Hello Romancelanders,I'm a male of 20yrs,a 300 level student of mech. engr unn and very weak when i stay with girls. Although i am still a virgin but my d*ck erects easily when i'm with a girl and the temptation is becoming too much. How do i overcome this problem because i made a covenant with God not to have premarital sex. I don't have a gf because of this problem. Candid and mature advice needed

Not much talk since u don vow, just try get ur mind of such thinking whenever u are with any girl.

Stop watching indecency
Indecency is increasing ya libido and urge.

try as much as possible to stay away from girls or better always wear a pant or tight boxers so DAT wen d erection comes it will press it down

am 22 and a going tru same issue I try as much as possible to avoid girls coz DAT below d belt faculty is hard to control

Focus on things that will get you distracted from the urge or take a walk away from them.
It's do-able, dear.

Tnx to all for your advice especially aybee2,i appreciate

Its a thing of the mind bro.....chose not to think about girls and also engage in stuffs that will keep you busy to the extent that IT will not be remembered....

I'll also you suggest you withdraw from any intimacy with the opposite sex for now, no 'body contacts' and above all,guard your heart wilth all diligence

All the Best bro!

Fraih:
Its a thing of the mind bro.....chose not to think about girls and also engage in stuffs that will keep you busy to the extent that IT will not be remembered....

I'll also you suggest you withdraw from any intimacy with the opposite sex for now, no 'body contacts' and above all,guard your heart wilth all diligence

All the Best bro!

Thanks a bunch dear,will practice what you said

Fraih:
Its a thing of the mind bro.....chose not to think about girls and also engage in stuffs that will keep you busy to the extent that IT will not be remembered....

I'll also you suggest you withdraw from any intimacy with the opposite sex for now, no 'body contacts' and above all,guard your heart wilth all diligence

All the Best bro!

No offence intended please, but are you a man or boy to know about what you just posted?
The second issue is your advice for him to avoid intimacy. You may end up sending this poor boy to a male only university and if that fails, a male only community, city or town.
This man should know his feelings are normal at this age and he should just ignore the feelings and Wear underpants like someone suggested above.

Wearing 20 khaki is not gonna help u. Bro ur d*ick ain't the problem ur heart is. Overcome ur heart nd ur d*ick will remain silent.

starlingleanets:
Wearing 20 khaki is not gonna help u. Bro ur d*ick ain't the problem ur heart is. Overcome ur heart nd ur d*ick will remain silent.

Sincerely nothing is wrong with this man. He needs to physically control that dangling rod while he works on his kind otherwise it becomes a vicious cycle.
I've been working with people around that age group who completely abstain and this embarrassing strong urge seems to be common to them. Thus happens irrespective of if they have any feelings for the lady or not.

alstacs:


Sincerely nothing is wrong with this man. He needs to physically control that dangling rod while he works on his kind otherwise it becomes a vicious cycle.
I've been working with people around that age group who completely abstain and this embarrassing strong urge seems to be common to them. Thus happens irrespective of if they have any feelings for the lady or not.

He cannot control it himself no matter how many lecture u give him.

alstacs:


No offence intended please, but are you a man or boy to know about what you just posted?
The second issue is your advice for him to avoid intimacy. You may end up sending this poor boy to a male only university and if that fails, a male only community, city or town.
This man should know his feelings are normal at this age and he should just ignore the feelings and Wear underpants like someone suggested above.

I respect ur response, am sure by the word INTIMACY,he understands, I realy don't wish for him to be all alone and not mingle- U and I understands that by avoiding intimacy,am talking about boundaries that needs to be set to avoid stories that touch.....