enemmo: No......No.......No...
Maybe because I am a Woman.I cannot prefer that.
Then the guy will start running his big mouth.
He should work hard o jare,
and I might consider him

enemmo: No......No.......No...
Maybe because I am a Woman.I cannot prefer that.
Then the guy will start running his big mouth.
He should work hard o jare,
and I might consider him

Okija_juju: Yes I support it!! As long as it is protected!!

If it is just your pkekus that the person is interested in, we might as well get it out the way early!! If it isnt, then game on!!

You are still gonna give it up eventually anyways!

The girl with whom I had s`ex with on the first date, we dated for 3 years before distance separated us by continents!

SIR KOL!:
wether by continents. Or town d most important fin is vat there is a separation

freshsux: I need sum1 2 date is there any

freshsux: I need sum1 2 date is there any

freshsux: I need sum1 2 date is there any

kay9:

Please what does ''use it against u'' mean? They scoop some juice off your punny and store in the fridge or what?

Ms_Pweshy: As the spirit leads

SIR KOL!:
wether by continents. Or town d most important fin is vat there is a separation

freecocoa: Its about you and want you want.

5ex doesn't guarantee anything, you could give it up on the first day and end up getting the ring, you can wait months or even years and still get dumped.

Although for me its not just 5ex as some people see it to be, so I'd rather wait a while to atleast know certain things about who you want to sleep with(though people pretend but still), inshort there are no guarantees in life so na God go help us.

Popowaa: U can do it if u want but some ill mannered men will use it against u when the relationship moves to a diff level and it can can be some trust issues too.

freecocoa: Its about you and want you want.

5ex doesn't guarantee anything, you could give it up on the first day and end up getting the ring, you can wait months or even years and still get dumped.

Although for me its not just 5ex as some people see it to be, so I'd rather wait a while to atleast know certain things about who you want to sleep with(though people pretend but still), inshort there are no guarantees in life so na God go help us.

enemmo: No......No.......No...
Maybe because I am a Woman.I cannot prefer that.
Then the guy will start running his big mouth.
He should work hard o jare,
and I might consider him

Boss13:

Feminine insecurity. The world is changing and men are loving confident women and not insecured ones. I was with a lady yesternite - very hawt and sexy and she is so confident. She smokes too (something naija men will term as being wayward) and when she pull up her cigarette, the guys at the table struggle to lit it up for her. I termed that as being classy cos she knows what and how to do it. Plus she is a professional and earning good pay.

Ladies be empowered no man would talk trash about sleeping with you on the first day and call you a LovePeddler. Matter of fact you are doing him a favour by sleeping with him and also enjoying yourself.

Tired of the insecurities I see with Nigerian women. So old school.

c++_crazy:
and how many have u considered? Lateron they deconsidered u.

Okija_juju:

If only you knew how guys really think!!

I have a friend whose specialty is women who play hard to get!! He looks at them like a project.
I know other guys who have been involved in relationships where s`ex was not a big deal and they ended up marrying the girls.
Some of you say the men would call you cheap!! lol! You can only be called cheap if you placed a price on your vag!na. Its sex for crying out loud. If he brags to others that he f`ucked you, tell them that you also f`ucked him. #PERIOD!!

Its all about a person sha!! A girl is not cheap because she sleeps with a man, she is only cheap when she uses her p`ussy as a tool to catch a man.

Boss13:

I guess our ladies na trade sex as a means of getting hooked up to marriage (smh). If you like join the police and become a detective so that you can know everything in man. If you love sex enjoy it and don't be sentimental about it.

Okija_juju:

If only you knew how guys really think!!

I have a friend whose specialty is women who play hard to get!! He looks at them like a project.
I know other guys who have been involved in relationships where s`ex was not a big deal and they ended up marrying the girls.
Some of you say the men would call you cheap!! lol! You can only be called cheap if you placed a price on your vag!na. Its sex for crying out loud. If he brags to others that he f`ucked you, tell them that you also f`ucked him. #PERIOD!!

Its all about a person sha!! A girl is not cheap because she sleeps with a man, she is only cheap when she uses her p`ussy as a tool to catch a man.

Plutarch:

You sound like fake and also like a hypocrite. I hope you are not eyeing a lady here. If the lady gives it up on first date,it is people lyk you that will tell the whole village.
@topic,what happens to building a relationship will solid foundation. Sex on first date ruins that foundation. S.ex in a relationship that can do well with se.x is the best se.x you can ever have.

TrixOfficial: Can you have sex with your boyfriend on the first date or on the first day of going to his house

freecocoa: If you understand english you'd realize that I never said I or ladies trade 5ex for the ring.

I talked on a personal level when I said I'd rather wait, do you even know what I'd love to know about whoever it is I want to sleep with? Abeg carry your judgmental self shift.

M M M: I prefer sex on d 1st date

U can have sex on d 1st date nd he ends up marrying u, u can also wait 4 a year nd get dumped after sex. Life aint mathematics(y)

Boss13:

Then my comment was directly at you. You can wait for all you care, it doesn't remove the fear and insecurities you still feel. The guilty conscience that haunts you when you do it and you pray he calls you back. The dependence you feel in your heart longing for a man. The amateur detective skills you utilize to fish out if he is for real. Gal emancipate yourself from the emotional sentiment attached to s.ex. A man doesn't attach emotions to the stuff in between your legs.

enemmo:

You probably feel this way because you are male.
Sex is very different from a female perspective.
It's not just physical for most Ladies,
They are probably giving you part of their "being".
Just like if we go on a first date and I start telling you about my whole life history.
Have to at least trust the he
That's how i see it Bro

jhydebaba: why are some ladies still bragging about playing hard to get which is out of vogue Abeg, fvck ur head off joor, first or last date.

S3X iS CHEAP
If one leg closes another will surely open