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cooljoe:
o babes, u must forgive me, I sent d mail only to discover t got stuckk somwhere in limbo. I luv u too much to leave u hanging

MrsBreezy:
Its fine. No problemo. Sure thing

Thavik:
Shiiit, this is the reason why i amrude, confident, charming, I make girls feel like they are replaceable, cos they are..@ op, don't be sad, from you previous posts, it seems you still believe in the traditional ways or should I say the Hollywood induced ways of wooing girls, bro its all not true, just being a confident guy with stuff to do is good enough..i don't ask girls out, I talk to them like normal human beings, tell them I like their body, and make them give me a reason to like them for their personality, if u want to learn, reply, I will guide u through. You don't have to be a player, just when you learn these stuffs,you can get a girlfriend. P.s. I'm not selling any product, I just feel for the op, its really annoying how girls behave

sosalekins:
I made up my mind the moment I saw her that she was the one for me.. I was ready to be with only her alone.
I asked if he really liked the girl and he told me bluntly that he only wants her #kini. ... He further asked if he should leave the girl for me,, his statement actually angered me.. I've never begged to have a girl neither would I stoop so low to beg my friend to free a girl for me.. What crap!
I told him its gonno be a fair try though I was the first to meet her,, I told him he's free to make advances at the girl and whosoever she chooses, the other just has to let go.. He laughed and agreed and we both insisted not to mention that we are both friends to the girl!
Honestly speaking I've never been a womanizer, if am real about a girl, am real! Is her and no one else.. And this particular girl had occupied the deepest part of my heart.. I officially became a mugu.. I would buy her presents, subscribe her BIS even if my MTN internet bundle is remaining 5mb.. At a point I was thinking about hiring a musicIan to Serenade her (yeah, I liked her like that).. I wasn't really doing this because I feared loosing her to my friend, but plainly because I like her so much.

sosalekins:
say whatever you want... We're like brothers.. I've got no ish with him, we've spoken and we cool.
I was just so into this girl and am sad he's just using her for pleasure when she could be getting assurance with me....... Her decision though.
And concerning being a player............. Its never been my thing!
But have learnt my lesson.

tiswell:
Op,u seem to be too nice,instead of being nice,and that is wat most ladies categorize as FRIENDZONE...MEN are not emotional by nature,dey r logical,become less emotional with ladies and save ya self from further *stories that touches***

andromida:
Wailing like Bob marley's wailers. A girl occupied the deepest part of your heart and you played a game with her?hehehehe

You lost the game and want to blame the girl, which fuji musician did you plan to hire? Serenade for how naw? Why didn't you drop your ego and tell your player friend to back off look who is wailing now When you play with what you want, this is what you get. You even allowed your player friend to use something you claim you treasure abeg stop the joke.

A good story to pass along the message that girls love players and good guys are mugus. They deceive una sef.

sosalekins:
look here..
There's something we guys don't beg for.. And asking a pal to free a girl for you is part of the DON'ts!
Do you know how degrading it is?
Especially if its a girl you wanna get serious with..
If after you succeed in winning the girl, he's not gonno respect your relationship,, he'll be like '' you got her because I allowed you to''..
You're a girl and I don't expect you to understand this.........
We can ask for anything, but definitely not matters involving a relationship with a girl..

Obalende:
this is the fundamental problem with christianity...
I for one am permanently releasing myself from these judeo christian injunctions!
What women respond to is bad boy, sex before marriage, hard to get, already married and non of the courting non-sense prescribed by religion.

Stories like this are self evident assurance of my non belief in monogamy, marriage, sex before marriage avoidance (im not too keen on sex anyway), replaceability of women at all times once they no longer serve my purpose.

sosalekins:
this has nothing to do with Christianity nor religion.. And it seems you're so stressed on se+x and multiple satisfaction..
There are more important things than those..
And besides, you've got the right to choose your religion so do not castigate a religion because you're unable to abide by its precepts.
The end is all that tells.

cooljoe:
my baby, good morning. How r u today, hoe ur good.

sosalekins:
I really feel sad posting this..
months ago I met this girl which seemed to be worth my time.. She was good looking, intelligent and decent.- basic criterias I needed to settle down with a lady.
I approached her and stated my intention,, she didn't give me a yes/no..
She said she would consider it......... Cool! As a gentle guy, I didn't dispute her decision but neither did I give up effort to convince her to accept my proposal.
weeks into wooing and tryna win the heart of this girl, my very close friend visited me at my apartment and we started gisting.
The dude naturally is a player, and he lives somewhat promiscously..
We talking about someone that changes girls like sanitary pad!
As we started talking I asked him about his latest conquest and he told me he told me he's planning to run a girl he met on Facebook days ago..
He further went ahead to show me her photos.. Talking a glance at the picture of the girl, I went mute! This is the same girl have been wooing since for 'weeks'!..
He asked why I seemed shocked and I told him am also interest in the same girl. He laughed, but I wasn't laughing... Believe me guys,, I really liked this girl, I made up my mind the moment I saw her that she was the one for me.. I was ready to be with only her alone.
I asked if he really liked the girl and he told me bluntly that he only wants her #kini. ... He further asked if he should leave the girl for me,, his statement actually angered me.. I've never begged to have a girl neither would I stoop so low to beg my friend to free a girl for me.. What crap!
I told him its gonno be a fair try though I was the first to meet her,, I told him he's free to make advances at the girl and whosoever she chooses, the other just has to let go.. He laughed and agreed and we both insisted not to mention that we are both friends to the girl!
Honestly speaking I've never been a womanizer, if am real about a girl, am real! Is her and no one else.. And this particular girl had occupied the deepest part of my heart.. I officially became a mugu.. I would buy her presents, subscribe her BIS even if my MTN internet bundle is remaining 5mb.. At a point I was thinking about hiring a musicIan to Serenade her (yeah, I liked her like that).. I wasn't really doing this because I feared loosing her to my friend, but plainly because I like her so much.
Each time my friend came over to visit, and the subject about the girl ensueds, he just laughs and tell me he can still leave the girl for me if I ask him to.. Seriously, if not for the fact we've been friends for ages, I would smatch his face..
I know for certain this guy wasn't making any effort to win this girl, he has never spent more than 5K for a chick before bedding her.. Sometimes the girl in question would call him and he would ignore, he would show me over 15 of her missed calls yet this girl never called me one day or else when she needs help with her school work or money..
I once lied I was sick and all she said was 'sorry'.. And visited me for 30 minutes and told me she didn't wanna contract my flu and she zoomed off!
To cut the story short, just some hours ago my Friend called and said he has bleeped the girl!
I didn't believe what he said..
Then he sent me voice notes of his conversation with the girl and also gave me his password to check his chat with the girl on Facebook..
This girl is a bleep+in piece of sh+t!
What made me angry was their s.ex chats, this girl gat no shame.. Her nude photos were all over my friend's PM's and yet i thought she was decent...
You can't imagine how angry I am right now.. I really feel like heading to the girl's house and give her a piece of my mind..
She left me (who was willing to love truly) and went for a player..........................
Infuriating enough, this my useless friend is cute, but am cute as well!
Are girls really so into players than those who really wanna take them seriously?
Honestly, I'm pissed!

Booty4me:
Op am sorry to say this .. But you are a dullard for spending your money on a girl..

Girls don't respect guys who spend on them.. Stop this act.. They will think ur not responsible

That ur friend is the #man of the year

Obalende:
sosalekins

You are being logical while the woman is responding to attractive triggers for mating (biology).

It may help you to recall that humans are primates.

hope this helps.

Obalende:
sosalekins

You are being logical while the woman is responding to attractive triggers for mating (biology).

It may help you to recall that humans are primates.

hope this helps.

sosalekins:
not really but thanks anyway.. I've never dated a girl out of sex cus I don't think its fair.. Am just gonno move on concerning the girl.

sosalekins:
I really feel sad posting this..
months ago I met this girl which seemed to be worth my time.. She was good looking, intelligent and decent.- basic criterias I needed to settle down with a lady.
I approached her and stated my intention,, she didn't give me a yes/no..
She said she would consider it......... Cool! As a gentle guy, I didn't dispute her decision but neither did I give up effort to convince her to accept my proposal.
weeks into wooing and tryna win the heart of this girl, my very close friend visited me at my apartment and we started gisting.
The dude naturally is a player, and he lives somewhat promiscously..
We talking about someone that changes girls like sanitary pad!
As we started talking I asked him about his latest conquest and he told me he told me he's planning to run a girl he met on Facebook days ago..
He further went ahead to show me her photos.. Talking a glance at the picture of the girl, I went mute! This is the same girl have been wooing since for 'weeks'!..
He asked why I seemed shocked and I told him am also interest in the same girl. He laughed, but I wasn't laughing... Believe me guys,, I really liked this girl, I made up my mind the moment I saw her that she was the one for me.. I was ready to be with only her alone.
I asked if he really liked the girl and he told me bluntly that he only wants her #kini. ... He further asked if he should leave the girl for me,, his statement actually angered me.. I've never begged to have a girl neither would I stoop so low to beg my friend to free a girl for me.. What crap!
I told him its gonno be a fair try though I was the first to meet her,, I told him he's free to make advances at the girl and whosoever she chooses, the other just has to let go.. He laughed and agreed and we both insisted not to mention that we are both friends to the girl!
Honestly speaking I've never been a womanizer, if am real about a girl, am real! Is her and no one else.. And this particular girl had occupied the deepest part of my heart.. I officially became a mugu.. I would buy her presents, subscribe her BIS even if my MTN internet bundle is remaining 5mb.. At a point I was thinking about hiring a musicIan to Serenade her (yeah, I liked her like that).. I wasn't really doing this because I feared loosing her to my friend, but plainly because I like her so much.
Each time my friend came over to visit, and the subject about the girl ensueds, he just laughs and tell me he can still leave the girl for me if I ask him to.. Seriously, if not for the fact we've been friends for ages, I would smatch his face..
I know for certain this guy wasn't making any effort to win this girl, he has never spent more than 5K for a chick before bedding her.. Sometimes the girl in question would call him and he would ignore, he would show me over 15 of her missed calls yet this girl never called me one day or else when she needs help with her school work or money..
I once lied I was sick and all she said was 'sorry'.. And visited me for 30 minutes and told me she didn't wanna contract my flu and she zoomed off!
To cut the story short, just some hours ago my Friend called and said he has bleeped the girl!
I didn't believe what he said..
Then he sent me voice notes of his conversation with the girl and also gave me his password to check his chat with the girl on Facebook..
This girl is a bleep+in piece of sh+t!
What made me angry was their s.ex chats, this girl gat no shame.. Her nude photos were all over my friend's PM's and yet i thought she was decent...
You can't imagine how angry I am right now.. I really feel like heading to the girl's house and give her a piece of my mind..
She left me (who was willing to love truly) and went for a player..........................
Infuriating enough, this my useless friend is cute, but am cute as well!
Are girls really so into players than those who really wanna take them seriously?
Honestly, I'm pissed!

Fkhalifa:
op, most of the players you see out there including your friend started with this type of your story...
when you hear the ladies say i want a cool,nice,good man etc listen to them not,its a different ball game out there...
hope you have learnt one or two things from this experience.

agrovick:
baba, make I learn some things frm u na