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!!!Why are people suddenly morphing into statisticians in this thread?

Am in it kind of cool,i erase bad thought ,trust and adequate communiis paramount thou,I try as much as possible to be disciplined, pray it work out well,we fight and argue above all we understand each other.

Distance relationship is 10 percent promising,the remaining 90 percent is a no no...

Emmysteve:
Tried that before. Not advisable at all.

No one is better. If u are fake u are fake. Don't be fake and be demanding originals.

Guys...

from the look of things... she's so in love with me... and me... am socking in love with her... like seriously...

we chat on whatapp everyday... call on viber sumtimes and also normal calls(but the call rate is life threatening..)

we've dated for atleast 5 months now... and it been a jolly ride...

but the thins is....

I just got admitted here and she's in her 2nd level there...

i dont have any plans of leaving the country now... she too... before we could be talking of a meeting it would be like 2-3 years... well no one knows tomorow...

she quite older than me which we are both aware of... I Love Her... not 100% though... let just say 70-80.... and i know she loves me too...

but am scared of getting really involved.... ...

jeremiah505:
Guys...

from the look of things... she's so in love with me... and me... am socking in love with her... like seriously...

we chat on whatapp everyday... call on viber sumtimes and also normal calls(but the call rate is life threatening..)

we've dated for atleast 5 months now... and it been a jolly ride...

but the thins is....

Well, if after u had been sacked and ugandan pp makes more sense than nija's...go for it.

I'm in one now for two years,we haven't seen eachother nd we still together nd I never had any girl or sex all dis while though somtimes Konji showup but I lockup, it's a matter of trust nd commitment but not for the weak at heart...

The girls will enjoy by collecting cash and gift then when the guy returns around he will fvck her and notice the wide pussey, the guy man will run for his dear life.

Ask a girl when she had sex last, she will tell you last 2 years even when she chop prick the previous night.

Distance relationship na try your luck jareeee.

jeremiah505:
I just got admitted here and she's in her 2nd level there...

i dont have any plans of leaving the country now... she too... before we could be talking of a meeting it would be like 2-3 years... well no one knows tomorow...

she quite older than me which we are both aware of... I Love Her... not 100% though... let just say 70-80.... and i know she loves me too...

but am scared of getting really involved.... ...

Ugandan and Kenyan ladies make sense as I like their skin but u got to have cash. That sweeps them off their feet. My uncle married a Ugandan...but separated now.

anthoniaz:
Mine has lasted 6years and we are heading to the altar this month.

wow..so happy for you..i for even like to attend,since am in nigeria now.

I prefer it, It suits my way of life...less demanding.

Am presently in one..I love her so much,we both do..what matters is the communication,love and understanding we both share..Sex ain't everything in a relationship.

Its really a terible thing for someone to indulge in. I have been for the past 9 years but I won't advice my worst enemy to be in one

more promising than my sister trying to bake a cake...........we all know how it ends but still let her do it

It's rubbish.. am doing it with some gals tho' but I knw won't work. Am using it to pass time jare

DISTANCE/ONLINE/SOCIAL MEDIA RELATIOSHIP MOST TIMES,DONT WORK OUT...i have tested and failed in it most times,but right now, i am dating a botswanian who might come to Nigeria around xmas/boxing day. its most times risky

Well it depends o, I just got out of one which seemed so promising, was in it for three years but the guy decided to dump me for some "unreasonable reasons". But just as I said the promising aspect depends.

Distance/social media relationships are Pure F9. Ive never ever taken any seriously.

i'm currently in one, but i gotta tel ya, its no piece of cake

0b1nna:
"ammyluv2002:
Mine worked! 100%"





More like I guess you hit that sh*t raw & bailed out on her.

hmmmmm

kennygee:
Its not so promising o.

I was in a relationship where i met the guy during Service, i asked him if he was in a relationship when he asked me out, the dude denied it and said they had just broken up due to distance.

After i had fallen in love hook, line and sinker, i discovered he was in a very serious relationship with someone back at home in the south west for years now, his family is even aware, we were in Abuja and he never broke up with her.

He was just looking for an Abuja Gf.

You be the judge.

I learned my lesson sharply, if a guy asks me out now and tells me "he just broke up", na run i dey run for my life o.

How does this ur story affect the Topic..
still tryin to figure out

Presently in a long distance relationship that's lasted 7 months still counting.
I'd say its all got to do with trust n communication.
In mine we talk for hours everyday anytime; thanks to a special go line.
but atimes one wonders what d girl is up to especially when she's not picking her calls etc
Financially, I don't think its any different from having a nearby girl bc d accumulated spending on the nearby girl overtime will equate that of d distant girl esp when she has to visit- flight fare etal.
Emotionally, abeg I'm better off, no unexpected knock on my door or call to come over n all.
Satisfaction wise, one has to learn to stay without a mate physically n I think d times we spend apart makes our love grow stronger, n d love erupts in bliss when we meet months after!

fighalo:
How does this ur story affect the Topic..
still tryin to figure out

He cheated on his GF because of distance, if they are still together, I'm not sure.

Hmmmm,need advice on this, met d guy on Facebook, loved him n he comes once a week to see me,he proposed to me by engaging me, he introduced me to his mum n I did d same but one faithful day I was called he was in d hospital, I dressed up n traveled down to Lagos to see him in d hospital, trying to joke with him in d hospital but he shouted@me n I left d room with his brothers but d so called GIRL he called his Ex came in n dey were talking, d girl left n came again d second day,I asked my bf if dey r still together n he said No n rite in front of me he told d girl TANX,stood up left d hospital n traveled back, called his mum n explained n d mum begged me n till now d mum Neva called me back to say anything n DAT nite,he called me n said I want to bring disagreement BTW him n his mum n I apologized,chatted with him two days back but he didn't reply me.I love him so much n one of his Frd asked him about his Ex that came to d hospital n said he wants to consider her back. Please what should I do,should I throw his ring away or what n don't feel like calling his mum again, so far she didn't call back all this while, rili hurt

kennygee:
He cheated on his GF because of distance, if they are still together, I'm not sure.

ok ok.
now I get it..
.. Distance sha..

It works. Depends on the people involve. Their committments, dedication, honesty and trust. And also discipline.

Amefrica:
Hmmmm I don't know whatta tell you.. I think I'm currently in one now, let's see as it goes..

we r both in d same shoe. let just see how it goes n share our testimony in future

Long distance/social media relatnships sometimes work, if both parties are truly serious, but the disadvantages outweigh the advantages.Case in point;a young lady travelled to Aba to physically meet a guy she met & had bn chatting with, on Facebook,on meeting with him at the park waiting to welcome her,he quickly told her she looked different from the person he saw on Facebook..lol ,and he ended up dumping her at d park & quickly disappeared.The babe sef no come carry extra cash,just incase.She found herself stranded without cash to go back to her state,it was the mercy of the park manager of the vehicle she earlier used, that saved her ass.We were actually in the same vehicle,it was after she dropped,the conductor now narrated all this to us.So much for social media relatnshps...SMH.

agarawu23:
we r both in d same shoe. let just see how it goes n share our testimony in future

Right.

when you two have built a solid foundation before the distance issue comes in then there's a chance. But if you are starting off with a distance scenario, i'm afraid it wont yield any result

Have been in one for the past three years. Initially, it was making sense but i tell you, now ehhhh, the relationship aint making sense any longer. We hardly communicate and she is even seeing it as a very big task to come visit me. I tell you, I've given up a long time ago but haven't broken up, not like i even have any hope again sef...

jeremiah505:
I just need to clear my head on this and understand what there is to understand...

I'll appreciate talks from experience... cause i strongly believe few, some or most of us has engaged in this stuff (Distance and Social Media Relationship)... so from experience, study and observation.... How promising can it be?...