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The trauma of growing up in a room and. parlour apartment with six siblings lasts for. a life time.

Lady, we can imagine your plight.

The real question here is. Is her brother or father earning the same 500k presently?

Not for the civil servants ssssssszzsssssszss

Some Nigerians ladies are the reason why crazy young men will steal to satisfy greedy and never do well ladies
The ladies will always add their burden on your income and claim the man is a broke guy

Person wey her papa na gateman
Mtchewwwwwwwwww
Person no no get #50k for account
Poor people and money matter sha

Salary of an average Nigerian Professor in Nigerian Public University..

occfx:
300$ a month is poor... But as a single guy, you can accumulate it for 2yrs and that would be 10m naira. It's something but you are still poor.

Every 4yrs Nigeria degenerates by half Therefore, the 10m will be about 5m value. Just use am buy bitcoin and wait for 5yrs.

Na big advice be this ooooo. Not of them have the idea of investment here.

almarthins:
Abeg make una help us ask am, how much she dey earn?

If u be man abeg run away this kind lady, dem go fit offer you any thing.

this is fruits of GenZ ladies. They have different tastes and they are not ready for submission. I only pity looking for a man they will milked dry.

Nonsense and ingredient na so una go catch yahoo yahoo 419 and ritualistic.

Shebi na early this year one idiot talk this thing,dey later use her for ritual.


This aunty need to watch that video of the lady,make she no go feel say na content

press9jatv:
"Any man that earns 500k monthly has no business being in a relationship, 500k is too small" - Nigeria lady speak



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6okJD1S0TJc

How much does her parents combined earn in a year??!’

press9jatv:
most of them have taste, but unfortunately they are looking for a guy that will pay their bills throughout the month. I will never settle with the kind of lady. They only thinks about materials things and not the visions of the man in their courtship or in marriage. men are wise this days.

Most men are only mostly wise online.

Offline, most of them are exactly who they claim and brag to detest. Many of them will be quick to tag some guy online as simp but once dem see okolo, dem go turn mumu.

This kind of woman complain a lot you know why money is the problem now but later when money problem is solved there will be another problem yeah and always be..

Their default setting is "Olosho" because no sane person would insist on commercializing relationships.

Everything about them is purely transactional.

I am sure her immediate family members couldn't provide 500k earlier this year to bury her father who died wretched. In-laws tried but couldn't provide all.

Eventually, her father's burial became her community project for 2025.

correctguy101:
Most men are only mostly wise online.

Offline, most of them are exactly who they claim and brag to detest. Many of them will be quick to tag some guy online as simp but once dem see okolo, dem go turn mumu.

You are right....na wetin dey give all these gals mind dey make careless statements.

Chief2410:
You are right....na wetin dey give all these gals mind dey make careless statements.

I tell ya. Na men dey make dem the way they are.

I have one mumu that used my phone back then to call his little sweetie... The mumu agbaya was like: why don't you want to come to my house? Please na, I won't touch you. I love you na, come to my house please, I won't touch you. Okay, I will send jamb money to you......


I always put my phone on auto-record and when I discovered this voice note the mumu left on my phone. We his boys wan finish am because he's one of the wereys that'll act like they're true alpha males and them no even know the meaning of being an alpha...

press9jatv:
this is the big question here. Why can't they compare their father's earnings with the earnings of men in our world today.

The point is that, you can't compare their father's time to our own time. In their father's time, the women were more modest and disciplined and responsible, there were no parfaits, no bone straights, our mothers were not putting 6-10 earings at once in their ears, no iPhone 100maxPlus. Men were more in control and not under today's pressure that we men are subjected to. There were even very few women driving cars but today, things have changed.
So, men will be expected to foot mostly unnecessary bills. If you see a woman who says a man who earns 500k monthly is not useful for marriage, pls face front and let her be. Na their type go wan do yansh and breast and all the problematic enhancements, ofcourse, 500k can't be enough for all those shii. Some women don't discuss any plans to build house with their husbands, only making requests of what to buy.

correctguy101:
I tell ya. Na men dey make dem the way they are.

I have one mumu that used my phone back then to call his little sweetie... The mumu agbaya was like: why don't you want to come to my house? Please na, I won't touch you. I love you na, come to my house please, I won't touch you. Okay, I will send jamb money to you......


I always put my phone on auto-record and when I discovered this voice note the mumu left on my phone. We his boys wan finish am because he's one of the wereys that'll act like they're true alpha males and them no even know the meaning of being an alpha...

just imagine. I had one like that always advising me no to spend on woman. Omo come see when this guy do birthday party for him gal friend. I shock,I come use style tell am say this party don reach traditional marriage party;only thing missing na elders from both family. I dey try tell am say e for just convert am to traditional marriage ceremony.

their brothers are jobless and still scattering their mother's kitchen for leftover foods

Chief2410:
just imagine. I had one like that always advising me no to spend on woman. Omo come see when this guy do birthday party for him gal friend. I shock,I come use style tell am say this party don reach traditional marriage party;only thing missing na elders from both family. I dey try tell am say e for just convert am to traditional marriage ceremony.

Lwkmd 🤣🤣

You sef you wuked... Traditional marriage ke? Lols

I just have had my fair share of oversabi guys around me.
Just recently, a friend wey dey always criticize me for spending on my pikin mama dem rented a business space in Lekki, along admiralty way for his side chick. This one get wife for house o. He furnished the place and I'm sure the werey is still the one paying for her house. I look am and swia for am, the mumu dey laff telling me nonsense like: I just don't know why I like this girl.

If you see eye wey I look am? I dey too lazy to dey worry about another person life but the girl knows how to cook more than his wife, any day, I go pick her food over his wife's. That I must confess...

My friend is gone... Love don hold am for throat.... SMH

From the way she speaks, you will know she is from a poor home, and such girls usually do not bring anything to the table other fake beauty.

DrAda:
A good reason why women should start doing something for themselves

They already do in civilised countries, it has to be said. I tire for Naija. So much brilliance and potential but some terrible mentalities along the way to boot. In places like the U.K., you have to work. Periodt. You can’t go abroad only to be a financial liability. And unfortunately ladies with this mentality are the same ones who’ll want to JAPA. SMH. People wanting freedom but none of the responsibilities that come with it. Our great-grandmothers may not have worked in the conventional sense (and our great-grandfathers only barely in the first place, in that-very conventional sense), but they were farmers, traders and fit to raise 10 kids. They weren’t doing nothing sitting with fake Brazilian weave after weave, chewing gum and waiting to be fed. A lot of these girls can’t even cook indomie, let-alone a soup with almighty shades of okporoko in it. That’s not what being a housewife means, even if that is the path they want for themselves.

2015 called, it wants its rhetoric back, it said.


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press9jatv:
"Any man that earns 500k monthly has no business being in a relationship, 500k is too small" - Nigeria lady speak



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6okJD1S0TJc

Don't worry ritualist dey find her type..dem go use her type renew baba subscription

Obaaderemi2:
How much was her father earning?

She's just talking for talking sake. Her boyfriend is earning less than #200k

You are asking how much her father was earning, but it's your gender especially the married men that are spoiling these ladies. They so much sponsor their extravagant lifestyle and make them so comfortable that struggling guys can't come near them. So who are we to blame now?

Na to fear ladies of nowadays. They are never ready to struggle with the man they are in relationship with.