) but women are omitted. In Singapore, it is even brutal as the women, mostly Chinese, square men by how much they earn and where they work. It is why Western sex bros or even regular men cannot compete there unlike Thailand or Malaysia as the standards in Singapore are very high. Then imagine Switzerland and Norway. It is the dishonesty of most people to acknowledge that pisses me. People are too dishonest these days.

I sympathise with much younger men in Nigeria especially as people say the economy is tough (which I find hard to believe). At least, I can go in and buy sex (I sabi all the strategies involved). But it is very naive for any young man in today's world to believe in love especially as they compete head-on for limited economic opportunities with women who later go on to "use them" (Tiwa Savage's words, not mine).

Yes well said, I'm just so happy it was Zikoko that made such post & not some stupid red pill content because it may seem like people are making this up.

Many people feel disappointed or even disillusioned by the disparity between the ideal of “love” and the reality they encounter, particularly when financial status has become a key measure of worth in relationships.

I used to wonder why Nigerian men cheat a lot, now thinking back at it. I can clearly see the reason. There is simply no incentive of staying faithful to someone who is with you for financial gain. They wouldn't stick by you if the money isn't there, so what exactly is the point.

Another scenario which women paint is that there are a lot of poor people getting married which means women don't marry for money, the cognitive dissonance here is they do not realise women who marry poor men are also extremely poor, moreso even ugly looking because women always find the best person available they can have.

I mean a lady who is from Makoko, extremely poor can only marry another man who is also slightly less poorer. I do not understand how that proves any point against women marrying for money.