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LaurelP:
We guys have been made to think that we must always do anything possible to impress the female folk. I'm not against a guy loving her babe, I'm against a guy doing silly things in order to impress a lady.

The truth is that most times, these actions come back to haunt us while, we get to regret at the end.

1. Consuming too much alcohol: most guys are guilty of this especially when trying to woo a lady or when taking her to bed. This is wrong in so many ways: it will damage your health, its a temporary measure, you most times end up misbehaving and its not a guarantee that you'll succeed in wooing or performing well in bed. Besides, the lady will know that you took something and that you lack confidence and esteem. Be yourself.

2. Spending above your means: whether its buying things you don't really need in order to look rich and fly, or spoiling the lady with things you normally should not be buying. Its wrong. I see a lot of guys do this and I keep wondering to what purpose? The worst is many of them come back to their senses when its already too late!

3. Lying: I'm not talking about the small lies guys normally tell, I'm talking about bragging to a lady about what you're not. Why tell a lady your father is Dangote's brother, or you're a Chelsea player, or you work in Shell. This will make her have high expectation from you which you would be trying to live up to.

4. Badmouthing your fellow guys: Maybe a guy that is also coming after her. Its wrong for a guy to maltreat his fellow in any way because of a lady. Whether its badmouthing, fighting or quarelling with him, its not worth it.

5. Giving your values and beliefs: Maybe you're a committed Christian or Muslim, you start backsliding or become uncommitted because she told you to. You start to abandon your loved ones and family, your studies begin to nosedive and even your job sef, you become unserious. Its a very silly thing to do because when the chips are down, those are the only things that will get you going- God, your family and loved ones and your job which will put food on your table.

6. Pretending to be who you're not: there's no need to pretend to be a bad guy if you're not. There are still ladies who values good guys. U don't need to force yourself to seem confident if you're a shy guy. People will know you're just acting it up.


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mesoade:
Never break the GUY CODE to impress a lady.

samflexx:
*seeing yourself as too small for a girl(low self esteem)
*speaking american english while spits flows from your month.
*boast about your small change...mtweeeeeeww..

Ucheosefoh:
I have one way of impressing and making any girl I date jealous I have a lot of female friends who love spending time with me so I always answer their calls infront of her and always greet them with hugs, kiss and flirts whenever any of them wants to greet me in front of her, I do that to let her know she is not irreplaceable that despite my numerous female friends she is the chosen one but still have competitors. It makes them(girlfriends) want to outdo the other girls for my attention, call that wired but that is my style op is that among the stupid ways of impression.

SkinnyDude:
i am telling you. very very important. i'm a shy guy. i see guys hugging, kissing and holding hands with girls. i cant do all these things. even when my female friend asked me to hug her, i couldnt. i am trying to force myself to all these things. but now, i no don change mind. i will be myself, no forming

Ucheosefoh:
I have one way of impressing and making any girl I date jealous I have a lot of female friends who love spending time with me so I always answer their calls infront of her and always greet them with hugs, kiss and flirts whenever any of them wants to greet me in front of her, I do that to let her know she is not irreplaceable that despite my numerous female friends she is the chosen one but still have competitors. It makes them(girlfriends) want to outdo the other girls for my attention, call that wired but that is my style op is that among the stupid ways of impression.

joromi:
Mtchew
God punish devil

Hug is okay and it get limit sef
Which one is kissing and flirting with other girls

Mtchew... I hope you'll be fine with her doing the same thing with other boys
Smh

lirusehn:

SkinnyDude:
i am telling you. very very important. i'm a shy guy. i see guys hugging, kissing and holding hands with girls. i cant do all these things. even when my female friend asked me to hug her, i couldnt. i am trying to force myself to all these things. but now, i no don change mind. i will be myself, no forming

samflexx:
*seeing yourself as too small for a girl(low self esteem)
*speaking american english while spits flows from your month.
*boast about your small change...mtweeeeeeww..

PRINCEHPXP:
there is d guy in my hostel in skul dat wil trek miles opon miles everyday to see his babe wen we dey tel am say he should visiting d girl for sum time he no listen until d fat guy cum slim finish becus of treking so silly.......if u reading dis is in same situation beta hav a break o....

datguru:
What's the guy code ?

debosola:
Don't over-dress trying to impress a lady and end up looking like a fire-man. #besimple

debosola:
Don't over-dress trying to impress a lady and end up looking like a fire-man. #besimple

LaurelP:
We guys have been made to think that we must always do anything possible to impress the female folk. I'm not against a guy loving her babe, I'm against a guy doing silly things in order to impress a lady.

The truth is that most times, these actions come back to haunt us while, we get to regret at the end.

1. Consuming too much alcohol: most guys are guilty of this especially when trying to woo a lady or when taking her to bed. This is wrong in so many ways: it will damage your health, its a temporary measure, you most times end up misbehaving and its not a guarantee that you'll succeed in wooing or performing well in bed. Besides, the lady will know that you took something and that you lack confidence and esteem. Be yourself.

2. Spending above your means: whether its buying things you don't really need in order to look rich and fly, or spoiling the lady with things you normally should not be buying. Its wrong. I see a lot of guys do this and I keep wondering to what purpose? The worst is many of them come back to their senses when its already too late!

3. Lying: I'm not talking about the small lies guys normally tell, I'm talking about bragging to a lady about what you're not. Why tell a lady your father is Dangote's brother, or you're a Chelsea player, or you work in Shell. This will make her have high expectation from you which you would be trying to live up to.

4. Badmouthing your fellow guys: Maybe a guy that is also coming after her. Its wrong for a guy to maltreat his fellow in any way because of a lady. Whether its badmouthing, fighting or quarelling with him, its not worth it.

5. Giving your values and beliefs: Maybe you're a committed Christian or Muslim, you start backsliding or become uncommitted because she told you to. You start to abandon your loved ones and family, your studies begin to nosedive and even your job sef, you become unserious. Its a very silly thing to do because when the chips are down, those are the only things that will get you going- God, your family and loved ones and your job which will put food on your table.

6. Pretending to be who you're not: there's no need to pretend to be a bad guy if you're not. There are still ladies who values good guys. U don't need to force yourself to seem confident if you're a shy guy. People will know you're just acting it up.


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drnoel:
I don't have any comments on the rest but ur point 6 kind of July's me down memory lane. I realised from experience people kind of mistake being quiet with being nice. There was a girl I was chasing then that my cousin wanted. I was the quiet don't talk see no evil type then. Funny enof I am still quiet now and my wife still aski me till today how I swept her off her feet. I just dey laff. Anyway, this girl I was after then liked me but felt I was too dull 4 her. Since my cousin was the happening guy in school she was hanging with him just to have fun but she never allowed my cousin go beyond her neck down. Anyways, she used to come to my off campus apartment then to hang out after a long night of partying and my cousin used to tell me to leave the Chick 4 him, that she was too tough too hot 4 me. I jus dey laff dem. Then one cold rainy night she mistakenly came to sleep in my house cos she couldn't make it to the hostel that night. B4 next morning I have blasted her a couple of times and then kept sleeping with her till I graduated. The funniest part was that my cousin still kept chasing her but never saw her panties. When we graduated I confided in him that I had blasted her he almost fainted.

One doesn't need to be a bad boy to get his groove. One only has to be himself. I used my quie ways to get away with something and people always used to ask me "o boi how u do am?"

SkinnyDude:
i am telling you. very very important. i'm a shy guy. i see guys hugging, kissing and holding hands with girls. i cant do all these things. even when my female friend asked me to hug her, i couldnt. i am trying to force myself to all these things. but now, i no don change mind. i will be myself, no forming

LaurelP:
We guys have been made to think that we must always do anything possible to impress the female folk. I'm not against a guy loving her babe, I'm against a guy doing silly things in order to impress a lady.

The truth is that most times, these actions come back to haunt us while, we get to regret at the end.

1. Consuming too much alcohol: most guys are guilty of this especially when trying to woo a lady or when taking her to bed. This is wrong in so many ways: it will damage your health, its a temporary measure, you most times end up misbehaving and its not a guarantee that you'll succeed in wooing or performing well in bed. Besides, the lady will know that you took something and that you lack confidence and esteem. Be yourself.

2. Spending above your means: whether its buying things you don't really need in order to look rich and fly, or spoiling the lady with things you normally should not be buying. Its wrong. I see a lot of guys do this and I keep wondering to what purpose? The worst is many of them come back to their senses when its already too late!

3. Lying: I'm not talking about the small lies guys normally tell, I'm talking about bragging to a lady about what you're not. Why tell a lady your father is Dangote's brother, or you're a Chelsea player, or you work in Shell. This will make her have high expectation from you which you would be trying to live up to.

4. Badmouthing your fellow guys: Maybe a guy that is also coming after her. Its wrong for a guy to maltreat his fellow in any way because of a lady. Whether its badmouthing, fighting or quarelling with him, its not worth it.

5. Giving your values and beliefs: Maybe you're a committed Christian or Muslim, you start backsliding or become uncommitted because she told you to. You start to abandon your loved ones and family, your studies begin to nosedive and even your job sef, you become unserious. Its a very silly thing to do because when the chips are down, those are the only things that will get you going- God, your family and loved ones and your job which will put food on your table.

6. Pretending to be who you're not: there's no need to pretend to be a bad guy if you're not. There are still ladies who values good guys. U don't need to force yourself to seem confident if you're a shy guy. People will know you're just acting it up.


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