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I am in the same position at the moment. Gf was posted to ABJ, while i work and live in Lagos. She is still in camp at the moment as stream 2. She insists its gonna work, we only need to communicate and find tine to see regularly....but ........from experience.... Hmmmm

Never gonna try that sh*t again..... It never worked for me, ended up not liking the girl she wasn't what I saw on Facebook and the angelic voice on phone was a guise to ruine my future . Sh*t happens a lot u know

It worked for me 100%.i met her on a dating site and we love each oda,she is begging me to come ova to the US or she should come ova to naija but i refused,until am done with my school.una know na!,to come carry oyinbo woman come naija now wey i stil dey school no easy and i no fit go US now wey i dey school...to they claim married man,na him be the last thing wey dey my mind at the moment.

Its cool cos i did mine and today is reality we meet on 2go and for two years we dnt see jst calls and chatn

It depends on the motive for the relationship.


If you want a long-term relationship, the distance wouldn't matter.

If you want a short-term relationship, then try to shorten the distance

them girls on social media dey use us dey play

Trust wahala will set in also the body will tell. I dont mean sex but body contact cossyness

IamDanto7:
Never gonna try that sh*t again..... It never worked for me, ended up not liking the girl she wasn't what I saw I Facebook and the angelic voice on phone was a guise to ruine my future . Sh*t happens a lot u know

Hahaha

jeremiah505:
I just need to clear my head on this and understand what there is to understand...

I'll appreciate talks from experience... cause i strongly believe few, some or most of us has engaged in this stuff (Distance and Social Media Relationship)... so from experience, study and observation.... How promising can it be?...

It is a fantasy that dies with time

ammyluv2002:
Mime worked! 100%

Worked? So i guess the r/ship is over?

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Hmmmm. 4/10

kennygee:
Its not so promising o.

I was in a relationship where i met the guy during Service, i asked him if he was in a relationship when he asked me out, the dude denied it and said they had just broken up due to distance.

After i had fallen in love hook, line and sinker, i discovered he was in a very serious relationship with someone back at home in the south west for years now, his family is even aware, we were in Abuja and he never broke up with her.

He was just looking for an Abuja Gf.

You be the judge.

I learned my lesson sharply, if a guy asks me out now and tells me "he just broke up", na run i dey run for my life o .

Come back here.

Stop running..

holatin:
one year with high labour

Sounds like prison sentence

100Cents:
Come back here.

Stop running..

If i hear.

for me,I won't advice one to venture in long distance relationship... although it works for few pple (8%)

jeremiah505:
how long did urs last?...

I was in one for about 6 months (though it wasn't serious). We called each other on daily basis (and at times our discussions got very lewd & lascivious) and that was as good as it ever got. Left to me, one shouldn't keep Social media dates, they never work. Look 4 smbdy close by. You aint a machine...c'mon you're an animal.

kennygee:
Its not so promising o.

I was in a relationship where i met the guy during Service, i asked him if he was in a relationship when he asked me out, the dude denied it and said they had just broken up due to distance.

After i had fallen in love hook, line and sinker, i discovered he was in a very serious relationship with someone back at home in the south west for years now, his family is even aware, we were in Abuja and he never broke up with her.

He was just looking for an Abuja Gf.

You be the judge.

I learned my lesson sharply, if a guy asks me out now and tells me "he just broke up", na run i dey run for my life o.

how does this relate to the info needed on the thread.

long distance relationship tried it once but never worked out,when u remember the fun n gudtimes both of u had,u'l keep on thinking n stressing urself all the time,wondering n imagining if anoda guy is screwing her were she is,if she does'nt pik calls atimes,dat will result 2quarrel all the time.As for social media,I do dat one,depending on how close ur location is ooo,once its outside southeast,notin serious wit u ooo.

Fresia01:
its nt advisable except u(the girls) wanna chop a maga(guys) and vamos...it gives me hard time to think of what ma partner could be doing wherever he is.. evil thoughts keep pouring in... i cant deal with it abeg xcept if the guy can afford to always fill ma pocket with cash..

are u from the east...love of money is....m

IamDanto7:
Never gonna try that sh*t again..... It never worked for me, ended up not liking the girl she wasn't what I saw I Facebook and the angelic voice on phone was a guise to ruine my future . Sh*t happens a lot u know

Hahahaahah....eyahh. Better luck next time.

Very promising.
That was how I fell in love for the very first time in 2006 and I have never stopped loving her even though we broke up.
Then another sweetie invited me to 2go and is currently madly in love and wants me to be the father of her children even after I sent my current first lady to meet with her.

What matters most is not where you find true love, but how much you appreciate it.

majekdom2:
how does this relate to the info needed on the thread.

He cheated on his GF due to the distance. Is that so hard to see?

like someone said , it depends on the parties involved but I ll advice you visit each other when you have the opportunities as this helps to further strengthen the relationship.

Ezemarcel:
are u from the east...love of money is....m

yea i am from d east.. the love of money is the root of all good things of life..

kennygee:
Its not so promising o.

I was in a relationship where i met the guy during Service, i asked him if he was in a relationship when he asked me out, the dude denied it and said they had just broken up due to distance.

After i had fallen in love hook, line and sinker, i discovered he was in a very serious relationship with someone back at home in the south west for years now, his family is even aware, we were in Abuja and he never broke up with her.

He was just looking for an Abuja Gf.

You be the judge.

I learned my lesson sharply, if a guy asks me out now and tells me "he just broke up", na run i dey run for my life o.

bad one such guys I call dem Lion they can lie

sorry hope you've gotten over it sha

silvermania:
bad one such guys I call dem Lion they can lie

sorry hope you've gotten over it sha

Yeah, i've moved on.

kennygee:
He cheated on his GF due to the distance. Is that so hard to see?

he didnt cheat because of the distance . he may be cheating even while in the southwest.it is who he is . it depends on the parties involved . whats the assurance he wasnt sleeping with some other girl in the same abuja . you may haev just been his favourite ,thus the reason for the fake commitment.

majekdom2:
he didnt cheat because of the distance . he may be cheating even while in the southwest.it is who he is . it depends on the parties involved . whats the assurance he wasnt sleeping with some other girl in the same abuja . you may haev just been his favourite ,thus the reason for the fake commitment.

So sad.

His loss

kennygee:
Yeah, i've moved on.

that is soft. good to know

Fresia01:
yea i am from d east.. the love of money is the root of all good things of life..

okay ooooooo....nwanne take am easy oooo