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Re: Why Are Many Ladies Selling Their Virginity Cheaply Nowadays? by ladyinred: 8:53am On Dec 08, 2014
See pot calling kettle black.
OP, that u know the going rate of virginity these days, makes u a suspect. Even the Bible says that, u should remove the log in ur eyes first b4 removing the speck in ur neigbour's eye. Cheers!
Re: Why Are Many Ladies Selling Their Virginity Cheaply Nowadays? by Nobody: 8:53am On Dec 08, 2014
Jennydoris:
Who are they selling it to?



Those people or the person that they sell it to are they not virgins?


Is virginity meant for only the women? Babe u are right men also has. The lady are Sold mine for have gotten marry but am yet to settle


How many have you bought coke, meat pie and some other stuffs for, just to lure them in your net?





I need answers please......
Re: Why Are Many Ladies Selling Their Virginity Cheaply Nowadays? by LORDI(m): 9:00am On Dec 08, 2014
What kind of question is this?..which sane person loses his/her virginity for a bottle of coke,meat pie and other,abegi maybe we should start exporting our virginity na,so we can diversify nigeria's economy...LUBBISH.
Re: Why Are Many Ladies Selling Their Virginity Cheaply Nowadays? by Nobody: 9:00am On Dec 08, 2014
I quilt knew that's n't easy for some ladies but all need from a lady is good Character, care & respect..in Jesus Name
Re: Why Are Many Ladies Selling Their Virginity Cheaply Nowadays? by cynthia3d(f): 9:02am On Dec 08, 2014
Loosing ur virgnity is a crime before GOD and land wheather in d days of our fathers and mothers both male and female where virgins is just dat we. R being irresponsible and we put d blame only on female what about rape issue ? Because its becoming a tin of mordernization nobody wants to keep it anymore GOD help us d sins are just too much
Re: Why Are Many Ladies Selling Their Virginity Cheaply Nowadays? by benjsniper33: 9:13am On Dec 08, 2014
holatin:
The dignity of a woman does not lie in her leg, it lies in her heart
. Laughable...!!! Just like you are saying that righteousness lies in the heart of a robber who has killed many in his bid to rob them. Look fella, From the heart of man projects his ideas and actions, so if dignity lies in the heart of man, it will surely effect his or her outward actions and ideas. The sanctity of Virginity is a sacred theory valued by every known religion in the world. Why? Because aside from its sacred importance, it project the value and virtues of virgins, and reveals how strong the are in the inside and in the exterior,it shows that they have control over their lives, that they are capable of being exemplary mothers to their children, and that they are more likely to bear "good" children. Every male child craves to marry virgin cos its a divine "wiring" . Virgins are still respected and openly reverred. They last long and they serve as good "back bones"their husbands can rely in dark times. (I dedicate this little piece to my mother, a tough spirit that never dies)
Re: Why Are Many Ladies Selling Their Virginity Cheaply Nowadays? by holatin(m): 9:19am On Dec 08, 2014
benjsniper33:
. Laughable...!!! Just like you are saying that righteousness lies in the heart of a robber who has killed many in his bid to rob them. Look fella, From the heart of man projects his ideas and actions, so if dignity lies in the heart of man, it will surely effect his or her outward actions and ideas. The sanctity of Virginity is a sacred theory valued by every known religion in the world. Why? Because aside from its sacred importance, it project the value and virtues of virgins, and reveals how strong the are in the inside and in the exterior,it shows that they have control over their lives, that they are capable of being exemplary mothers to their children, and that they are more likely to bear "good" children. Every male child craves to marry virgin cos its a divine "wiring" . Virgins are still respected and openly reverred. They last long and they serve as good "back bones"their husbands can rely in dark times. (I dedicate this little piece to my mother, a tough spirit that never dies)
Hey don't quote me wrong, what's is the advantage of a wicked and devilish virgin. am not saying selling virginity is right
Re: Why Are Many Ladies Selling Their Virginity Cheaply Nowadays? by tobiit(m): 9:26am On Dec 08, 2014
This issue of virginity among our ladies today and in the days of our mothers is a different situation. Those days, our parents marry early enough at maybe between the age of 15 -19 for which you expect to meet this age group a virgin. Nowadays, its different. Do you expect to marry a lady of age 25 - 28 a virgin? She would have been under constant society pressure from several men to sleep with her. No matter how she tries to protect her thing, she will give it up to a particular joker that would have promised her marriage.
Re: Why Are Many Ladies Selling Their Virginity Cheaply Nowadays? by Godiloveu(f): 9:29am On Dec 08, 2014
clevvermind:
guys virginity is not important. but ladies ought to keep theirs.
virgin virgin virgin na wa o una no dey tire?! to b a virgin does not make. u a gudwife or gud gf. wat if after wedding nite wen u disvirgin her she no allow u rest.,every day she go wan do becos she taste d swit tin n wen u no satisfy her wella she go getcha am some where.

virginity is not only d pussy but also d mind .
Re: Why Are Many Ladies Selling Their Virginity Cheaply Nowadays? by Jennydoris(f): 9:40am On Dec 08, 2014
lakamua:
what a shameless statement
Thank you for quoting and commenting on the SHAMELESS statement.......






It doesn't change anything about me or my SHAMELESS statement.cool cool
Re: Why Are Many Ladies Selling Their Virginity Cheaply Nowadays? by clevvermind(op): 9:41am On Dec 08, 2014
MrCork:
.....seee yor head like baby goat......do u realize that 90 par sent of homebased guys are now turnin to g@y??

.....so wots wrong with sellllin punnnny?
angry
where do u get ur statistics from? u can tell ur sisters to sell their own. i'm willing to buy.
Re: Why Are Many Ladies Selling Their Virginity Cheaply Nowadays? by Nobody: 9:44am On Dec 08, 2014
At least they gain coke. What of guys that give it free of charge?
Re: Why Are Many Ladies Selling Their Virginity Cheaply Nowadays? by clevvermind(op): 9:46am On Dec 08, 2014
Godiloveu:
virgin virgin virgin na wa o una no dey tire?! to b a virgin does not make. u a gudwife or gud gf. wat if after wedding nite wen u disvirgin her she no allow u rest.,every day she go wan do becos she taste d swit tin n wen u no satisfy her wella she go getcha am some where.

virginity is not only d pussy but also d mind .
as many times she want, i go give am. i'm fit and capable. it is sad that even ladies are nt considering virginity as important again.
Re: Why Are Many Ladies Selling Their Virginity Cheaply Nowadays? by Nobody: 10:02am On Dec 08, 2014
And the Op calls himself 'Clever mind'. grin grin And see how his reasoning on the issue is sooooooo poor. GOSH!! The intellect of some nigerian youths is going down the drain. May almighty God save them.

He is not a virgin o but he disvirgined a lot of females and he quickly came here to ask the dumbest question ever to be asked on earth. Its just like a robber coming to ask us why there are robbers. SMH.
Re: Why Are Many Ladies Selling Their Virginity Cheaply Nowadays? by theM16: 10:09am On Dec 08, 2014
basilo101:
How has dat made u a better pesn in life? Its jst ur choice, dnt force it on ppl as d standard
Are you intimidated? Eh ya! He isn't trying to force it on u mr. If e truly is a virgin, I say keep it up man. Even if m not, I know what is right. If you are morally sound(or even average) u should know been responsible is not gender specific
Re: Why Are Many Ladies Selling Their Virginity Cheaply Nowadays? by clevvermind(op): 10:10am On Dec 08, 2014
i'm surprise that people are talking about guys virginity here. how can a guy be a virgin? does a guy have hymen to be broken? can u determine the virginity of a boy? if they say 'virgin', who would ur mind go to? a guy or a lady? guys cannot be virgin whether he had had sex or not. besides, if ladies does not open their legs, will guys force them? the answer is no.

i know i'm spoiling many guys' business, that was why they are just attacking me. but the truth stands. why cant u just wait for ur husband? everybody just attacking me as if i stole from them. corrupt people without truth in their mouth. i know i'm not perfect, but let's speak the truth first. let us not hide the truth. keeping ones virginity is still the best. if all ladies can keep their virginity, it will be better. if the cork is not removed, water cannot go in.
Re: Why Are Many Ladies Selling Their Virginity Cheaply Nowadays? by clevvermind(op): 10:17am On Dec 08, 2014
Sophyrocks:
And the Op calls himself 'Clever mind'. grin grin And see how his reasoning on the issue is sooooooo poor. GOSH!! The intellect of some nigerian youths is going down the drain. May almighty God save them.

He is not a virgin o but he disvirgined a lot of females and he quickly came here to ask the dumbest question ever to be asked on earth. Its just like a robber coming to ask us why there are robbers. SMH.
just shut up. u are very dumb. was i the one that force them to open their legs for me? dumb fellow like u. are they nt the ones giving guys their virginity?
Re: Why Are Many Ladies Selling Their Virginity Cheaply Nowadays? by clevvermind(op): 10:20am On Dec 08, 2014
missberrypop5:
At least they gain coke. What of guys that give it free of charge?
guys dnt give virginity rather it is the ladies. guys where never a virgin before.
Re: Why Are Many Ladies Selling Their Virginity Cheaply Nowadays? by clevvermind(op): 10:24am On Dec 08, 2014
LORDI:
What kind of question is this?..which sane person loses his/her virginity for a bottle of coke,meat pie and other,abegi maybe we should start exporting our virginity na,so we can diversify nigeria's economy...LUBBISH.
buy a plate of food for some lady and they will follow u to bed. simple.
Re: Why Are Many Ladies Selling Their Virginity Cheaply Nowadays? by clevvermind(op): 10:26am On Dec 08, 2014
miztola:
Really? shockedshocked

I'm speechless atm
if all ladies keep theirs, guys will automatically be.
Re: Why Are Many Ladies Selling Their Virginity Cheaply Nowadays? by clevvermind(op): 10:29am On Dec 08, 2014
SuperMartins:
So my,man..re u claiming not to be loosed cos some of ur comments shows loseness..
i'm not loosed. it is just for fun na.
Re: Why Are Many Ladies Selling Their Virginity Cheaply Nowadays? by clevvermind(op): 10:30am On Dec 08, 2014
i thank God that i have not taken the virginity of any lady.
Re: Why Are Many Ladies Selling Their Virginity Cheaply Nowadays? by clevvermind(op): 10:35am On Dec 08, 2014
OlamiB:
U guys are funny, u talk as iff you insert you pen!s inside a waterbottle each time u wanna have sex, with this way you talk I can see some guys are definately not alright
if a water bottle cover is not removed, can u insert anything? if you remove the cover, then i can insert.
Re: Why Are Many Ladies Selling Their Virginity Cheaply Nowadays? by clevvermind(op): 10:41am On Dec 08, 2014
remsonik:
Likewise the ladies aren't forcing you to sleep with them. Simply flee or ignore/turn down any advances.
ladies should close their legs. simple. i thought that ladies are proud of their virginity before and will do anything to protect it, but it seems the opposite is the case now.
Re: Why Are Many Ladies Selling Their Virginity Cheaply Nowadays? by clevvermind(op): 10:49am On Dec 08, 2014
Alexpissu:
Sit down and give your mind a rest .
i will rest. i just came to nairaland to catch little fun. i will soon leave.
Re: Why Are Many Ladies Selling Their Virginity Cheaply Nowadays? by DonGiovanni(m): 10:54am On Dec 08, 2014
Quite alright, virginity is good but do girls have to kill themselves cuz they aren't virginz, some lost thyaz due to rape, molestation or abuse by friends, families, armedrobbers!! The guys that posted this, are u a virgin? Even tho guys virginity isn't emphasized. It doesn't mean that they r exempted, chastity is an allround thing.. Some guys today would have done worse if they were babes!! Tru tok... Its beta to marry a. Nonvirgin that has a good hrt and good upbrinign that to marry a virgin who afta loosing ha virginity, would trun to smfin else grin
Re: Why Are Many Ladies Selling Their Virginity Cheaply Nowadays? by Nobody:
clevvermind:
just shut up. u are very dumb. was i the one that force them to open their legs for me? dumb fellow like u. are they nt the ones giving guys their virginity?
You shut up your mouth small boy with groundnut brain and listen!! St.upid boy!! Na small boy brain dey worry you. You never grow reach anywhere near wisdom. Stop going about disvirgining girls if you want a virgin so badly. You go about with wandering p.enis!! cant you keep your p.enis in your pants for once? Must you go about asking girls to open their legs before you know you are to leave girls alone? Who is even more f00lish? you are blaming girls for opening their legs. who are the people asking them to do so? Ghost? Una no go see virgin marry at allllllllll as long as you all go around bleeping every girl you see. Small small girls of 13, 15 years, una no go allow them rest! Paedophiles go rush them before them go reach 18 years. Una no go allow them focus on books. You meet a girl you tell her 'if you love me you will sleep with me. if you dnt i will find another girl to give me'. How many of you can date girls without s.ex? Hypocrites!!! Yet you come here to form holy holy for us with this your thread as if you have not slept with numerous females or even small small girls. Thats the price you all will pay for having a wandering p.enis. Deal with it. You want a change? start the change with yourself.

F00lish small boy!!
Re: Why Are Many Ladies Selling Their Virginity Cheaply Nowadays? by podosci(m): 11:11am On Dec 08, 2014
clevvermind:
virgins should be respected. it is not easy to keep oneself from sex till marriage. in those days,virgins are accorded much respect. but today, many ladies are just misbehaving. keeping one's virginity is still the best.
whats all this nonsense talk about virgin ladies.....what about virgin men?.....or women should keep their virginity and be respected while men should Bleep has much has possible and gain higher respect......
The society has changed, the world is now modernized,,,,,,,,,am looking for an intelligent women
So who would u respect more, an intelligent no-virgin woman who is top of her class with a CGPA of 4.6 or a dumb virgin with a CGPA of 2.0...............women and men should be junged based on intelligence rather then foolish virginity
Re: Why Are Many Ladies Selling Their Virginity Cheaply Nowadays? by 2scorehigh(m): 11:22am On Dec 08, 2014
clevvermind:
does men have hymen? does men's penis grows wider with each sex? who is talking of guys' virginity those days? ladies are the ones to control the game. let them say no to sex and guys will not force them.
It’s funny, isn’t it?

So because guys don’t have hymen and our pәnïs does not widen or elongate after each usage, guys are now free to use it to break and widen things abi?

Hmm, oga clevvermind, guy na wa 2 u o!

Ha ha ha. This thing is a two-way thing o, abeg!

As a guy, if you tell a girl you want to phück her and she refuses by telling you she’s not ready because she’s a virgin or she’s keeping it for that special day with that special man, chances are you will not feel so happy—or so manly, at the end of the day!

You might call her names. And make caricature of her. You might even say she’s decieving you by making such excuses. You might even hate her and to some extent, even make her feel so bad about herself when you leave her with the impression that she doesn’t love you. You might even threaten to end the relationship!

Oh yes.

Granted, you may not be like such guys but at least, I know some guys who will do this.

Now, coming to the points you’ve raised, if you are overly concerned that the hymen will be broken, maybe by the time it gets to your turn, then I’d say sorry but it must be broken—one day, probably by that bad guy who hit it first! tongue

Again, if your concern is that the püssïe is going to get wider with frequent usage, what else can I say but it’s a natural course, so you just have to deal with. Remember, babies do come out from there too! Big babies, sometimes!!! grin

But if what you are suggesting is that we run a parallel society whereby we could clone or have a group of foolish girls we can just buy coke for and then phück at will anytime and another group of special & sweet virgins we can marry when the time comes, then I might support your Girls-Must-Be-Virgins Policy, you know….? wink

Ha ha ha…

Being so open-minded about these things, my point is that virginity or not, it’s no big deal. Times have changed. Sexual promiscuity is on the rise. Circumstances occur. Temptations are bound to happen. Yes, bodi no be wood. Individual differences matter, so you have to take all that into cognisance too.

So if a girl can keep it, good. If she can’t, well…good.

But one thing I know is that…

You’ve got no right, absolutely no right whatsoever, to enforce it.

Thank you.
Re: Why Are Many Ladies Selling Their Virginity Cheaply Nowadays? by podosci(m): 11:23am On Dec 08, 2014
clevvermind:
i'm surprise that people are talking about guys virginity here. how can a guy be a virgin? does a guy have hymen to be broken? can u determine the virginity of a boy? if they say 'virgin', who would ur mind go to? a guy or a lady? guys cannot be virgin whether he had had sex or not. besides, if ladies does not open their legs, will guys force them? the answer is no.

i know i'm spoiling many guys' business, that was why they are just attacking me. but the truth stands. why cant u just wait for ur husband? everybody just attacking me as if i stole from them. corrupt people without truth in their mouth. i know i'm not perfect, but let's speak the truth first. let us not hide the truth. keeping ones virginity is still the best. if all ladies can keep their virginity, it will be better. if the cork is not removed, water cannot go in.
This question is not meant to be offensive but how old are you?
its thinking like yours thats has reduced women to the bottom of society in poor countries like Nigeria...In advanced countires women are treated and respected based on their intellectual capabilities, qualities like intelligence, zeal, educational background and achievments are what counts.....nobody cares who, what or how many men the woman has been with, the same way nobody cares how many women men have been with......
The sooner we accept that women have a greater role to play in our society than just a sex object for the man to use to satisfy is sexual desires, the sooner poor countries like Nigeria would start developing.
when you think of opera winfry, do you think of when she lost her virginity? No, rather you think of how much she has and how many lives she has influenced,,,,,she his now been thought of in the same light with bill gates.
Change your mentality, so your future daughters would compete with their male colleagues for the best positions in the job market rather than being a sex tool for their male colleagues
Re: Why Are Many Ladies Selling Their Virginity Cheaply Nowadays? by podosci(m): 11:36am On Dec 08, 2014
2scorehigh:
It’s funny, isn’t it?

So because guys don’t have hymen and our pәnïs does not widen or elongate after each usage, guys are now free to use it to break and widen things abi?

Hmm, oga clevvermind, guy na wa 2 u o!

Ha ha ha. This thing is a two-way thing o, abeg!

As a guy, if you tell a girl you want to phück her and she refuses by telling you she’s not ready because she’s a virgin or she’s keeping it for that special day with that special man, chances are you will not feel so happy—or so manly, at the end of the day!

You might call her names. And make caricature of her. You might even say she’s decieving you by making such excuses. You might even hate her and to some extent, even make her feel so bad about herself when you leave her with the impression that she doesn’t love you. You might even threaten to end the relationship!

Oh yes.

Granted, you may not be like such guys but at least, I know some guys who will do this.

Now, coming to the points you’ve raised, if you are overly concerned that the hymen will be broken, maybe by the time it gets to your turn, then I’d say sorry but it must be broken—one day, probably by that bad guy who hit it first! tongue

Again, if your concern is that the püssïe is going to get wider with frequent usage, what else can I say but it’s a natural course, so you just have to deal with. Remember, babies do come out from there too! Big babies, sometimes!!! grin

But if what you are suggesting is that we run a parallel society whereby we could clone or have a group of foolish girls we can just buy coke for and then phück at will anytime and another group of special & sweet virgins we can marry when the time comes, then I might support your Girls-Must-Be-Virgins Policy, you know….? wink

Ha ha ha…

Being so open-minded about these things, my point is that virginity or not, it’s no big deal. Times have changed. Sexual promiscuity is on the rise. Circumstances occur. Temptations are bound to happen. Yes, bodi no be wood. Individual differences matter, so you have to take all that into cognisance too.

So if a girl can keep it, good. If she can’t, well…good.

But one thing I know is that…

You’ve got no right, absolutely no right whatsoever, to enforce it.

Thank you.
its only in underdeveloped countries like Nigeria that people are thinking of virginity, developed countries like USA, Britain, France........Girls aspire to be the best in the society, girls aspire to find a suitable hsuband with whom they can build industries and build a brighter future with.....Men pick wives based on her intelligence and what she can offer to their future together.......
but come down to Nigeria., men are looking for wifes for their viginity,,,,so they can turn her into a baby making factory, 10 years down the line, the man is wondrn why he has so many children and a very fat wife at home......
people need to change their mentality, Nature made sex to be for procreation, so our population would increase, Virginity or not, people should be respected for their achievements, goals, and aspirations
Re: Why Are Many Ladies Selling Their Virginity Cheaply Nowadays? by Nobody: 11:39am On Dec 08, 2014
Dats why

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