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My Boyfriend Had Sex With His Dying Female Friend As A 'final Wish' by Celplas1010: 2:42pm On Apr 23
The 22-year-old woman claims a mutual friend spoke of her partner's infidelity while on a group holiday and she's since been struggling emotionally - especially because the friend passed away in March 2022.

Detailing the situation on Reddit, the woman sought relationship advice and said her boyfriend has down following the death of his friend.

'I hate myself because I get angry inside whenever he mentions her. I can't express my jealousy because she's dead anyway,' she wrote.

This jealousy is eating me up. They totally had emotional sex because of her condition. I don't even know who initiated it. It was probably something like how she didn't want to die a virgin.

Hundreds offered words of advice, most of whom agreed there's 'no excuses' for cheating on a partner.

My boyfriend didn't tell me that he had sex with his dying friend. We were together when it happened. He's still depressed about her death. I feel jealous and I don't know what to do,' she began.

I'm confident that he was never attracted to her. They never had a relationship beyond that. She did have a secret crush on him though. She was the little sister of their friend group. This incident happened late November or December 2021.

'My boyfriend and I had never even had sex all the way then. To clarify, he didn't lose his virginity to her but she did lose her virginity to him.'

She described their relationship as 'otherwise perfect' and he has always been a 'good boyfriend' even at his lowest points.

'We were also best friends before we ended up together. I think it's unfair to be so black and white about this,' she added.
After reading the comments from other Redditors, the girlfriend confronted her boyfriend about his infidelity and shared a detailed update.

She said her boyfriend didn't say anything because he didn't want to breakup and now 'disapproves' of his own actions.

'He didn't want to hurt me (but he did anyway because he didn't talk until now). The guilt is part of why his mental health is awful,' she said.

'My boyfriend said that if he could, he would've asked me for permission then. He would have respected my decision and wouldn't have done it. Though a part of him would also feel guilty about not fulfilling his friend's wish when she dies.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/relationships/article-12489357/Reddit-boyfriend-sex-dying-friend.html?ito=social-facebook&fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAR3qOSdL_2qTied6eNcQb5MrxBbnChEypPChZbhod91Tv927tZoUYMMa650_aem_AXyQunyVGcZWhE6fpq4kzz8TzJmp2NTf0mtdkUF3jqVGkNBqRsc0UNd913aWmr_XVlGVNztdBdp9b9fQw6LSNhM-

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Re: My Boyfriend Had Sex With His Dying Female Friend As A 'final Wish' by immortalcrown(m): 2:54pm On Apr 23
Madness manifests in so many ways.

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Re: My Boyfriend Had Sex With His Dying Female Friend As A 'final Wish' by Magnetic010: 3:02pm On Apr 23
Oyibo people are full of drama

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Re: My Boyfriend Had Sex With His Dying Female Friend As A 'final Wish' by DONFRANSKID(m): 3:07pm On Apr 23
If reverse was the case what would she had done?

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Re: My Boyfriend Had Sex With His Dying Female Friend As A 'final Wish' by Asmmi: 3:10pm On Apr 23
She's dying. Why worry?

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Re: My Boyfriend Had Sex With His Dying Female Friend As A 'final Wish' by Fisiryorh(m): 3:27pm On Apr 23
Medicine after death...

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Re: My Boyfriend Had Sex With His Dying Female Friend As A 'final Wish' by eepeepook: 3:37pm On Apr 23
Fake story.

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Re: My Boyfriend Had Sex With His Dying Female Friend As A 'final Wish' by Rexymania(m): 3:39pm On Apr 23
Weirdos.... Stupidity at it peak. How can you even get an erection at a dying person? That's pervert gosh! These guys are not human

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Re: My Boyfriend Had Sex With His Dying Female Friend As A 'final Wish' by 1Sharon(f): 3:57pm On Apr 23
Another episode of things that never happened.

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Re: My Boyfriend Had Sex With His Dying Female Friend As A 'final Wish' by kkins25(m): 4:12pm On Apr 23
1Sharon:
Another episode of things that never happened.

It must have come from Reddit..

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Re: My Boyfriend Had Sex With His Dying Female Friend As A 'final Wish' by 1Sharon(f): 4:23pm On Apr 23
kkins25:


It must have come from Reddit..

It did. DM are silly for citing it.

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Re: My Boyfriend Had Sex With His Dying Female Friend As A 'final Wish' by Solsix(m): 4:43pm On Apr 23
Wetin person no go ready for this forum
Re: My Boyfriend Had Sex With His Dying Female Friend As A 'final Wish' by Sonnobax15(m): 4:50pm On Apr 23
lipsrsealed
A promise well fulfilled tongue

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Re: My Boyfriend Had Sex With His Dying Female Friend As A 'final Wish' by emperor4love(m): 5:22pm On Apr 23
Which kind weird nd fetish b dis
Re: My Boyfriend Had Sex With His Dying Female Friend As A 'final Wish' by TotoIsGud4boy: 5:23pm On Apr 23
Could happen anywhere even in Naija .. all those girls that chop your money without giving you kpanshing

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Re: My Boyfriend Had Sex With His Dying Female Friend As A 'final Wish' by RaySimran: 5:26pm On Apr 23
Dailymail (uk) has gone the way of Sahara Reporters, lifting unverified articles from blogs. undecided

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Re: My Boyfriend Had Sex With His Dying Female Friend As A 'final Wish' by Illegal1(m): 5:28pm On Apr 23
omoh..........same way i'm abt to sex my bestie tonight,as her wish b4 she relocate 4rm yenagoa..

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Re: My Boyfriend Had Sex With His Dying Female Friend As A 'final Wish' by idahme(m): 5:36pm On Apr 23
Rexymania:
Weirdos.... Stupidity at it peak. How can you even get an erection at a dying person? That's pervert gosh! These guys are not human


See the way you are shouting, I would have believed what you wrote hook line and sinker if you had been in that scenario before and came out with this response


You will never know the condition that made him do that until you find yourself in same scenario to better understand his predicament.

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Re: My Boyfriend Had Sex With His Dying Female Friend As A 'final Wish' by Rexymania(m): 5:39pm On Apr 23
idahme:



See the way you are shouting, I would have believed what you wrote hook line and sinker if you had been in that scenario before and came out with this response


You will never know the condition that made him do that until you find yourself in same scenario to better understand his predicament.

Oga, I won't

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Re: My Boyfriend Had Sex With His Dying Female Friend As A 'final Wish' by ehrique: 5:42pm On Apr 23
Celplas1010:
The 22-year-old woman claims a mutual friend spoke of her partner's infidelity while on a group holiday and she's since been struggling emotionally - especially because the friend passed away in March 2022.
Detailing the situation on Reddit, the woman sought relationship advice and said her boyfriend has down following the death of his friend.

'I hate myself because I get angry inside whenever he mentions her. I can't express my jealousy because she's dead anyway,' she wrote.

This jealousy is eating me up. They totally had emotional sex because of her condition. I don't even know who initiated it. It was probably something like how she didn't want to die a virgin.

Hundreds offered words of advice, most of whom agreed there's 'no excuses' for cheating on a partner.
My boyfriend didn't tell me that he had sex with his dying friend. We were together when it happened. He's still depressed about her death. I feel jealous and I don't know what to do,' she began.
I'm confident that he was never attracted to her. They never had a relationship beyond that. She did have a secret crush on him though. She was the little sister of their friend group. This incident happened late November or December 2021.


'My boyfriend and I had never even had sex all the way then. To clarify, he didn't lose his virginity to her but she did lose her virginity to him.'

She described their relationship as 'otherwise perfect' and he has always been a 'good boyfriend' even at his lowest points.

'We were also best friends before we ended up together. I think it's unfair to be so black and white about this,' she added.
After reading the comments from other Redditors, the girlfriend confronted her boyfriend about his infidelity and shared a detailed update.

She said her boyfriend didn't say anything because he didn't want to breakup and now 'disapproves' of his own actions.

'He didn't want to hurt me (but he did anyway because he didn't talk until now). The guilt is part of why his mental health is awful,' she said.

'My boyfriend said that if he could, he would've asked me for permission then. He would have respected my decision and wouldn't have done it. Though a part of him would also feel guilty about not fulfilling his friend's wish when she dies.
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/relationships/article-12489357/Reddit-boyfriend-sex-dying-friend.html?ito=social-facebook&fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAR3qOSdL_2qTied6eNcQb5MrxBbnChEypPChZbhod91Tv927tZoUYMMa650_aem_AXyQunyVGcZWhE6fpq4kzz8TzJmp2NTf0mtdkUF3jqVGkNBqRsc0UNd913aWmr_XVlGVNztdBdp9b9fQw6LSNhM-

This is just silly
Re: My Boyfriend Had Sex With His Dying Female Friend As A 'final Wish' by Juwessgratitud3: 5:53pm On Apr 23
Men will sleep with anything. Even a dying dog.
Give them your heart and body at your own peril.

Man wey corner imbecil.e, giam Belle. Tufia!

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Re: My Boyfriend Had Sex With His Dying Female Friend As A 'final Wish' by DagashSamson: 6:22pm On Apr 23
The kind of things people do. Counseling is recommended, if nothing improves afterwards, they better go their seperate ways.


HT = Draw @ 2.2 odds
SWEDEN: Superettan
Degerfors - Helsingborg
Re: My Boyfriend Had Sex With His Dying Female Friend As A 'final Wish' by LordIsaac(m): 6:46pm On Apr 23
Your dying wish should be to make heaven, not to seks your way to eternity. Jesus is Lord!

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Re: My Boyfriend Had Sex With His Dying Female Friend As A 'final Wish' by Verbtips(m): 6:54pm On Apr 23
kkins25:

It must have come from Reddit..
sure
Re: My Boyfriend Had Sex With His Dying Female Friend As A 'final Wish' by franchasofficia: 7:10pm On Apr 23
LordIsaac:
Your dying wish should be to make heaven, not to seks your way to eternity. Jesus is Lord!
She no send una hell fire even in her deathbed shocked shocked shocked


Maybe na only those who believe in hell fire will end up in hell undecided

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Re: My Boyfriend Had Sex With His Dying Female Friend As A 'final Wish' by AcadaWriter: 7:15pm On Apr 23
Madness manifests in so many ways.
Re: My Boyfriend Had Sex With His Dying Female Friend As A 'final Wish' by Zaheertyler(m): 7:56pm On Apr 23
Lol

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Re: My Boyfriend Had Sex With His Dying Female Friend As A 'final Wish' by idahme(m): 8:03pm On Apr 23
Rexymania:


Oga, I won't

I'm not saying you should, I'm saying you would better understand the scenario the character was

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Re: My Boyfriend Had Sex With His Dying Female Friend As A 'final Wish' by Celplas1010: 8:18pm On Apr 23
ehrique:


This is just silly
Hahaha hahaha hahaha
Re: My Boyfriend Had Sex With His Dying Female Friend As A 'final Wish' by Celplas1010: 8:19pm On Apr 23
immortalcrown:
Madness manifests in so many ways.
Who is now mad among the boyfriend and girlfriend
Re: My Boyfriend Had Sex With His Dying Female Friend As A 'final Wish' by Celplas1010: 8:21pm On Apr 23
Juwessgratitud3:
Men will sleep with anything. Even a dying dog.
Give them your heart and body at your own peril.

Man wey corner imbecil.e, giam Belle. Tufia!
Are u blaming the man for helping out or the the lady who prefers not to die a virgin?

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Re: My Boyfriend Had Sex With His Dying Female Friend As A 'final Wish' by Celplas1010: 8:24pm On Apr 23
TotoIsGud4boy:
Could happen anywhere even in Naija .. all those girls that chop your money without giving you kpanshing
Hahaha hahaha hahaha 🤣😂. Naija ladies don deal with u well

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