Olatimide: Another problem I have is my EGO. I always feel the girls i meet are below my class nd dat really do make me sad and lonely. I don't know why, I don't want to feel dat way again!

ifex370: e pain u....

ifex370: i used to feel like you oooh.. twas a real problem... buh d solution is simple... if u the grls u meet are below u... then u need to start gaming grls that are above you (nt really age restricted)
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maybe after a few months,you realise where you really stand and what you should really be doing... op,oya take it from here!!!

niyeee: There is this lady i so much admire, am happy i got her at last - last week
The problem is that i ll have to wait for 5yrs b4 marriage. She is in 200level while am serving.
How do i keep the relationship blossom till then?

kingjosephat: @OP, dere is dis lady I met around 3 months ago, I approached her & we became friends. I call her often so wen I discovered dat she is attracted 2 me like in d 1st month we met I asked her out she agreed & we went 2 a place & had a 9ce drink but I remembered dat she told me dat she doesn't go out but she did dat 4 my sake. So dere was a particular day she asked me about my girlfriend which I told her I broke up wit her & I also gave her d reason Y we broke up. She asked me wat are my plans & I told her dat my heart is leading me somewhere. 2 cut d story short, I proposed 2 her last 9te, it doesn't take her much time b/4 she said yes. But d pain am having rite now is dat she said its on one condition which is "No SEX". So wat shud I do?

Kc_blunt: hey hi..teddy my new catch girl said she's 2my huz dis evening til nw she nvr show up....wht shuld i do next...tho she said her phn wil drop dead soon dat in d evening....i didnt even call 2ask if she's coming again...wht nxt nw.we cn hook up in campus if i desire 2c her tnxs.

kingjosephat: @OP, dere is dis lady I met around 3 months ago, I approached her & we became friends. I call her often so wen I discovered dat she is attracted 2 me like in d 1st month we met I asked her out she agreed & we went 2 a place & had a 9ce drink but I remembered dat she told me dat she doesn't go out but she did dat 4 my sake. So dere was a particular day she asked me about my girlfriend which I told her I broke up wit her & I also gave her d reason Y we broke up. She asked me wat are my plans & I told her dat my heart is leading me somewhere. 2 cut d story short, I proposed 2 her last 9te, it doesn't take her much time b/4 she said yes. But d pain am having rite now is dat she said its on one condition which is "No SEX". So wat shud I do?

drjoebond080:
I guess u av agreed to that coz that the rite tn to do .wen u wit.her u look at her in eyes nd tell her she shud remember no sex while holdin her hand then plant a kiss on her lips wen she is likin it u remove u lips nd make her wnt more.the reason is u let her think u dnt want sex .she wud loose her guard wen around u.let her bliv u dnt need s*x while u kinno .I.e always touch her wen possible .it gonna tak time but it wud apen she wud b feelin lik u guyz didn't plan it.wen u wit her kinno a lot .

drjoebond080: the what's app is not a good idea.cos we gonna lose pages wen the chat gets long.jst my idea.

drjoebond080:
it a gradual process nd u wud get dere nd she gonna feel lik she is the one to blame

kingjosephat: @OP, dere is dis lady I met around 3 months ago, I approached her & we became friends. I call her often so wen I discovered dat she is attracted 2 me like in d 1st month we met I asked her out she agreed & we went 2 a place & had a 9ce drink but I remembered dat she told me dat she doesn't go out but she did dat 4 my sake. So dere was a particular day she asked me about my girlfriend which I told her I broke up wit her & I also gave her d reason Y we broke up. She asked me wat are my plans & I told her dat my heart is leading me somewhere. 2 cut d story short, I proposed 2 her last 9te, it doesn't take her much time b/4 she said yes. But d pain am having rite now is dat she said its on one condition which is "No SEX". So wat shud I do?

chupcake:
Seems you really like her, if that's the case then its either you are been too careful when it comes to sex.. If you have to appear both as someone that she wants to be with and someone she wants to sleep with.. Its even good she hasn't friendzoned you yet. First am formost, do the thing OP said about the six months thingy. If she's part of your future plans, then she knows she has a future with you. As for been the person she wants to sleep with, if you've seen '2 broke girls' you'll know what 'se.x.ual inneundo means. Be subtle, funny yet direct. Talk more about sex in a playful manner. If you watching a movie together and there is a sex scene you might start with 'hey - this girl is not even kissing the right places' - Things like that will open her up.

kingjosephat: Tanx Guys but please anyone wit gud pick up lines?

kingjosephat: @drjoebond080, yea I accepted her condition but am seeking 4 a way I could use 2 have my way