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Johnnoo:
I love you MrsBreezy

Lol why?

killjoy:
readers discretion adviced: this is a long post. get a bowl of popcorn and your glasses. turn off the TV , you don't want to get distracted. if it took me time to write such a lengthy post, I wonder why you should complain about reading it. below are the reasons.

1. We're too different to live together: women love people and relationships, men love objects (like cars, houses, gadgets, game consoles etc), a man's lot is his career, a woman's is marriage (according to the curse after the fall of man), women are indirect, men are always direct, men want sex before they develop feelings for women, women can't have sex without emotional attachment first(unless they r who.res, even if they are who.res lolzzz), a man wants to hv sex, a woman wants to make love (I swear she doesn't even mind just cuddling), men see having dinner as a time to quench hunger, women see having dinner as time for bonding, let me continue? A married man without money feels unfulfilled, a wealthy woman without a man feels similarly, I can go on and on! But no time, my point, you need a lot of patience, tolerance, understanding, endurance, compromise etc to survive in marriage. But life is too short, stay single and be free to be urself or get married and spend the rest of your life struggling to be another person. Continue reading, this is just one of seven.

2. Love doesn't exist: if you intend to stake your future with a woman on an emotion as erratic as love, then you need to have ur head examined. Love is an emotional convulsion which, like other sicknesses, are recovered from with time. Experience has thought me that a woman's love is only skin deep, but you can accentuate it with money. Ohhhh how women react to the smell of cash. Bleep love and go make some muller.

3. You don't need a child: the world will remember you by the kids you left behind. That's a big fat lie!! You don't need a carbon copy of yourself roaming the earth after your demise to ensure your immortality. Instead, the world will remember you by the feats you surmounted! Obama will be remembered not as the father of, I don't even know his child's name and I don't give a fvck bout it! But as the first black US President. Mother Theresa never had a child, Einstein's legacy is not his kids but his discoveries. My point! You are not remembered by the kids you had but the records you set. But if you badly want a kid, adopt one, or get a baby mama and impregnate her but never, never get married just to have kids. marriage is too great a price to pay.

4. There is absolutely nothing new marriage has to offer you: just be honest with yourself. A family? You already belong to one (or do you think you just appeared out of thin air?), love? Your mother loves you like die, trust moi. A woman to manage your home? Get a maid! pay her well and she will manage your home without complications like disrespecting you, PMS, etc. Sex? Gone are the days men marry for sex ooo!!! Sex is damn cheap, you don't need marriage to enjoy it. By the way, what makes you think getting married entitles you to sex when you want it, ie, if at all?? U never jam female Hitler. Continue reading, I'm not even close to the end.

5. Marriage is expensive: a woman's problems end when she gets married (at least on financial level), while a man's problems just begin. Most ladies don't have plans of making money(some stop after getting married). for a woman, after graduating from uni, a husband is top on d list above a job ie, if a job is on the list. Guys, stay alone and worry for one. Apart from financially, marriage drains you emotionally. You have to deal with a partner suffering from PMS five days in a month for life (by the time she reaches menopause, you'd be probably dead) and when she ain't suffering PMS, its worse cos she is pregnant!! Don't forget regular mood swings, test games, among other complicated female emotional ailments. Plus wait till you get divorced before you know how much financially and emotionally expensive marriage could be. That brings us to...

6. It may end up in divorce: possible causes of divorce. She gains weight, sex with one person for years gone stale and boring, the love (or whatever dumb ass name you call it) fades, you want a new woman, (men are polygamous by nature, hard truth. Deal with it), she is no longer the woman you married, (true, women do change after marriage for many reasons, that is story for another day), you cheat on her, she cheats on you, many many more. Don't scar yourself with a painful divorce. Stay single and happy.

7. You get to focus on your dreams without distractions. Like I said earlier, a man's career is his lot (or curse). As s man if you haven't got a successful career, you will probably die unhappy and unproductive. The compromise you have to make to keep her happy will retard you from achieving your dreams to the fullest. Pleasing a woman and pursuing your dreams are mutually exclusive. don't get married.

disclaimer: its ironic when people say honesty is a virtue yet can't bear to hear (or read) the truth.

nota bene: I am not prejudiced towards women. I hate all equally.

. No body said marriage was easy.From your post it doesn't sound like you will ever get married and if you were married it must have been terrible. Well we all have our views. Change is constant you didn't fall out of the thin air ow long until you seek that companionship.your family won't always be there things will happen they will change and the only thing that will bring you comfort is your immediate family not your father not your mother nor your sisters or brother.if you say I won't get lonely then you just lied to yourself.you have your whole life ahead of you.who knows#change happens

killjoy:
a man's lot is his career, a woman's is marriage.

No wonder they'v been shooting from every angle to defend their lot but dat's d order of nature. They'v been assigned d role of companion from d very beginning, hence their instinctual obligation they try to carry out.

When pple go through terrible experiences and not even one exception, you get to see this kind of write ups! A person that has never known any close relative or friend with a good home will see marriage as hell..smh

0merta:
I feel you, Bro!

You too much!

Marriage is sure overrated in this part of the world.

I'm the kind of Nigger that loves being alone...that loves revelling in the depths of solitude and I've made up my mind a long time ago NOT to "walk down any fuckin' aisle"...

There are exceptions to all rules though. I'd gladly get married if she's a Virgin, possesses a doctorate degree from Harvard or Ox-bridge, has the qualities to knock Kim Kardashian into a cocked hat, with respect to pulchritude and voluptuousness...and finally has the capability to defeat Magnus Carlsen and Garry Kasparov in a game of Chess...

If I jam this kain woman ehn, I wouldn't only walk down the aisle with her with every cell of my heart...I'd show her boundless love, give her my all...and suck her Pu$$ie even when she's menstruating.

But the question is...this kain woman dey?

SINGLE till I die!

I hope you have all the qaulities you listed above?

So i should not marry? Am not GAY please! Thank you in advance.....

zoeee:
I'll pray for u ...

No married man is happy.

yeye dey smell for Nairaland! Human and differing opinions to life issues (dtz y we ar human jare). I think d OP mentioned dt his parents ar divorced...wat do u expect frm a product of such relationshp. I cn understand u OP, bitterness reeks! Just forgive urslf nd forgive ur parents for d misguided nd mislead views. Do somtin beta bfor u go grey...old age is d remission age

[size=18pt]I totally disagree with the OP.
Marriage is the foundation of the building of the unity of the society.
Marriage builds families and families build communities and communities build societies and societies build civilizations.
But any marriage without a woman is not matrimony, but another form of villainy that will eventually cause disharmony that is a threat to procreation and human civilization.

No man has ever succeeded without a woman.
And no man can ever be complete and fulfilled without a woman.
No woman can ever succeed without a man.
And no woman can ever be complete and fulfilled without a man.
It is in marriage that the companionship of a man and a woman achieves the greatest attainment, enjoyment and fulfillment of life.
God knew this and that is why He created Eve for Adam and then later brought the Messiah through a woman.
And it is only in marriage that the best purpose of woman can be realized and not outside it.
Most of the horrible and terrible people in the world from Hitler to Shekau came from men who never appreciated this fact.
If there was no marriage on earth, the world would have been the land of chaos.
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ogawisdom:
Op ur username is a little bit disturbin let me over look it n comment.

Now all u mentioned r d challenges of marriage jst like life is full of challenges. We cannot run alway from challenges but deal with them. I laughed when u used obama as an eg. Bc obama is happily married so to every successful man is a submissive supportive wife. Can u mention five men who lived without marrying whose lives changed d course of history anywhere in d whorld. Dt won't b easy to find mandela, dangote, bill gate, obama all married.

Op if u marry a good wife u ll apologies to NL for creating this thread n come back to delete this crap u call thread, d problem is dt they r rare to find.

A bad wife is d worst thing dt can happen to a man's life n I believe ur thread shld emphasis bad wife n 95 percent of our girls will make bad wives

So op dnt get it twisted a good wife is d best thing dt can happen to a man.

Go a bit spiritual as a christian here r d word of GOD

It is nt good for a man to b alone I ll make him a helper fit for him..........

He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor frm GOD

Marriage is God's plan for procreation n if ur father reasoned lik u, u won't b here today

Op I understannd u can't change anytin in ur first post bc d mod ve locked it but u can ask them them to change d title to " y guys r better off alone than with a bad wife" dt way u ll make most sense

Suppose you're right. OP made extremely valid point but made the error (in my opinion) of being overly certain of his stand and if there is one thing I know about this thing of ours called life is that, there are no absolutes, just relatives.

I do believe there are good women out there, but God! finding them is as unlikely as waking up to see a million dollars materializing out of thin air before your eyes.

Now I see that you only read and don't study your Bible. God and Paul's idea, which would you subscribed to?[/quote]Thank u sir! Why was Jesus not married? Oh I see, maybe Jesus was also againt God's law/authority. Jesus never got married because he understood clearly that marriage was not compulsory ( instead his assignment or purpose was ). Except you understand d Bible more than Jesus himself. Thanks!

Wisdytech:
So i should not marry? Am not GAY please! Thank you in advance.....

what does being gay have to do with marriage?

@op

You're smart !

You're loyal !

You're grateful !

I appreciate that !

You're a genius !

I HOLD YOU DOWN !

Op as an international student in Yankee, marriage is super important to get a green card abeg. If na only that one, I go marry abeg.

killjoy:
readers discretion adviced: this is a long post. get a bowl of popcorn and your glasses. turn off the TV , you don't want to get distracted. if it took me time to write such a lengthy post, I wonder why you should complain about reading it. below are the reasons.

1. We're too different to live together: women love people and relationships, men love objects (like cars, houses, gadgets, game consoles etc), a man's lot is his career, a woman's is marriage (according to the curse after the fall of man), women are indirect, men are always direct, men want sex before they develop feelings for women, women can't have sex without emotional attachment first(unless they r who.res, even if they are who.res lolzzz), a man wants to hv sex, a woman wants to make love (I swear she doesn't even mind just cuddling), men see having dinner as a time to quench hunger, women see having dinner as time for bonding, let me continue? A married man without money feels unfulfilled, a wealthy woman without a man feels similarly, I can go on and on! But no time, my point, you need a lot of patience, tolerance, understanding, endurance, compromise etc to survive in marriage. But life is too short, stay single and be free to be urself or get married and spend the rest of your life struggling to be another person. Continue reading, this is just one of seven.

2. Love doesn't exist: if you intend to stake your future with a woman on an emotion as erratic as love, then you need to have ur head examined. Love is an emotional convulsion which, like other sicknesses, are recovered from with time. Experience has thought me that a woman's love is only skin deep, but you can accentuate it with money. Ohhhh how women react to the smell of cash. Bleep love and go make some muller.

3. You don't need a child: the world will remember you by the kids you left behind. That's a big fat lie!! You don't need a carbon copy of yourself roaming the earth after your demise to ensure your immortality. Instead, the world will remember you by the feats you surmounted! Obama will be remembered not as the father of, I don't even know his child's name and I don't give a fvck bout it! But as the first black US President. Mother Theresa never had a child, Einstein's legacy is not his kids but his discoveries. My point! You are not remembered by the kids you had but the records you set. But if you badly want a kid, adopt one, or get a baby mama and impregnate her but never, never get married just to have kids. marriage is too great a price to pay.

4. There is absolutely nothing new marriage has to offer you: just be honest with yourself. A family? You already belong to one (or do you think you just appeared out of thin air?), love? Your mother loves you like die, trust moi. A woman to manage your home? Get a maid! pay her well and she will manage your home without complications like disrespecting you, PMS, etc. Sex? Gone are the days men marry for sex ooo!!! Sex is damn cheap, you don't need marriage to enjoy it. By the way, what makes you think getting married entitles you to sex when you want it, ie, if at all?? U never jam female Hitler. Continue reading, I'm not even close to the end.

5. Marriage is expensive: a woman's problems end when she gets married (at least on financial level), while a man's problems just begin. Most ladies don't have plans of making money(some stop after getting married). for a woman, after graduating from uni, a husband is top on d list above a job ie, if a job is on the list. Guys, stay alone and worry for one. Apart from financially, marriage drains you emotionally. You have to deal with a partner suffering from PMS five days in a month for life (by the time she reaches menopause, you'd be probably dead) and when she ain't suffering PMS, its worse cos she is pregnant!! Don't forget regular mood swings, test games, among other complicated female emotional ailments. Plus wait till you get divorced before you know how much financially and emotionally expensive marriage could be. That brings us to...

6. It may end up in divorce: possible causes of divorce. She gains weight, sex with one person for years gone stale and boring, the love (or whatever dumb ass name you call it) fades, you want a new woman, (men are polygamous by nature, hard truth. Deal with it), she is no longer the woman you married, (true, women do change after marriage for many reasons, that is story for another day), you cheat on her, she cheats on you, many many more. Don't scar yourself with a painful divorce. Stay single and happy.

7. You get to focus on your dreams without distractions. Like I said earlier, a man's career is his lot (or curse). As s man if you haven't got a successful career, you will probably die unhappy and unproductive. The compromise you have to make to keep her happy will retard you from achieving your dreams to the fullest. Pleasing a woman and pursuing your dreams are mutually exclusive. don't get married.

disclaimer: its ironic when people say honesty is a virtue yet can't bear to hear (or read) the truth.

nota bene: I am not prejudiced towards women. I hate all equally.

austine4real:
Ga.y thread pee on it
Ur mum shud av flush u out since b4 u bcom foetus ma.d man

So anybody without a wife is gay? Even ur sis runs fast to marry a rich bastard...well none is called that when the kid is with d man or d man shows to show concern.

killjoy:
readers discretion adviced: this is a long post. get a bowl of popcorn and your glasses. turn off the TV , you don't want to get distracted. if it took me time to write such a lengthy post, I wonder why you should complain about reading it. below are the reasons.

1. We're too different to live together: women love people and relationships, men love objects (like cars, houses, gadgets, game consoles etc), a man's lot is his career, a woman's is marriage (according to the curse after the fall of man), women are indirect, men are always direct, men want sex before they develop feelings for women, women can't have sex without emotional attachment first(unless they r who.res, even if they are who.res lolzzz), a man wants to hv sex, a woman wants to make love (I swear she doesn't even mind just cuddling), men see having dinner as a time to quench hunger, women see having dinner as time for bonding, let me continue? A married man without money feels unfulfilled, a wealthy woman without a man feels similarly, I can go on and on! But no time, my point, you need a lot of patience, tolerance, understanding, endurance, compromise etc to survive in marriage. But life is too short, stay single and be free to be urself or get married and spend the rest of your life struggling to be another person. Continue reading, this is just one of seven.

2. Love doesn't exist: if you intend to stake your future with a woman on an emotion as erratic as love, then you need to have ur head examined. Love is an emotional convulsion which, like other sicknesses, are recovered from with time. Experience has thought me that a woman's love is only skin deep, but you can accentuate it with money. Ohhhh how women react to the smell of cash. Bleep love and go make some muller.

3. You don't need a child: the world will remember you by the kids you left behind. That's a big fat lie!! You don't need a carbon copy of yourself roaming the earth after your demise to ensure your immortality. Instead, the world will remember you by the feats you surmounted! Obama will be remembered not as the father of, I don't even know his child's name and I don't give a fvck bout it! But as the first black US President. Mother Theresa never had a child, Einstein's legacy is not his kids but his discoveries. My point! You are not remembered by the kids you had but the records you set. But if you badly want a kid, adopt one, or get a baby mama and impregnate her but never, never get married just to have kids. marriage is too great a price to pay.

4. There is absolutely nothing new marriage has to offer you: just be honest with yourself. A family? You already belong to one (or do you think you just appeared out of thin air?), love? Your mother loves you like die, trust moi. A woman to manage your home? Get a maid! pay her well and she will manage your home without complications like disrespecting you, PMS, etc. Sex? Gone are the days men marry for sex ooo!!! Sex is damn cheap, you don't need marriage to enjoy it. By the way, what makes you think getting married entitles you to sex when you want it, ie, if at all?? U never jam female Hitler. Continue reading, I'm not even close to the end.

5. Marriage is expensive: a woman's problems end when she gets married (at least on financial level), while a man's problems just begin. Most ladies don't have plans of making money(some stop after getting married). for a woman, after graduating from uni, a husband is top on d list above a job ie, if a job is on the list. Guys, stay alone and worry for one. Apart from financially, marriage drains you emotionally. You have to deal with a partner suffering from PMS five days in a month for life (by the time she reaches menopause, you'd be probably dead) and when she ain't suffering PMS, its worse cos she is pregnant!! Don't forget regular mood swings, test games, among other complicated female emotional ailments. Plus wait till you get divorced before you know how much financially and emotionally expensive marriage could be. That brings us to...

6. It may end up in divorce: possible causes of divorce. She gains weight, sex with one person for years gone stale and boring, the love (or whatever dumb ass name you call it) fades, you want a new woman, (men are polygamous by nature, hard truth. Deal with it), she is no longer the woman you married, (true, women do change after marriage for many reasons, that is story for another day), you cheat on her, she cheats on you, many many more. Don't scar yourself with a painful divorce. Stay single and happy.

7. You get to focus on your dreams without distractions. Like I said earlier, a man's career is his lot (or curse). As s man if you haven't got a successful career, you will probably die unhappy and unproductive. The compromise you have to make to keep her happy will retard you from achieving your dreams to the fullest. Pleasing a woman and pursuing your dreams are mutually exclusive. don't get married.

disclaimer: its ironic when people say honesty is a virtue yet can't bear to hear (or read) the truth.

nota bene: I am not prejudiced towards women. I hate all equally.

true talk

MrsBreezy:
Lol why?

Going through your responses with Op...that's absolutely BRILLIANT

A very poor man lived with his wife. One day, his wife, who had very long hair asked him to buy her a comb for her hair to grow well and to be well-groomed.

The man felt very sorry and said no. He explained that he did not even have enough money to fix the strap of his watch he had just broken.

She did not insist on her request.

The man went to work and passed by a watch shop, sold his damaged watch at a low price and went to buy a comb for his wife.
He came home in the evening with the comb in his hand ready to give to his wife.

He was surprised when he saw his wife with a very short hair cut. She had sold her hair and was holding a new watch band.

Tears flowed simultaneously from their eyes, not for the futility of their actions, but for the reciprocity of their love.

Moral of the story: To love is nothing, to be loved is something but to love and to be loved by the one you love, that is everything.

killjoy:
readers discretion adviced: this is a long post. get a bowl of popcorn and your glasses. turn off the TV , you don't want to get distracted. if it took me time to write such a lengthy post, I wonder why you should complain about reading it. below are the reasons.

1. We're too different to live together: women love people and relationships, men love objects (like cars, houses, gadgets, game consoles etc), a man's lot is his career, a woman's is marriage (according to the curse after the fall of man), women are indirect, men are always direct, men want sex before they develop feelings for women, women can't have sex without emotional attachment first(unless they r who.res, even if they are who.res lolzzz), a man wants to hv sex, a woman wants to make love (I swear she doesn't even mind just cuddling), men see having dinner as a time to quench hunger, women see having dinner as time for bonding, let me continue? A married man without money feels unfulfilled, a wealthy woman without a man feels similarly, I can go on and on! But no time, my point, you need a lot of patience, tolerance, understanding, endurance, compromise etc to survive in marriage. But life is too short, stay single and be free to be urself or get married and spend the rest of your life struggling to be another person. Continue reading, this is just one of seven.

2. Love doesn't exist: if you intend to stake your future with a woman on an emotion as erratic as love, then you need to have ur head examined. Love is an emotional convulsion which, like other sicknesses, are recovered from with time. Experience has thought me that a woman's love is only skin deep, but you can accentuate it with money. Ohhhh how women react to the smell of cash. Bleep love and go make some muller.

3. You don't need a child: the world will remember you by the kids you left behind. That's a big fat lie!! You don't need a carbon copy of yourself roaming the earth after your demise to ensure your immortality. Instead, the world will remember you by the feats you surmounted! Obama will be remembered not as the father of, I don't even know his child's name and I don't give a fvck bout it! But as the first black US President. Mother Theresa never had a child, Einstein's legacy is not his kids but his discoveries. My point! You are not remembered by the kids you had but the records you set. But if you badly want a kid, adopt one, or get a baby mama and impregnate her but never, never get married just to have kids. marriage is too great a price to pay.

4. There is absolutely nothing new marriage has to offer you: just be honest with yourself. A family? You already belong to one (or do you think you just appeared out of thin air?), love? Your mother loves you like die, trust moi. A woman to manage your home? Get a maid! pay her well and she will manage your home without complications like disrespecting you, PMS, etc. Sex? Gone are the days men marry for sex ooo!!! Sex is damn cheap, you don't need marriage to enjoy it. By the way, what makes you think getting married entitles you to sex when you want it, ie, if at all?? U never jam female Hitler. Continue reading, I'm not even close to the end.

5. Marriage is expensive: a woman's problems end when she gets married (at least on financial level), while a man's problems just begin. Most ladies don't have plans of making money(some stop after getting married). for a woman, after graduating from uni, a husband is top on d list above a job ie, if a job is on the list. Guys, stay alone and worry for one. Apart from financially, marriage drains you emotionally. You have to deal with a partner suffering from PMS five days in a month for life (by the time she reaches menopause, you'd be probably dead) and when she ain't suffering PMS, its worse cos she is pregnant!! Don't forget regular mood swings, test games, among other complicated female emotional ailments. Plus wait till you get divorced before you know how much financially and emotionally expensive marriage could be. That brings us to...

6. It may end up in divorce: possible causes of divorce. She gains weight, sex with one person for years gone stale and boring, the love (or whatever dumb ass name you call it) fades, you want a new woman, (men are polygamous by nature, hard truth. Deal with it), she is no longer the woman you married, (true, women do change after marriage for many reasons, that is story for another day), you cheat on her, she cheats on you, many many more. Don't scar yourself with a painful divorce. Stay single and happy.

7. You get to focus on your dreams without distractions. Like I said earlier, a man's career is his lot (or curse). As s man if you haven't got a successful career, you will probably die unhappy and unproductive. The compromise you have to make to keep her happy will retard you from achieving your dreams to the fullest. Pleasing a woman and pursuing your dreams are mutually exclusive. don't get married.

disclaimer: its ironic when people say honesty is a virtue yet can't bear to hear (or read) the truth.

nota bene: I am not prejudiced towards women. I hate all equally.

Guy I owe u one legend!

A woman can be the success and also the downfall of a man,dats where u nid GoD,u jst nid him 2 direct u..Believe me when u are Wit d right person,u'd still wanna come back married 2 her in ur 2nd life...marriage is beautiful but love itself is overrated!

Op u are right to an extend but when age tells on u will know better ,u may not understand d importancy of having a family until u could not be able to mix water for ur bathing ...the merit is endless, and mind u one thing must kill a man.
As for me,my kids are my source of joy and happiness(i cant trade dem with anything under the sun) plus my adorable wife who always stand by me in the time of needy.
In a nutshell, what works for mr A may not work for Mr B.

MrsBreezy:
You're a bit pessimistic.

Not a bit, he's a pathological pessimist.

Op,When u are on your Deathbed u will understand.

boofydon:
Take another look at the OP's arguement from an objective standpoint sire

I agree with 80% of the argument but his conclusion of SEX being cheap nullifies his good case and sense of judgement

10 yrs ago, i will agree with you. probably in yrs to come you will get a clearer understanding

;DWomen have been a source of distraction to Men since the days of Adam

All these are valid sha, but these are basically the disadvantages of marriage. But then, very one needs someone; even God thinks so.

MrsBreezy:
True. But you can make realism optimistic. After reading this(if I was a man) I wouldn't want to get married.

am seriously having a second thought bout getting married o.

networkrecharg:
A very poor man lived with his wife. One day, his wife, who had very long hair asked him to buy her a comb for her hair to grow well and to be well-groomed.

The man felt very sorry and said no. He explained that he did not even have enough money to fix the strap of his watch he had just broken.

She did not insist on her request.

The man went to work and passed by a watch shop, sold his damaged watch at a low price and went to buy a comb for his wife.
He came home in the evening with the comb in his hand ready to give to his wife.

He was surprised when he saw his wife with a very short hair cut. She had sold her hair and was holding a new watch band.

Tears flowed simultaneously from their eyes, not for the futility of their actions, but for the reciprocity of their love.

Moral of the story: To love is nothing, to be loved is something but to love and to be loved by the one you love, that is everything.

so much luv this

Missmossy:
Chai!

Exactly!

rosebase:
A nitwit! Lol, my advice for u is to up ur game. I guess their is a reason why girls dislike u in d real world, and that explain why u open a crap thread like this. it's so obvious u come here to vent ur frustration bcs girls disassociate themselves from u.

So my advice for u is this - take ur bathe every day, brush ur teeth atleast twice a day bcs ur bad breath is disastrous to we girls, and always change that ur dirty smelly cloth, use deodorant regularly so as to prevent ur body odour.

after doing this - u would see that u would not only attract "pls snd me recharge cards babe" but also girls who will feed u and clothe u.

and for ur info, am a Nigerian. it's just dat I dnt mix with urchins like u in d real world.

Seriously ooo! because his post got me wondering if this recharge card girl and others are equally working class girls that can fend for themselves or well brought up decent girls that are from good homes. A lesson to you guys, don't go to the ghettos OR Badooo (online dateing site) and ask girls out then start coming here to generalized the outcome of your date with low life. I believe if you go for a decent lady that is from a decent and responsible home, you wont come across recharge card babe. pls. you guys should just stop generalizing..

traware:
Hmm...you sound exactly like me.Women must have shown you hell like they've also shown me.From my personal experience,marriage,women and children are a total waste of time and energy.Married men are slaves to their wives and children.My advice to young men out there is to never ever get married instead,use that energy to build a business or concentrate on better endeavours.Louis Vuitton,Harley Davidson,Steve Jobs even Lipton,these are all men who are dead and gone but their legacies live on.Do you think I'm lying?Pray tell,what is the name of Chinua Achebes' wife/wives?How many child/children does he have?There is no such thing as 'happily married',its an oxymoron.its like saying a person is 'happily dead'.Read the book "The Manipulated Man" by Esther Vilar and learn more

You guys are my REAL brothers!