₦airaland Forum

Praying to God for a life partner is a great sign of irresponsibility . God has no business in giving anyone life partner, the book of Proverbs says " He who find wife.." and not who I give wife . So the reason why most women are single at their 30s is irresponsible behavior bcs an average 9ja lady is looking for that perfect man who will turn her life into El Dorado. And men of these days are looking forward for a woman of value in her early 20s

Numerouno94:
Abeg help me ask ooo. Na their marriage? No b every lady go marry b4 clocking 30. Live is like a race, everybody they him track abeg.

Evening boss

Evening to you jare Where have you been?

It seems APC led federal government gave you a contract of 5 billion Naira oooo because you have been missing from Nairaland for so long

Godjone:
Most of them don't want to humble themselves. Some of them have very dirty character

True...
However, not everybody loves having a car and loves driving it.
Some sacrificed leaving themselves behind.
Everyone deserves a second chance and it may not be in Early marriage.
While some.marry early and are widowed.....
The good girls just missed the train, while the bad ones shined their eyes......take a cue from the mess marriage is in today.
There are still people willing if only the stereotype is dropped and they appreciate that this life is just one chance

Ladies my advise if your are 30 plus, its not a bad thing, consider freezing your eggs, get rid of all your negative mien about men generally, and prayerfully wait for the best..... You have tarry long enough, don't rush into regrets, take your time and be the best version of yourself, be submissive and Godly. God would bless you with a good man.

cutecommend:
It is wrong to shame ladies in general for being single at 30yrs and plus because there are some other reasons that could make them single. And to talk of guys that may be shaming, most of them may have their own bad sides.

While it is clear that several ladies contributed to their being single at 30yrs and plus, I can tell you that many did not contribute to that.

Don't tell a 15-year-old to start praying for marriage. It's a distraction to her at this stage: she should be building herself first into a responsible human. Thanks.

Samantha125:
We're still single because we enjoy it... Leave us abeg, we shall marry at 50...💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿

You this southy witch also claim to be single?🌚

If I nod you ehn…

DrAda:
This post and the comments here are just unbelievable. And to think that someone deemed this fit to be on the front page. Disappointed in you Seun

sorry 😂

nobody’s simping for ladies over 30 years old

You see that bad character

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I read somewhere that men fear being alone, so they gaslight women into fearing what they fear. The amount of threads opened daily on nl by men trying to shame women into pair bonding makes this theory more interesting.

Ladies, wait for your other half. He may not be destined to meet you in your 20s or 30s because you wouldn't know what to do with him. Live your life, get your education, stack your money and most importantly, build your character until you meet your best friend, lover, and life partner. Anything less than him is misery.

Tingotoe:
Most of what you said is nothing but superstitious nonsense

Thanks. It is even more than nonsense to me. It's a very primitive belief, my aged mother has even outgrown all these kind of beliefs that a young dude is spinning about here. Na wa o.

Very true in the Nigerian/African context. But may vary significantly globally.

cutecommend:
It is wrong to shame ladies in general for being single at 30yrs and plus because there are some other reasons that could make them single. And to talk of guys that may be shaming, most of them may have their own bad sides.

While it is clear that several ladies contributed to their being single at 30yrs and plus, I can tell you that many did not contribute to that.

cutecommend:
It is wrong to shame ladies in general for being single at 30yrs and plus because there are some other reasons that could make them single. And to talk of guys that may be shaming, most of them may have their own bad sides.

While it is clear that several ladies contributed to their being single at 30yrs and plus, I can tell you that many did not contribute to that.

Many unmarried people need to start taking note of No. 10. Both sexes
I have a friend who jokingly said his pastor said the reason he wasn't married was because he has a spiritual wife and was laughing about it, I told him to take it serious but he refused. He is still unmarried

Samantha125:
What is Shiloh and how does it works? Do they magically give you a husband?

Forming hard as usual, na una way! Men are scum, men are scum but we all know.

cutecommend:
It is wrong to shame ladies in general for being single at 30yrs and plus because there are some other reasons that could make them single. And to talk of guys that may be shaming, most of them may have their own bad sides.

While it is clear that several ladies contributed to their being single at 30yrs and plus, I can tell you that many did not contribute to that.

What you prepare yourself for (especially your mind) is what comes for you.

Many people (both men and women) be busy surviving.
Waking and eating and sleeping.
Before they know it, they are already 35.

The only thing we know how to debate on in this continent. The black African loathes progress and innovation.

AngelicBeing:
Evening to you jare Where have you been?

It seems APC led federal government gave you a contract of 5 billion Naira oooo because you have been missing from Nairaland for so long

Hahahahahah contract keh? I dislike that party like hell. The party is a conglomerate of evil doers and satanic entities.

Boss I have been offline due to the nature of my job. I travelled for a seminar and had alot of presentation to do. And my work is 8 am to 5 pm. But I'm back.

Happy Sunday my boss.🤝

Numerouno94:
Hahahahahah contract keh? I dislike that party like hell. The party is a conglomerate of evil doers and satanic entities.

Boss I have been offline due to the nature of my job. I travelled for a seminar and had alot of presentation to do. And my work is 8 am to 5 pm. But I'm back.

Happy Sunday my boss.🤝

Excellent, 👌, good to hear from you once again , @ Topic, l am really tired of what Nigeria politicians have turned Nigeria into, the country seems to be sinking into A Deep ocean of endemic poverty courtesy of the CLUELESS LEADERS we have in Abuja