okotv:
are you really married or just reducing the guys hope ??

Adaobi12:
. ma'am last time I checked you are supposed to be chopping the honey in the moon, wetin happen na? na so Nairaland dey sweet? . ma'am last time I checked you are supposed to be chopping the honey in the moon, wetin happen na? na so Nairaland dey sweet?

idu1:
I don't it?

Lukmanraji:
I met this girl in September, I never knew I could fall for her at first sight. We begin the friendship n I asked her out. She told me she had a bf already but I didn't take it as a barrier. We play together, play games, joke, eat and do a lot of things together. Suddenly she changed and start acting funny. She refused to pick up my calls and if she does, the chat is always boring. She stop replying my text and whatsapp msg.

Am confused. Maybe I should just give up on her.

That's my story line. Advice please.

Faddd:
I have waited for two years, but it was dissapointing that she finally said the "no" last week. I gues it was result of new year new system.

OLUJOSHINS:
I've been asking for close to three years now. Anytime she notice I'm getting tired of her, she will text me to keeping me hoping. I'm really getting tired if her but she has my mumu button so I don't have a choice.

mikaj:



Niqqa you insight to live is pitiable. F.Y.I, I ve been asked out by 3 different ladies this year alone. Always friend zoning them due to not wanting to hurt anyone. So bros, get ur facts right.

dechandel:
Lol
What does it look like?

PrettyGaby:

na wa o. Dude, you sound pissed o. Calm down small now; e never reach this level.

Olutola88:
lmao! You will get tired of that and eventually seek love

Olutola88:
It is a popular belief amongst women that a Lady needs to give a guy a tough time before she dances to his beats. They claim such delay tactics is healthy as it will make the guy cherish her more. They also claim that the guy would appreciate better something he sweats to get.

Sincerely speaking, this their ideology is absolute trash to me. I don't have that time to be chasing a lady for 12 months, after all she isn't my “dream”.

I get easily discouraged when it comes to convincing a lady to be mine, maybe because I don't feel a lady is doing me a favour by accepting to be mine. Come to think it, “Is she doing me any favour”? Don't even talk about sex cos it's very cheap and I can get it without dating. More so, she won't be doing me any good because she might even enjoy it more ( I always put my partner's satisfaction first).

I get sick and tired when a lady gives me unnecessary tough time. In fact, most of them call me “Egotistical”. They think I'm proud because my orientation is different from that of most guys they've met. They feel I'm cocky because they don't know my background, they have no idea about my journey so far.

I've had just 3 Girlfriends all my life. The first, I didn't woo her. The second gave me a YES after 24hours and the third which was the most tasking accepted to be mine after 4days of declaring interest. Guess what? I had the shortest relationship with the one that gave me the toughest time, it lasted just 2 months.

I've been single since December 2012 mainly because I don't have that strength to keep pushing and pushing. Most of them tell me that I'm spoilt and that I don't even know how to woo *lmao*. They claim I'm always too casual when wooing them, they say I don't show sign of seriousness, they conclude I always feel I shouldn't work too hard to get them. Do they want me to kill cow to show my seriousness? Nevertheless, I feel I've not just met that person that'll make me break the rules, that one person that'll make my heart do giz giz, that person that'll have my “mumu button” *lol*.

You know the funniest thing? The ones you don't wanna date are the ones always stalking and readily available. As a good guy, you don't wanna woo dem, use dem and dump them. So, nigga just keeps it at the Friends With Benefits level. When you get tired of the FWB life and seek love again, you'll meet one girl that'll be giving you unnecessary tough time and you'll be like... “WTF! Some girls are praying I upgrade their status from FWB to official Girlfriend and this one is here forming one rubbish! Go To Hell jooor” *LMAO*

My Questions:

1. How long did you wait before she gave you a YES

2. How long can you wait to get a YES?

3. Ladies, wetin be una problem? Is giving a guy a tough time a guarantee he will treat you right?

4. Ladies, why must we chase you people like we chase money before you say YES? I think the love thing should be mutual na? Must you stress the hell outta our lives?

Lukmanraji:
I met this girl in September, I never knew I could fall for her at first sight. We begin the friendship n I asked her out. She told me she had a bf already but I didn't take it as a barrier. We play together, play games, joke, eat and do a lot of things together. Suddenly she changed and start acting funny. She refused to pick up my calls and if she does, the chat is always boring. She stop replying my text and whatsapp msg.

Am confused. Maybe I should just give up on her.

That's my story line. Advice please.

franklynx:
Amazingly, my own apparent situation na the other way round.. This gyal dey propose to me from da very first day wey she see me on fbk and later on Skype.. Na so she go dey blow my phone+Skype even when I still dey sleep.. ( moreso she know sey my time apparently dey lag hers by 9hrs).. No get me wrong oo she be fine gyal (Abj babe) but I feel sey na me suppose propose and I dey turnt-off by this..

funshybam:
I actually have one like that on my hands now... sincerely, I don't have a date/girlfriend now, but seriously considering 2 ladies, one(Vic) has everything that should make me stay, but she dey form "wise girl" for me...dey friendzone me, na so i dey dey play mumu dey go and i dey relate wella with the other one(Uche), she's ok and very good, guess that's the one i will go with.

Vic never said yes to my proposal and the day she saw i was in good terms and comminicating with Uche, i had plenty of beging to do that day.... I was like... since you are interested in me, why forming for me

Rapsodee:
We started as very good friends....
one night,I asked her out,she told me clearly she has a bf already, pushed her the more,she gave me the same reply....then I noticed she was not ready to dance to my music,now I have made her realize I ve got plenty other choices and that I have moved on,all this happened within 2 months.

You don't need "YEARS" to wait and see if you have a chance with her or not,if you are a reasonable guy,you will know how far and take the required step.

#Rapsodee

smaallsz:

Were u expecting her 2 leave her bf and date u? Some boys sef

Faddd:
I have waited for two years, but it was dissapointing that she finally said the "no" last week. I gues it was result of new year new system.

pasqal09:
I was actually the one who said yes to her

pasqal09:
I was actually the one who said yes to her

chic2pimp:


Nope. More like I sight a Pretty looking Lady whilst She also sees an incredibly Buff looking Young Chap with charm to light up a room(which I am if I might say so myself). Both our eyes connect and it's pretty obvious we both fancy the pants off each other. Why should I be the one to do the "Chasing, Wooing" or what have you when it is clear she stands to benefit more from the interaction? That's what I am driving at.

dovelike:
There has to be a spark.

aprilwise:
I chase my girlfriend for over a year. She told me initially that she can't offer me anything more than friendship. I never gave up. Finally she agreed to be my girlfriend.