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Heebucun:
Going by what u said she showed u 100 percent love.u could just have done something extraordinary like changing your religion to appreciate her but did u?I know all guys are not bad.cooking,washing,standing in line for your boyfriend should not be used to measure love.

mesoade:
wao
h! dats. cool

urcutecrush:
Are u misqouting me intentionally or are u twisting my words to fit urs?
I already explained what I mean by wisen up.
I totally agree on caution decelarating love
To open yourself to the chance of happiness is to open yourself to the possibility of pain —the probability of disappointment. Is it worth it? Who’s to say. Perhaps one could live their life carefully — treading lightly along their given road — and reach the finish line feeling warm, safe and content. But I’d rather walk heavily.
I’d rather run down the path less traveled, aware of all the danger, fall to the the ground, get back up — and fall again. I’d rather reach the end covered in scrapes, bruises and ugly, crooked scars — battle wounds on which to reflect fondly. I’d rather be hurt and allow myself the chance to be hurt again, in different ways by different people.BUT
I WILL NEVER FORGET I DESERVE TO BE HAPPY.I WILL NEVER STOP LOVING MYSELF.THAT IS WHAT MAKES ME.

RedBenson:
Not officially. It's traditionally. A brother must stalk his sister to prevent unGodly derailing. Abi no be so?

naijaboiy:
Then you give the love to a woman or keep it to yourself

DumeloDumelo:
Yeah I am keeping it for my children.

I guess you'll impregnate yourself

naijaboiy:
I guess you'll impregnate yourself

MORNDEW:
In life love is a two way thing. But, sometimes, one person makes the relationship sweeter with his or her character or actions. Many times women complain of being cheated, or not finding ”Mr right”.

Mr right deserves Miss right. But sadly enough, many women (especially young girls of nowadays) does not have what it takes to make a man want to take them to the alter. As a woman how much love do u have to show a man, can you cook, can you stand in for him if he is nt there, how good are u on bed, what suports ar u willing to give to a man in hard times and to get to the top.
These days the only thing most women pride themselves with is boobs nd butt, they feel they are doing a guy favour by dating him, they see sex as a commodity offered to men. some even glue to their TV to watch Kim Kardashian and other programmes that will further advance their fakeness in life.

While in school i met a lady who was exceptional but not perfect.
Twice she bought textbooks for me with her money, kept my room always clean nd even did my laudry was so concerned in things that concern me and so many other things. She believed tomorrow will be better. Up till this moment no woman has been able to measure up to her in my life.

Some women see any guy that comes around them as a potential maga who will fund them but forget they can also get to the top or look for something to do. I’ ve always said it if Mirian can decide to plait her coursemates hair or open a boukar or ”mama put” or learn to type and make money with it, sell recharge cards, fruits or clothes and or women undies to survive, why is Caro jumping from one man to another and calling herself a big girl because she carries the latest phone which another man recharges for her and she pings all day. Well, to me i don’t regard any of these type of women as big girls i only see them as people who have nothing to offer. I regard and respect the likes of Mirian of this write up more.

What are you bringing to the table in a relationship? Or you think you are doing a man a favour. Have a rethink.

Princewill Chimereze.

Student, Writter, Facilittor, Public Affairs Analyst and Socila Commentator.

I feel like this nigga is equating love to trade by bater..

If she brings good sex, cooking skills and all that stuff he wrote there then she is perfect or what?



OP... The woman who was exceptional to you, why was she not perfect?

MORNDEW:
In life love is a two way thing. But, sometimes, one person makes the relationship sweeter with his or her character or actions. Many times women complain of being cheated, or not finding ”Mr right”.

Mr right deserves Miss right. But sadly enough, many women (especially young girls of nowadays) does not have what it takes to make a man want to take them to the alter. As a woman how much love do u have to show a man, can you cook, can you stand in for him if he is nt there, how good are u on bed, what suports ar u willing to give to a man in hard times and to get to the top.
These days the only thing most women pride themselves with is boobs nd butt, they feel they are doing a guy favour by dating him, they see sex as a commodity offered to men. some even glue to their TV to watch Kim Kardashian and other programmes that will further advance their fakeness in life.

While in school i met a lady who was exceptional but not perfect.
Twice she bought textbooks for me with her money, kept my room always clean nd even did my laudry was so concerned in things that concern me and so many other things. She believed tomorrow will be better. Up till this moment no woman has been able to measure up to her in my life.

Some women see any guy that comes around them as a potential maga who will fund them but forget they can also get to the top or look for something to do. I’ ve always said it if Mirian can decide to plait her coursemates hair or open a boukar or ”mama put” or learn to type and make money with it, sell recharge cards, fruits or clothes and or women undies to survive, why is Caro jumping from one man to another and calling herself a big girl because she carries the latest phone which another man recharges for her and she pings all day. Well, to me i don’t regard any of these type of women as big girls i only see them as people who have nothing to offer. I regard and respect the likes of Mirian of this write up more.

What are you bringing to the table in a relationship? Or you think you are doing a man a favour. Have a rethink.

Princewill Chimereze.

Student, Writter, Facilittor, Public Affairs Analyst and Socila Commentator.

blakky97:
Yes!
Especially Ijebu girls who go to the university to study Economics
On their birthdays they ask for black berry Q10
On your birthday they bring you boxers!

uplawal:
Pls how much is land there?

jessica1987:
Add pin:29B443F5 ladies only you won't regret it

jessica1987:
Add pin:29B443F5 ladies only you won't regret it

sauceny:
Naija gurlz are faster than their shadow,with a top speed,faster than a Ferrari+Lamborghini +Buggati put together...

If only God has put up an instant death on both male & female that would have a premarital sex,the world would have been a better place to live in.

cc150615:
I don't have time to go tru the whole thread to see if someone has said this but OP I must tell u that the reason why dem babes place importance on those things is cos most guys make it look like it's the most important thing; u hear guys saying why I go date woman wey no get azz nd brezz nd when they see the good girls they'd be cheating on dem with the girls that flaunt azz nd brezz, some will even proudly say they're keeping her for marriage Na nd just playing with the other girls.
On guys side too,instead of creating a counter thread lemme say here that guys should learn to have manners nd know how to treat a lady even wen u think u have money to bring to the table that's not all it takes to win a girl's heart wait until a lady comes visiting u nd u give her tfare nd she refuses to collect or gives u ur change to the last kobo.

MadCow1:
I feel like this nigga is equating love to trade by bater..

If she brings good sex, cooking skills and all that stuff he wrote there then she is perfect or what?



OP... The woman who was exceptional to you, why was she not perfect?

Merlissa:
Love can't be measured.. I have never been lucky with meeting someone who would return my love...

There are some ladies (me inclusive) when we love we LOVE. We can do ALMOST anything to get the guys attention but guys DON'T return the love

#NoteToGuys: if you want a lady to love you, love her unconditionally. Love her flaws, her imperfections

True Love is loving the imperfect person PERFECTLY!!!

Abduletudaye:
Na everywhere I dey see you. Infact, I will charge you for commenting sporadically.. #oya kneel down, raise up your hand and open ya mouth

MORNDEW:
While in school i met a lady who was exceptional but not perfect.
Twice she bought textbooks for me with her money, kept my room always clean nd even did my laudry was so concerned in things that concern me and so many other things. She believed tomorrow will be better. Up till this moment no woman has been able to measure up to her in my life.

menesheh:
MizMyColi: Hmmm OP
Clearly, I'm about to blow my trumpet and that of my comradesses.

Y'see, some of us are Oceans and fountains and springs of Love.
Azzin, the kind/amount of love flowing thru' us is simply out of this world - amazing and almost too good to be true.
You can tell by the way we treat those around us who are strangers or haven't even attained boyfriend status.

Y'see, in our circle, we don't play nice, just to catch that guy's attention or get to him to bed us or return a favor. No.
The honest to God truth is - Nice is who we are.
We don't know how to be any less.

So, it's inorder for us to ask the guys too;

"What are you bringing to the table"?

Signed: Mizmycoli (f)



She just registered this june but she don already spent 1 month plus on Nairaland, maybe she do spend all her time on Nairaland commenting and arguing. Pretty amazing

passionate88:
What happened to the lady friend of yours?.

DumeloDumelo:
No I will use your semen via artificial insemination.

MORNDEW:
In life love is a two way thing. But, sometimes, one person makes the relationship sweeter with his or her character or actions. Many times women complain of being cheated, or not finding ”Mr right”.

Mr right deserves Miss right. But sadly enough, many women (especially young girls of nowadays) does not have what it takes to make a man want to take them to the alter. As a woman how much love do u have to show a man, can you cook, can you stand in for him if he is nt there, how good are u on bed, what suports ar u willing to give to a man in hard times and to get to the top.
These days the only thing most women pride themselves with is boobs nd butt, they feel they are doing a guy favour by dating him, they see sex as a commodity offered to men. some even glue to their TV to watch Kim Kardashian and other programmes that will further advance their fakeness in life.

While in school i met a lady who was exceptional but not perfect.
Twice she bought textbooks for me with her money, kept my room always clean nd even did my laudry was so concerned in things that concern me and so many other things. She believed tomorrow will be better. Up till this moment no woman has been able to measure up to her in my life.

Some women see any guy that comes around them as a potential maga who will fund them but forget they can also get to the top or look for something to do. I’ ve always said it if Mirian can decide to plait her coursemates hair or open a boukar or ”mama put” or learn to type and make money with it, sell recharge cards, fruits or clothes and or women undies to survive, why is Caro jumping from one man to another and calling herself a big girl because she carries the latest phone which another man recharges for her and she pings all day. Well, to me i don’t regard any of these type of women as big girls i only see them as people who have nothing to offer. I regard and respect the likes of Mirian of this write up more.

What are you bringing to the table in a relationship? Or you think you are doing a man a favour. Have a rethink.

Princewill Chimereze.

Student, Writter, Facilittor, Public Affairs Analyst and Socila Commentator.

MizMyColi:
Hmmm OP
Clearly, I'm about to blow my trumpet and that of my comradesses.

Y'see, some of us are Oceans and fountains and springs of Love.
Azzin, the kind/amount of love flowing thru' us is simply out of this world - amazing and almost too good to be true.
You can tell by the way we treat those around us who are strangers or haven't even attained boyfriend status.

Y'see, in our circle, we don't play nice, just to catch that guy's attention or get to him to bed us or return a favor. No.
The honest to God truth is - Nice is who we are.
We don't know how to be any less.

So, it's inorder for us to ask the guys too;

"What are you bringing to the table"?

Signed: Mizmycoli (f)

Sagamite:
This is probably more likely to be true if you are:

- White
- Black girl from Southern and Eastern Africa
- Black girl that grew up in Europe outside UK
- Not so good looking Black girl.

I like the emboldened.

Well, I'm a Nigerian with a world class spirit.

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