He cheated but is too proud to apologize. He accepts he is wrong and just said its a mistake. Left for good despite the love i had for him. Think is a good idea or not?

U left him or he left u?

I left him but he now said i should have continued with him if i loved him as much as i claimed. Yet no real apologies.

sorry i meant yet no real appologies

WONDERFUL!!! in this day and age again??!!

what business does a vulture have with a barber? or agbero with overload?

i ask again, what business do u have with this unrepentant cheat??

he has shown his true colors and u still consider his case open?

o ga o,

@poster,just keep walking,don't look back.
if he had loved you as much as he claimed,he shouldnt have cheated on you.
ppl apologize when they come to terms and accept the fact that they have hurt someone along the line.he is not showing remorse,he wud still keep cheating so . . .move on joo.
keep moving,i say !.there are better days ahead.

babygirlfl:

He cheated but is too proud to apologize. He accepts he is wrong and just said its a mistake. Left for good despite the love i had for him. Think is a good idea or not?

Yes its a good idea that he left - it doesnt matter if he apologizes, he has done u wrong and he isnt even remorseful.
Then why would u wanna be with him. Its gonna be hard but girl, hang in there.

My friend, It is good that you left his proud ass. C'mon, he not only cheated on you, he's also too proud to apologise, who knows, he may cheat on you again

ibkaye:

My friend, It is good that you left his proud ass. C'mon, he not only cheated on you, he's also too proud to apologise, who knows, he may cheat on you again

awwwww. . . lol at my lil angel giving an advice of her own. . . .a very sound advice too. . .

@ Poster

Me I look at it as "Good Riddance to Bad Rubbish"

Let him go jare!!!!!!!!!

TOYOSI20:

@ Poster

Me I look at it as "Good Riddance to Bad Rubbish"

Let him go jare!!!!!!!!!

that was uncanny . . . . . the same phrase crossed ma mind

The sorta shit men feed women sometimes. so stupid!

@poster
Story is too one-sided to offer advice.
Tell the full gist babygirl, otherwise get your boyfriend to Nairaland for the missing side of the coin

@ifyalways

"if he had loved you as much as he claimed,he shouldnt have cheated on you."

Do we say dat even when our husbands cheat,it means they dont love us?
Men can never stop to be polygamous by their nature as long as d balls continue to exist inbetween their legs,if the guy has apologise,i wil hv ask u give him a second chance cus i bliv in "Law of a second chance" but since he didnt not, means he has taken glory upon himself and probabgly gloat abt it,it leaves me with no choice but to say "Walk out gal" the tendency that he will stil cheat again is so glaring and wil owe no apology whatsoever.

opokonwa:

@poster
Story is too one-sided to offer advice.
Tell the full gist babygirl, otherwise get your boyfriend to Nairaland for the missing side of the coin

What's this? Male 'comradeship'!! Whats one-sided about the story now? or did u just learn the use of the expression?

Someone cheated, and dosent think the girl shd walk!! C'mon, he shd be wondering what kind of love she has for him if she stays.

babygirlfl:

i left him but he now said i should have continued with him if i loved him as much as i claimed. He no real appologies.

He actually said that? That guy's an asshole. Go fish in the river girl!! They come in better shaps and sizes.

@ topic,
Guys got ego especially when there r a 1001 girls hanging out there, they cud always ve a new girlfriend.

baby girl am sorry he does not appreciate ur love, if u're cute enough to be loved i think am ready to love u, but am engaged

He doesnt love you,simple!

Busta
wats poppin?hope u cool,sayin HI

Tommy Tom Tom----am good. How u been?

na wa ooo, he must really be a bad guy

you dey nairaland which get plenty nice ,educated and enlightened men and you still dey follow this rubbish thing?
Come on dump him !

banni:

you dey nairaland which get plenty nice ,educated and enlightened men and you still dey follow this rubbish thing?
Come on dump him !

yes oooo people like me, I GET one BIG 20naira for my account to take good care of any fine girl,

Thank you all for ur advice. i really appreciate.

Thank you all nairalanders. i must say u guys trip me so much because it id the best place to get advice striaght from the mind.

DON'T MAKE THE MISTAKE OF TAKING HIM BACK, YOU'LL FIND SOMEONE BETTER, SOMEONE WHO WILL RESPECT AND APPRECIATE YOU BETTER. HE DOESN'T DESERVE YOU AT ALL.

women keep deceiving themselves
crying and pining away over their so called b/friends
who are busy sowing wild oats.
the annoying thing is that its the so called advisers
who dont even have boyfriend or too old
for the stock market that tell u to dump his sorry ass.
women :for ur info,men do and will always cheat,it takes the likes of
those of you who sleep with married men and other peoples' spouses
to make the cheating act so much fun.

Yet another foolish man.

I hate egocentric guys. Isn't this funny, after admitting cheating he can't say sorry. Those types don't get anywhere i tell u. So what does he expect u to do? Welcome him back with a hug . . . so that next time he'll tell u "i thot its now allowed"

Girl abeg just vamoose. He's name is pride & he'll continue to be.

what do people realy consider as cheating?
a man makes u promises of fidelity and does so
with other women whom u dont know about.
he gets in between ur legs and after having his fill
seeks for new prey to devour.
cheat,cheating,cheated,
same old story from abuja to portharcourt,
from lagos to zamfara,
women will always be our trophies.
and dumping them will always be sweet tales to pass around.

@ still water
because uve not caught ur boyfriend in the
so called cheating act u still think its ur tiny ass alone hes banging
u never sabi anything.
keep fooling urself.

bennygee, you really baffle me with your replies, they are simply

bennygee:

what do people realy consider as cheating?
a man makes u promises of fidelity and does so
with other women whom u don't know about.
he gets in between your legs and after having his fill
seeks for new prey to devour.
cheat,cheating,cheated,
same old story from abuja to portharcourt,
from lagos to zamfara,
women will always be our trophies.
and dumping them will always be sweet tales to pass around.

in this 21st centuary?
yet anotha ignorant fool