is she that ugly ?

KAYCEEJUNIOR:
SMH, your level of reasoning is extremely poor, well I thought you are sensitive never knew that you are such a jeck and gulible, are you the one looking for a wife? how does tribalism comes to ones choice of marriage? just wondering how some people reason through their nostril......

LMAO! Ma guy don vex

ladymichael:


Excuse me? My level of reasoning? You asked me if a lady is IBO so that you can match make and yet u insult me for telling you tribe doesn't matter? My GOD.

Do have a blessed holiday

It is not his fault. Lol

Tell your friend to be calm and enjoy her life while it lasts.

She should find joy in her work, relate well with her siblings and loved ones, take good care of her health and body, eat good food (PLEASE LET HER NOT STARVE HERSELF IN THE NAME OF FASTING), engage in activities that make her happy like tourism, partying etc.

She should be happy with herself and with people around her.
Every body must not marry, however those who want to marry should always make hay while the sun shines. Marriage like every other thing in life does not guarantee happiness, there are moments of happiness and those of unhappinesses just like in every other activities of man on earth. It's by making sacrifices that people succeed in marriage (just as in other endeavors).

PS: My advice to all the single ladies, especially the younger ones is that they should learn to avoid fantasizing so much about marrying a man who's tall, dark, yellow, 'pink-lipped', broad-chested, hairy, smart, cute, educated, rich, banana island dwelling etc, since they know that it is the men that make the marriage proposal and foot the bills, else we will continue to have high number of old single ladies.

Merry Xmas.

Reverend sister is ha callin plz......

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I had conditions in my comment, observe that. also I am assuming that the lady in question is not the choosy type. her case unlike the case of the majority of ladies out there is unique... she no dey even see toasters self talk less of getting a proposal. hence my final conclusion..

She should sha be prayerful...cos I believe some would av come while she waz much much younger, but she just close or bone dem back den probably waiting for ** ***** ...aside from been prayerful, she needs to check her attitude too...*My one Kobo*

ladymichael:
I really need advise from especially the men

My colleague is gonna be 35 in a few months and is not married or even have toasters. She has reached a point where she doesn't even think about it.
She says she sometimes asks herself on why she's still single and concludes that maybe she's not supposed to ever marry.

I really feel sorry for her but don't know how to advise her.

Please what could be the issue? Abd how to I advise her?

OP WE KNOW D DRILL, CLAIM IT TO BE UR COLLEAGUE WHEREAS ITS REALLY U. U ARE D ONE IN D PICTURE

Ask her if she is a virgin, if she is not then it's her fault, but if she is, then is spiritual.

Make we see her pinchure.

macjireh:

OP WE KNOW D DRILL, CLAIM IT TO BE UR COLLEAGUE WHEREAS ITS REALLY U. U ARE D ONE IN D PICTURE

No mind am...e tink say we no know. But anyway sha, make we jus giv am small benefit of doubt.

Meanwhile OP, just tell your friend that I said that Tonto Dike said that itz ova.

Genea:
not everyone is meant to marry,u know

My Dear in Nigeria everybody is expected to marry,there is no option, try telling you parents that see what they tell you.

erico2k2:

My Dear in Nigeria everybody is expected to marry,there is no option, try telling you parents that see what they tell you.

I know dey wouldn't wanna hear of it,BT its my life and u pray to marry sah,anyhow God wants it

I have a friend that is 39 and he's single. he base in bayelsa from yoruba. is a guy I can vouch for anywhere anytime. pm me if she's interested

When ladies are younger they are smashing pretty 19-25,the real husband will come but they will be forming and shakara until she is 35,her eyes go clear,the guys that would have marry her are married.

But if she is beautiful,good character and working,she can still get a toaster and hubby

deletrue:
You people should be able reason properly. Every normal being, I real men or man has in his mind the ethnical group he would want a wife. It is not tribal. Would you in your sincere mind, as at today, marry from the north east? Is that tribal? I have worked for Shagari's ie NPN, worked for Obasanjo and others. No one would have known who the typical northerners is if not that a Southner is now rulling. Look at the actions of the hausa man and women. They kill themselves and blame it on GEJ. Would you sincerely marry from that zone?

Here comes politics in a matter that has nothing to do with it.
This is not PDP vs APC thread.

Remove the log in your own eyes first and stop projecting your personal insecurities on others.

Anyone can marry from anywhere, it is insecure people like you that created the unwritten rule where there is none.

ladymichael:



Was it? My apologies. Am deeply sorry.was just too surprised that at that age and in this era. one is still insisting on a certain tribe to marry.
My fiancee is calabar and am from a totally different tribe yet he has all that I want in a man so it puzzles me when I see people being tribalistic on marriage

Once again,my apologies

But I really don not agree with you, the guy said what he wanted if ur friend is not an Igbo u could have just simply said no she is not and kept the outburst out of it.That simple instance that you have to pour out outburst to criticize his preference constitute impatience on ur part.U or your friend should realize everyone has what the want even your friend wants a toaster/husband, she omitted male friend is that no being prejudice? so she too has a preference and could be criticized too.if you really want to cater to the plight of your friend try and take each co comments o n here with a pinch of salt and filter the meaningful ones leave the rubbish ones out.God bless.

KAYCEEJUNIOR:
Op na to matchmake her, I have an Uncle upto 48years I don't know if he is a celibacy, we can work things out with them, he lives in P.H although not bouyant, if she is Igbo you can contact me, you can view my profile below incase of doubt

can we talk am nt on linkedin. Poundsconcept@gmail.com or u can give me ur email

Genea:
I know dey wouldn't wanna hear of it,BT its my life and u pray to marry sah,anyhow God wants it

Exactly even in the Bible man must marry, that school of thought that suggest marriage don't matter belongs to the western world where anything goes

shevon:


Guy, your response above does not cut it at all. In your first reply to her post, you mention that you had a 48 years old uncle who you are willing to hook the OP's friend with if she is IBO. In today's Nigeria that we all are suffering from quota system/zoning wahala, if that does not strike you as being tribalistic (especially coming from a youth, which i believe you are) then something is fundamentally wrong. I strongly believe this forum will do better without people of your school of thought.
I dont expect nothing less than insults from you as a response; i just wish you goodluck with your search for an ibo wife for your 48 years old uncle.

what exactly do you think u mean here ? what nigeria and zoning are u talking of , why must he marry a one rejected woman from a different tribe possibly an ofe mmanu left over who he can never have anything in common with just because he is in his 40's , while he could still get a young ibo lady of age below 20 or in her 20's even at the age of 70.

and for u the op, let her look for a man to gey her pregnant and live her life if she cant get any to marry her before she clocks 40 or enters menopause,

ladymichael:


No dear, she's really nice and calm. Always keep to her self.

In the 2 years I have known her,have never had an issue with her

nw dts part of d problem, wen she kips to herself all d tym how does she xpct to mingle, advice her to b more flexible, dat migt b d solution she seeks, i knw it wuld b quite hard nd weird, she jux has to try, try to at least wear a smile wen necessary, u nva can tell whoz watchin frm a distance

ROZZAYY:

Hmmmm ok my dear let her attend d power must change hands jan edition @ d prayer city MFM. Jesus is lord!

hugs

deloon:

If the 87 in your username implies you were born in 1987, then its a shame...

why a shame? the guy said the right thing, if husband are not forthcoming then she should start making babys, I am also interested to give her one or two if she is financially ok to take care of them, );

Life life

OLX sell am. :POLX sell am.

samflexxy:
toast her now

Guy you wicked oooooo

KAYCEEJUNIOR:
insult you? hmmmmm, when next you raise a topic never raise the dust, we all marry based on choice and I believe you have yours, you brought up an issue and I felt we can solve it based on the choice of wife I can easily influence him with, you are here talking about tribalism, since she's your. collegue, you can refer her to your friends then if she worth it. Happy xmas

abeg shut up...who startd d tribalism ish?..ws it nt u n yet u insult her...

lemmie roast her

She needs serious attention. Its not ordinary

A lot of reasons could cause this. She must have turned down sincere suitors in her 20s and early 30. Vengeance has visited her or she is parading herself as a saint where she lives and goes. Mind you guys are scared to approach those girls or ladies who claim holiness. My humble advise is that she should pray very very hard, drop her holy holy character and associate with people or at worst change location

ladymichael:
I really need advise from especially the men

My colleague is gonna be 35 in a few months and is not married or even have toasters. She has reached a point where she doesn't even think about it.
She says she sometimes asks herself on why she's still single and concludes that maybe she's not supposed to ever marry.

I really feel sorry for her but don't know how to advise her.

Please what could be the issue? Abd how to I advise her?

ur colleague?..... sorry am not buying dat

KAYCEEJUNIOR:
insult you? hmmmmm, when next you raise a topic never raise the dust, we all marry based on choice and I believe you have yours, you brought up an issue and I felt we can solve it based on the choice of wife I can easily influence him with, you are here talking about tribalism, since she's your. collegue, you can refer her to your friends then if she worth it. Happy xmas

comeon guy! Stop been so mean jor.

i will like to hav her number or she can reach me on whatsapp cos i av a good news for her my number is 08169958897