NairaMaster1:


That's why all of you are now prostitutes. Have you ever seen where a woman marries more than one husband in your culture? But men can marry as much even in the Bible. You're a candidate

. Well as long as you keep exercising your rights to more than one woman, you’ll unfortunately have no choice but to share each other’s women. There aren’t enough women available to ensure that you all get more than one without any overlap.

I know peniss mathematicians doesn’t let you guys process this basic concept. But the numbers don’t lie.
Sleep around get slept around on. 🤷🏽‍♀️

ivolt:
Illogical submission.

If even just 1% of married women patronise hotel for illicit affairs,
major hotel owners will be dominating Nigeria's Forbes list.

Yet, majority of hotels struggle to breakeven and maintain their structures
despite the imaginary regular influx of married women.

Are there married women who engage in prostitution, yes, but that is the reality of life.
But the idea that an average married woman out there is somewhere selling herself at a hotel is ludicrous.

This is just like asking people to visit Igbobi Orthopaedic so they can fear traveling.
Yes, you will see enough badly broken bones. But that doesn't mean the average person
out there is treating one broken bone or the other. We all know a tiny minority of the people
find themselve in Igbobi.

This post isn't about absolving ALL married women of cheating/prostituting but to
invalidate pointless alarmist arguments.

Married women cheating is as old as marriage itself. We could forgive a child for
not knowing this but an adult shouldn't be surprised or alarmed.

@OP assuming all married women in Nigeria are chaste except your wife,
Will such stats make you happy and your home peaceful?

As long as a particular person's wife has not been found cheating/prostituting
what a random hotel worker reports should be irrelevant to their home.

May you live long..
I wanted to call my sensitive wife to come and let read together.. I will definitely from let read together to some form of interrogation. Which she will quick to know where the conversation head.
But you input saved the day.

GindoX:


... Bad mouths plenty here... Development no dey too much naa...

😂😂

Such a 🙄 line of thinking.

But let’s indulge you. If providing financially gives you the right to break your marital vow, that means women are now also entitled to the same rights seeing as more women are providing for their families along with the men.

Benjamin4388:


am not fault finding any gender..but if it's generally accepted that men should foot all the responsibilities of a woman or wife for the exchange of what(maybe sex,taking care of the home)...doesn't make sense but it is what it is...so the woman shouldn't cheat(that's equality)..I bet no man gonna complain if women takes care of our bills and gives us sex when we need it and then go out to cheat and work...we all be fine...

Odebayo4010:
My Experience working in a Hotel as a receptionist Open my eye to unimaginable things. So Many things that will make you scared. Working in a hotel will turn you to something else. Avoid it if you can.

Things dey happen there, Especially married women what they're doing they maval, I done hear different sound track I swear, both from married woman and singles. You will see how dey slàughter people's serious girlfriends.

Working at a lodge will make you fear marriage self.

Chai omo I done day fear women like this, many things day happen ooh, imagine both married women ooh, omo if no be to get children I for no near woman say I won marry
Especially married women with small small boys. One of them like me and wanted me to be her boyfriend and I refuse, she was angry and stop coming to the hotel.. To marry go hard o.

I have once catch my neighbor wife but I forgot to snap her for evidence. Without an evidence, I decided to keep quiet . This man loves this lady dīe. Come see gift he will pack come back while coming for holiday from work

That's is why I always say cheating is not gender based to confirm, just go to any hotel or guest house to relax or watch ball, u will see many married women coming for short time, many even stay over night, have seen a Soo called men and women of God come to hotel to do short time.

Some times is good to go out especially to some places to see dat dere is nothing in this life and u will appreciate the fact that you need to love your self more than any other person.

For men dat carry dere wives for head, I love my wife I love my wife, you wife dey hotel to do short time with another man, make everyone get sense and trust nobody.
Continue later, I wanted to rest for now.

Your experience is a sad reality. Your conclusion to it calls for huge concern.
You’re too young to define marriage as failed experiment. Every marriage is equal to the sum of the personalities involved.
If you’re trash and get married, you’ll produce trash. Marriage isn’t a miracle. Whatever it becomes is what you guys bring to the table.
How many young men today can stay for 3 months without visiting brothels or having sex?
Let’s start with that. If you can’t stay celibate as a single person, male or female, then you’re heading into marriage to cheat eventually.
When sense of morality and virtues are on a decline, existing families get threatened, intending marriages lack the resolve to stay sustainable. That’s the effect you’re feeling.
Make your choice based on healthy values. Learn discipline while you’re single. Learn how to accomodate others.
Sustainable marriage is built on basic principles as this. Nothing to fear about.

You are truly right my dear friend. I work in an hotel. The way girl miss used themselves is making me lost interest in marriage.

GUYS DON'T TRUST LADIES ESPECIALLY THIS NEW GENERATION

That is why we are not producing anything in Nigeria because our mind is full of sexual thoughts. Nigeria politicians are only interested in women. Abuja is another sexually active city.

cococandy:
Such a 🙄 line of thinking.

But let’s indulge you. If providing financially gives you the right to break your marital vow, that means women are now also entitled to the same rights seeing as more women are providing for their families along with the men.

yes absolutely...life goes on.. for the info have not cheated in my life

altteemy:
@Odebayo4010, it would be prudent to remove your picture. You wouldn't want an issue of someone who knows you following up on all you typed.

I didn't mention Name so am free like crippled leg

richie240:

Na God save you.
Very many of them do it for ritual purposes.
You go think say den like you; den go plaster you with gifts and all, but na lie, na ur sperm/sweat den need.

Once they are able to get yiur sperm, work don finish be dt. Even if u use condom, e nor matter, so long as u penetrate her, she go wipe the sweat around that 'region' and everything don set be that.

No free food, not even in freetown.

Am well experience Man,I can't do such thing

ivolt:


How does knowing and worrying about such depravity at hotels help you navigate relationship better?
I repeat again, assuming all married women in Nigeria are chaste except your wife,
Will such stats make you happy and your home peaceful?

You can't be discussing relationship in the context of infidelity except the couple decided on open marriage. Like it all not, those cases you see and hear represent a subset of the society at large and you can only pray for grace to escape suffering the plague ravaging the rest of society

Johnson225:
Its the way you keep stressing on the "women" for me
Abi no be men dey carry dem come the hotel??

Thing is; while growing up. We were told marriage is sacred and bla bla. But viewing Things now as an adult seems different from what we were told



About snapping your neighhours wife? Shun that thought... focus on your job. No go use your hand put yourself for trouble

You are a man of wisdom, everything here pours out my own mind. Hotels should make it one of their rules that no staff should talk about what they see in the hotel to outsiders, it should be breech of contract to anyone that does so.

UNNGRADUATEEE:
I have worked in hotel when I was in Nsukka UNN. I worked in Golden valley hotel so I can relate to what you are saying. I caught the wife of a professor I know bringing a young guy there for sex. Omoh, she didn't recognized me.

lol. Prof dey read book and guys dey hammer him wife

rightdata:
That is why we are not producing anything in Nigeria because our mind is full of sexual thoughts. Nigeria politicians are only interested in women. Abuja is another sexually active city.

Exactly my broda...

But before u conclude ever heard of Clinton B., Reagan N. ?

Whoever like your story, has an experience or suspecting his or her own partner...but at the end of it all "fear women" end of quote!

Odebayo4010:
My Experience working in a Hotel as a receptionist Open my eye to unimaginable things. So Many things that will make you scared. Working in a hotel will turn you to something else. Avoid it if you can.

Things dey happen there, Especially married women what they're doing they maval, I done hear different sound track I swear, both from married woman and singles. You will see how dey slàughter people's serious girlfriends.

Working at a lodge will make you fear marriage self.

Chai omo I done day fear women like this, many things day happen ooh, imagine both married women ooh, omo if no be to get children I for no near woman say I won marry
Especially married women with small small boys. One of them like me and wanted me to be her boyfriend and I refuse, she was angry and stop coming to the hotel.. To marry go hard o.

I have once catch my neighbor wife but I forgot to snap her for evidence. Without an evidence, I decided to keep quiet . This man loves this lady dīe. Come see gift he will pack come back while coming for holiday from work

That's is why I always say cheating is not gender based to confirm, just go to any hotel or guest house to relax or watch ball, u will see many married women coming for short time, many even stay over night, have seen a Soo called men and women of God come to hotel to do short time.

Some times is good to go out especially to some places to see dat dere is nothing in this life and u will appreciate the fact that you need to love your self more than any other person.

For men dat carry dere wives for head, I love my wife I love my wife, you wife dey hotel to do short time with another man, make everyone get sense and trust nobody.
Continue later, I wanted to rest for now.

Hmmm

PussyGalore:
So what if you saw your neighbour's wife at the hotel.

Did you catch he with another man on top of her?

A married woman that visits hotels without her husbands knowledge!!!

She's there to do evangelism baaa⚠️⚠️

Well it's certainly not for me shaaaa...

I usually tell boys and men this...... Your problem in life begins when you decide as a man to:

1. Date/marry a non virgin
2. Date/marry a broke girl
3. Date/marry a girl without education or skills!!!

The devil leaves you alone as a man when you date/marry any of these types of girls... He knows you're already finished⚠️

SouthSouth1914:


The internet brought a lot of promiscuity. Sex chats, sex groups etc!!

I see. Pervasiveness at its peak!

Fear women fear women! Did the single or married woman went there alone or with a fellow woman? No be man carry am come? Fear men!

dontrulee:
Married men cheat more, married women cheat codedly.
Konji is no respecter of person, that's why one should develop self control and discipline.
Sex is very easy and cheap to get, so I'm not surprised if people cheat. It's normal

You are always as Straight as Aboki Dick ... ! .... That's the new deal Humanities would have to accept & it has always happened since aeon time ... Eve even cheated Adam with Satan sotey she fed Adam Apple 🍎

PussyGalore:
So what if you saw your neighbor's wife at the hotel.

Did you catch he with another man on top of her?

Sawing her and catching her on top of or man on top differs abi ?

Zonefree:
The volume of fornication and adultery going on between 8am-2pm on Sundays in Guest houses or hotels with short time in Nigeria is enough for God to destroy this country.

That's a lie, The Real worship & Scientific/Technological Activities going On in the Country is more than enough than people fvcking ....

People fvcking are not also Unproductive ooo ... Many Just left their jobs to quickly shag & go back to their Jobs ...

God just don't destroy ... The indices for destruction on sex would be that's all we all dedicated our life to do ... But Nah, Una too dey Religious & Overcorrectedness in Nigeria thinking Na Una Sabi God pass ....!

We no fvck Reach Oyinbo ... !!

Odebayo4010:
My Experience working in a Hotel as a receptionist Open my eye to unimaginable things. So Many things that will make you scared. Working in a hotel will turn you to something else. Avoid it if you can.

Things dey happen there, Especially married women what they're doing they maval, I done hear different sound track I swear, both from married woman and singles. You will see how dey slàughter people's serious girlfriends.

Working at a lodge will make you fear marriage self.

Chai omo I done day fear women like this, many things day happen ooh, imagine both married women ooh, omo if no be to get children I for no near woman say I won marry
Especially married women with small small boys. One of them like me and wanted me to be her boyfriend and I refuse, she was angry and stop coming to the hotel.. To marry go hard o.

I have once catch my neighbor wife but I forgot to snap her for evidence. Without an evidence, I decided to keep quiet . This man loves this lady dīe. Come see gift he will pack come back while coming for holiday from work

That's is why I always say cheating is not gender based to confirm, just go to any hotel or guest house to relax or watch ball, u will see many married women coming for short time, many even stay over night, have seen a Soo called men and women of God come to hotel to do short time.

Some times is good to go out especially to some places to see dat dere is nothing in this life and u will appreciate the fact that you need to love your self more than any other person.

For men dat carry dere wives for head, I love my wife I love my wife, you wife dey hotel to do short time with another man, make everyone get sense and trust nobody.
Continue later, I wanted to rest for now.

Instead of you to concentrate on your job, you are straining your neck to catch people's wives in adultery. Dey play, before you know it you go reach like ten years for that hotel as a receptionist.

With the state of the economy, expect more adultery and fornication.

poweredcom:


I de tell u.....nigerian girls guys are finished

Holluwhakemmy:
Women this women that you are just sentimental. How about the men sleeping with them are they not aware they are married. Condemn the two genders for their atrocities or keep quiet

Devil steal goat no be news, men are scum is enough condemnation ... but to see women do what they do after parading themselves like angel is shocking to newbies

iichidodo:
For God's sake, it's the 21st century. By now, we should have done away with inane idealogies like marriage, fidelity, virginity and sh**t... The Creator who made humanity is more interested in evolution, that is, moving the human species to the next millennium.Being too emotionally invested in the infallibility of marriage and fidelity in our time won't get us anywhere.

Why do you think we are different from other animals
Our Intelligence
The Family
and Religion
If you study history carefully you will realise that the reason the Egyptia,Mesopotamian,Greeks,Roman civilisation ended was because they went contrary to the laws of Nature or how do you think the United States started they were modest religious and disciplined the same could be said for all successful civilisation
Going contrary to that is probably extinction and we are at the brink

Stanweezy:
Alot happens there even medical doctor that came on health awareness still demanded for olosho to sleep with for night

In the morning he will embark on living healthy lifestyle

Ikegwurum

This got me rotflmfao

theredaddy:



Devil steal goat no be news, men are scum is enough condemnation ... but to see women do what they do after parading themselves like angel is shocking to newbies

women are not doing it alone

Benjamin4388:


as in me too.. those earlier years was mostly reading fictional and non fictional story's...zubby travels to Italy.Germany.Portugal.etc and sexcapede with Nigerian girls and doing drugs business was the one that got me hook to nairaland... person don tey here

Valid, sexcapede.. with one story like that of a boy involved with culties for school. E don tey gaaan.

Jeje247:
Wetin seun go come do for people wey don dey here for 18 years

Co-owners

ivolt:
Illogical submission.

If even just 1% of married women patronise hotel for illicit affairs,
major hotel owners will be dominating Nigeria's Forbes list.

Yet, majority of hotels struggle to breakeven and maintain their structures
despite the imaginary regular influx of married women.

Are there married women who engage in prostitution, yes, but that is the reality of life.
But the idea that an average married woman out there is somewhere selling herself at a hotel is ludicrous.

This is just like asking people to visit Igbobi Orthopaedic so they can fear traveling.
Yes, you will see enough badly broken bones. But that doesn't mean the average person
out there is treating one broken bone or the other. We all know a tiny minority of the people
find themselve in Igbobi.

This post isn't about absolving ALL married women of cheating/prostituting but to
invalidate pointless alarmist arguments.

Married women cheating is as old as marriage itself. We could forgive a child for
not knowing this but an adult shouldn't be surprised or alarmed.

@OP assuming all married women in Nigeria are wayward except your wife,
Will such stats make you happy and your home peaceful?

As long as a particular person's wife has not been found cheating/prostituting
what a random hotel worker reports should be irrelevant to their home.

Brilliant comment.
Just when one is about to lose hope here about the intelligence level of posters, someone gives hope once more!

The last bolded comment above is actually opposite, so I fixed it. Epic.
Thanks!