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Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by Herrmes: 12:37pm On Oct 26, 2014
Krystalxxx:


shocked shocked grin
Sex even if it is 500 times is not equal to 130,000- Quentin's law of Bedmatics

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Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by brownlord: 12:38pm On Oct 26, 2014
Tymax:

So the phone is what? Her gratuity?

Why are you demanding for phone?
Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by skyprofm(m): 12:38pm On Oct 26, 2014
Guy abeg drop ur number make I introduce u to one of my cousins joor. Me sef nid new fone before december

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Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by Nobody: 12:39pm On Oct 26, 2014
[quote author=pansophist post=27464564]

You reason like a pig. So sex is a gift now eh?
Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by sekzy99(m): 12:39pm On Oct 26, 2014
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Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by Laredojohn(m): 12:40pm On Oct 26, 2014
OP u must b a learner, sure she never loves. u from the onset, she is just being materialistic, shame and her conscience should judge her, one of the reasons why a guy keeps the best of the goodies till marriage...
Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by KingTom(m): 12:40pm On Oct 26, 2014
brownlord:


Lol, bros some dey do worst.
Na true sha, one sef carry pure water dash us come buy eva wine (very expensive back in 2003) give babe, the greedy duck fowl swallow the whole bottle no give hin guy even one drop. The cowboy later come after him don give am transport to go house. Then came back to ask for beans wey we dey manage. I gave the ketekete a dirty slap that night grin
Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by Nobody: 12:42pm On Oct 26, 2014
Tymax:

So if you were the girl, you would refuse to return the phone?
grin grin would you ask for the gift?
Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by Tymax(m): 12:42pm On Oct 26, 2014
brownlord:


Why are you demanding for phone?
Hahaha Nigerians answering question with another question grin
Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by Tymax(m): 12:43pm On Oct 26, 2014
3cycle:

grin grin would you ask for the gift?
grin hahaha you too dey question d questioner

Ask? cheesy Ask for my property?

Me I go collect my phone back. She breached our contract
Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by lekezino(m): 12:43pm On Oct 26, 2014
okay

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Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by brownlord: 12:44pm On Oct 26, 2014
KingTom:

Na true sha, one sef carry pure water dash us come buy eva wine (very expensive back in 2003) give babe, the greedy duck fowl swallow the whole bottle no give hin guy even one drop. The cowboy later come after him don give am transport to go house. Then came back to ask for beans wey we dey manage. I gave the ketekete a dirty slap that night grin

Jesu christy, I still don't know what to call it, could it be love?

Cos me self be they love, even if not with my heart but head
Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by pansophist(m): 12:44pm On Oct 26, 2014
brownlord:


Some people can't reason with their brain, what the need going to ask a beb a gift given to her after breakup, that's will be the last thing on my head, infact even if she return it I won't accept it.

Only if those silly girls will understand it the way you do. It is matured to let go of what you've given to a partner as a gift but in this case, the answer is definitely NO. She was patiently waiting to have the phone and deliberately dumped this guy aftermath, it will be an outmost foolishness for the OP to ignore that phone. The guyman is still even paying for the phone painfully, couple with heartbreak, and you are claiming maturity, lol grin

Your logic will be acceptable if the breakup was due to some reasons that was beyind their reconcilations (maybe she has to move due to education), definitely not in a case of scam.

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Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by Bitojoe(m): 12:44pm On Oct 26, 2014
I only pity you,because you are not sensitive enough.a lady will never dump a guy without she putin on some questionable behaviours or character.you are realy a fool not to know a lady that truly love you.also, collecting your phone back wont change the situation.aftenall, the intimacy that both of you had cannot be return.Guy,next time dont be a blind man.
Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by Nobody: 12:45pm On Oct 26, 2014
3cycle:

Eh collect gini?
A birthday present she never asked for? He gave it to her freewilly.
See the op did not comeout with the whole story. She must have been acting weird towards him as a sign she's nolonger interested. Instead of the op to accept its all over, he went ahead trying to buy her love using the gift.

@op I believe you've never given any of you family members gift worth a 100k, so I will advice you accept your loss in good faith and try not disgracing you further by asking for ya phone.




please! what do you mean disgracing himself over a phone, You havent met him so you dont know how valuable 100k is to him, the fact he is still paying shows he is sacrificing, apparently the lady doesnt deserve it. Yes he gave her freely, nw he wants to collect it back freely it was a mistake. If its a one off gift then maybe not, however he is still paying. Haba! Am sure the babe knows he is still paying for the phone.

@ the OP I think you

1: approach her and tell her you need to phone back, cos it on a contract and you are still paying for it. Since you guys are nt together anymore you will need it back. If she refuses go report her to the police. scratch the officer like 2500 and explain you gave the phone on the assumption the relationship will be. now things have fallen apart. and i bet you will get the phone back. To me it doesnt make sense to give what you dont have, if you dont have you dont give. Dont borrow or suffer for any woman who isnt yet your wife abeg. I beg you in the name of God go collect the phone. I am also hoping the phone receipt and every is still with you and not in her name?

And pls act fast, time is running.

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Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by poweredcom(m): 12:46pm On Oct 26, 2014
tommiebuck:


instrumental payment? grin grin grin

dude stfu n stick to the topic..ok its just a mistake na spell checkers do am like dat....ok..i i hurriedly post without noticing grin grin angry angry
Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by pansophist(m): 12:47pm On Oct 26, 2014
Krystalxxx:


Of course sex is a gift. Why else do guys value a girl by how many partners she's been with. Sex is not a passing thing, it affects whatever future the girl gets.

Well if you say I reason like a pig
..........




I'd rather reason like a pig than think like you

Pig=100%
You...hmm=40 .....no really.......don't thank me. It's free my friend grin

So sex is also not a gift from a man to a girl too abi?

You no get sense, seriously.

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Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by KingTom(m): 12:50pm On Oct 26, 2014
brownlord:


Jesu christy, I still don't know what to call it, could it be love?

Cos me self be they love, even if not with my heart but head
I tire o bross grin
Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by kellyJames5(m): 12:54pm On Oct 26, 2014
Sanjayzworld:


You are welcome!

Did you have accident or how did it happen?
Actually,it happened when I was still a kid,
We went cashew-plucking,when we got to a particular cashew tree,we saw this well ripped cashew fruit on it. We started stoning it,unfortunately,nobody was able to stone it down.
Then,I told them;'since non of us was able to stone the thing down,one person should climb the tree',they all declined,
So,I volunteered to climb on one condition-that no body should throw stick or stone on that tree so long I'm on the tree. They all agreed.
Not until I'm almost plucking the nut,that one boy threw a stick and it landed on my eye,from then till now,I've been suffering the embarrassment and labelled '4 0'clock eye'.

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Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by brownlord: 12:54pm On Oct 26, 2014
pansophist:


Only if those silly girls will understand it the way you do. It is matured to let go of what you've given to a partner as a gift but in this case, the answer is definitely NO. She was patiently waiting to have the phone and deliberately dumped this guy aftermath, it will be an outmost foolishness for the OP to ignore that phone. The guyman is still even paying for the phone painfully, couple with heartbreak, and you are claiming maturity, lol grin

Your logic will be acceptable if the breakup was due to some reasons that was beyind their reconcilations (maybe she has to move due to education), definitely not in a case of scam.

Bro what are you saying? This Is no maturity, if we should talk of maturity, the fact that he stupidly got a phone that he will pay for with 1 year salary, bros reason am now ( no woman is worth it) I mean a phone haba

The girl was waiting to get the phone, ask the op if that girl was with him on that same birthday, I doubt if that girl spent the whole day with him, the relationship ended a long time ago, the op was only trying to patch patch the wannabe relationship with his meagre salary, I mean who does that, buy a phone of 130k to pay with your monthly s salary for a period of 12 months, can he do same for his siblings? is that the kind of guy you want me to encourage to get the phone back? The guy is a coward and can't even go get the phone even If you advise him to, a matured guy won't do what he did.

Listen no girl, no matter how heartless will just dump a guy two days after receiving such a gift, the baby has bn rocking another bobo, and the op want to keep servicing the union with his salary. Sorry the baby don't need a civil servant like salary.

I swear If the op na my friend, I personally go order em beating

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Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by redcliff: 12:55pm On Oct 26, 2014
Tallesty1:
I'm certain that 90% of the likers of this comment would be people that collected big gifts from their partner and dumped them later.










I beg you in Gods name@OP. To jejely collect your phone if you can.

Someone who does not love you do not deserve your gift.

She knew for sure that she would breakup with you yet she collected it.

To hell with maturity.


Please use ur brain next time you wanna date.

Well as matured as i am. Goven the circumstances this happened, i would collect the phone back.. mind you he's still paying for it..its too painful to forego.
Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by somcherry(f): 12:56pm On Oct 26, 2014
She wanted to brk up with u and u bought her a fone, to make her change her mind grin grin.
U didn't even tell us the real reason why she broke up with u. U were just beating around the bush,claiming to be the victim.

This is a lesson to guys who think they can buy a gals love with gifts and money.
NDO!!!


*unfollows*

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Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by redcliff: 12:56pm On Oct 26, 2014
faithugo64:
op you already made a mistake, you have to live with it. Just be careful next time. Always use your head not your heart!!! Sorry bros


What do you mean careful next time. Do you predict these types of things?
Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by lacasa: 12:57pm On Oct 26, 2014
chymystique:
@op, IMO I think you should free the phone for her cause if you could bring out 130k to buy a lady phone that means u are bigger than the 130k. Don't worry That phone won't last long with her because nemesis will surely come visiting her soon.. How come immediately she dumped you she had another boyfriend? E be like say you were just a MAGA undecided .. That girl is mean oo.

That's why before you invest too much in a girl be sure of your position in her heart and I don't blame guys that don't invest in their girlfriends cause na this kin story wey dey come out from it.

In other words, if your mind wants to collect the phone back then do because she doesn't deserve it @ all.






Damn! I'm not one to mind these kinda threads bt Op, follow this comment to the letter.

It's a 50/50 choice.



#... Some Women though! *smh*
Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by darlingnuel(m): 12:57pm On Oct 26, 2014
Herrmes:
Sex even if it is 500 times is not equal to 130,000- Quentin's law of Bedmatics
Chai, see correct quote. I'm endorsing this quote in ur name asap... LMAO
Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by Sunshinelady(f): 12:58pm On Oct 26, 2014
KingTom:

Wiches! grin grin grin
. God forbid. Am an angel. smiley smiley
Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by Nobody: 12:58pm On Oct 26, 2014
keyman0007:





please! what do you mean disgracing himself over a phone, You havent met him so you dont know how valuable 100k is to him, the fact he is still paying shows he is sacrificing, apparently the lady doesnt deserve it. Yes he gave her freely, nw he wants to collect it back freely it was a mistake. If its a one of gift whhich he is paying for fine, but he is still paying. Haba!


Op already made up his mind before giving her the gift that he would pay over a period of time.
100k wsnt a big deal for op at the point of buying and giving the gift.
Stop pitying him
Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by Nobody: 12:59pm On Oct 26, 2014
Op, you have not cut your coat according to your size. You do not give people what you can not afford. Maybe you have always tried to impress the babe with money and material things to make her stay. Now that she is gone, you want your gift back! Why the heck is it called a gift in the first place.
Let go and continue to pay your debt. God bless you brother Jide cheesy
Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by delmavic(m): 12:59pm On Oct 26, 2014
Mobebi:
bygones are bygones.its painful sha but don't worry abt it, she will regret her actions later. whatever u do for love, don't regret. I know how u feel and its painful.

let maturity have its way.. why would u wanna get it back? if u do,its childish!
4whr , he should not 4get d fone 4 her aiit , cos if she doesn't seen him as maga she would hv drop d fone 4 him on d day of breaking up .
Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by Nobody: 1:00pm On Oct 26, 2014
IF couples collect back their engagement ring when they split i see no reason why you cant collect your phone.

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Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by Nobody: 1:01pm On Oct 26, 2014
pansophist:


So sex is also not a gift from a man to a girl too abi?

You no get sense, seriously.
Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by Herrmes: 1:01pm On Oct 26, 2014
darlingnuel:
Chai, see correct quote. I'm endorsing this quote in ur name asap... LMAO
Thank you, I am proud to contribute scientifically to this matter, I'm sure the quote would help move Nigeria forward grin

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