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| Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by UpTown001(m): 8:14am On Feb 19, 2024 |
zed7:Listen to up up and away by juice wrld Then, tell me why as a man u don't need to level up , before putting the ring on it |
| Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by Johnwrite(m): 7:50am On Feb 28, 2024 |
Pray make good wife locate you nau |
| Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:58am On Feb 29, 2024 |
i dont understand why any man would be attracted to such "foul-thinking" women? you are better off without these liabilities in your life. |
| Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by ForValour: 1:09pm On Apr 20, 2024 |
You can do without marriage. |
| Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by laivwire(m): 1:11pm On Apr 20, 2024 |
The world used to frown at social climbers but today, we have realized the end truly justifies the means. Call it what you want but marriage still remains one of the valuable tools to personal, spiritual, professional and life changing growth. Getting married to a valuable individual can open doors for you in places you never dare step into, give you exotic citizenship or even make you entitled to a bloodline/monarchy beyond what you as an individual or if married to a 'lower class' individual can achieve. Your children sef fit fine pass you because of your marriage decisions. Any aspiring individual is to open his eyes wide when making such decisions. It used to be women concerned about this before but even men need to take cognizance of this fact in these times. |
| Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by ChisomNkwocha1(m): 1:11pm On Apr 20, 2024 |
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| Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by Omalicious1: 1:11pm On Apr 20, 2024 |
Negroid001: Till this earth passes away, you can't separate women from hypergamy...its in their blood. Know this know peace. |
| Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by Kemadealadire(f): 1:17pm On Apr 20, 2024 |
Men are made to be providers, a woman's job is to assist where necessary. Your quality of life is sumtotal of your choices, decisions, actions and inactions. Nobody forces anybody to do anything. It's those who can't think for themselves and follow the herd mentality I pity in all these. Do what's right for you and pleases God, the world will adjust. Una no dey tire. It's how bad guys want good girls, dumb guys want intelligent girls and vice versa etc. Man was made to provide, it's not the job of a woman to, this is unnegotiable. Even if you go for a rich girl, you don't expect her to provide. The earlier you start working towards being in charge of provision, the better. |
| Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by seunayeni(m): 1:17pm On Apr 20, 2024 |
It is one of the wisest decisions you would make as a man, honestly do not settle for less, DO NOT SETTLE FOR LESS |
| Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by Gerrard59(m): 1:17pm On Apr 20, 2024 |
Negroid001:Well, at the end of the day, you would still marry a woman who earns less than you. That is the truth, especially for Nigerian men who are antsy about their wives out-earning them. It is hypergamy women always aspire to men higher than they (women). It is evolutionary and biologically. Heck, it is even economical, if not for gender equality which has reduced the number of jobs available to men. However, where you come top is when you get women interested in you as you earn well. You would be accused of cheating by your wife or serious girlfriend, but to me, you are merely exercising your options. As long as you provide for the family and don't carry diseases to madam, I say go ahead. You are enjoying your prime, just as she had hers. Life na turn by turn. P.S. My sister has told me the same and I laughed it off. Women are the same everywhere. In fact, Nigerian women's hypergamy is small. Swiss and Chinese Singaporean women's hypergamy are off the roof. |
| Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by Avast(m): 1:19pm On Apr 20, 2024 |
zed7:One of my friends told me the only reason she is still in her marriage is because she is not financially independent. |
| Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by GreatVocalist: 1:19pm On Apr 20, 2024 |
Negroid001:If marriage is finance, then how come most celebrity marriages are crashing on a regular basis? |
| Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by idahme(m): 1:20pm On Apr 20, 2024*. Modified: 3:35pm On Apr 20, 2024 |
blackpanthar:It's better to choose a woman who has money and needs a man than to choose a woman who doesn't have money but needs a man( you can't determine wether she needs the man because she is poor and when you raise her economic value she now decides she doesn't need a man because she now can fend for herself). This is how lots of divorce come from, a lot who are very poor and humble now become tyrants at home because they no longer see the value of a man since he has changed their economic bracket upwards. That's why I support those who go for people of higher economic value because they are more certain it's not because the women need palliatives as the first reason for entering a relationship. I'm not against those going for women of low economic value with great personalities but I'm saying it's a better safety net for the man going into relationships with women who come from higher economic bracket with great personalities than their counterparts in the lower echelon. |
| Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by Babaibeji2020(m): 1:20pm On Apr 20, 2024 |
Negroid001:.........shingbai for akant.....🤣🤣🤣 Only thing I read up there! |
| Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by Gerrard59(m): 1:21pm On Apr 20, 2024 |
zed7:They don't know. It is amusing, considering Nigerian men are very traditional, and they live in a conservative country. Egos would be bruised and buried. ![]() At the bold, today's women already believe they are equal even before earnings are factored in, then imagine what they would do when they out-earn their husbands? ![]() |
| Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by NewDea4: 1:22pm On Apr 20, 2024 |
KillingJoke:Your Allah na dog
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| Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by Gerrard59(m): 1:22pm On Apr 20, 2024*. Modified: 7:04am On Apr 21, 2024 |
This thread reminds me of my comment on another thread which stated that marriage benefits women more than men. Apparently, judging from your sister's friend and her response. it does: Gerrard59: |
| Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by Ezyp(m): 1:23pm On Apr 20, 2024 |
Negroid001:Have you heard of the word hypergamy? It runs deep in women. Ladies in your class are looking for men above your class. So stop fooling yourself with the mentality that na your class you go marry. Grow up bro |
| Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by Maysdevices(f): 1:24pm On Apr 20, 2024*. Modified: 4:35pm On Apr 20, 2024 |
Negroid001:Men will never raise their standards because of their own egos Most men can’t handle the mindset of women on their economic class for too long because they are too serious like you are about life They have no time neither the desire to act stupid or airheaded just to appease your ego (which is what men term girliness) so most men will often end up desiring that false sense of manliness the bimbos below their level provide The air headed characteristics of women below their class who pretend to be ‘soft and feminine’ just to get a man to dump all their responsibilities on will still appeal to them later on Men want to lead all the time, you cannot lead a hustler so most of you will still marry bimbos with nothing to offer |
| Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by Maysdevices(f): 1:25pm On Apr 20, 2024 |
Ezyp:Lol. Except he’s read to drop the title ‘Man’ ‘head of house’. He is just deceiving himself |
| Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by MJos11: 1:27pm On Apr 20, 2024 |
luminouz:Ur own Better bany wey I met on one dating site like that tell me if we go dey together say I go de send re man weekly salary naso I laugh 😂 |
| Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by wany(f): 1:27pm On Apr 20, 2024 |
Negroid001:Sadly this will never happen in Africa and Nigeria to be precise, you know why? Nigerian men want a woman they can control and you definitely can't control who is at par with you. so you need that low-life woman , mostly the low self-esteem once , like they say mold to what you want but the joke is always double on them ![]() |
| Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by MJos11: 1:28pm On Apr 20, 2024 |
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| Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by cococandy(f): 1:33pm On Apr 20, 2024 |
Problem is that the woman who’s earning the same as you would probably be the same age as you. But yall don’t want that. You want a woman 10 years younger than you but who has magically caught up with you financially while doing everything else you consider too feminine for a masculine man like you. Tell me I’m wrong. I’m waiting Negroid001: |
| Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by SocialJustice: 1:35pm On Apr 20, 2024 |
Negroid001:Words on marble. |
| Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by Bintasukai: 1:40pm On Apr 20, 2024 |
Negroid001:Lesson learnt, open the business in your name and insist on receiving the funds made. Otherwise, no shop. |
| Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by Bintasukai: 1:43pm On Apr 20, 2024 |
wany:Everyone needs someone they can control, male or female. The problem is women don’t want to be controlled, but want to control. While having no leverage apart from men’s desire for vagina or to start families. |
| Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by Mccollins042(m): 1:45pm On Apr 20, 2024 |
Negroid001:I agree with you on this 100%. Please sir, I'm a good self-taught data analyst who studied Electrical Engineering in school, please can you use any of those connection of yours and help me get a job in this Lagos or anywhere here is my number 08164000930 |
| Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by Angelfrost(m): 1:51pm On Apr 20, 2024 |
Op is asking Nigerian men to raise their standards... Lol! Even the ones forming Alpha males online still go offline to lay their life savings on the altar of fornication. ![]() |
| Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by TheRealestGuy(m): 1:51pm On Apr 20, 2024 |
Maysdevices:Being feminine, beautiful, inspirational and family oriented is what you speak of in derogatory terms like this ![]() You say men want to lead but this is the classic lack of accountability most women exhibit. It has been proven since beginning of time that women love a man to be in charge; and so men step up to this to cater to what women want. Even you making noise here wants a man who is in charge but you can pretend all you like. And if you say you're not then you're a 0.1% minority of women who all mostly want this. You have resulted to guilt tripping and shaming tactics simply because a man set his standards. Shioor. At least the "bimbo" will take good care of the kids and inspire the man to take his family to the greatest possible height. While the "hustler" slaves away at a job or career, ends up alone and bitter, freezes her eggs at 35 and goes on the hunt for a weak idiot to have a baby and do life all alone. BTW again, it has been proven that an overwhelming majority of women prefer to be a "bimbo" and raising a family is one of the most important jobs in the world, certainly more important than a career in "marketing" or "linguistic studies". Again, shioor ![]() |
| Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by Aplaudez(m): 1:54pm On Apr 20, 2024 |
This girl legitly told me to give her 30k to work her relocation for her nysc ![]() I've being laughing since morning ![]() Like what audacity 😒, am I her father ![]() Please laugh with me guys ![]() |
| Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by UjuJoan2: 2:01pm On Apr 20, 2024 |
Negroid001:You can raise your standards all you want, marry a billionaire if you like. You will still be a provider, that is your role as a man!!! No woman wants to suffer through childbirth years, thinking of how to cater for the family financially too. Gender roles are clearly defined and nothing you men do can change that. Except you want to start growing human beings too for nine months, 2 years of your life spent on pregnancy and nursing a child. That’s 6-10 years of a woman’s life based on average household size in Nigeria. Oga, if you are not financially capable, who will cater for the home if your wife has to quit working because of health challenges associated with childbirth? I like your sister abeg. If she stays with the broke guy out of love, what’s to say he’s not going to turn on her tomorrow when he becomes rich. If you don’t want to provide for a woman, then don’t get married. Don’t even date. Become celibate and adopt kids. Nobody is forcing you to get married! Because trust me, any man who is not a provider can NEVER have respect in that marriage. Go and ask poor married men. The woman might provide but your role as a man will be diminished. Women can only support broke me up to a certain point. If a man takes advantage of the woman’s understanding and becomes lazy and dependent, my dear it will not end well for the man. As a matter of fact, that’s why some rich ladies never settle for broke guys. Because it’s easy for a man to get too comfortable and forget his role as a man. Even the Bible says that any man who does not provide for his family is worse than an infidel. |
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