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I'm kinda confused. I just turned 26.

There's this 18 year old daughter of our family friend. She's decent and studying nursing.

I'm thinking of doing introduction for her before traveling so as to keep her from whoring about ( yeah,I know I said she's decent but people do change) and make her wait for me .

Also, if I decide to let her be for now, I don't want a situation whereby when I come back she would be really interested in getting married to me because I live abroad.

P.S she doesn't know I have plans to travel yet.

Sonnobax15:

You wan tie 18 years old banny down

Bros abeg advise me. O

Zoomx:
I'm kinda confused. I just turned 26.


There's this 18 year old daughter of our family friend. She's decent and studying nursing.


I'm thinking of doing introduction for her before traveling so as to keep her from whoring about ( yeah,I know I said she's decent but people do change) and make her wait for me .



Also, if I decide to let her be for now, I don't want a situation whereby when I come back she would be really interested in getting married to me because I live abroad.


P.S she doesn't know I have plans to travel yet.

You don’t seem to have any meaningful purpose for the girl. No place for love, you just want to tether her with the introduction.
Bro, from what you just wrote up there, it shows that you are not yet mature to be a husband.
Which part of the abroad are you going? Kyrgyzstan is also abroad o

Moreover, “Doing introduction for her”? Are you her father?

Amotolongbo please rearrange your words, they are distorted.

Zoomx:
✓ i 'm kinda confused. I just turned 26.
There's this 18 year old daughter of our family friend. She's decent and studying nursing.
I'm thinking of doing introduction for her before traveling so as to keep her from whoring about ( yeah,I know I said she's decent but people do change) and make her wait for me .
✓ Also, if I decide to let her be for now, I don't want a situation whereby when I come back she would be really interested in getting married to me because I live abroad.
P.S she doesn't know I have plans to travel yet.

She is way too young for you to tie her down to your whims abroad. 🥱🥱

2. Ok! Clearly, you are not serious about this gal, so I suggest you please break up with her before you leave. If after you have been abroad and maybe come to realize she is still the only one for you, then and only then should you attempt approaching her again.... assuming you have matured at that point for marriage. 🥱

Laugh wan finish me for here. It's like keeping unripe banana inside a nylon for sometime with the hope that it will not ripen before you return. The Introduction Ceremony alone is a license for her to become promiscuous because she already knows that marriage is sure for her.

Wealthyonos:
Laugh wan finish me for here. It's like keeping unripe banana inside a nylon for sometime with the hope that it will not ripen before you return. The Introduction Ceremony alone is a license for her to become promiscuous because she already knows that marriage is sure for her.

What guarantee exists that the OP is not himself intending to engage in promiscuous acts of his own even after the ceremony? If he can, the woman can and should, too. No one person should made to carry the weight that is commitment in a relationship(whatever type is assumed) on his or her shoulders alone. 🥱🥱

i won laugh die

Kobojunkie:
What guarantee exists that the OP is not himself intending to engage in promiscuous acts of his own even after the ceremony? If he can, the woman can and should, too. No one person should made to carry relationship on his or her shoulders alone. 🥱🥱

No guarantee Boss, the OP plans to equally do what you just stated. The best thing the OP should do is marrying her before traveling. And make quick plans to move her over to where you are. Sha, I don't really like early marriage o, some women do go wild sexually in the marriage without the husband even knowing. Not every woman can be faithful from 18yrs to the rest of their lives.

Zoomx:


Bros abeg advise me. O

18 is fine, as long as she and her parents are okay with it.
The age of consent around the world today, even in many Western countries is below 18.
What age did Omotola married her captain husband?

No

You are going after a lady whose frontal lobes aren't yet matured, you will pay badly for it when it eventually get matured based on your approach

LabStores:
18 is fine, as long as she and her parents are okay with it.
The age of consent around the world today, even in many Western countries is below 18.
What age did Omotola married her captain husband?

Every woman is now Omotola whose husband did not leave back in Nigeria to fend for herself after marriage ooh. 🙄🙄🙄

And let me guess, every man is now omotola's husband, abi? 🥱🥱

ayoncox:
You are going after a lady whose frontal lobes aren't yet matured, you will pay badly for it when it eventually get matured based on your approach

No mind Dem! 🙄🥱🥱

Zoomx:
There's this 18 year old daughter of our family friend. She's decent and studying nursing.
I'm thinking of doing introduction for her before traveling so as to keep her from whoring about

Captain Save a Ho!
Keep dreaming.

Zoomx:
I'm kinda confused. I just turned 26.


There's this 18 year old daughter of our family friend. She's decent and studying nursing.


I'm thinking of doing introduction for her before traveling so as to keep her from whoring about ( yeah,I know I said she's decent but people do change) and make her wait for me .



Also, if I decide to let her be for now, I don't want a situation whereby when I come back she would be really interested in getting married to me because I live abroad.


P.S she doesn't know I have plans to travel yet.

If you really love the girl, impregnate her and then go do traditional rites at least. Gives you a 50% chance, if not once you travel forget , ITS GONE!

Wealthyonos:
No guarantee Boss, the OP plans to equally do what you just stated. The best thing the OP should do is marrying her before traveling. And make quick plans to move her over to where you are. Sha, I don't really like early marriage o, some women do go wild sexually in the marriage without the husband even knowing. Not every woman can be faithful from 18yrs to the rest of their lives .

None. Op is a dreamer

Zoomx:
I'm kinda confused. I just turned 26.


There's this 18 year old daughter of our family friend. She's decent and studying nursing.


I'm thinking of doing introduction for her before traveling so as to keep her from whoring about ( yeah,I know I said she's decent but people do change) and make her wait for me .



Also, if I decide to let her be for now, I don't want a situation whereby when I come back she would be really interested in getting married to me because I live abroad.


P.S she doesn't know I have plans to travel yet.

Which country

Zoomx:
I'm kinda confused. I just turned 26.


There's this 18 year old daughter of our family friend. She's decent and studying nursing.


I'm thinking of doing introduction for her before traveling so as to keep her from whoring about ( yeah,I know I said she's decent but people do change) and make her wait for me .



Also, if I decide to let her be for now, I don't want a situation whereby when I come back she would be really interested in getting married to me because I live abroad.


P.S she doesn't know I have plans to travel yet.

Please don't tie someone's daughter with marriage or whatever because you are not even sure if you will stabilise within first 3 years.

Let her be. Break up with her peacefully, and do your travel. whenever you are ready for marriage, if you still want her,you can go for her or look for someone within the age range you are really interested in, and get married to.

You are 26 years and u are already thinking of getting married, well u get mindooo...in this APC wicked regime for that matter....well if u can afford it please do introduction, my only concern is that it wouldn't stop her from having sex with several men if she wants ...even some godless married women sleeps around ...then u are excepting loyalty from 18 year old girl...but then if she's really decent and godly constantly, then it could be possible ..but my take is u should go out hustle right and when u are really ready for marriage, by the grace of God u will settle with your soulmate....

Marry her make we Dey help you oil her engine as you Dey hustle inside cold weather

You want to marry her for others to be servicing her engine for u.

The one you leave together, still doing parole coldedly, let alone free ranger.

While you will be struggling to make income in cold winter, she will be lavishing your sweat with her exes and tomboys here.

Zoomx:
I'm kinda confused. I just turned 26.

There's this 18 year old daughter of our family friend. She's decent and studying nursing.

I'm thinking of doing introduction for her before traveling so as to keep her from whoring about ( yeah,I know I said she's decent but people do change) and make her wait for me .

Also, if I decide to let her be for now, I don't want a situation whereby when I come back she would be really interested in getting married to me because I live abroad.

P.S she doesn't know I have plans to travel yet.

She's too young to keep in this your bondage IMHO. The purpose of marriage is defeated when two are not one. You are not balanced and you think you are everything. She's the one that may change. What about you, you no dey change?
How soon are you feasibly going to be together. There are many people abroad who left their wives at home for years. Some have another family abroad.

Marry her for other home chaps to service, while you foot her bills

Go your travel jeje and leave that banny alone, if you do introduction with her now, she will have over ripped before you return and many guy man would have also taste it.

You sha won use your own hand take do yourself.

You be 26 true true.

I remember when I dey around your age, I bin think say I get sense, na now when I don grow I come look back laugh at myself.

You actually sound your age.

Shouldn't you be thinking of making it in life first(as you plan to travel) than thinking taking one small pikin that may still LovePeddler around even after the introduction or whatever. Tomorrow you'll run don to NL to start complain how the wife you left in naija has turned to 'East-west' for naija men.
Baba.....he who has an ear....

You don knack em
if Yes
travel when you come back you can marry her