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Mprex:
This is from a friend and i'm @ loss as per what to advice her thats why i decided to share with us here because i know we've got some awesome relationship counsellors in this section


she just broke up her relationship because of some reasons that i am not permitted to share here. There is this guy that has been begging her for a relationship for over a year. Having ended her first relationship, she decided to go out with this other guy that have been pestering her for a long time.

Barely two weeks into the new relationship, she found out that her new boyfriend has another serious relationship with another lady. Funny enough, she is already falling for him and she is hurting real bad now.

I dunno what to tell her because if i ask her to stay, she will be smarting from the realization and if i ask her to walk away she will stil be hurt because she already loves him



members of the nairaland romance section. Pls help me out. Whats your advice

eckersley:
Why are Nairalander's always writing on behalf of a friend?
Are ur friends illiterate that they cannot open an account here and solicit advise themselves?
Do they lack an internet-enabled device to do so?
If yes, why not allow them access to the device wt wch u r posting this 'my-friend-needs-advice piece?

Cos I'm getting repulsed by this childish facade behind wch evryone is hiding

Ikaosunwon:
The mata tire me to oo.
Well as for d post. @op, are u sure ur friend is ok? Falling in love with some1 dat already has girlfriend. I thinks she need a manual overide to restore her brain back to default setting. She need to start thinking with her head & not her mind. (& besides, how old is this friend of urs?) For those who think.............check my signature.