Well uh...it was only the 2nd date...and she didn't say yes actually.she only let out a soft moan as I reached down, then I knew I had the free pass.

dechandel:
Awww
I cant wait to see your wedding pictures

Lol I tell you even if it true it out of pity

Djhack1:
bros u b man! No time , afterall it all about the yanshing,

You're on point ma Nigga

OLUJOSHINS:
I've been asking for close to three years now. Anytime she notice I'm getting tired of her, she will text me to keeping me hoping. I'm really getting tired if her but she has my mumu button so I don't have a choice.

OLUJOSHINS:
I've been asking for close to three years now. Anytime she notice I'm getting tired of her, she will text me to keeping me hoping. I'm really getting tired if her but she has my mumu button so I don't have a choice.

OLUJOSHINS:
I've been asking for close to three years now. Anytime she notice I'm getting tired of her, she will text me to keeping me hoping. I'm really getting tired if her but she has my mumu button so I don't have a choice.

don't say anything to her anymore.pay a lady to act for 2weeks wnd she'll rush back jealously begging for marriage else you'll wait till ehe comes to tel
u she found spm1

some gals are unbelievable...... One gal I ve spent so much on to convince that I love her,wen I made my proposal she said i am like a brother to her....I wan mad.
there is this other one that is always stalking me and behold I decided to accept her signal and ask her to me my gal.Guesss wat..... She begin form tough gal

Op no offence but I feel what you wrote up is trash and dem ladies are right you are not serious.

The girl that didn't give you tough did you marry her? No. Second person agreed within 24 hours ultimatum. Did you marry her? No.

Op you just don't get it. You don't have a defined objective. For an average focused girl, being serious means working towards marriage which is the essence of dating.
You just need a casual friend with the benefits of an intimate commited relationship.
Unfortunately dem girls won't ask you to define and you, yourself won't explain well.

But the wiser girls among them say you are not serious. I agree with them not because you don't like chasing for long but because you can't give a good testimony of 3 failed relationships.

Mind you I don't buy the idea of girls doing too much shakara. At worse 1 week is enough time to finish the 'I will think about it' phase.

ifoundmyperfect:


Yes boss! Asking a girl out and waiting for a response from her is placing so much importance into something that is not. I see it like asking a girl you are already dating a question as ridiculous as "Sweetheart, when is the appropiate time I can get to kiss you or make love to you"... Babe wey dey feel you, you need not put her in such an awkward position waiting for an awkward response. Proposing to her is more understandable. However, when that time sef comes, I'd be sure to get an instant yes dan have a babe telling me she needs to sleep over, undergo 7days fasting, or seek her pastor's approval before accepting my proposal. Somethings jst don't need too much ceremony.

but how come o! If you don't ask her to date you, how will become your baby na?

Faddd:
I have waited for two years, but it was dissapointing that she finally said the "no" last week. I gues it was result of new year new system.

2 Years paused in waiting to hear "yes"? On infatuated love that carries high tendency of breaking down almost immediately she says yes. You need a job that will keep you busy dear brother. Ha ha ha

damzy88:
From Job to romance From Job to romance

are you a stammerer??

Amazingly, my own apparent situation na the other way round.. This gyal dey propose to me from da very first day wey she see me on fbk and later on Skype.. Na so she go dey blow my phone+Skype even when I still dey sleep.. ( moreso she know sey my time apparently dey lag hers by 9hrs).. No get me wrong oo she be fine gyal (Abj babe) but I feel sey na me suppose propose and I dey turnt-off by this..

J0nyb0y:
its 2years now and am still waiting

Can't wait for 2week, 2years no matter how love strong reach e the die with time o

Took about 4 months b4 i gave-in to her advances.

Lilimax:
My hubby proposed to me and I told him I'll think about it. I was still thinking about it but has finished my wedding both traditional and white wedding and has stopped giving birth as well Whenever I remember this, I'll start laughing

I don't it?

Am stil waitin for her


Its past 3 months now

Ipledge:
you will wait till Nigeria become world power

Lol no till , congo become world richest

she replied yes to my proposal after 1year,2 months and 2 weeks.really loved her.she call it quit after 2 years

I would rather use my energy, resources and time to Chase money, better opportunities, or learn a new skill or hobby than chasing one lady up and down like say she be trophy. I hardly ask a lady out twice. Once is enough for me. I will only try again if she gives me a positive green light to push further. Guys should develop self esteem and stop forcing themselves on teenage or immature ladies. A lady does not need much time like that to make a decision if she is accepting your offer or not. Whatever rocks your boat sha stick with it. as for me, I gat no time for bullshitting. If its a yes, good for both of us and I play my part and if it's a no, I smile and walk away without saying anything nasty. That saves me lots of time and energy.

xmileeasy:
she replied yes to my proposal after 1year,2 months and 2 weeks.really loved her.she call it quit after 2 years

Not fair

wheredemdey:
november 2012 to april 2013..best months of my life

she was still on::

Lemme think about it but she will cook better rice and boiled fish and bring to my office twice a week..

Lemme think about it we will spend hours just sitting in the car outside her house doing nothing but gist...

Lemme think about it yet we will spend last 20mins every night praying over the phone..

Infact..the day i kissed her..she was like..whats that....i replied nothing wrong in kissing my wife..she just smiled and said yes...

The rest is history..am a blessed man for real

alexdellafonte:
I ve not waited for a day, if i don't get a yes that minute just forget abt the whole issue (tho i don't go after any girl i see, we must have been friends)

makes sense

lonngmann:

4 solid good years! She never says yes till now. I don tire. Mind you, will never ask her again!

Penboy:
but how come o! If you don't ask her to date you, how will become your baby na?

You start by being her friend. After you have gotten to know her person, and you feel you both 'click' you then explore going beyond the boundaries of friendship, which I maintain can be done without asking her out.

I hav toasted a virgin 4 a year plus, wen i gave up ma quest n left d domain witout her knwin n nt evn callin ha..

Na she cum dy folow me lik say i b twitter. Bt we ar stil rockin around...

Life goes on

Jamean:
I was here to read comments and make deductions.


Funnily, most ladies can outrightly tell if they can date a guy from the first show of interest. They only choose to live in denial. If you know you feel a connection and you are ready to work things out, then give it a shot.

Stop the long thing 'cause you may lose a potential partner that way. And for the guys...e ni suru...we just like to be women

Lady, you're right. I always feel I should approach a lady with a sincere mind and the lady should also respond the same way if actually she luvs me

i shy as i am some 1 shud b formin again abeg o

seedsower:
We are happily married for 2yrs now, yet I haven't got a yesssss!

In my own case, I did not wait.
She threatened to kill herself if I refused to marry her.

Reading through all the comments.

ceejhay:
some gals are unbelievable...... One gal I ve spent so much on to convince that I love her,wen I made my proposal she said i am like a brother to her....I wan mad.
there is this other one that is always stalking me and behold I decided to accept her signal and ask her to me my gal.Guesss wat..... She begin form tough gal

hahaha God no go allow any girl wey i admire call me her brother

What's wrong with a little chase? How will i be sure of what i'm getting myself into? Lemme paint two scenarios.....


For instance, u re a total stranger....we met at a random place......u chyke me....im supposed to think for 3 seconda and say yes??!! Swerve joor....no be by fine boy o, get ur pompous behind outta my face!!!

But if we've been friends before....ehn ehnn, no need for prolonging issues. Let d games begin!
My relationship started as normal friendship.....not knowin oga had other things in mind.....boys ehn?!