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Re: Things Smart, Single Men Look For In A Woman by JayKayMaybachz(m): 5:54pm On Dec 27, 2013
waleadex: All of these helped me in choosing her. Plus,she's not even dramatic at all!
Hmmmmmmmm!!!
Re: Things Smart, Single Men Look For In A Woman by Nobody: 5:54pm On Dec 27, 2013
[quote author=uj_sizzle]poor you, that's why you're still single right? cry[/quote]Evulz sad
Re: Things Smart, Single Men Look For In A Woman by Adesewa19(f): 5:55pm On Dec 27, 2013
Like seriously....... grin
Re: Things Smart, Single Men Look For In A Woman by UjSizzle(f): 5:56pm On Dec 27, 2013
Nomski0: Try making your money sister. So you'll both be able to eat suya and not bother about the onions.

You could even buy each other islands. smiley
I have a feeling Suya and Onions are figurative grin grin
Re: Things Smart, Single Men Look For In A Woman by omoikea(m): 5:56pm On Dec 27, 2013
u just spoke my mind...these 5 plus my two additional qualities is really hard to find in 9ja...maybe dats am still single...
Re: Things Smart, Single Men Look For In A Woman by Nobody: 5:58pm On Dec 27, 2013
[quote author=uj_sizzle]poor you, that's why you're still single right? cry[/quote]sunshine, be nice. smiley
Re: Things Smart, Single Men Look For In A Woman by Lanceslot(m): 5:58pm On Dec 27, 2013
So on point, I so much love independent woman and hate nagging ones. Good write up.
Re: Things Smart, Single Men Look For In A Woman by Addict000(m): 6:01pm On Dec 27, 2013
[quote author=BUSH.HUNTER]rubbish[/quote]cummon dude shes ryt. @op intelligence counts too
Re: Things Smart, Single Men Look For In A Woman by Addict000(m): 6:03pm On Dec 27, 2013
Adesewa19: Like seriously....... grin
Re: Things Smart, Single Men Look For In A Woman by tellwisdom: 6:03pm On Dec 27, 2013
[quote author=uj_sizzle]poor you, that's why you're still single right? cry[/quote]I lie?? angry huh
Re: Things Smart, Single Men Look For In A Woman by Afrok(m): 6:03pm On Dec 27, 2013
Most guys on this thread says dey like nd look for these things in women but yet dey're still single, hmmmm... It seems these things are scarce among our 9ja women. @op post d ones wey dey readily available among our women.
Re: Things Smart, Single Men Look For In A Woman by emmahoney(m): 6:05pm On Dec 27, 2013
KweenAdz: 5 Things Smart, Single Men Look For In A Woman

Many women think that physical beauty is the only thing that makes men choose a woman but that is not necessarily true. There are certain qualities that many men look for in a woman. Mentioned below is a list of 5 qualities that can impress many single and smart men.



1. Friend and Lover
Men often like an environment of friendship around them. They like sharing their feelings and thoughts with friends, therefore they want their partner to be a friend and a lover. Like good friends who remain with us in good times and bad, they expect their partner to be with them in any kind of situation. A combination of love and friendship makes a woman more desirable and makes them more understanding and lovable.



2. Independence
There is a common perception that men like women who are weaker and dependent on them so that they feel smarter and more authoritative, this is a myth. Most men expect the woman of their choice to be independent and self-reliant. Real men like those who inspire them with the way they live their life, someone they can look up to and one who will support them when they cripple emotionally . Women who value other things that are important to them like their own goals and ambitions along with their relationship are more attractive to men.

3. Sense of humor
If you go to any online dating site or matrimonial advertisement, many men list a good sense of humor as a primary requirement. Nobody wants to be in boring company. Physical attractiveness can work initially, however the sense of humor is something that works always. Very few women have the ability to make men laugh and if you can it can be one of your biggest assets. Do not try to be overly funny, it becomes evident and can make others irritated.

4. Less drama
Some women are known for Oscar-worthy dramatic performances with lots of tears. Most men do not like women who make issues of small things and give lectures about them. Some women cry about too many things, tears work sometimes, however overuse makes them useless in the long run. Keeping things simple and uncomplicated is a highly respected attribute.

5. Playful women
Many men love action around them, the adrenalin rush keeps them on their toes. They sometimes like playful activities and tend to associate more with people who engage them in such activities. Watching a football together or going to tennis practice together can really do the trick for you. This gives you more time spend together and makes you more desirable.

SOURCE:Positive Med
Nice one. Intelligence is required from a woman by a smart guy as well. This helps the man to improve upon his own level of intellegence.
Re: Things Smart, Single Men Look For In A Woman by Truckpusher(m): 6:09pm On Dec 27, 2013
kofsy: You guys make it look like you are the only ones In the position to decide whether a patner is marriageable or not. So we ladies sheepishly accept any man that perceives us as marriage material abi? grin grin

Sidon there make pant they wear you cheesy

You don't make yourself better and marriage worthy and expect to marry a lady that possess the above qualities...... you go tey
Lmao @ ''sidon there make pant dey wear you''... grin grin grin grin
Re: Things Smart, Single Men Look For In A Woman by ifeanyi83(m): 6:10pm On Dec 27, 2013
KweenAdz: 5 Things Smart, Single Men Look For In A Woman

Many women think that physical beauty is the only thing that makes men choose a woman but that is not necessarily true. There are certain qualities that many men look for in a woman. Mentioned below is a list of 5 qualities that can impress many single and smart men.



1. Friend and Lover
Men often like an environment of friendship around them. They like sharing their feelings and thoughts with friends, therefore they want their partner to be a friend and a lover. Like good friends who remain with us in good times and bad, they expect their partner to be with them in any kind of situation. A combination of love and friendship makes a woman more desirable and makes them more understanding and lovable.



2. Independence
There is a common perception that men like women who are weaker and dependent on them so that they feel smarter and more authoritative, this is a myth. Most men expect the woman of their choice to be independent and self-reliant. Real men like those who inspire them with the way they live their life, someone they can look up to and one who will support them when they cripple emotionally . Women who value other things that are important to them like their own goals and ambitions along with their relationship are more attractive to men.

3. Sense of humor
If you go to any online dating site or matrimonial advertisement, many men list a good sense of humor as a primary requirement. Nobody wants to be in boring company. Physical attractiveness can work initially, however the sense of humor is something that works always. Very few women have the ability to make men laugh and if you can it can be one of your biggest assets. Do not try to be overly funny, it becomes evident and can make others irritated.

4. Less drama
Some women are known for Oscar-worthy dramatic performances with lots of tears. Most men do not like women who make issues of small things and give lectures about them. Some women cry about too many things, tears work sometimes, however overuse makes them useless in the long run. Keeping things simple and uncomplicated is a highly respected attribute.

5. Playful women
Many men love action around them, the adrenalin rush keeps them on their toes. They sometimes like playful activities and tend to associate more with people who engage them in such activities. Watching a football together or going to tennis practice together can really do the trick for you. This gives you more time spend together and makes you more desirable.

SOURCE:Positive Med
Honestly can you find a woman with all of these traits?....My woman lacks independence especially emotional independence, and boy does she love drama...I still love her anyways... wink
Re: Things Smart, Single Men Look For In A Woman by Toks2008(m):
As for me,asides from all the listed factors, my lady must be shapely. I love ladies with curves and i mean real curves. I hate philandering and infact i don't even think about it once i have what i want in a lady. Those hips must be full and i cant trade that for anything. Crazy as it may sound, the most well behaved lady in the world will appeal to me as a wife material but without those curves, i fear i may philander. Infact, those curves comes first because i wont even come close to you to observe other factors if you are not curvy enough to catch my attention.

Re: Things Smart, Single Men Look For In A Woman by annawhite(f): 6:12pm On Dec 27, 2013
Nomski0: Try making your money sister. So you'll both be able to eat suya and not bother about the onions.

You could even buy each other islands. smiley
duly noted thanks[quote author=uj_sizzle]I have a feeling Suya and Onions are figurative grin grin[/quote]you are so cool

Don't mind Jaybee......he is so into d nyansh thang
Tell Jaybee good morning he'll be thinking of your azzh
Re: Things Smart, Single Men Look For In A Woman by LordAdam:
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Re: Things Smart, Single Men Look For In A Woman by vislabraye(m): 6:13pm On Dec 27, 2013
The list is even short. I thought I would see 10 to 20 qualities. I think its moderate. Its so unfortunate that some ladies believe beauty is every thing. They concentrate so much on beauty and neglect other aspects in their life.

Re: Things Smart, Single Men Look For In A Woman by jmoore(m): 6:17pm On Dec 27, 2013
annawhite: Now I promise to be good
All I need is a guy who will give unlimited access to his phone tongue his ATM card,and eat the onions while I eat the surya tongue

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I NEED A MAN
MUGU
Fixed.
Re: Things Smart, Single Men Look For In A Woman by joywendy(f): 6:18pm On Dec 27, 2013
mmm, nice thread @ op.
Re: Things Smart, Single Men Look For In A Woman by vislabraye(m): 6:20pm On Dec 27, 2013
Toks2008: As for me,asides from all the listed factors, my lady must be shapely. I love ladies with curves and i mean real curves. I hate philandering and infact i don't even think about it once i have what i want in a lady. Those hips must be full and i cant trade that for anything. Crazy as it may sound, the most well behaved lady in the world will appeal to me as a wife material but without those curves, i fear i may philander. Infact, those curves comes first because i wont even come close to you to observe other factors if you are not curvy enough to catch my attention.
I have the address of Toolz.
Re: Things Smart, Single Men Look For In A Woman by Nobody: 6:21pm On Dec 27, 2013
Noted
Re: Things Smart, Single Men Look For In A Woman by Toks2008(m): 6:22pm On Dec 27, 2013
vislabraye: I have the address of Toolz.
Who be that?
Re: Things Smart, Single Men Look For In A Woman by shejane: 6:24pm On Dec 27, 2013
Men dot even kw wot der wot in life esp in women.









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Re: Things Smart, Single Men Look For In A Woman by slap1(m): 6:24pm On Dec 27, 2013
[quote author=Afro-k]Nwoke oma where U dey since nah? Plenty ladies don dey show interests, one wants Suya without onion nd d other wants marriage by tomorrow without courtship shocked[/quote]And I have a bright future, plus I want to live long. That means it won't work.
Re: Things Smart, Single Men Look For In A Woman by troy20(m): 6:26pm On Dec 27, 2013
phewww...all these lists.wish we could order all these things off the shelfs of shoprite.
Re: Things Smart, Single Men Look For In A Woman by Toks2008(m): 6:32pm On Dec 27, 2013
Some people have asked me how i was able to remain with only one lady for 12 years and i keep telling them. SHE HAS WHAT I WANT PHYSICALLY but no one will ever be perfect in other areas so i decided to tolerate the rest.

I am a staunch lover of ladies with curves so having one at my disposal will never make me desire another. Thats because im a very disciplined man and im proud to say that i have been making out with just one lady ever since talking about 12 years.

If i have any reason to choose again, i will not compromise curvature for anything else or i will be forced to philander with one if i marry a lady without curves i mean sweet curves.

Guys should understand what they want in a woman. If you want a busty lady please don't settle for less else you will only kill yourself with baseless fantasies. So know what you want and be patient enough to find it. Physical attraction comes first in maintaining fidelity in any union. Other things follow and can be tolerated and understood if both partners are willing.
Re: Things Smart, Single Men Look For In A Woman by shejane: 6:35pm On Dec 27, 2013
A man can list all he wat in a woman nd dat d same man wil end up wt a woman opposite of d tins he list

Dats men 4u

So easy 2 control nd yet look difficult
Re: Things Smart, Single Men Look For In A Woman by Karleb(m): 6:36pm On Dec 27, 2013
[quote author=BUSH.HUNTER]rubbish[/quote]coming from a bush hunter... your condition is understandable.
Re: Things Smart, Single Men Look For In A Woman by Lanceslot(m): 6:37pm On Dec 27, 2013
segzy14: your status shows that u are a female, which her are u searching for again?
He's a transgendered, don't mind her. #confusedcreature
Re: Things Smart, Single Men Look For In A Woman by UjSizzle(f): 6:39pm On Dec 27, 2013
tellwisdom: I lie?? angry huh
Don't worry, one day you'll make bread cry
Re: Things Smart, Single Men Look For In A Woman by Toks2008(m): 6:41pm On Dec 27, 2013
shejane: A man can list all he wat in a woman nd dat d same man wil end up wt a woman opposite of d tins he list

Dats men 4u

So easy 2 control nd yet look difficult
That is why discipline is important.

For me i repeat, i will not even feel attracted to you sexually if you don't meet up with my physical requirements let alone practicing chop and clean mouth. Any lady i cant see myself marrying i dont even get close. So many guys who ended up with someone other than their choice probably wanted to do touch and go and they got hooked.
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