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Prophet Ufuoma Bernard: "No More Tithing In My Church, Daddy Freeze Is Right" / Daddy Freeze Replies Pastor Adeboye’s Response To His Teachings On Tithing / Church Members Walk Out On Pastor Adefarasin Over Tithing (2) (3) (4)
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Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by Adaiobanyi1: 9:56am On May 12 |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by femi4: 9:57am On May 12 |
Roger3D:Honestly, I don't understand the kind of men and Christians we raised nowadays 1 Like |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by Elsueno: 9:57am On May 12 |
To be honest, I fully agree with your wife on tithe issue, I myself have even forgotten the last time I paid that thing. I just help those really in need when I myself made plenty enough. I just don't trust any pastor that ask for 10% of my hard earned money, God doesn't need money. pastor is just lazy & looking for people to take care of him/her instead of getting a job like everybody else. And I am even more sure of not tithing self, especially seeing Jew worshippers like Righteousness2 advocating for it The only thing I disagree with ur wife is the 50-50 on her OWN family issues. This should be by UR OWN CHOICE & nobody should force u to do or contribute any percentage! 4 Likes |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by naijapips02: 9:57am On May 12 |
Listen to your wife. She seems to be the sensible one. 6 Likes |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by rexbuton: 9:57am On May 12 |
GoodBoi1: We need to do a thread about this. Most people are not aware 2 Likes |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by nkpommpko(m): 9:57am On May 12 |
Roger3D:very stupid. Ask him how he has impacted in developing where he came from etc 2 Likes |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by geoworldedu: 9:59am On May 12 |
What gives me joy is that she doesn't give tithe. She seems wiser than you in that aspect. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by Matrix137(m): 10:00am On May 12 |
Hmmm |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by nkpommpko(m): 10:00am On May 12 |
What's keeping your wife with you is that your money, so never stop making it, if you do, you are fried kpomo. Make I tell you. Muwguw! 2 Likes |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by Roger3D(m): 10:02am On May 12 |
optm:I know your pastor needs money for a new SUV 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by Powersurge: 10:02am On May 12 |
rexbuton: Pay your tithe and leave who's nit paying. God knows how to convince men to do his work. |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by wellmax(m): 10:07am On May 12 |
If your 90% is not enough, I bet you the 100% will not be sufficient. 1 Like |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by chatinent: 10:09am On May 12 |
Turns out your wife is the most sensible partner. Keep feeding another family man all in the name of tithe. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by BeigJawnson(m): 10:10am On May 12 |
rexbuton: My brother, as for me, it is not a must you tell her... Well you know her well more than we giving opinions to you... You are the man, the bridegroom, husband and not she that will be dictating to you concerning your personal savings... And again, women can be very funny when they know their husbands have savings kept somewhere, it is that very time they know the amount, they will keep bringing unnecessary expenses, just to finish that money and if you don't yield, they bring up fight. Note: not all women but some of them |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by chatinent: 10:12am On May 12 |
This person reasons like you Mr OP: sheer unwiseness. profmallor: 1 Like |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by ttmax09(m): 10:13am On May 12 |
optm:God bless you, I can see you have a good knowledge of the word. |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by chatinent: 10:14am On May 12 |
Who does your pastor pay his tithe to? You carry money dey give another fellow human being all in the name of giving it to God. Dem dey use Naira or dollars for heaven baa? Before you get sense, na court fit settle you and your pastor. 1 Like |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by ttmax09(m): 10:18am On May 12 |
Kobojunkie:You are so wrong, I understand that tithing is not compulsory and cannot take from me or give me salvation, but if I'm been blessed in my local church and I know my pastor is into the ministry full time, why shouldn't I pay my tithe? After all giving is an integral part of our faith. |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by BeigJawnson(m): 10:19am On May 12 |
rexbuton: Women don't like seeing their husbands to give outsider money, majority of them always like to see the husbands spending for their parents and siblings but never care if the man is taking care of his own parents... When giving your tithes, don't sound it trumpetically to her anymore. Don't talk about it again with her. And when you give to other people in need, tell them not to sound the trumpets to anybody and you yourself don't let her know anything... Let me give you and example, there is this brother, he bought 5litres of palmoil, which he wanted to give his mother on a visit, him and the rest of his family( his wife and the two kids) ... Unluckily for him, he could not make it, he was called up from work with an urgency. So he told his wife and kids to go, probably he will join them there. He told his wife to give his mom the palm oil. Do you know that, his wife took half of the oil in the 5litres gallon before she delivered it. She wasn't happy for her husband to give his mom the full gallon of palm oil. It was the first son, a boy of 15 years that challenged her on what she did, she shouted at him not to put mouth in anything that doesn't concerns him. The man got to know, since then when he wants to give strangers anything, including his parents and siblings. He doesn't tell his wife. 2 Likes |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by emmabest2000(m): 10:20am On May 12 |
paxonel: One man's food is another man's poison Insults is not necessarily 1 Like 1 Share
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Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by Geovanni412(m): 10:23am On May 12 |
paxonel: Probably a fake acct made for views Who comes online to discuss how much they make and ask about tithing? 4 Likes |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by OMEGA009(m): 10:27am On May 12 |
rexbuton: Marriage is supposed to be a union in everything including finances but if you have a “my money, your money” arrangement and it works, I think you should do what works for you with YOUR MONEY but remember to do all these with your interest and not your seed money. My humble opinion. |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by Idaytesj29(m): 10:29am On May 12 |
advanceDNA: And they can't sacrifice a pin for you if you are in their shoes or needs them for survival. |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by Olichoke: 10:31am On May 12 |
rexbuton: Yes |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by Idaytesj29(m): 10:35am On May 12 |
BeigJawnson: That's the best method. Most women are like that greedy, selfish or better put wicked. And she will still not take care of the man with all his money she is chopping if the mall is in dire need of it. 1 Like |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by Pimine: 10:36am On May 12 |
optm:Brother, are you new here? Stop replying to that moniker. Stop it! That individual has been proven to be anti-Christ, anti-Church, anti-marriage, and anti-family the way God intended and instituted it. This argument is unprofitable to you and also derails the purpose of this thread. |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by santaclaws: 10:38am On May 12 |
rexbuton: You're a solid guy and may God keep strengthening you. Your wife on the other hand needs to learn more about God and generosity. How did you marry someone with such a different mentality? The only aspect I found weird is you contributing 50-50 for HER own family's needs... As in, that should be optional for you as it is not your responsibility. What culture or tribe is your wife from? All the same, God bless your home. |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by DebateNigeria: 10:38am On May 12 |
rexbuton: Yes I agree with her. Tithe is a personal matter. I do rather get heavily involved in charity work, something feasible to help the poor than pay tithe to a mere man. There are lots of children suffering in Nigeria, many are out of school. Set up a charity and help people physically, God will be happy with you and will bless you more. I'm not sure if the top 20 richest men in the world pays tithe. Things that will make you successful include hard work, and perhaps a bit of luck and chance. |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by 36STATES: 10:39am On May 12 |
How did you win large amount of dollars from your own savings? Any other income from savings apart from the low interest in Europe and US? Tells by moonlight. 1 Like |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by jahsharon: 10:42am On May 12 |
paxonel: Don't spoil other people's businesses nah. If Maga no dey, how Guy man go chop. He thinks God needs money to pay for HIS children's school fees, I mean God's children who are going to private school in Heaven, so this Maga gives God money to pay HIS children's school fees 1 Like |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by DebateNigeria: 10:45am On May 12 |
optm: But he is already paying tax which is likely to be more than 10%. I support paying offering, but tithe is pure scam. Has any pastor come out openly to explain how they spend the tithes or how they send it to God? People pay tithe and they are successful, many more people don't pay tithe and they are still successful. Religion has really brainwashed a lot of people. They go abroad and still carry their brainwashed mentality there. Nigerian pastors abroad are balling on people's money. They have the beat houses and cars. However, their "oyinbo" counterparts live a modest life and survive off salary. 3 Likes |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by DebateNigeria: 10:49am On May 12 |
Kobojunkie: Gbam |
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