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Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by PrettyClare7(f): 5:01pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
fpeter:my dear the issue here is not the fanfare that accompanies the white wedding. It is getting the certificate. U cn go to d registry and get it without ceremony. But with the cert.no woman cn drive u out of ur husband's house without a good fight. 1 Like |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by PrettyClare7(f): 5:04pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
GoodFaith:are u praying to marry a bad wife or for divorce. It is people praying for any of these that think like you. |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by PrettyClare7(f): 5:06pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
GoodFaith:people who plan on making their marriage work,do not think like you 1 Like |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by GoodFaith: 5:10pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
PrettyClare7:Base on ur question what is the need for certificate ? I am very happily marriage I have had God to protect me against evil woman My God was there for me |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by GoodFaith: 5:12pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
PrettyClare7:People that are not thinking ahead of divorce will not make certificate an issue I don't think like that But I am wisher and I know better |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by PrettyClare7(f): 5:16pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
GoodFaith:with the certificate,you can prove to anyone that you are married without goin to the village to bring elders to swear. Also,if the man dies anytime,nobody will deny her the right to the man's property or her kids. Nobody will throw her out. Another woman will not also easily displace a woman in her husband's house. The advantages are just endless. 2 Likes |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by GoodFaith: 5:20pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
PrettyClare7:I am working for the woman that stand by me and my kids No man want his wife and kids to suffer |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by Nobody: 5:37pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
PrettyClare7:certificate aint protection here in Nigeria . if it is women will not be ranting abusive marriages and inlaws...... there are laws the court takes into consideration before any proceedings is even made. |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by Nobody: 5:49pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
PrettyClare7:do women fight over men publicly these days ... I said it before , there are men who do more for their concubines than their immediate family who have got the certificates . This is Nigeria. |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by Nobody: 5:51pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
PrettyClare7:people change , thats why you see couples who courted for good number of years still having problems with marriages . |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by GoodFaith: 5:53pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
majekdom2:Any man who do more for their concubines than is wife and kids Need help Ur wife , kids and family come first in my life |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by PrettyClare7(f): 5:54pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
majekdom2:my dear i dnt mean fight in the literal sense |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by Nobody: 5:55pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
PrettyClare7:if you want to make your marriage work you dont have to force a man who is skeptical about court marrige do it ... people have different opinions as to this . some men respect their tradition more ... you may say its the latest trend to go for a court wedding , but some men still believe tradition got them to where they are ..... and are never ready for it . |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by Nobody: 5:57pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
PrettyClare7:the certificate is in case .... but what gain will the certificate bring if you and your kids are not included in his will .... there are more to look into in a marriage than certificate |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by GoodFaith: 6:05pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
majekdom2:U are so Right brother tell her |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by GoodFaith: 6:08pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
majekdom2:Lot of men value the support u gave to the marriage U might have differences and divorce but a good man know the value of a good woman in his life 2 Likes |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by jeo4u(m): 6:11pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
NifemiOlu:That is scary but the truth is that the guy is actually on a cross road as the girl have totally denounced her religion and ready to do same of her parent because of the guy. |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by Nobody: 6:12pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
PrettyClare7:You're a daft. Look at this juvenile still struggling with sec sch grade. |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by Nobody: 6:14pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
PrettyClare7:I dont hold covo with daft like you with brains at par with an autistic. |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by Nobody: 6:15pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
slimmy05:easy man ... thats too harsh. |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by Nobody: 6:16pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
Sweetlemon: While i so support your view and advise, Irresponsible men will always be irresponsible, whether court or no court. The key is looking beyond the physical attributes e.g, handsomeness, wealth, height etc instead focus on just one thing; How he treats those closest to him especially what he says about his closest friends behind them This will give you a clearer picture of what to expect when you become his closest friend. I will cast my vote for a court wedding any day as this ensures you have some reserve cash to travel to paris or dubai on honeymoon. rather than spend over a million naira feeding some people, half of whom you don't even know. 1 Like |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by Nobody: 6:17pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
jeo4u:dont get angry ... just a free mind question .... is the guy's account reading millions ... if yes , they should both have a second thougt. |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by Nobody: 6:17pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
majekdom2:Don't mind me |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by NifemiOlu(m): 6:21pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
jeo4u: The bitter advice is, he shouldn't marry her. One thing I've learned in my life is love isn't enough when it comes to marriage. Other things must fall into place. The fact is, love fades because it's chemical reaction...only friendship will last and family members. If they denounce any family, where will they find support in stormy times? |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by Nobody: 6:22pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
GoodFaith:yea ...what they ought to look out for is a man who respects them ... the african tradition does not respect women as it were thats why it encourages polygamy..... and even the laws of the federal republic of Nigeria takes the customary law into consideration first. when cases of inheritances arise , the women should know a die hard inlaw can manipulate it all using custom law ... what every woman should envisage is writing a will together with their husbands ... this way you can be sure of what is yours and how is shared . a lady said your spouse may change it , if he does that without your consent then there was no never trust in the marriage in the first instance ..... then you can expect more from whoever after his death ... .not just inlaws , business partners. |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by GoodFaith: 6:27pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
majekdom2:Part of Nigeria I came from inheritances are for the man kids We don't inherit brothers or sisters properties The only have problems if no kids The wife have a big problem now so the will Can protect her |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by Nobody: 6:31pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
PrettyClare7:Nawa! So performing a traditional marriage is not a solid evidence dat u re married? So until we copy d foregn style, 1st kwano? I repeat: traditional marriage is d most important n must b done 1st, any other kinds re an alternatives. Solid evidence kon, solid evidence ni. |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by Nobody: 6:32pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
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Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by Nobody: 6:33pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
PrettyClare7:Nawa! So performing a traditional marriage is not a solid evidence dat u re married? So until we copy d foregn style, 1st kwano? I repeat: traditional marriage is d most important n must b done 1st, any other kinds re an alternatives. Solid evidence kon, solid evidence ni. |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by GoodFaith: 6:34pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
Blebleswag:Solid evidence kon, solid evidence ni = if u are a good woman. A good man will protect with his life If u evil woman you need the "Solid evidence kon, solid evidence ni" to take him to court |
Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by Ojugunrege(f): 6:35pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
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Re: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by Nobody: 6:37pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
GoodFaith:Sorry I dnt get u |
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