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Re: Why Is It That Most Ladies Don't Want To Date Or Marry Their Age Mates? by Tallesty1(m): 11:09am On Apr 25

pocohantas:

Not even as a pet sef.
I am tired of reading that falsehood.

Re: Why Is It That Most Ladies Don't Want To Date Or Marry Their Age Mates? by complet: 11:10am On Apr 25

They are all thieves, men can marry them when they are not working, but you look for jobs for them after marriage they will change

Re: Why Is It That Most Ladies Don't Want To Date Or Marry Their Age Mates? by CheapHomes1: 11:12am On Apr 25

labake1:

My age mates are not ready for relationship

but are your age mates not dating younger ladies?

Re: Why Is It That Most Ladies Don't Want To Date Or Marry Their Age Mates? by djoe21(m): 11:12am On Apr 25

karkinase:
A man should be @ least 7 years older than his babe. Women age faster with 5+ age to men. A 23 year old girl is literally 28yrs. and men age slower 5- to their age. So a 28yrs man is literally a 23yrs old.

It is not white and black. You cannot generalize.

Re: Why Is It That Most Ladies Don't Want To Date Or Marry Their Age Mates? by femi4: 11:14am On Apr 25

labake1:
Why is it that most ladies don't want to date or marry their age mates?

Is there a taboo in it?

Most of them go after money

By default, their mate can't be ready financially when they are ready to settle down

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Re: Why Is It That Most Ladies Don't Want To Date Or Marry Their Age Mates? by GenFunction: 11:14am On Apr 25

Beuberry:
Cos guys of our age are dumb. We need advanced ages to meet up with our intellectual prowess and needs. Most of our age mates are also poor in riches but rich only in bed!

And u are rich in stupidity i guess.because ur older bro is dumb doesnt mean err'one is dumb.

Re: Why Is It That Most Ladies Don't Want To Date Or Marry Their Age Mates? by Papayaayasager(m): 11:14am On Apr 25

Does gender believe that they eat the apple in the garden of Eden first so, their eye open before man eye open

So, if you and your fiancee or girl friend are on the same age they believe they are more matured that you are

And also they want you to die first for their mind na who first come life they die first.

Re: Why Is It That Most Ladies Don't Want To Date Or Marry Their Age Mates? by PureNigerDeltan(m): 11:15am On Apr 25

Solofresh2:
Actually as a guy,all the girls have dated in my life are older than I do apart from my first girlfriend whom we share the same age.My pastor's daughter then I dated next was 2 years older and even the next lady I dated in school who had a child but didn't tell me until I found out myself was four years older

I hate to say I’ve dated my pastors daughter too. Now it’s sounding weird to me🤦🏾‍♂️

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Re: Why Is It That Most Ladies Don't Want To Date Or Marry Their Age Mates? by bentenny(m): 11:15am On Apr 25

There are several reasons....In terms of experience,most ladies believes she is 4 years more experienced than her age mate that happens to be a male,hence she will prefer an older guy!
She believes the older guy is more experienced and matured!

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Re: Why Is It That Most Ladies Don't Want To Date Or Marry Their Age Mates? by femi4: 11:16am On Apr 25

Beuberry:
Cos guys of our age are dumb. We need advanced ages to meet up with our intellectual prowess and needs. Most of our age mates are also poor in riches but rich only in bed!

yinmu
Just like Regina Daniel, you all go for the money

Re: Why Is It That Most Ladies Don't Want To Date Or Marry Their Age Mates? by Kingdavid579(m): 11:16am On Apr 25

There's nothing like that, wayward age mate plenty.

I have dated 4 woman in my entire life and 3 of them are older than I am. Asin the least is 3 years older.

It's actually about how you present yourself to a woman.

Re: Why Is It That Most Ladies Don't Want To Date Or Marry Their Age Mates? by djoe21(m): 11:17am On Apr 25

uuzba:

I am a man. And I approve.
Go for older guys please.
The fact that you went to school and same class with a guy does not mean he is ready or prepared to marry you.
Your partner is 5, 10 or 20 years much older than you and will support you better in this Nigeria.
We that are your age mate, will reverse back and choose a younger girl that will not argue or challenge us in the house.

Lolz. If you believe your last statement then you are in for a rude shock. You really think younger girls don't argue or challenge? grin

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Re: Why Is It That Most Ladies Don't Want To Date Or Marry Their Age Mates? by Hezmatosky: 11:19am On Apr 25

Anybody trying to understand the behavior of women is wasting his time. If I tell you I have one contract security girl in my company, na small small boys wey she fit give 5-10yrs gap she dey like and she's happily proud of it. So, women eh, na ogbanje dey worry them most times. Na so one carry herself come my office one day, I gave her 5k to go find something chop. The matter reach village o. The stupid girl go tell one aproko guy like say me no get sense ordinary mama put I dey give woman 5k. Imagine angry

Wetin women actually want is a question even them don't even know the answer

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Re: Why Is It That Most Ladies Don't Want To Date Or Marry Their Age Mates? by uuzba(m): 11:20am On Apr 25

djoe21:

Lolz. If you believe your last statement then you are in for a rude shock. You really think younger girls don't argue to challenge?

You can just say, "Cmon shutup there small girl"...

You see. You can't do that if it is your mate na! grin

Re: Why Is It That Most Ladies Don't Want To Date Or Marry Their Age Mates? by Basicend: 11:20am On Apr 25

karkinase:
A man should be @ least 7 years older than his babe. Women age faster with 5+ age to men. A 23 year old girl is literally 28yrs. and men age slower 5- to their age. So a 28yrs man is literally a 23yrs old.

I think 10 years margin is the most appropriate.

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Re: Why Is It That Most Ladies Don't Want To Date Or Marry Their Age Mates? by Satazaa: 11:21am On Apr 25

FuckYeyeMods:
Why would you as a man. As a man, If you have good posture couple with good diet, 4years gap is even too small.

yesooo, Buhari and Aisha has 24 years age differences, dunno the age diffrence between Ned&Reggie

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Re: Why Is It That Most Ladies Don't Want To Date Or Marry Their Age Mates? by jelel6: 11:21am On Apr 25

uuzba:

I am a man. And I approve.
Go for older guys please.
The fact that you went to school and same class with a guy does not mean he is ready or prepared to marry you.
Your partner is 5, 10 or 20 years much older than you and will support you better in this Nigeria.
We that are your age mate, will reverse back and choose a younger girl that will not argue or challenge us in the house.

And how's that working out for those men going for much younger women? Are they really getting the peace and respect from these younger women that they seek?

Because that doesn't appear to be the case going by the "true stories" narrated by men on nairaland.

Humbly asking.

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Re: Why Is It That Most Ladies Don't Want To Date Or Marry Their Age Mates? by Blitzking: 11:22am On Apr 25

labake1:
Why is it that most ladies don't want to date or marry their age mates?

Is there a taboo in it?

Married my age mate..we are both Dr's though

Re: Why Is It That Most Ladies Don't Want To Date Or Marry Their Age Mates? by Satazaa: 11:23am On Apr 25

ggood:
I have to senior my wife with 15 or 10 year's President Buhari was 41 years when his wife Aisha was born, look at both of them now

wow, I thought it was 24 years

Re: Why Is It That Most Ladies Don't Want To Date Or Marry Their Age Mates? by uuzba(m): 11:24am On Apr 25

Kingdavid579:
There's nothing like that, wayward age mate plenty.

I have dated 4 woman in my entire life and 3 of them are older than I am. Asin the least is 3 years older.

It's actually about how you present yourself to a woman.

You dated but you didn't marry. They were desperate to born child.
Marry older lady first. Let her give birth.
The lady will tell you kneel down and hands up, when you misbehave.

Re: Why Is It That Most Ladies Don't Want To Date Or Marry Their Age Mates? by chatinent: 11:25am On Apr 25

I'd tell you for free that to many it's about finance.

Re: Why Is It That Most Ladies Don't Want To Date Or Marry Their Age Mates? by Satazaa: 11:31am On Apr 25

pocohantas:

A man is not marrying someone who has nothing to offer because she isn't financially stable. Men know why they go for such women and avoid their mates who supposedly has something to offer. He simply put youthfulness, extreme submission, homemaking skills...etc, above financial support. Nobody marries someone who has NOTHING to offer in the real sense of it. Definitely not men. You people should stop telling this lie. We all know why you date/marry down.

absolutely correct

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Re: Why Is It That Most Ladies Don't Want To Date Or Marry Their Age Mates? by advanceDNA: 11:41am On Apr 25

Sapasenator:

Most ladies mature beyond their age mate.

What about you, are you dating your age mate?

Mature beyond their age mate?? grin

...Women that behave like children ...never want to be responsible for anything

They are just greedy and look for things most of their age mates won't or cant give them..

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Re: Why Is It That Most Ladies Don't Want To Date Or Marry Their Age Mates? by Akuruoulo(m): 11:43am On Apr 25

Sapasenator:

Most ladies mature beyond their age mate.

What about you, are you dating your age mate?

What do u call maturity?

Re: Why Is It That Most Ladies Don't Want To Date Or Marry Their Age Mates? by Akuruoulo(m): 11:44am On Apr 25

JUMO95:

Their age mates don't have the financial capacity to maintain a married lifestyle

Women can date any age hence he is financially stable.
Women are simply mini children

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Re: Why Is It That Most Ladies Don't Want To Date Or Marry Their Age Mates? by Akuruoulo(m): 11:46am On Apr 25

shortgun:
A woman at her prime will be between
19 to 23
While a man at his prime will be between
35 to 45
You will expect the two primes to connect more

What do u mean by prime ?
Seems ur family men are nonentities?

Re: Why Is It That Most Ladies Don't Want To Date Or Marry Their Age Mates? by Daystar7: 11:48am On Apr 25

This shouldn't be a topic to be debated by sane minds...
Back when we was in sec sch. I had a crush on this dark hairy girl with big ass, we was still in SS1, she liked me too but wouldn't be with me the way I wanted. SS3 guys 'll come around and be with them and it made me mad and jealous. I saw the SS3 guys as predators cos why won't they leave our girls alone and be with those their class. I was so disturbed I discussed it with her one day, I asked her why them girls didn't give us their class the kind of attention they gave to the guys in the senior class and she said it's nature. She said those guys in higher class are more responsible, experienced and older and they can handle them better than we their mates. She said we might truly be mates but we not really mates. Women appreciates and depreciates faster. Since then I understood how the dynamics of the male and female relationship works. A woman can hardly love a man without respecting him first. Difference in Age makes it easier. Men's love language is respect, women knows this, it's one of the ways they flirt. If she likes you she'll greet you and maybe stop if you hesitate to shoot ur shot at her. It's the same in Animals too, age, size, strength, skill all plays a role. An alpha within a pride has all the bitches within the pride same way a Man with skills (Money) is an Alpha too. The skill can be leadership, you notice pastors, Imams, politicians, successful businessmen, doctors, musicians and entertainers (Artists) generally gets a lot of female attention. Age is a major factor in the dynamics of human interaction. Women also age faster esp when they start reproducing. So as a man it's very wise to develop yourself first, be a Man other women want and she'll want you too and always invest in yourself while investing in ur woman to stay ahead. If you uplift your woman above you, you've played yourself cos those men above her will notice her and she'll be naturally attracted to them and seeing you're below her will bring resentment and she'll more than likely leave. It's Life!

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Re: Why Is It That Most Ladies Don't Want To Date Or Marry Their Age Mates? by Akuruoulo(m): 11:48am On Apr 25

labake1:
Why is it that most ladies don't want to date or marry their age mates?

Is there a taboo in it?

Men are the leaders of every home , and Soo it's expected that he should be older to accord him the respect of being a leader

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Re: Why Is It That Most Ladies Don't Want To Date Or Marry Their Age Mates? by Daystar7: 11:53am On Apr 25

Akuruoulo:

Women can date any age hence he is financially stable.
Women are simply mini children

You're right but not entirely right. Women always go for men better than them, being successful makes you attractive as a man but they'll always choose an older man with money than a boy who's successful if they have the options. She wants you to be better than her in every aspect and completely dominate her.

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Re: Why Is It That Most Ladies Don't Want To Date Or Marry Their Age Mates? by truthhurts2: 11:56am On Apr 25

VeeVeeMyLuv:

But in most cases experience comes with age

That's why you hear people say he or she has come of age, more wiser.

I think environment and in some cases, exploring.

Don't forget, the fools also gets old

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Re: Why Is It That Most Ladies Don't Want To Date Or Marry Their Age Mates? by stephenponti(m): 11:59am On Apr 25

Because yhey know they will be the first to become older, fugue and derelict.

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Re: Why Is It That Most Ladies Don't Want To Date Or Marry Their Age Mates? by shortgun(m): 12:06pm On Apr 25

Akuruoulo:

What do u mean by prime ?
Seems ur family men are nonentities?

Go and ask your grandfather.
Go school you say no.
Ode

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