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Re: Confronting The Mistress by Nobody: 8:01pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
moca: Please call a meeting oh so ya picture and story can end up here then our menisist will have a field day "telling us so" how una dey pretend online but worship husband pass [color=][/color] 1 Like |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by Nobody: 8:02pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
edwife:Nne, as una get strength, abeg helep me do d fighting I will roger u accordingly |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by freecocoa(f): 8:03pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
Sophyrocks:You couldn't have said it better. |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by Nobody: 8:03pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by Nobody: 8:05pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
Nashville: Nashville, how about ladies who never dated married men yet when they got married their husbands cheated on them still? Even ladies who were virgins before they got married? What is the cause of that? Is that karma as well? And does karma only affect women? how about men who chase married women? younger men who are gigolos? Are they free from karma. 2 Likes |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by Nobody: 8:05pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
Nonso23: Let him knock himself out. Its not about winning or loosing but what makes me happy, calm and in peace. Dealing with a cheating man and his mistress is not part of my life plan. Goodluck to them. |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by Nobody: 8:07pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
aisha2:Ur head correct! Wait a minute. Assuming its one ekaite dey handle d bobo, na so i go call ekaite(maybe she is only 19)right? How will i even start? If ekaite tells me in my face that i cant hold my man cos i cant satisfy him bedmaticall, what will i say? Na to pray make ground open and swallow me now 1 Like |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by Nobody: 8:08pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by coogar: 8:08pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
damiso: men are wired differently to women. do you agree to that or not? obviously - some men cheat cos they need to tick their bucket-list & some do cheat cos they are deprived in their marriage. freecocoa: they cannot do it - it takes a lot for a woman to spread her legs for a random abeg. she musta thought about the risk & the reward and blah blah. a man, on the other hand, don't need 10 secs to smash a chic he never knew when he woke up on the day. men can easily adapt to the hi - bang - bye steps than women.
this bit that you termed self control is exactly my point. this your self control = risk assessment. you are thinking of the consequences and the rewards. it's not a spontaneous reaction. it must have taken you few days to arrive at the conclusion to cheat. a man can see a babe for the first time at the bus-stop and shäg her senseless the next minute. he doesn't need romance, deep thoughts or weigh the consequences before doing it. to him, sėx is an itch that need to be scratched. he's not investing an iota of emotions on it. he just wants to get off |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by freecocoa(f): 8:08pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
Nonso23:I definitely will not stay with a man who disrespects me that much( I wonder what has to be at stake for me to stay), this thread is obviously for women with no self esteem whatsoever. If your husband loves/respects you, he would be on his knees begging if he's ever caught cheating, a man who eggs on his mistress to beat his wife is definitely over the wife, so why fight to keep him? |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by Nobody: 8:10pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
Sophyrocks:Abeg leave nash alone He is tired Tomorrow, he wont bring this type of topic up again |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by beeevan: 8:11pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
coogar: |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by Nobody: 8:11pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by beeevan: 8:12pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
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Re: Confronting The Mistress by Nobody: 8:12pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
coogar:I can say, i agree with u. |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by freecocoa(f): 8:13pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
coogar:This discussion is only going to end up with us talking, gender inequality/equality. The society brought about the risk assessment in women not nature. |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by Nobody: 8:15pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
freecocoa: I tire o. Fight to keep him so that what will happen? So that i will be paid/given award for being superwoman? 1 Like |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by damiso(f): 8:17pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
coogar: Coogar my point was more about a conversation we had earlier where you said cheating is a byproduct of something wrong with the wife and the cheated party is to blame for not putting it right eg by losing weight. .you just said women tend to be the ones who cheat cos they are not getting something from their husbands. 1 Like |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by Nobody: 8:18pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
Nonso23: Nope I am saying I wont stay with a cheating partner. You asked who would loose and I said its not about winning or loosing, he will be gone she can have him and they can live happily ever after. |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by Nobody: 8:18pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by Nobody: 8:18pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
moca: Me sef tire because the way dem dey talk of karma karma karma like say na only woman e dey affect. Women wey dey cheat nowadays, that one no be karma affecting the men? I think its karma too. |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by armyofone(m): 8:18pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
It will be difficult not to confront the woman in reality. Confronting the man is best... deal with him first after all he is closer. Remember Betty Broderick and Clara Harris who grated her husband with expensive Mercedes Benz by the parking lots...guys have been eating from both sides since before Noah 's rain. |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by Nobody: 8:21pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by freecocoa(f): 8:26pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
Nonso23:First and foremost, I have to make sure he's not a serial liar/cheat before marrying him(the signs are always there) but in a situation where I had no reason to suspect him and he cheats after marriage, i'll try and work it out, if it happens again, then I'll know I made a mistake marrying him. I still maintain, don't talk to the mistress, you make her important if you do that, especially if your husband has promised to retrace his steps, leave him to clean up his mess, that way he'll be more responsible. |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by Nobody: 8:27pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
moca: I dont fight . I go straight to the teeth, one blow, three out. All my hubbys ex girlfriends are missing some dents. Go figure 1 Like |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by damiso(f): 8:29pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
Nonso23: You are right to an extent..a husband who cheated e.g one night stand at his friends stag do (not saying this is also right) and is truly repentant is different from a cheating husband who keeps mistresses..a mistress means steady means a relationship so why further make it seem like you and her are competing for his affections when he might keep returning to her. . |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by Nobody: 8:29pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
freecocoa: Cheating is a science of its own, But cheating without getting caught is technology. Guess what, cheating while your wife thinks you are a perfect gentleman, born again, neo-perfect is called Engineering. Guess if I am a scientist, a technician or an engineer. |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by EfemenaXY: 8:29pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
moca: Nor be epistle jare. That her post dey vex pessin wella... |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by Nobody: 8:29pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
coogar: She has started entering kitchen. Have you paid the bride price ? Abi na chop clean mouth una dey |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by Nobody: 8:32pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
edwife: L'argent est jamais suffit. Beaucoup d'impôt . |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by bukatyne(f): 8:33pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
moca: LOL! |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by freecocoa(f): 8:33pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
Billyonaire:Lmao . Just why do you men think you are smarter than women? What you don't know is that a woman can beat you at this game you claim is yours. You better don't ever get caught cheating, once you are caught, chances are high, that if your wife is smart, you'll find it difficult cheating again. |
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