Odewaleadesoye:
Controversial media personality and actor, Chinedu Ani Emmanuel, aka Nedu, says any man who allows his partner to have a male “bestie” isn’t a “real man.”

According to him, a real man wouldn’t tolerate that.

He warned men not to tolerate their girlfriends or spouses having male friends.

Speaking in a video message shared via his Instagram account, Nedu said:

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Baba learnt the hard way.
Truth be told, his ex-wife really did him dirty.
I read where the woman said she never mentioned to nedu that he was the father of her children.
Imagine the woman u married and was celebrated in a big way...

TheBillyonaire:
But his ex-wife was fuccking men and giving birth to another man's child while married to him. I hope he does not feel he is a real man.

He dey try let’s us know say him don wise now

TheBillyonaire:
But his ex-wife was fuccking men and giving birth to another man's child while married to him. I hope he does not feel he is a real man.

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U said ex.

Was it not when he discovered that he threw her out.
You guys be sounding asif you can predict every move of your partner or you think because you are some alpha whatever, you really know your partner too well. Wait till she gives you the shock of your life

YESpParticipant:
Co-signed!

supported with two live goats

TheBillyonaire:
But his ex-wife was fuccking men and giving birth to another man's child while married to him. I hope he does not feel he is a real man.

he is in the best position to advice u, na who fall for pit go fit tell u where u do not step ur foot, instead of attacking him, take the advice. He is not fighting for the award of real man.

Besides What makes him a real man is his decision to chase her after he found out. He did not raise his ex-wife, the waywardness, irresponsibility and bad upbringing of the ex-wife is the burden of the people that raised her, not the man that married her. Nedu had the balls to chase her, that is a real man.

voiceofpaul:


As a man, if you figured your female bestie has a boyfriend, the best for you is to set boundaries, not for her but for her husband, boyfriend or fiancée. “Men protecting other men.”

yinmu

TheBillyonaire:
But his ex-wife was fuccking men and giving birth to another man's child while married to him. I hope he does not feel he is a real man.

Did he allow it? that is the main question.
Did he take action as soon as he found out?
Did he dump her or continue?

Your wife can be banging the whole world and you don't know, what you do after you know is what counts.

See how everyone is correcting you like you are an imbec!le it shows how amazingly dumb you are.

EmmyDJourno:
It should apply both ways

Never!

Shikena:
Spot on.

The moment one of the besties finds a partner, that's the end of it else you are looking for issues and regrets. To those doing it, no matter how poorly brought up up you are, this is an area where you must respect your partner or simply move on. Like it or not, bestie is shadow marriage.

this got me laughing out loud, no lies at all, bestie na shadow marriage

optimistfeel:
Why on earth my wife will point to me a man as her bestie, it will never happen and 'if' it happens I will set boundaries and barriers immediately between them, that will cause her not to have anything to do with that jobless man called bestie not to follow her up and down.....I know how to do, it's my works..... separation alert between them.

Just pray that the bestie shouldn't be a coworker.

TheBillyonaire:
But his ex-wife was fuccking men and giving birth to another man's child while married to him. I hope he does not feel he is a real man.

Part of his lessons were gathered from such experiences. In other words, he is saying that will never happen to him again.

KingNom:
Wise words just that a man should stand for his wife sha

Not a cheating wife

Nesubsed still get mouth after what his wife sis to him. I dey laugh sha

Guess he's learning by experience hence the advice to his male counterpart

TheBillyonaire:
But his ex-wife was fuccking men and giving birth to another man's child while married to him. I hope he does not feel he is a real man.

FireUpNow:
Nesubsed still get mouth after what his wife sis to him. I dey laugh sha

What is this foool saying? You dey laugh sha! Laughing at what exactly?
A man found out that his wife was a tramp and booted her. You preferred he stayed silent and remained there?

superCleanworks:


What is this foool saying? You dey laugh sha! Laughing at what exactly?
A man found out that his wife was a tramp and booted her. You preferred he stayed silent and remained there?

leave them they are dummies, a man must be blamed for everything. Mumu people

ogastone:

If you have unattractive and fatty as your female besty or secretary, you are in trouble my brother. You will be attracted to her and she will one day act Potipha's wife on you and finish you. I know that you are not as strong as Joseph.

I’d one in the past trust me, I saw her like a guy I wondered at people who try to woo her sometimes.

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You don't get the message so let's leave it as that. I do not need public validation for wise or unwise.

I follow Nedu is not the same as talking about him or liking or hating him. He is an adult and has opinions to make. I don't even see where I referred to him as a person, I said his line of thinking. I am not into gossip and talking about people but if his own story was anything to go by, which I have seen others referring to here, then our wives must go nowhere near our brothers and any male relative

A woman is an adult. Makes no sense trying to be controlling her that way. It's your insecurities trying to do so. Set your house in order and the rest will take care of itself
Enjoy your day

illuminutty:
Endorsed

Real men love big nyash.

Real men don't keep a girlfriends in 2024 when everybody is fvcking everybody. Last week, my guy knacked two different girls that had serious boyfriends. One knacked him because she needed money. The other one knacked him because she was bored of her boyfriend who's a sailor.

In both cases, they pretended to their boyfriends that they were hanging out with their male besties. I felt sorry for both dudes... But he still knack them. Na man dey do man.

Meanwhile, all the female besties I've had ended up being laid. Not that I asked, but they asked. At a point, they would start comparing themselves with your girlfriend and start dropping comments like "Your girlfriend dey enjoy oo. What does she have that I don't have. You think she sabi.. wait until I catch you. There is nothing she dey do wey I no fit do more sef. My nyash is bigger softer than your girl own. You like to chop bone."

Big Rubbish.

TheBillyonaire:
But his ex-wife was fuccking men and giving birth to another man's child while married to him. I hope he does not feel he is a real man.

That's why he is advising you na! He has learnt from his mistake

btw, your wife can carry belle for another man without you knowing she has a bestie.

Odewaleadesoye:
Controversial media personality and actor, Chinedu Ani Emmanuel, aka Nedu, says any man who allows his partner to have a male “bestie” isn’t a “real man.”

According to him, a real man wouldn’t tolerate that.

He warned men not to tolerate their girlfriends or spouses having male friends.

Speaking in a video message shared via his Instagram account, Nedu said:

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Surely no real man tolerates rubbish. Only Pseudo men like the one called bobpreeksco tolerate such.

Shikena:
By that experience, isn't he in a vintage position to share opinion on the topic?

Agree with you but totally disagree with his use of the word " real men"

TheBillyonaire:
But his ex-wife was fuccking men and giving birth to another man's child while married to him. I hope he does not feel he is a real man.

Not just a bestie but her senior sister's husband and even boasting of it.

onatisi:
maybe he is talking from experience and only advising so that others who haven't made the mistake he made would take heed

Okay then. I just have reservations about his use of the word " real" men.

Yes ooo

YESpParticipant:
Co-signed!

Na those ones wey no get dey cheat pass

Pepperdemisback:

Not just a bestie but her senior sister's husband and even boasting of it.

Abomination

papyjaypaul:

You don't get the message so let's leave it as that. I do not need public validation for wise or unwise.

I follow Nedu is not the same as talking about him or liking or hating him. He is an adult and has opinions to make. I don't even see where I referred to him as a person, I said his line of thinking. I am not into gossip and talking about people but if his own story was anything to go by, which I have seen others referring to here, then our wives must go nowhere near our brothers and any male relative

A woman is an adult. Makes no sense trying to be controlling her that way. It's your insecurities trying to do so. Set your house in order and the rest will take care of itself
Enjoy your day

A man is the leader and ruler of his home and that includes his wife and children, you said he should set his house in order. Yes , I agree with that and that includes also setting his wife in order, if she can't agree and submit to that, she could as well leave his domain.

It's not even about allowing. Once you're getting married, you should do away with male besties and men should also do away with females besties. Anyone who respects the marriage they're walking into and the person they're marrying will do just that. It's totally nonsense to be keeping friends of the opposite sex, chatting them up or going out with them when married. Your husband, and wife, should be your new bestie. If you need other besties, then find besties of the same sex. Simple.

He made sense sha

optimistfeel:
Why on earth my wife will point to me a man as her bestie, it will never happen and 'if' it happens I will set boundaries and barriers immediately between them, that will cause her not to have anything to do with that jobless man called bestie not to follow her up and down.....I know how to do, it's my works..... separation alert between them.

You're petty