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A Nigerian man, @Gnewzy_ sheds premium tears as he narrates how his love story with his girlfriend ended.

Taking to social media, he shared the story of how they began as friends for a year before advancing into a relationship.

He shared clips of their memories together, highlighting how much they were into each other and did everything together.

Everything was looking like a never-ending love story until the third year of their relationship.

He visited the hospital for a routine check up and decided to test his genotype, where he discovered he is AS and she is too.

Even though it was difficult to let go, they had to after seeking advice from different medical practitioners.

He spoke about the hurt he had to go through and how much he cried, advising couples anticipating to get married to endeavor to check their genotypes from different hospitals.

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All is not lost, just keep fvcking her for fun.

if you genuinely love someone, your/their genotype wont change anything (just like if/when your partner is infertile)...

you people should stop abusing the word LOVE

Na why catrarh full him 👄 abi

Make I no talk my mind.

Poor guy.

Why En be say nah AS common among Nigerians of today?.

Jeon:
Why En be say nah AS common among Nigerians of today?.

Because most people don't get tested until they want to marry😒 or worse when there is hospital emergency

It is even better for you to be separated rather than facing the problems ahead because you will blame yourself at long run, so be happy, move on and find yourself another beautiful woman which will match your health.

First date Question: What's your genotype?


May we not labour in vain

Proserpina:
First date Question: What's your genotype?


May we not labour in vain

Very necessary

Holluwhakemmy:
It is even better for you to be separated rather than facing the problems ahead because you will blame yourself at long run, so be happy, move on and find yourself another beautiful woman which will match your health.

stop these kind of talk at this age and era it is not ideal but seek medical counseling aunty, first in Nigeria relationships arent cheap no matter how you want to argue it time amd money , and moreover when you visit general hospitals you will know there are more serious conditions that even 20-30 million will not solve with 7m you can solve the genotype issue go amd seek proper medical advice , dating the average nigerian girl you will spend close to that in a year

Fhowe:
stop these kind of talk at this age and era it is not ideal but seek medical counseling aunty, first in Nigeria relationships arent cheap no matter how you want to argue it time amd money , and moreover when you visit general hospitals you will know there are more serious conditions that even 20-30 million will not solve with 7m you can solve the genotype issue go amd seek proper medical advice , dating the average nigerian girl you will spend close to that in a year

From your comment here I can see you are not wise and you are still a little boy who doesn't kown anything about relationship talkless of marriage.
So because you have spent much time and money you will open your eyes and go further to marry a person who both of you have health challenges giving birth to SS children.
Do you even know the consequences?.
No professional Doctor/Nurse will advise you to go ahead and marry someone with genotype problem.

Holluwhakemmy:
From your comment here I can see you are not wise and you are still a little boy who doesn't kown anything about relationship talkless of marriage.
So because you have spent much time and money you will open your eyes and go further to marry a person who both of you have health challenges giving birth to SS children.
Do you even know the consequences?.
No professional Doctor/Nurse will advise you to go ahead and marry someone with genotype problem.

madam do your findings before commenting on public forums like this have you heard of In vitro fertilization (IVF) with preimplantation genetic screening ?? It cost about 5-8m naira , if you can afford it go for it . People undergo surgeries more expensive that this all the time . So even if the genotype of the parents is right. It does not guarantee a child can not suffer from certain comditions that will require more than this amount . It takes the grace of God to have a healthy child . And on the other hand do you realise alot of intending couples spend more than this amount yearly on frivolities , so stop making As + AS sound like a death sentence ,it is not ideal but seek medical guidance if you can afford it then go for it

Holluwhakemmy:
From your comment here I can see you are not wise and you are still a little boy who doesn't kown anything about relationship talkless of marriage.
So because you have spent much time and money you will open your eyes and go further to marry a person who both of you have health challenges giving birth to SS children.
Do you even know the consequences?.
No professional Doctor/Nurse will advise you to go ahead and marry someone with genotype problem.

next time try not to insult others before you make your point .Lately alot of men prefer going for ivf cause the rate of paternity fraud is high especially for people that stay abroad and people that work far away from home , cause alot of people look at ivf as a taboo may we not be victims of paternity fraud

Fhowe:
next time try not to insult others before you make your point .Lately alot of men prefer going for ivf cause the rate of paternity fraud is high especially for people that stay abroad and people that work far away from home , cause alot of people look at ivf as a taboo may we not be victims of paternity fraud

okay, Amen thank you. I'm really sorry if my comment is insulting. Take care and have a nice day.

Fhowe:
madam do your findings before commenting on public forums like this have you heard of In vitro fertilization (IVF) with preimplantation genetic screening ?? It cost about 5-8m naira , if you can afford it go for it . People undergo surgeries more expensive that this all the time . So even if the genotype of the parents is right. It does not guarantee a child can not suffer from certain comditions that will require more than this amount . It takes the grace of God to have a healthy child . And on the other hand do you realise alot of intending couples spend more than this amount yearly on frivolities , so stop making As + AS sound like a death sentence ,it is not ideal but seek medical guidance if you can afford it then go for it

I am AA I'm just advising OP to avoid it

This can never be said enough!

Holluwhakemmy:
From your comment here I can see you are not wise and you are still a little boy who doesn't kown anything about relationship talkless of marriage.
So because you have spent much time and money you will open your eyes and go further to marry a person who both of you have health challenges giving birth to SS children.
Do you even know the consequences?.
No professional Doctor/Nurse will advise you to go ahead and marry someone with genotype problem.

It’s actually good you apologized to him, but your description seems true oh. 😢

How many people can actually put together 5 - 8M for IVF and pre-genetic testing?
What about the failures, which makes some go more than once?
If successful, for how many children?

Prevention has always been and still is, better and cheaper than cure! 🙏

ItisWell22:
This can never be said enough!



It’s actually good you apologized to him, but your description seems true oh. 😢

How many people can actually put together 5 - 8M for IVF and pre-genetic testing?
What about the failures, which makes some go more than once?
If successful, for how many children?

Prevention has always been and still is, better and cheaper than cure! 🙏

Thanks that's what I'm trying to say that it is better to avoid it because of the consequences associated with it

Holluwhakemmy:
From your comment here I can see you are not wise and you are still a little boy who doesn't kown anything about relationship talkless of marriage.
So because you have spent much time and money you will open your eyes and go further to marry a person who both of you have health challenges giving birth to SS children.
Do you even know the consequences?.
No professional Doctor/Nurse will advise you to go ahead and marry someone with genotype problem.

these things are not issues in some countries anymore that have the necessary equipments do you finding very well and give people the right advice the pre implantation process is the same as ivf just that the ss cells will be eliminated using a petri dish and cost a bit extra tleast people dey use 3-4m do bbl so spending 7-8m for a healthy baby is not bad either

MrBrownJay1:
if you genuinely love someone, your/their genotype wont change anything (just like if/when your partner is infertile)...

you people should stop abusing the word LOVE

U better stop this trash. Love is knowing the truth and act accordingly. Stop bringing sicklers to the world.