khiaa:

Why is it that when someone brings up the problems of nigeria you always have to bring up the problems of somewhere else?
That is why you women will always be treated the way you are treated. You have no backbone.

carefreewannabe:

And how is it your business at all? Take care of the problems in your country and stop acting like a preacher.

khiaa:


Hahahahah This is some BS and you know it. Polygamy is more of an advantage to women than men, how did you even form your fingers to type that mess.

sexsinners:


i know how you girls are. Think about it if polygamy was very common .Who would you run too?


This is why king Solomon had soo many wives and concubine . i wonder how many ladies were left for other men.

its22078: khia girl, u are on fire. u must be one of the few nigerians on NL with a brain. I initially came on this site to learn about nigeriAn culture and discuss issues with nigerians. On doing so, i've found out how sexist, ignorant and mysoginistic many nigerians still are.

byvan: Don't worry about Naija women,most will rather die than answer Miss,very strong but yet too weak to take their chances.I don't feel anything for their plight anymore,it is their choice to be the society's victims.This life is so simple,if you can't stand the heat,get the hell out of the kitchen,I ll rather get the hell out mehn.There is no marriage where infidelity abounds.

Most are financially dependent or receive meagre incomes,hence they don't have the courage to leave because of the kids.Most of the dogs knows this,hence they reduce these women to housewives,so they will have no choice than to keep praying and fasting.Its really tough in a country where mothers advise their daughters to keep tolerating a cheating husband,its really a sorry state.The worst advise you will give a Naija woman is to leave her billy goat,she ll hate you for that and even use you as a point of reconciliation with him.

pleep: You ladies are rediculous.... it is not this gotdamn serious. lol

Yal act like if all a man gotta to do is walk outside and he will have other women throwing themselves at him.

The nigga had to beg for sex before he met you and he still has to beg... RELAX

khiaa:

We know you men have no problem begging for the coochie. That is the problem, you men think your cheating is no big deal, but I bet you would think it was serious if the woman cheated on you.

drnairalov: huh...i would be sad tho...but she's still ma wife, for better or worse dey say ...not a fan of divorce nd re mary-ing wud only try to be a better man 2her nd prayaz dazall

pleep: khiaa we discussed this already didn't we?

If these guys have so many options, why is he married in the first place?

khiaa:

Since when does marriage stop a cheating Man? He knows his wife will put up with his BS,(in your culture), it's just a matter of having his cake and eating too.

pleep: my culture?

i dont cheat

khiaa: quote author=nomsochris]i would forgive her, after all its just sex. ]



Do you really mean that?

nomsochris: kicking her out is not gonna erase the fact that she cheated, and yours truly is not a fan of divorce...so i have to forgive her no matter how hard it may be and learn to be a better husband and father to my kids..as a badman i ll ensure that she never does that again trust me....

michtob: You married a runs guy & think he'll stop after marriage.... You must be joking. What is right seems wrong in Nigeria today. It is shameful to see d way we are copying those musicians or celebrities lifestyle. I do pity women suffering as a result of d husband cheating on her cos its really painful but hear what some ladies are saying here and you won't blame d men much. www.nairaland.com/394470/marry-virgin-man

This is the point we've been hitting on Since the times of Adam....

Women have an Opposite twist of attraction by Nature which Stretches down to Fidelity and Infidelity Matters.............Evolution"

It is Profound in our Orientation as to how we see things in Realism"..hence the reason they can Succumb to Male infidelity and this is proven by studies from various institution by scientific researchers.

More Like submitting self (body/women) to Head".....(Male)...and conceding to Fatalism"

Yes, Man can't change it @aLL"

Sometimes I feel God's order on Man(male) not to cheat is all a Punitive act for Failing him(Disobeying) by adhering to Eve's words...LoL"...........its Silly,(Dont take this Serious o!! )

Well, we can all see the Masculine and Feminine twist are of Opposite ends.....

We all know Women aren't Logical to begin with...LoL...well,Some" (You have to be intelligent enough to draw the Point of Generalization by your self)...so when they try to be,that's when they know it is not okay for a Man to cheat but would still be with him anyway, and this ain't the Same with Men"

Its Just Few Women that can't tolerate cheating Men, and that's because they force themselves to be for once in their life, Logical"!!

switdick: You women Should Stop being Crafty by evading the Point here,Subjecting it to Nigerian Men"...

Wtf??

Didn't y'all See the Link to my Previous Post that elucidates the whole matter...

Its Men and Women in general and not just 9ja people and her societal norms!!

Don't get me Started o!!!

khiaa:

This is a Nigerian forum therefore the question is directed to Nigerians. I wouldn't go to a japaneese forum and ask them why do nigerian men cheat.

LoL"

Unbelievable!!......You're being Cunning as usual, So how has it suddenly become solely Nigerian Culture by your post when Men and Women cheat all over the world darling??

You vent your anger at the Men in Nigeria,and last I remembered,you ain't Nigerian......heck' you ain't even in Nigeria.

You Must Love us sooo Much boo,am beginning to Feel same way

switdick:

LoL"

Unbelievable!!......You're being Cunning as usual, So how has it suddenly become solely Nigerian Culture by your post when Men and Women cheat all over the world darling??

You vent your anger at the Men in Nigeria,and last I remembered,you ain't Nigerian......heck' you ain't even in Nigeria.

You Must Love us sooo Much boo,am beginning to Feel same way

khiaa:

I'm not angry at Nigerian men. I love (some) Nigerian men, that's why I'm here. My man is Nigerian and he is very good to me. A man will only treat a woman the way she allows him to treat her. I'm more angry with the women for allowing this bad behavior, and once again, stop flirting with me.

Why do you Force your Self to be at a Comfort Zone with the bogus Claim of me Flirting with you when from the Look of things by previous posts is indeed the Other way round or perhaps is what you'd wish for ??

Must be hard for you to take correction From Someone you least expect it from,..

Quit your Plastic Smile Smiley"...It'd at least give you an edge of Realness"...